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Edu./Occu.tacobellbandit/r/MensRights21/09/24 04:15 AM
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I understand where you’re coming from and it is completely unfair in those circumstances, especially with a draft ongoing. While it is morally wrong, don’t let the racist decisions of lawmakers/politicians skew your opinions of people to your left and right regardless of their origin or race or whatever. You have a very real reason to be upset about blatant demographic replacement, especially after the sacrifices of these young men, but it’s not a reason to hate by any means. That being said, as…
/r/MensRights30/05/26 11:50 AM
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As someone who works with nurses a lot, it’s not taken seriously at all. I’m not going to beat around the bush, I’m a decent looking guy. I work in healthcare technology and I’ve been subjected to things that if I did as a man, I’d be fired. Had a department wide email sent asking if I was single (I’m not. Married with kid), which is totally inappropriate. I’ve been touched (literally shoulder rubbed, like poster scenario on workplace sexual harassment unwanted touching). Told that I’m “too good…
/r/MensRights06/05/26 10:18 PM
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That’s not what’s happening here tho. Just being objective there’s a huge difference between the selective service vs a draft in the US.
/r/MensRights10/04/26 11:59 AM
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Idk I got signed up because it’s a requirement to actually enlist in the army voluntarily lol
/r/MensRights10/04/26 11:54 AM
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While I don’t really agree likening it to kristalnacht I do however have a problem with mandatory military service, and believe that men should not be conscripted nor forced to participate in war if they so choose. Granted I have it nice in the US because our military is voluntary, and another actual draft is extremely unlikely, but other countries do require mandatory conscription and I think as a whole that is much more wrong than the selective service
/r/MensRights09/04/26 03:29 PM
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If you actually read the article it’s just digitizing the selective service requirement which you already sign up for when you’re 18. All this does is make it so you don’t have to mail a physical form. This is not the same as a “draft” like Vietnam
/r/MensRights09/04/26 10:35 AM
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If youre not familiar with the show none of them are Mormon. They were at one point but they’ve all split from the church or don’t attend. They’re about as Mormon as you and me
/r/MensRights23/03/26 10:27 AM
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I agree with you at the end of the day. I think if we’re going to have SS it shouldn’t be tied to gender at all
/r/MensRights28/01/26 07:00 PM
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I know it’s not fair in any way shape or form but I feel like it’s unfortunately a necessity for a civilized society that we uphold a standing military. Luckily we have enough volunteers we don’t ever have to draw people from the selective service, but still we would need something to fall back on just in case SHTF. Our constitution guarantees a lot of freedom but in the historical context of the document we were a militia that had to fight off a tyrannical regime through force. The founding fat…
/r/MensRights28/01/26 01:30 PM
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I’m from the US so military service is optional which I think is fine. I personally had a great time in the service tho but after my first contract I just don’t think the lifestyle was for me and I separated. For other countries with conscription, do any politicians in your country advocate for ending conscription?
/r/MensRights28/12/25 12:23 PM
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I find it’s better to just have relationships happen naturally. Online dating after your mid 20s just comes with way too much baggage for it to be viable. It’s really a needle in a haystack
/r/MensRights05/09/25 09:03 PM
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I had an issue at work with sexual harassment and I got blamed for reporting it. I worked at multiple hospitals at the time and I’m a man entering a space that is mostly dominated by women, and I’m not going to toot my own horn but I’m decently attractive, so I’ve been kind of objectified at work. I’m also married which kind of played a role in it as well. I wasn’t always attractive, and basically just for that reason, for a developmental portion of my life I was pretty much abused by women. Fas…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 10:40 AM
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Not really applicable to your situation you posted, but when I was in therapy one of the most common deflection methods people use is reversal. Basically “oh I wouldn’t have treated you horribly if you did/didn’t do x” basically. It’s a way to self preserve ego and avoid taking ownership of wrong-doing. I feel like that a lot of the time women blaming men for problems is just that
/r/MensRights12/06/25 11:07 AM
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I thought it was Pittsburgh
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:44 AM
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Yeah I think they should be available for anyone opening a business unless you’re already a major corporation or have a huge amount of capital already
/r/MensRights11/04/25 02:20 PM
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It’s night and day when it comes to starting a business. Me and my wife both made LLCs. Hers got fast tracked, she qualified for grants just because of her gender where as I didn’t get anything and had to jump through more hoops.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 10:59 AM
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I don’t want to say a criminal but the expectations are arbitrarily high. I have a wife, two kids, and I basically support them all on my own. It feels unfair sometimes but I love them and I still do it no matter what.
/r/MensRights03/04/25 03:22 AM
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If women were left to their own devices and they ran scarce on a resource, or just felt like it, they’d wage war just like men.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 10:24 PM
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It’s pretty common. As someone in the military there’s a ton of people that get dumped or cheated on by their wives/girlfriends at home so much so that it’s just referred to as getting “Dear Johned” there’s even a fictional “Jody” character in the army that’s the subject of cadences. Jody is essentially a reference to the guy who’s fucking your wife while you’re deployed and that caricature dates back all the way to WW2. It’s extremely common from someone in military circles. It happens to all o…
/r/MensRights09/02/25 01:00 PM
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I wouldn’t start off a “men rights” post by saying “yeah but that’s gay” you do realize there are gay men right?
/r/MensRights08/02/25 05:30 AM
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I think the amber alert system is great but it does get abused. I had a friend get a call, from police, saying his ex wife called in an Amber Alert and told him that the ex husband had the kids. He had the kids, in the car, with the officer on speaker phone, he was running late for custody drop off.
/r/MensRights31/12/24 10:59 PM
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It’s things like this that make it feel so rigged against men. You have the child 50/50. If one person is doing better than the other post-separation they shouldn’t be penalized for that. If im providing for my kid for the 50% of the time I have him, why am I supplementing the other 50% of theyre not supplementing on their end?
/r/MensRights28/08/24 12:26 AM
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God this. I think a lot of women don’t understand what men’s mental load is. I have to worry about finances, vehicles, home repair, taking care of animals, yard work. All of those are mental loads that never get offloaded. I had a friend whose wife complained about him asking her what she wanted for dinner was “adding to her mental load” so he didn’t ask her what she wanted after that and she complained about what he made. The trend of weaponizing therapy terminology needs to stop. People are us…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 10:43 PM
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I started with 2 female therapists, and there was a pretty big gap in empathy and just really any kind of understanding where I was coming from with my issues. I finally got a male therapist after those two failed attempts at therapy and it was almost night and day. You really do need to find a therapist you like because if they don’t take your problems seriously they’re just wasting your time
/r/MensRights18/07/24 11:04 AM
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I mean some days you just need to come home and escape. There’s nothing no wrong with that but doing it every single day after work isn’t healthy. Video games are a good temporary way to relax but it’s never a replacement for really taking care of yourself mentally or physically. I don’t know what these women mean specifically by “improving” but I mean, if they’re just concerned that their partner isn’t taking proper care of them selves thats normal. I wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where…
/r/MensRights13/07/24 06:34 PM
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Bro you pay the mortgage and utilities that’s 90% right there
/r/MensRights10/04/24 03:21 PM
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Tbh I totally forgot the selective service was even a thing. I did 8 years in the army. How long does your eligibility in the selective service even last?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:30 PM
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How is the US like this?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 12:07 PM
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That was my experience. Doing stuff around the house and taking care of my son was much easier than my job. I don’t want to say anyone’s job is “easy” because it gives a notion of unimportance, but I can definitely see why someone might say kids and housework is more difficult than then their sedentary job
/r/MensRights29/02/24 11:48 PM
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I think deciding to not want kids is fine.
/r/MensRights29/02/24 06:57 PM
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I don’t understand how some women can look at child raising as worse than regular work. I’m the primary caretaker of my son and yeah it’s tough sometimes, but seeing him catch a fish for the first time, or see him awestruck by something I take him to go see, or the happiness he gets from us fixing or building something together brings me so much satisfaction and happiness. If I didn’t need money to support us I’d rather hang out with him full time
/r/MensRights29/02/24 12:51 PM
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Therapy for me was okay for getting passed some actual trauma inducing events throughout my life but it wasn’t until I made real lifestyle choices that I really became better and that genuinely only came from within. I feel like a lot of people will make others feel upset and then try and shame their reaction by saying things like “get therapy” or if someone opens up but opens up a bit too much, it’s “get therapy”. That’s not really helpful.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 01:01 PM
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It really sounds like she has zero respect for not only you but herself as well. I would just chalk it up as a loss as hard as that sounds, it’s not worth trying to make it work with someone who refuses to just give you basic respect
/r/MensRights06/02/24 04:26 AM
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I think some are okay. I honestly like Hank Hill because he reminds me a lot of myself and the struggle of adjusting to modernity and his challenges through life. It’s the one dad on sitcoms that seems to go into situations on the show as slightly bigoted but not in an over the top comical type of way, but ends up learning something and growing as a person by the end of most episodes, and that’s what life is about. Some of the other ones depicted like Homer Simpson being totally inept, lazy, bad…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:35 PM
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I don’t think it’s so much of that it’s just I got frustrated because it was like I had to hide things just to finally weed out girls that were in it for an actual relationship and liked me for me. I have a few vintage cars and a few motorcycles, and if I brought one of them on a date girls would basically try and pester me about how much I make. If I told them, I could see them perk up a bit and gain interest, like all of a sudden I’m viable, but if I brought my old truck or my work vehicle I w…
/r/MensRights10/12/23 01:42 PM
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I wouldn’t call myself necessarily wealthy, but I’m comfortable as far as finances and have a good bit of toys. Yeah I clocked out of the dating scene, specifically apps for quite awhile. It was surprisingly shallow, and I went in knowing that it’s going to mostly just hook ups, but some girls really want dudes they have no business being with
/r/MensRights10/12/23 01:16 PM
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I had a friend have this happen to him. He came home from work one night and found his infant in the house completely alone sleeping in a pack and play with a note on his bed from the mother saying basically “I can’t handle the stress of having a child” and the court pretty much said “welp, like it or not you’re the primary parent now” he ended up losing his job over the whole ordeal and when the whereabouts of the “mother” were found out she faced no real repercussions because she didn’t have a…
/r/MensRights01/12/23 03:08 AM
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Honestly when I was single I definitely wouldn’t mind being able to just go and pay for it. Even when you’re well off it’s hard to just date girls without them eyeing up your stuff and it got so difficult to find someone who was genuinely interested in me instead of money that I had to hide things in order to just date purely for connection. During that time it would’ve been much easier to just go and pay for it if I was looking for something strictly casual
/r/MensRights26/11/23 01:11 PM
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I work on digital mammography equipment and saying it’s outdated is indicative that she doesn’t operate the equipment or understand how it actually works outside of what it actually does. It’s one of the more intuitive forms of stationary X-ray. Granted X-ray is always on the lagging end of technology saying it’s “outdated” based on its design is just kind of ignorant
/r/MensRights20/10/23 10:30 PM
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I got told to “stop trying to cause trouble” when I told HR at a hospital I work in that I was being sexually harassed per their facilities definition of sexual harassment. If I spoke to some of the nurses the way they speak to me I’d be thrown out the door and fired without a second thought if someone reported it
/r/MensRights15/10/23 11:43 PM
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I feel as though it’s almost a necessity at this point with the amount of broken marriages/homes now. I know so many people who grew up in single parent households and have friends who have a 2yr old 1yr old etc and are already separated. I feel like now it should be a requirement that you basically walk away with what you have so you don’t end up hating eachother and making life hell for your kids
/r/MensRights09/08/23 12:27 PM
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I like the article touching base on youth violence. There’s a lot of studies that show kids learn compassion and mercy from fathers primarily
/r/MensRights17/05/23 11:27 AM
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I’m a parent and she’s just skipping the redundancy steps. I usually give these to my son in a little snack bowl, which ends up on the floor and ends in him picking them off the floor anyways
/r/MensRights11/12/22 02:46 PM
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My wife and I both worked for a Fortune 500 company. I left awhile back and she stayed since she was treated a lot better. Had a kid and we decided we could realistically live off one income. Wouldn’t have given it for the world. She quit and loved it. When you step away from the workplace you realize how much none of that stuff really matters and we should all be doing something we actually like and gives us deep meaning and fulfillment
/r/MensRights10/11/22 02:03 AM
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My wife doesn’t entertain it but I’ve been through countless relationships with women who did entertain other guys advances and honestly that’s a reason why my wife is my wife. It’s a simple sign of respect. I wouldn’t entertain other women if I’m in a committed relationship, and I have same expectation of respect from whoever I date to do the same. If that’s too much of a problem okay, we can still date but you’re not wife material in my eyes. Know your worth, and set healthy boundaries, also “…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah I’ve experienced that a lot. It feels like to a lot of women you can be as “emotionally available” as you want only up to the point where it might be slightly difficult, sad or uncomfortable for them
/r/MensRights20/08/22 01:37 PM
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I wouldn’t mind a women only section for the gym tbh as long as the men’s section was strictly a men’s section
/r/MensRights28/01/22 12:58 PM
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I’m not attractive tho
/r/MensRights04/09/21 11:33 AM
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My friend had that issue with his girlfriend. She was stay at home out of choice and he worked 12hr days everyday, he’d come home and she’d immediately give him the kid and tell him “I need a break” before he could even get dinner or anything. Then some nights she’d go “work” at a local community club where she was bar tending. (Not saying bar tender isn’t a legit job just saying being a bartender where she was was pretty much just grabbing cans out of a cooler) so that she could just pretty muc…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:33 AM
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Honestly “not caring about impressing women” will get you more women. I used to try and “impress” girls but later in life I just started focusing on just being me and found myself naturally getting more attention. I think men shouldn’t focus so heavily on female approval but strive for being happy with themselves and their self image. You should never tie your worth as a human to your ability to attract a partner. If you’re strong in character women take notice of it and it’s more emotionally at…
/r/MensRights02/09/21 12:03 PM
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Yeah I don’t get how this is still a thing. My girlfriend used to believe in the pay gap and I asked her exactly how many times she got paid less for the same work. We even worked in the same job at one point and she got paid guess what, the exact fucking same as me. I don’t understand why this is still perpetuated. If you go to any over-the-table job you’ll notice the pay structure is the same no matter of your race or gender. No one cares as long as you do the job they’re paying you for. At li…
/r/MensRights30/06/21 12:27 PM
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It really just depends on who you’re with. I will say very few women in my life actually ever “loved” me. It took a long time to realize that a lot of the time I was only liked for what women wanted from me and not me as a person. I realize a lot of my dating in my younger years I was only seen as a cabbie, a cash machine, a handyman, etc. I was never really seen as a person worth loving for who I was. One of the worst was I had a girl who basically reprimanded me for having interests outside of…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 02:19 PM
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