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| 1 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?It's funny, I'd never sign on that line. I come from a long line of dirt, blood and bone. I have a dog. You might get $20 for him. But I'd fight you tooth and nail for him. Probably with a hammer. I would never sign a contract that entitled me to anyone else's net worth. It's a strange concept, but somehow it's normalized. I grew up being told how to act to "catch a man". I never saw the point, though. It's hard enough catching the dog when he sees a squirrel. I'll just stay over here in my lane… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?I've always noticed that the truly wealthy men don't get married, they have people for that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?Gardener, handyman, bodyguard and IT man? Sir? Where do you live? My sister would love your number. I am speaking from my personal experience, but as a single parent, the payments that used to be free services are absolutely daunting once you are budgeting on your own. That's just trying to hold down a job and pay for child care. People expect a stay at home parent to be grateful, but if the sahm is doing what's expected, it's a full time, hard job. I have never met a man who came home, did hous… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 0 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?So that comes out to an 8 hour work day (depending on your schedule) at $65 per hour. And the tasks split 50/50 comes out to...32.5 per hour. The two children alone (if you were asking a surrogate to birth them for you) would equal 90k just for the births. That doesn't include childcare or clothing, formula costs, that's just what it costs to have a woman give birth to your child and leave. It always seems like we're being shortchanged until you look up average hourly rates for the things we exp… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?45k+ per child is the going rate for paying someone to have your offspring. Then you have to figure out the cash for the raising of them, at 17 bucks an hour. How did you create a spoiled princess? Wouldn’t that be a mindset she was already set into before you met her? You just didn't recognize it. Regardless, if you want to talk about the money, it all comes down to the numbers. Look up the average rates for the things she WAS responsible for. I hate it when relationships go south, but if you'r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 04:14 PM |
| -2 | What do Stay at Home Mom's "Deserve" Out of a Divorce?Do the math. 24/7 nanny, maid and cook. For 3 years. Subtract the times her mental health suffered and she wasn't able to keep her end of the "bargain" Look up the average hourly rate for the services you expected to get for free just because you married her. It will surprise you if you look at it as a matter of hours worked and payment rendered to an employee. Mathematics is a joy, so are employment standards. How many sick days did she get? Did you ever allow her PTO? Or did you expect her to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/22 06:42 AM |
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