tacokater Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Women are waking up 👏👏 ‘Those mums you're blaming are those same girls just older.’ I understand that completely. The problem is deeeeep with lots of generational trauma involved. For a while I had resentment towards my parents for not giving me all the skills I need to function properly as an adult. I’ve had to effectively bring myself up. How could they have known if they were never taught either? It is a hugely complicated problem within society around the world that will take generations to fix IF something is don…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 11:14 AM
80	Women are waking up 👏👏 This video is good except we should hate that pick me girls exist, not hate pick me girls. We should have compassion for our sisters who don’t know any better. They’ll be more likely to listen to us that way. I really hate that society blames women for having ‘Daddy issues’ but there seems to be little shame for absent or emotionally absent fathers/mothers that cause these girls/women to be so emotionally and attention starved they just want SOMEONE ANYONE to pick them for once. If you’re starvi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/20 07:43 AM
20	Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating Strategy It’s funny that the males who hate on this sub assume we are just bitter ugly women. I’d love to see their reaction if they were to see what we actually look like. For years I didn’t know my worth. Partners would put me down and keep me feeling small. Eventually I worked out it was probably because they were intimidated by me. Beautiful women who come from emotionally unavailable families need dating advice the most, as they seem to attract the most abusive men who only care about their looks an…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/20 10:18 AM
23	Is it okay for a man to be selfish with the others, while being a HVM with his girlfriend? Massive red flags. How long have you been together? Narcissists can be the BEST partners at first. It can even last a few years before their mask comes off. They don’t love ‘you’ they love the way you make ‘them’ feel. If anything happens, for example a mental or physical illness to you or you just stop making them feel good. They tend to just discard people. It happened to me and it was the most heartbreaking but educational thing to happen to me. Be careful sis. How he treats his ‘loved ones’ …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 10:00 AM
11	Male are NOT more rational than woman, exhibit no. 7547486548 Haha thank you! This comment just made me laugh out loud! I finally just had the confidence to tell my ex how he talks to me is abusive and it scares me. He thought he was just ‘passionate’...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/19 09:08 AM
102	FDS in relationships. Men don't respond to words, they respond only to mirrored actions and absence. This!! I’m so glad I found this sub. I have been left confused at why none of my relationships have worked out. I was a pick meesha. I prided myself on not playing games and just been straight up honest and treating people how I would like to be treated. I put guys on a pedestal and received zero respect but lived in the hope that one day they’d realise all I did for them and treat me like I deserved. I thought we were of equal intelligence. Not anymore. I’m now the most confident about myself I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/19 09:37 AM
10	When your partner says "I love you" but you never actually feel loved, and he never DOES anything loving. This post really hit home. Thank you for sharing. I’ve recently realised I’ve been with a narcissist, he hid it well for so long, but now he’s just been using me as an emotional punching bag. I feel like I’ve been mourning the fantasy he created and keep telling myself he’s not real. Actions speak louder than words and in his case, as time went on they grew further apart. I’m going to save this and read it whenever he tries the love bombing again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/19 09:46 AM
4	UPDATE My (27f) bf (35M is mad I downloaded a dating app... we are in an open relationship, by his choice. I’m proud! Stay strong as it’s likely not over. As in he will probably flip and try to get you back. Sometimes we think we met a soul mate when they were really just a life lesson. I’m 29F myself and have always gone for the wrong types. I’ve recently learnt that I’m entitled to say no when I am uncomfortable with something and it’s life changing. Best of luck to you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/19 07:57 AM