tabesla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	LTR went to the bar with her friends... Rather dump her	/r/askTRP	18/05/19 08:50 AM
17	I went on a date with this girl and we had a good time. I texted her i had a great time and she said she felt the same. She would like to meet me next week but as friends. Should I not go? You're lying to yourself. It's completely contredictory to the intentions you've staded in your first post. Have you even read the sidebar?	/r/askTRP	09/07/18 10:45 AM
1	Is it beta to shave my beard? She's your mom, not a pussy to smash. Shave that beard and take fedora off.	/r/askTRP	14/12/17 07:38 AM
2	"Depends on your behavior" Read the sidebar first and don't try to lie, that you already did. Scarcity and overanalizing are your biggest problems at the moment.	/r/askTRP	05/10/17 01:59 PM
1	How do you game shy/low self esteem girls (rabbits)? If you have abundance mentality, why would you wonder how to game women that are not worth gaming?	/r/askTRP	05/10/17 12:28 PM
3	Shit-tests at work from female coworker Frame and redpill aren't about assuming that everything is a shittest, then responding to it in the most macho way possible to finally come here and basicaly say to us: I'm insecure as hell. Meaningless question caused me to doubt my balls, overanalyze some random shit and to post my thoughts here. What's the difference between such attitude and the women's way? They also act confident at the surface, but crack as soon as the opposite sex disappears from sight.	/r/askTRP	30/09/17 05:48 AM
2	How does a woman go 38 years of her life with only having 1 year as the longest committed relationship she has had? You have ONEITis for a(hopefully former) whore. Writing about how many plates you are fucking ATM won't change that. Scarcity is your biggest problem. Since you are trying to track, pack and lock down an unicorn I assume that starting from reading the sidebar might be the best idea out there.	/r/askTRP	26/09/17 02:13 PM
1	How to not psych yourself out with women giving IOIs? Hmmm, how about trying? Put yourself in such situations more often. Try, get rejected and improve.	/r/askTRP	26/09/17 10:16 AM
4	Family kicked brother out for being gay There's no such thing as 'homophobia' ;) Go be a rainbow warrior somewhere else.	/r/askTRP	22/09/17 11:36 AM
2	Family kicked brother out for being gay He's either mentally or physically absent. That would also explain why OP's brother turned gay.	/r/askTRP	22/09/17 11:33 AM
15	LTR has been responding to her ex's texts and she met up with him to give him some stuff of his without telling me She's definitely not a LTR material and probably she has or she will fuck her exes. If being cucked is your thing, then try to make this 'relationship' work. And definitely talk and explain her more, only this way you can become an Alpha Cuck.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 12:32 PM
1	Men in LTRs, do yourselves a favour and don't respond to her texts/calls for 4-6 hours occasionally. How about something like 'my GF doesn't go to girls' night outs'. And then, either she doesn't go or your relationship is over. You have the abundance mentality, so it's not a big deal for you, or it is? ;)	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 11:41 AM
1	How should I handle her talking to other guys? You're being cucked. She fucked the guy in the beach and deep inside you know it, but 'cause of scarcity you prefer to hamster, that she's crossing your borders and being respectful and honest at the same time. Hilarious ;)	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 11:19 AM
2	Once I become gentle she misbehaves... Lift more and game other girls. This way she should be obedient for most of the time.	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 10:30 AM
1	She's made us take a step back in the bedroom... So you're a cuck. It's best to drop her completely, but if you have severe scarcity, then keep as a backup plate at most.	/r/askTRP	11/09/17 01:38 PM
2	Sex issues in LTR Yes, it is. Do you have something to lose by trying 12 levels of dread? Apart from the dead bedroom? ;) Stop looking for validation and excuses, just start living YOUR life.	/r/askTRP	11/09/17 10:54 AM
2	Cluster B and Love Bombing Question(s) She still isn't over her ex+ all the red flags mentioned before, and you think it's a good idea to LTR her?	/r/askTRP	05/09/17 07:53 AM
2	Forgiveness? (Not as simple as it appears...) She's now trying to keep her sweet beta as hard, as just a moment ago she was trying to suck a strange dick. Stop being delusional! How can you 'count'/'trust' her, if even when confronted about the truth she tried to sweet-eyedly lie to her beloved one. The amount of effort she had to put in it(you said even her facial expression didn't change) proves that she's just a manipulative whore, not even a GF material.	/r/askTRP	01/09/17 12:05 PM
1	She mentions other guys by name a lot ... bad sign or not? Don't get overexcited. It's not the type of shit test that should be considered worth passing, or the type that'll lead you anywhere closer to even fucking this girl.	/r/askTRP	31/08/17 11:10 AM
1	How do you regain social status post college if you have little to no friends and don't use social media? Nice excuse man, it's not r/women. How would you like to learn being social if not by trying, failing and trying again?	/r/askTRP	31/08/17 10:39 AM
1	What qualities should I look for in a women? \| Green Flags Are you spinning plates at the moment, or your post is just nicely coated scarcity mentality mixed with OneItIsus? You want to jump straight into a LTR with somebody from work or school? Better start with reading the sidebar and reanalyzing your attitude.	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 03:42 PM
3	How do you regain social status post college if you have little to no friends and don't use social media? No books will benefit you as much as just putting yourself in social situations and trying.	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 03:40 PM
2	Missed Chance? Help. Yes, you missed a chance by chasing her with your needy text. I assume you've read the sidebar and your action was just an accident. Therefore, you already have abundance mentality and you know well, that trying to 'fix' the frame with a OneItIs isn't worth your time and effort at all. Because you are the prize for a woman, aren't you? :)	/r/askTRP	30/08/17 03:38 PM
-2	Is changing diapers beta? Because it's biologically wired in women. No difference between this and house maintenance.	/r/askTRP	29/08/17 10:03 AM
1	is it ever possible to make an educated guess about what a woman's sexual style is like based on her public presentation? Probably all the kinky stuff wasn't as new for her, as you assume ;) But only the outcome matters.	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 12:28 PM
3	Dilemma between being no pressure and letting "GF" go out alone. Yes, you should. She's the one that should follow.	/r/askTRP	28/08/17 09:06 AM
3	Girl I actually want to LTR, but unsure how to move ahead. Advice appreciated... She's an Alpha Widow, plate material at most.	/r/askTRP	24/08/17 03:02 PM
1	Do men miss anything by not watching "Friends", "Sex and the City", "The Big Bang Theory" etc? No, they don't. You can't learn to live a life by watching TV.	/r/askTRP	18/08/17 08:16 AM
5	How to hold frame in this situation? Start from reading the sidebar! If you have other options, then your ex won't get in your head, right?	/r/askTRP	16/08/17 02:28 PM
2	Do I get on the plane? If you've read the sidebar, then you have multiple options and you don't need to waste your time and resources on a girl, that displays such a huge red flag. Otherwise, buy at least 50 red roses, a bottle of champagne, wax your pussy, fly to meet her and spread your legs wide :D If she's just a plate, then make her fly to visit you. Don't invest in her.	/r/askTRP	16/08/17 02:24 PM
2	Just a shit test or should I end it with LTR? "There is this one special girl..." ;) Her fear of God is so strong, that she regularly gets dicked premaritaly, uses contraception and probably many other really 'sinful&evil' things. And she hamsters all of it. You thing it's gonna be different for cheating? xD If you have solid proofs that isn't physically cheating on you, then it means she will be in the nearest future. Both aren't good news and IMO are dealbreakers.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 02:08 PM
0	Just a shit test or should I end it with LTR? She's cheating on you bro. She flipped the case on you to get herself some justification/excuse for betraying and dumping you.	/r/askTRP	11/08/17 01:57 PM
1	Should I pay for her on dates? How should it work after 6+ dates? No, he shouldn't. However, you should either read the sidebar, or go post this bluepilled advice somewhere else. Apparently a plate means the same as LTR for you.	/r/askTRP	14/07/17 11:00 AM
3	My gf is not the same person. But won't let me leave. Answering your question: you just dump her. There isn't(and there never was) anything worth wasting your energy and life on that broken girl.	/r/askTRP	12/07/17 02:35 PM
1	How to change my LTR decision about moving to other city? If you'd really been able to cut this relationship you wouldn't be asking such questions here. You have ONEitis, you talk with her too much and you can't keep your frame. There's nothing to fight with her. Right now you have to focus on becoming a man. Read the sidebar and focus on yourself.	/r/askTRP	12/07/17 11:23 AM
7	Red flag? It's an indicator that she wants to have babies. She might tell you otherwise, but judge actions, not words.	/r/askTRP	12/07/17 09:34 AM
3	How to respond to chick who refuses to do anything until you tell her how many girls you've slept with? I'd try to brush it off while teasing her sexually. Never negotiate with girls, it puts you in their frame. As you can see, even telling her didn't result in her wanting you sexually. She just gave you a mercy BJ. Imagine, that you've tried all the tricks to avoid answering and getting in her frame. And yet she still insist on the answer. In such case I'd simply withdraw all the attention. Even on a dry spell. Because mercy fucks are not my thing, nor are interactions on a woman's terms. If you …	/r/askTRP	29/06/17 07:53 AM
13	How to respond to chick who refuses to do anything until you tell her how many girls you've slept with? No, you've screwed by telling her. You showed that your own rules mean nothing. Somebody merely promises you the access to pussy and you start dancing as they want you to.	/r/askTRP	28/06/17 10:49 AM
3	I'm 25 and too "innocent". I want to change that. How do I do that? Yes, a lot of people do use it without serious side effects. But judging from the symptoms that you've described, apparently you aren't one of them. You've mentioned, that sometimes you feel controlled by a demon. It's not normal. Quit weed for half a year, and see if something changes.	/r/askTRP	14/06/17 09:16 AM
3	I'm 25 and too "innocent". I want to change that. How do I do that? I think you should give up weed. Probably for good, but at least for over 6 months. Otherwise you might end up in a mental institution and fuck your head beyond repairable.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 09:13 AM
7	How hopeless is this? She's looking for an orbiter. Good that you've noticed the bullet. Never buy your groceries in born-again-virgins store.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 08:59 AM
1	shit test? To me it sounds like an invitation to her pants, but we need bigger context to be sure.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 08:36 AM
2	What am I doing wrong on Tinder? You wanted to dick her, so you've lost this battle. Next time when in doubt, simply don't send additional messages. Probably you aren't lifting, so it's the highest time to start! When your self-esteem and confidence are ok, you'll notice you hestitate less. Chicks love it and you'll see it.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 08:09 AM
2	What am I doing wrong on Tinder? OP, your tinder messages sound a bit cheesy to me and it's easy to sense, that you're faking confidence and abundance. Your inbox is allegedly full, but yet you have time and possibility to text her a whole chapter of a novel inbetween. Don't play the numbers game at the beginning, set a meeting ASAP, at least till you learn to text better.	/r/askTRP	13/06/17 07:46 AM
0	Best way to Break up in my situation No need for a break up, you are in LDR, so it never was a real relationship anyway ;)	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 01:24 PM
-3	Weird shit test I've never gotten before No, you didn't. Because you stepped int her frame by disputing over being spoiled etc. Later, you ran away from the conversation (changed subject quickly), chatted about nothing to calm her down and you forgot to slap&fuck her at the very beginning to clear her mind out of such garbage-thoughts.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 01:21 PM
7	Should I trust my gut feeling over what my girlfriend says? I suggest growing bigger balls at the first place. Then act like you'd like to, instead of asking us. Your gut tells you her behavior's not right, so either dread or next. Or do nothing and ask again in a couple of months what to do after your GF has cheated on you.	/r/askTRP	12/06/17 08:44 AM
1	Dating, and the future becoming too real...? Do you want to have babies and/or get married in the nearest future?	/r/askTRP	08/06/17 01:28 PM