| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Emotional Dumping: The Endless Saga | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | tactical_viper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 08:08 PM |
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| 18 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.“Be conservative but also be triple X with me.” Make up your mind???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 48 | How are we meant to know?Watch men freak out over this because “it’s not the same thing.” They understand the value of personal possessions over female consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 31 | SNOOPING 101Always snoop. When I snooped on my ex husband when we were together, I found out he was looking at naked women online. You can be a literal 10/10 and they will still do this to you because they have porn-induced brain damage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:22 PM |
| 34 | After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards!As a fellow woman of strong faith I am so happy for you. 💕 I’m happy you found a decent guy that doesn’t try to make you settle. Never be apologetic about having high standards in ANY part of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 04:18 PM |
| 357 | Single fathers will date women for free child care. Don’t let a man dictate which car you buy because they don’t want their child in it. This woman needs to 🏃♀️The f*ck? He legit just doesn’t want her having nice things and living for herself. I love how she justified it with ALL THE OTHER VEHICLES that were child friendly even though she didn’t have to explain herself. At least she was unapologetic. She needs to dump him ASAP. Dating for a year and this dude legit thinks this woman should be planning the rest of her life around him and his kid. Screw him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:11 AM |
| 15 | How a scrote just replied to me on a discussion re: sexual harassment & objectificationTypically we shoot animals that attack people. Need I say more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 91 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!Nah fuck that. That’s full ass cheating idc. You legit had sex with someone in your mind and got off to it/whatever gross fantasy. And yeah it was someone that he interacted with not some random or celebrity, not that it justifies gross behavior when you don’t know someone but knowing someone makes it even creepier. People are so nasty. There are actually a lot of people who don’t do shit like this. Screw their gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 01:32 PM |
| 41 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮Is no one gonna comment about all the gross fucking shirtless men in the audience in that photo??? Like are we kidding? None of those men could even see their own penis but meanwhile… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:07 AM |
| 113 | Ladies, how do you tell if you don't want kids or haven't found the right circumstances yet?I never wanted children. Never do, never have, never will. Kinda funny to say but I knew I would be like this even as a child myself. I NEED my alone time to be happy, and I definitely don’t want to be responsible for another person, ever. Children are a lifelong commitment, as they should be. Far too many people are garbage parents simply because it was never really something they were actually invested in. You also have to remember that society places a huge pressure on us to procreate, and th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 11:52 PM |
| 12 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?In other news, water is wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:27 AM |
| 47 | YouTube scrote almost pops a blood vessel during his rant on how men are the “logical” sex. Anger is an emotion ladies!!!Lol men are SOOOO LoGiCaL but most violent and sexual crimes are perpetrated by men. 💁🏻♀️ Also, we don’t punch walls. Also, we don’t threaten people’s lives when we’re rejected. ANYWAYS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 6 | Ikea knows what's upThe only thing he contributed to was the cost. I planned, budgeted accordingly, went through the thought and effort to find the stuff, measured so it would fit and was there to receive the deliveries. So no, you can’t have all the stuff you wouldn’t have bought anyways had a woman not been around. They legit have one chair to sit in, two forks, and their mattress on the floor and suddenly they care about all the stuff you acquired during the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:32 PM |
| 14 | Ikea knows what's upLMAO THIS WAS MY DIVORCE. girl I can’t 😂😂😂 he kept asking me if he could have this or that and I said no cause I went through all the effort/budgeting to acquire said items. Now my apartment is furnished and that’s all he’s left with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:53 AM |
| 6 | I'm going to have a nude sculpture of you in the living room even if you don't like it.I’m an artist and this is freaking gross. The least he could’ve done was thrown a dress on it when other people came around, but NOPE. women’s bodies truly don’t belong to them. I wouldn’t have been so kind, I would’ve grabbed him by the scruff and made him watch while I took a sledgehammer to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:07 PM |
| 142 | Wait...what?That’s a funny way of saying “I’m a piece of shit.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 62 | My friend matched with a guy on OLD. He sent her this..... what in the???“I just like traditional women.” Lol baby please. Y’all be wanting 20 year olds but good luck finding one of us that has these archaic viewpoints on appearance. Who tf is gonna police their SO into not having tattoos, piercings, or colored hair? Men are whack. I just love how they think they can do this shit but male attention is not rare nor is it a commodity. He will get nexted into oblivion and then complain that all women want Chads and don’t want to take care of his unwashed ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | «Please dont make sure Pornhub get shut down because its a nice site for chronic masturbators even if they show underage girls and children»They can’t do that with ED at 20 years old and they can’t even get it up at the sight of a real woman. If she doesn’t have balloon boobs and isn’t being tortured it’s not enough for them. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | «Please dont make sure Pornhub get shut down because its a nice site for chronic masturbators even if they show underage girls and children»So he pretty much just admitted to watching underage porn. I’m so disgusted that people like this walk among us in society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 35 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesLMAO girls y’all are killing me 🤣 they’re telling on themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:43 PM |
| 36 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Thanks mods for not freely allowing comments until flaired. No one wants men here. Thank God there’s still a few safe spaces for us WiMmEnZ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:04 PM |
| 47 | Found this gem on TwitterCF for life!!! Glad to see so many fellow FDSers are also CF. There’s enough children in the world and at least CF women won’t ever be susceptible to being locked in to a shit relationship. I’ll never be in a relationship again or have sex with anyone, but to the women that will, I highly suggest getting a bi salp so that no one can sabotage your birth control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 02:05 PM |
| 53 | Don't even pretend you're having a good time.This is me. I am so rude and try my best to be as much of a gray rock as possible. Unamused, not entertained, blatantly bored. I am not nice when someone crosses a boundary or acts inappropriately. And let me tell you, it saves me SO much trouble. Do not be nice or courteous to shitty men. They would pump and dump you the first chance they got. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:04 PM |
| 79 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.Men do nothing good for women. No matter what, they use us in many ways to enrich their lives, including making money off of us. Just look who is at the top of prostitution and pornography. Always a man. Men are never looking to “build a woman up.” Somehow that always ends up being a woman’s job—both to build up herself and her man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 54 | “Build with him”Jokes on them cause I bet their wives could do a million times better than these shitty ass men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 55 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!Lmao came here to say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 89 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:44 PM |
| 287 | I feel like I saw my Past Pickme self standing in front of me in line today... Thank God for FDSI think it’s SO stupid how I used to literally be jealous of “happy” couples and how I wished I could be so head over heels for someone like they were. Little did I realize I was fantasizing over a fallacy, and once you look through the crystal clear lenses of FDS, to be perfectly honest most people’s behavior is absolute cringe. I went from fantasizing about romantic relationships to now having a constant stream of real life examples of why I don’t want to be in one. Left and right you see pick… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 12 | We don’t want love as much as we think we doI was so happy when I finally figured this one out. I love being a part of FDS for many reasons but ironically, dating is not one of them. I’ll never be with anyone again, in any manner. The love I receive from friends and family always felt more genuine and worth more than whatever scraps I could scoop up from a romantic relationship. I’ll never know why we crave the fallacy of a “perfect” relationship with a man when we can spend that energy nurturing the relationship in our lives that’ll neve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 71 | The CheckMen have always lived for other men. They’re in love with other men, want to impress other men, spend money on other men, dedicate their time to other men. For most men, women are simply only good for looking at and sex. Women become these pitiful side characters in men’s lives all the time, have their children and act as their non-incestuous bangmoms. All the while, the men get their freedom to go and play with the boys all the time, run the roads, and spend all their time on their stupid hobbi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:48 AM |
| 57 | Even religious texts show that we have ALWAYS known who the problem is.AYYYYY that’s because what Jesus preached and true Christianity is looking inward and fixing YOURSELF. not other people. Remember—it was MEN who took true Christianity and bent it to suit their woman-hating narrative. Jesus loved the adulteress, the harlot, the unclean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:49 PM |
| 127 | Husband eats all of the food in the house leaving his wife and children hungry. Gets mad at wife for not giving him more food when she replaces what he ate that night.This isn’t a love for food, it’s gluttony. I know a lot of men who would starve to death if it meant giving their portion to their wives and children. This man is so selfish he would rob his wife and children of a meal. What a wretch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | This is my biggest insecurity & I’m terrified to let a man see it. Am I overreacting? Please be honest and don’t lie to me..Men can go suck eggs. There’s nothing wrong with your feet, queen. 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:15 PM |
| 73 | I'm almost entirely certain a man intentionally waited for me near my car at work.I’m sorry you had a bad experience and I really feel this because I’m heavily tattooed. Men use this to compliment me all the time to get my attention and start a conversation. Almost immediately goes from “where do you get your work done” to “hey we should get together sometime.” Not only is the compliment not genuine and has an agenda, but a lot of times the tattoos are fetishized in some way and you can easily tell. I have had men forcefully grab my wrist to get a better look at my arm. I’ve … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 18 | This is absolutely domestic abuse and he should be in fucking jail. I'm outragedWow. That post is a dumpster fire. I don’t even know what to say. I just feel so bad that someone raised this woman to idolize a man like that. Like sis, him not caring about hurting you IS just as bad as him wanting to hurt you. What’s scary is that there are soooo many porn addicted men just like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:12 PM |
| 13 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneSending all my love to you. I can only imagine how hard this is for you right now. Save the evidence. And be as cold, hard, and relentless as you possibly can. Don’t feel bad, and don’t hesitate. I’m so so sorry for you hun. Time and time again we have it proven to us that no matter what we can’t trust them. You can do this 🖤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:48 PM |
| 5 | It's 100% not your faultYes it was definitely the Irish one. I remember reading that a while back and being totally disgusted. Both are terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 19 | It's 100% not your faultI like to refer everyone to that exhibition that showcases what rape victims were wearing at the time of their attack. They were all so normal and some of them were children. I absolutely despise the rapist sympathizers that seriously have the nerve to ask a victim of a violent crime what they wore, as if they’re the reason the heinous thing happened to them. I don’t remember where I read about it, but one judge even claimed that because this woman was wearing a thong, she incited the rape. How … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:39 AM |
| 26 | Have you noticed how much better the quality of your sleep is after cutting all contact with a LVM or simply sleeping by yourself?Yes. I can now run on four hours of sleep and it’s no big deal. I am never tired anymore. I am fueled by coffee, rage and persistence. When I do sleep, it feels like I died and woke up in a new life. Also, I have an adorable collection of plushes and I highly enjoy picking which one I want to cuddle that night. It’s approximately one billion times better than cuddling with some lame ass guy, and no one is rubbing up on me or badgering me for sex late at night. I’ll never give my bed up again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 159 | It's the edit for me ~~~Ok but like you spend over $300k on ONE child from age 0-18 with nothing extra. Not counting college, medical bills, etc. And you can’t be bothered to spend a humble $25k on your wife? Who you’ll be with until you die? Ok. Not to mention the cringe added edit about her money becoming his. “She makes $140k a year. Probably the only reason I haven’t packed up and walked away.” Sis don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:27 AM |
| 12 | Preyed Upon By Alcoholic NVM.I would definitely recommend getting one of those door bars. With those, someone would have to make A LOT of noise to get in. I’m behind the other user that recommended the door alarm as well. You can never be too careful. Men are creeps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 84 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitI have come to terms with the fact I am fully asexual, aromantic, and sex repulsed, however I swear by FDS and lurked for a long time because I am an attractive woman who has been in relationships of the past with LVMs and still constantly have to curb men and their shitty tactics on the regular. That being said, I’m highly sensitive to and completely repulsed by all the sexual imagery that has saturated every bit of media, advertising, and all of consumerism. Everywhere you look someone is bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:39 AM |
| 72 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"For real though. He didn’t put it on Reddit, just passed the word around about his ex in real life. He told me and a slew of other people that his ex claimed that he raped her. For the first couple years I thought of her as such a manipulative b*tch. He totally had me hating on her via his passive aggressive comments over time. After a while though, problems started to emerge in our relationship and I had long forgotten about her. Not only did he completely neglect me and our relationship by put… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:16 AM |
| 49 | This was a post asking men what boundaries they have with women. Literally the first answer scrote says he wants her to show affection when she doesn’t want to. What the actual fuck. This doesn’t answer the question, also suggests you don’t want her to have her own boundaries. LoserExcept they legit do this with sex cause every man’s love language is tOuCh. Cue all the women constantly being coerced to have sex. 🤡 Women legit want help around the house and men be like, “YOU HAVEN’T TOUCHED MY PP IN TWO HOURS HOW DARE YOU. I FEEL UNLOVED.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 12 | I'm tired of men thinking that being ' strong ' means suppressing ur emotions !It’s cause they have no in between. It’s either emotionally dump all their baggage on the women around them or suppress it and scare everyone later on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 81 | Gym CreepLiterally how disrespectful do you have to be to keep bothering someone after you tell them you’re not interested in talking? Ffs. Women can be at their jobs, at the gym, having dinner with other people and in the middle of a conversation and guys think they can just interject and butt right in like the woman is not busy. Women do not want to be propositioned when they’re busy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 89 | It Never EndsGuys legit be like 90 with a wife the same age and be all like “she let herself go. Not at all the same woman I met when she was 20.” SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 18 | Too little too late. I know him but not his wife, and all I could do was shrug and say "you go sis". Hope he really learned that lesson. He earned this.Is this my ex? Oh wait—no. He doesn’t feel bad. The funniest thing here is he is looking for a public pity party or potentially his ex seeing this. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 19 | Ew. Nope! You'll always sink to their level. They will never rise to yours if this is how your "relationship" is.A mom. So you wanna be a mom. 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:02 AM |
| 135 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingThere’s nothing more disgusting than being at the receiving end unwittingly of a man bringing nastiness and unfaithfulness into a relationship. I can absolutely attest to the fact that casual snooping has confirmed some of my worst fears in past relationships. Thank God I looked, lest I’d never known. If it was BiOLoGy then why do they try so hard to hide it? If men were naturally non-monogamous then why bother concealing it from the world? Oh yes, that’s right. Women have standards and unfortun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:12 AM |
| 57 | Watch Out for Negs and Men Who Are Jealous Of YouI am a very aggressive go-getter woman with a large attitude. I am strong willed and nothing is intimidating to me. My ex hated me being so strong willed and opinionated and he even mentioned at one point how much it threatened him. -insert male fragility here- He would be SO passive aggressive to me because he wasn’t typically confrontational. So I got the negging 24/7 even when I tried to stand up to something that was clearly wrong. My ex was the type to roll over and get steamrolled by life … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:06 AM |
| 57 | Society needs more childfree HVWI wish I could upvote this a million times. I volunteer as tribute. 🙋🏻♀️ I’m so happy that I am child free and didn’t make the mistake of becoming pregnant with my LV ex. Also happy I have an extremely HV mother who completely supports my decision to not involve myself with men again or have some scrote’s kids. My biggest fear in life is literally settling down and giving up my life to a guy that will just cheat or whatever decades down the line. It took me way too long to realize I don’t wanna… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 105 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveWow, I’m that bird. Terribly uninterested at everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 01:09 PM |
| 26 | Bumble Encourages Women to Talk to Men who Commit Microaggressions And Explain to Him Why They Are Inappropriate : Further Reason to Stop Using OLDWtf?? If I wanted to be someone’s therapist I would’ve gone to school for it. This is the dumbest advice ever. Yes, let’s encourage women yet again to step over their own boundaries and fix men that they aren’t even in relationships with. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:12 PM |
| 72 | I'm sure we have all experienced this especially coercing you into sex because they're upset you don't like themMy ex would never wanna talk about anything important or CoMmUnIcAtE about the problems in our relationship, but suddenly we’re all emotional and sensitive when it’s a “no” for sex. He would mope around the house all day acting like someone killed his dog after I reprimanded him for the millionth time over groping me randomly. Then the classic case of, “comfort me over the consequences of MY actions.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 30 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.Lol. I brought home multiple books during our relationship struggles for both of us to read to try and help understand each other better. You guessed it—I read them, he didn’t. And you bet that was the first thing he picked up when I said the word divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:45 AM |
| 8 | I got called “high maintenance” at work 😁Why is this dude automatically jumping to sticking his nose in your personal relationships? So unprofessional. You KNOW he would never say that to a guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 90 | How porn-brain destroys relationships in one stupid breath.mY wIfE iS uPsEt CaUsE I wAnNa FuCk SoMeOnE eLsE HALLLLLP. I dOn’T kNoW hOw To DeAL wItH tHe CoNsEqUeNcEs Of My OwN mIsTaKeS 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:53 PM |
| 8 | Was disappointed to see standard-shaming from a sub that encourages never settlingPorn isn’t sexual. It’s literally a disease that preys on people and destroys their minds and bodies. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than “settle” for someone that willingly destroys their brain and bodily functions and tries to gaslight other people as to why it’s okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:38 PM |
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