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tactics/r/seduction01/11/11 06:43 PM
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This is wrong. Lots of gay events convert women's bathrooms to men's. Venues gotta venue, kids. Please focus on actual issues 🙏
/r/MensRights01/03/20 07:52 PM
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Seems like the perfect opportunity to Make it Great Again.
/r/MensRights24/02/20 01:00 AM
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Are you calling the competency of minors into question? Why do you think a 50-something electorate will do what's right for children when he or she is so far removed from the concerns of the country's youth? Obviously my remarks are illustrative, rather than prescriptive. If you disagree with my point about electing children, then it's clear you aren't blindly committed to blind proportional representation. But then the oness falls back on you to clarify your position. Why is sex spacial in your…
/r/MensRights09/08/19 10:11 PM
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If 30% of the population is under 18, would you want 30% of Congress to be under 18? Trying to meet a strict demographic parity is naive. It might be desirable to have proportional representation for women. On the other have, it might be a miserable decision. It would be nice, though, if such topics were not censored in society so we could voice concerns.
/r/MensRights09/08/19 07:46 PM
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I'm a fan of "hon" and "dear".
/r/seduction12/11/11 02:13 AM
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I caught this in r/IWTL. It seemed to follow the general themes I see around here.
/r/seduction01/11/11 06:44 PM
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This is a really cool analogy. Your audience (me) definitely found it interesting.
/r/seduction30/10/11 12:22 AM
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"Just be yourself" should be "be congruent with yourself". It's an ingredient to successful dating, not a complete strategy in and of itself.
/r/seduction26/09/11 09:34 PM
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You sound like a girl saying shit like that.
/r/seduction19/09/11 09:22 PM
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Didn't you only list 4 of the 5 questions?
/r/seduction23/05/11 10:07 PM
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This begets regrets.
/r/seduction29/04/11 02:12 PM
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I'll be ready with this when the time comes: http://i.imgur.com/76wbM.jpg
/r/seduction09/04/11 05:30 PM
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That's creepy. Thanks for sharing, I think :P
/r/seduction07/04/11 08:03 PM
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Touche salesman. Touche.
/r/seduction07/04/11 07:26 PM
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eeling like I'm not interesting enough. This shows you are having trouble -- or feel like you have trouble -- keeping her attention. Don't ask, "what can I do to be more interesting?" Instead ask, "why don't I have her full attention?" I also have trouble with competition. Don't think of other guys as competition. It puts you in a defensive mindset. You begin to worry about what they are going to do to undermine you. The reality is most guys aren't thinking that. They are either a) worried about…
/r/seduction07/04/11 02:39 PM
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Great empty advice you have here. Seriously? Confidence? Don't be creepy? Just throw around a few cliches and let the circlejerk jack you off with its upvote reacharound.
/r/seduction07/04/11 02:21 PM
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Being a man isn't intuitive to most of Reddit. You're in good company here.
/r/seduction29/03/11 01:40 PM
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If four out of five people think you're a douche and I find five people and ask them what they think of you, it does not follow that exactly one will spare your feelings.
/r/seduction29/03/11 01:38 PM
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How can you be deep in your post? And don't you know that the wider the audience you write to, the less effective your writing is? Really, all this stuff should have been covered in your first semester composition class.
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:07 PM
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Yeah college. It's that place where they teach you about how sarcasm is the shallowest form of wit ;o
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:02 PM
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Yeah, except professors do it in college, too. And the effect is even more pronounced, because they have much greater control over your grade then.
/r/seduction22/03/11 01:35 PM
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I argued my point about Dickinson, and she said something that has stuck with me, and I've applied to every aspect of my life since. Your teacher was bullshitting you. See the situation for what it really was. Your teacher didn't want to let you negotiate for the grade you rightly deserved because it would force her to admit a mistake, and risk undermining her authority (and having ever little fuck in your class ask for free passes). Also, the "two day" rule isn't a hard rule, even when you're i…
/r/seduction22/03/11 01:12 PM
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I gave up my last experiment after the 4th hour for this exact problem. FTFY
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:20 PM
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Not to be a douche, but off topic much? Try r/japan :/
/r/seduction11/03/11 05:08 PM
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Indeed. Intelligence should be used just like being rich or having a nice car. No one likes a show-off. It's more powerful when people know it's there, but it's no big deal to you.
/r/seduction09/03/11 10:10 PM
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Go pat yourself on the back for making it to the front page. It's as insightful as Justin Bieber's music is inspiring :P
/r/seduction08/03/11 11:24 PM
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Herp derp. When I post things in bold, it sounds like what I say is important. OMG, I never thought of it that way. Maybe all I need to do to get upvotes is to post some cliche bullshit, but frame it in a way that makes it sound new and original. New and original!. From what I see, the Reddit seduction community can get away with spouting bullshit, because it's full of desperate guys who want want to buy into the dream of easy women and a good sex life. SEX It doesn't really matter if my post is…
/r/seduction08/03/11 02:20 PM
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What country/culture? I'm curious how kino-phobic guys act in those cultures.
/r/seduction04/03/11 06:16 PM
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wtf is shit shit?
/r/seduction04/03/11 02:00 PM
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Settle down, Tactics. I love your posts. No need to get all nutty on me bro. This is the motherfuckin' Internet, bitch! If I don't get riled up here, then where? ;o
/r/seduction25/02/11 08:03 PM
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It's not "game". It's just living your damn life. Not everything has to be a goddamn game.
/r/seduction25/02/11 01:41 PM
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"Be more confident" is a useless bit of advice. It's where you end up, not how you get there. But you already know where you want to end up. It's just a jerk-off bit of advice that makes the advisor feel like he's helped you out while doing nothing to help out the advisee. It's in the same category as "just be yourself". It's not only cliche, it's also useless. FLPUA also framed his response in terms of pick-up. But eye contact is such a basic social behavior that you are much better off working…
/r/seduction24/02/11 05:36 PM
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you need to work on your confidence. Herp derp needz m0ar confidunce. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction24/02/11 04:22 PM
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So I'd be tempted to say that dancing is a way to demonstrate various attraction switches.... (not humor though) I'm going to take a jab at this comment. It depends on what kind of dancing you're doing, but in something like swing (which is what I do), you can incorporate a TON of humor into your dance. My one dance teacher loves to tell a story about a competition she was in many years ago. They were dancing against some of the best Lindy Hoppers in the world, and they didn't feel they had a fi…
/r/seduction16/02/11 10:17 PM
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WTF is this shit? Are you trying to irrationalize your fears? You got some issues, man.
/r/seduction07/02/11 04:48 PM
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Give yourself a little break. There will be a 2012. It's 2013 that won't be there.
/r/seduction29/12/10 02:18 PM
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I agree. Not having an outlet is the biggest hurdle. Just as bad as "LAN parties" (or D&D or Magic or video games or whatever) is spending time with socially isolating people. I became very frustrated with a large group of my friends because every time I saw them, they wanted to do the same things with the same people. To meet girls you actually need to meet new girls. Sitting at home "being social" with your friends isn't going to help. You need to go to a public venue or you need to hang out w…
/r/seduction21/12/10 02:13 PM
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The Book of Pook It's natural. It's honest. (It's also free). TBoP is a much better source of wisdom than anything written on "pick-up".
/r/seduction21/12/10 02:09 PM
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Don't jerk off to porn Wtf?
/r/seduction20/12/10 03:50 PM
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Be fucking careful with that line of reasoning, dude. You don't want to invoke Russell's paradox.
/r/seduction17/12/10 01:43 PM
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@NSFoo Something this subreddit doesn't highlight, which is really should, is that the "techniques" described are primed towards cold approach pickup. Cold approach is a huge barrier to doing anything, whether it's pickup, sales, or making friends. Cold approach, simply, is trying to interact with someone who you have no existing relationship with. In the case of making friends, this means making friends with someone you meet around town. It is in contrast to a warm approach, where you are typic…
/r/seduction14/12/10 05:31 PM
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Well, I don't the issue, personally. You're just using curse words for some fucking emphasis.
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:54 PM
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The problem most guys have isn't giving themselves approval. It's that they are not getting approval from anyone BUT themselves. Lying to yourself is a useful technique, but it's not a long-term viable strategy. Eventually, you have to question yourself, "why doesn't everyone see how awesome I am?" The answer is you're not awesome. So instead of affirming you're awesome, go out and fucking *MAKE** yourself awesome. Lose that fucking twenty pounds. Put on some muscle. The saying goes "don't judge…
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:52 PM
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Really? It sounds like you're actually pretty comfortable with them....
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:25 PM
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Stop giving non-constructive criticism, dick.
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:13 PM
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Such sage words call for a drink.
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:12 PM
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Get out of the mindset that you want a relationship with these girls. As soon as you have "feelings" for them and you want to "be" with them, your brain goes into stupid mode. You will say things that will break attraction. You will start acting clingy and calling them every day. There's a time and place for relationships. That time and place isn't until you've been seeing her for at least a month. And stop aiming for particular girls. The chance you will have any success at all with any particu…
/r/seduction29/11/10 05:11 PM
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Some guys grow up with positive male role models. Some guys are well-socialized at a young age. Some guys never had a problem with hygiene. Some guys were never all that skinny. Some guys were more interested their classmates than their classes. Some guys had low standards and got a lot of early experience. Some guys grew up wanting to be Leonardo not Donatello. Some guys punched back at that bully in fifth grade. Some guys had parents who owned their own businesses. Some guys asked just barely …
/r/seduction24/11/10 06:50 PM
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Girls in public will often avoid eye contact. Don't take it personally. Make eye contact when it becomes an option. Girls walking dogs are usually better than girls coming from work. Girls you've started talking to and girls you've met before are better than strangers.
/r/seduction24/11/10 06:26 PM
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"wtf are you doing?" Try your best not to let it seem like a big deal. You made a choice to escalate with her. And even if she rejects you, you do not regret trying. You must say something. Do you? In this situation, you probably do, but always question it. Staying silent and forcing the other person to make the next move is often a powerful option. In this case, though, it sounds like she made a big deal out of something that wasn't. Respond however you want, but act like what you did wasn't a …
/r/seduction24/11/10 03:53 PM
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I think we all hate for you to sound new-agey. Sitting alone and learning to "love yourself" is balls advice. Chances are, the OP has already done enough sitting alone. On the other hand, you are spot on with what you said about positive energy. It's very easy to let your negativity come out in front of other people. Avoid it as much as you can help it. We all have bad days. Keep one or two good friends you can vent to. And suck it up the rest of the time. On the flip side, when you are in a goo…
/r/seduction20/11/10 08:16 PM
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Most people just want to be followers. I get the feeling you're going to be legendary. You sound like quite a follower.
/r/seduction20/11/10 03:35 AM
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I'd say guys don't find dates on OKCupid. Girls do.
/r/seduction17/11/10 04:54 PM
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Hopefully your date doesn't view third base crude :) The best bet, if you want to put it in words, is to put it bluntly and unashamedly. If you ask, simply, "so, do you shave?" and keep a strong frame, she'll answer you. Bring it up as if it's the most natural thing in the world to ask a girl.
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:56 PM
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Don't ask. Feel. And if she doesn't, bring it up casually? Worst case scenario: suck it up. Better natural than none at all.
/r/seduction16/11/10 04:52 PM
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In my opinion, techniques for "overcoming anti-slut defense". Yeah, sometimes girls will be hesitant to unzip their jeans because of culturally-induced sexual shame. But if you're a decent human being, you can suck up the blue balls for a night, tell her you had a lovely night, masturbate, and ask her out again next week.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:21 PM
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Damn, man, why don't you grow a.... I... You know.... I wish I could knit too T___________T
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:13 PM
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A great quote, actually.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:11 PM
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Negging is the second worst bullshit to come out of the PUA community. Giving a girl a hard time is good. If you can speak to someone bluntly, you show you are comfortable with them. However, the idea behind negging isn't to build your connection, it's to tear her down. Even when pulled off correctly, it's a dick move. The idea is to not put her on a pedestal. The idea is not to pull the pedestal from under her damn feet.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:10 PM
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Asking "where are the gamer girls?" is like asking "where are the guys who knit?" Gaming is not a feminine activity. Really, you're better off trying to expand your horizons. Being able to relate to more people will give you a bigger pool of girls to draw from. If you're die-hard set on nerd girls, your best bet is to troll around at anime conventions.
/r/seduction15/11/10 09:01 PM
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Back up your shit first. If you keep it on a DVD in your closet, it still does good for your children. (Your children's children will have virtual porn, though, but by then, society will be ready to give out).
/r/seduction13/11/10 02:22 PM
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Seduction is a branch of self-help. The ultimate premise is that you can make changes to your life to be happier. The problem seduction addresses is that many guys have serious trouble in their dating lives. More so than they can't find the girl they want -- they can't get dates at all! So all of what you read here is theory on why these guys can't get dates and what needs to be done to change that. Keep in mind that seduction is just like any other kind of self-help. It's a mixed bag of people …
/r/seduction07/11/10 01:35 AM
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A few years ago, I met a girl online. She worked for Planned Parenthood and described herself as polyamorous. I had been single and without sex for over a year, and I was thrilled at the chance to meet (and sleep) with her. We met up a few times, and I realized I was really into her. She was a cool girl, she was very open about sexuality, and she had an innocent love of cartoons (which sealed the deal for me). The second time I had her over for the night, I ran into a bit of a problem. I really …
/r/seduction04/11/10 08:53 PM
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Not only is there "a lot on the market", but most of it is utter bullshit. Like any kind of self-help, seduction has some gems that can turn your life around.... surrounded by a bunch of shit which will only turn around the lives of the people selling it to you. The hardest part is sorting out what parts of it are garbage. As far as your actual problem.... To be a natural, you need to speak and act naturally. That means letting whatever thoughts you have become the words you speak. You'll end up…
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:10 PM
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everyone's a natural at being disinterested in girls who don't interest them.
/r/seduction30/10/10 09:23 PM
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Interviews would be perfect for a blog. Hell, it could even be linked on the sidebar. But it doesn't need to waste precious top-news slots on reddit.
/r/seduction28/10/10 09:41 PM
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I don't think I'd really be interested in hearing Redditors brag about how good they, which is what it would eventually devolve into. The same goes for the fucking "field report" submissions. It's not a fucking cultural study in Africa. You went to a fucking bar and hit on a girl. It's all post-hoc rationalization anyway. Interviews with "gurus" would suffer from a similar problem. Instead of being narrowly focused on one night out, it would be narrowly focused on one person. More articles, blog…
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:47 PM
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Seduction material (books, workshops) work like any other business. You generate a need. You offer a solution and profit from it. It's easy to see why contradictions appear. Like shit you'd see in a fitness magazine, they only need to be consistent until the point of purchase. They have to appeal to the buyer (you) and keep you buying (you did X, Y, and Z right, but you didn't do A or B... which are the opposite of X and Z together). But don't let it get you down. Check out the Book of Pook. It'…
/r/seduction28/10/10 04:53 AM
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Why the hell would there be a consensus over a topic like that?
/r/seduction26/10/10 02:25 PM
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I prefer spiked punch to the other kind.
/r/seduction22/10/10 04:33 PM
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gettin' laid's gettin' laid
/r/seduction18/10/10 09:09 PM
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But then she'll just want both of them like crazy!
/r/seduction18/10/10 03:55 PM
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lol, James Bond is a womanizer. Truly a gentleman of an earlier generation. Random Guy's point is that attraction is a game of power. If you can smile and "be nice" to others, but at the same time show that you are in total control of the interaction, you can be attractive while being "nice". However, most guys are nice in the wrong way. They smile to show submission. "Don't worry, I'm not a threat," they say with their eyes. But an attractive guy IS a threat. At least, potentially he is. He doe…
/r/seduction18/10/10 03:51 PM
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Don't joke about that shit.. Cooties are the leading cause of male pussification...
/r/seduction17/10/10 01:09 AM
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Why not tell her a little about your girlfriend? (Hint: You don't have to have one to talk about her).
/r/seduction11/10/10 03:49 PM
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Do you remember the last time you slept with anyone? Was it bad? Do you think anything has changed? pǝƃuɐɥɔ ʇ,usɐɥ ʇı ;xǝs llıʇs sɐʍ ʇı 'pɐq ɹo pooƃ ;ƃuol ooʇ :sɹǝʍsu∀
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:41 PM
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The campfire rule is the policy with the best hot-sex-to-emotional-stress ratio.
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:37 PM
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I find this rule restrictive.
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:36 PM
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I don't think it really matters if you smile or grin. "get caught lookng and quickly averting my gaze all creepy-like" My feeling is that if someone catches you looking, the best response is to keep looking and acknowledge them. A cheerful "hey!" is never creepy. Most of the time, the girl will "hey" you back, and that's the end of it. But if you and her are in the right mood, you have a good opening to talk to her.
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:27 PM
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Does the fact that you start with a scripted/semi-scripted opener make you feel fake? It should feel fake because it is fake.
/r/seduction01/10/10 08:31 PM
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Just be nice to her
/r/seduction30/09/10 08:47 PM
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Like in psychology, the best kind of teaching is through sporadic reinforcement - occasionally reinforcing something when they don't see it coming. My girlfriend doesn't believe me when I tell her it's psychology, not ED!
/r/seduction30/09/10 08:44 PM
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I agree with this guy 100%. I started swing dancing a little over a year ago. It was the biggest change in my life since college. I've met so many people through it. Plus, it's totally hot for a guy to know how to dance.
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:49 PM
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Worst response I've ever read
/r/seduction26/08/10 01:43 PM
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Is everyone on this subreddit a douchebag? He isn't being pejorative. He's being literal. Getting a girl means being a man.
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:35 PM
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Agreed on all points. How the fuck do you cut of all contact and hit the gym if she goes to the same gym???
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:20 PM
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Scratchy: Hey, Poochie! It looks like you have something to say! Do you? Poochie: Yes, I certainly do. opens mouth *(in a totally different voice) I have to go now. My planet needs me. (Poochie died on the way back to his home planet)
/r/seduction20/08/10 02:20 PM
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How is that cheating? Beating a suburban husband is too easy. He's already been whipped by life. The homeless man is used to fighting for his meals and doing what it takes to survive. A suburban man has never had to do a thing to survive anything in life except his crippling depression.
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:47 PM
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Pool. You can keep your distance and make it about pool if you're not into her. You can keep close and make it about her if you are.
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:42 PM
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Don't laugh. My rich great uncle got a hernia from carrying around so many gold coins in his pockets. The surgery cost every coin he owned. Now he just owns a million dollar house. Rich bastard ;/
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:24 PM
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You don't really know what you're talking about, but I forgive you.
/r/seduction11/08/10 01:35 PM
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Being humble is a virtue. And many virtues are just policies that make it easier for others to take advantage of you. Not asserting your entitlement (by being humble) can be seen as a sign of forfeiting it. If you're working on boosting your sense of entitlement, start with little stupid things. Take the last donut from the box at work. Walking into a crowded restaurant, sprint to cut off the people walking next to you so you can be seated 5 minutes sooner than them. Just break your bad (mental)…
/r/seduction11/08/10 01:32 PM
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Why cant we all just be ourselves and be happy? In sports, why can't both teams just let the other take the ball straight to the goal? Attraction is a competitive sport. It's not as rigid as something like soccer, but you're still in on a team of one (or two) trying to score by the end of the night. Being deceitful and underhanded is not necessary. It's like cheating or being unsportsmanlike or needlessly rough in a sport. It will win you games, but no one will like you for it. (And even with ca…
/r/seduction11/08/10 12:46 PM
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"What would you do if a spell of anonymity was cast upon you, so that nobody would know what you did? [....] What would you do?" God. What a fucking stupid ass question. This reddit is full of fucktards saying stupid fucking shit to confuse people in serious need of psychological help. I can't believe how dumb you are. Oh wait. Sorry. That must have been the anonymity speaking :P
/r/seduction10/08/10 01:55 PM
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Inner game is a perfectly legitimate term. Confidence is the one that's messed up. "If you want women, you just gotta be confident." Bullshit. That's like saying "if you want to find gold, you gotta start digging." Yeah. Digging is pretty necessary to find gold. But telling someone that doesn't help them even a little bit. Confidence is a sureness about succeeding at what you're doing. You can't be confident at something you don't succeed at the majority of the time. And if you're trying to get …
/r/seduction03/08/10 07:28 PM
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The rule for kissing on a first date goes like this: If you think she does want one, she doesn't. If you think she doesn't want one, she does. The rule also works on everything else with women.
/r/seduction03/08/10 03:09 PM
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Reality IS. Reality is what it is. Shit Happens. You find a way to make sense of it. You change your behavior accordingly. More Shit Happens that's based on your behavior. You can agree up to that point right? The shit is what it is, but you have to give it meaning. You have to make sense of it. There are many ways to interpret anything. This is your frame. Suppose you lost a $20 bill from your wallet. You had the money in your wallet last night at the party, but now it's gone. What does that me…
/r/seduction30/07/10 08:29 PM
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Is it my personality? I need help, not bull shit criticism of my "personality" and "attitude" etc. That shits never helped. Wow. Thanks a fucking bunch mother fucker. Dude. I've seen "ugly" white guys get laid in Japan constantly. CONSTANTLY. Like guys who were average AT BEST in the US would be swimming in pussy in Japan. I've only found obese white girls who can be described as "sexually marginal" - basically, they couldnt fuck a white guy if they tried so they go for Asian guys. No fucking th…
/r/seduction30/07/10 07:13 PM
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I'm not gonna say I don't find psychological surveys entirely convincing. Oh wait. Yeah, I am :) The first two studies you linked to talk only about marriage. Marriage is going to reflect the culture more than attraction. The asian girls I know, their mothers would kill them for marrying some gaijin. The third study is about sending messages on OKC. Activity on OKC is not reflective of the average use of sexuality. You're going to get a super biased (dare I say, degenerate) sample compared to a …
/r/seduction30/07/10 07:02 PM
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We know from social science research that black women and white women "stick to their own" when dating. lolwut?
/r/seduction30/07/10 06:27 PM
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According to that notion, the KKK is the funniest organization there ever was.
/r/seduction28/07/10 08:43 PM
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I'd say the first step is awareness. Focus about permission-seeking throughout your day and try to catch yourself every time you do it. The next step is (as IANAPUA_Yet said) take small steps to act against your nature every time you catch yourself. This works for more than just permission-seeking. It's effective for removing all kinds of social programming. Ignore the sign, step on the grass. Break every little rule you can. For example, once at a convention, the line for getting your admission…
/r/seduction28/07/10 08:39 PM
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I kept mistyping gay guy as guy guy.
/r/seduction22/07/10 07:52 PM
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I find rape to be effective ;/ If a girl changes her mind, just back off. If she goes home and you wanted some, deal with it. Grab your fleshlight and some lube. That's all you wanted her for anyway.
/r/seduction22/07/10 07:36 PM
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Are you implying that if it were a gay guy being hit on by another gay guy's gay boyfriend, it'd be ok, but since it's a guy hitting on a guy's girl, it's not? Is it unfair that unqualified, "guy" tends to mean not a gay guy, while to talk about a gay guy, you have to say gay guy?
/r/seduction22/07/10 07:28 PM
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Fuck ur ab workouts. SQUAT!
/r/seduction19/07/10 02:56 PM
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tl;dr
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:06 PM
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I have a follow-up question about value, though. Value is a personal thing. Lots of guys like nice, expensive luxury cars. I could care less. I place little value on the kind of car I drive. How will girls assess your value? They are going to do all the things you've been taught to work on. They're going to gauge your confidence in social situations. They're going to look at how you dress, your posture, your attitude. They're going to look at how tall you are, how much you make, and how old you …
/r/seduction09/07/10 12:44 PM
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I'm a tall skinny white guy with intellectual tendencies You poor, poor son of a..... well, nevermind. Just keep at it. A friend of mine (an opinionated girl) went to Japan her last year of high school. Her words were like so: "Japanese guys are all pussies". Stereotype? Yeah. But one bred off her personal experience. Consider this the trade-off in your favor for the language barrier. Dealing with people wears me out so fast. Exercise your social muscles. Go out to parties or crowded events. Tal…
/r/seduction08/07/10 04:11 PM
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Better not. Nothing breaks attraction like a man who cries.
/r/seduction07/07/10 06:52 PM
3

Asking questions is totally beta behavior, lol.
/r/seduction07/07/10 06:35 PM
1

I'll agree with you on this. Be honest in your intentions.
/r/seduction29/06/10 03:15 PM
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Women want a man, not a gentleman. Dbags are not gentlemen, so if the dbag is the only man in site, she'll go for him. You can be a man without being a douche. Google the Book of Pook for a bullshit-free approach to pickup. The Game is a fictional novel, btw.
/r/seduction28/06/10 05:28 PM
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Mastering a video game is more than mastering each technique. You have to know when it's appropriate to use each move. You have to be able to anticipate your opponent to chose the best move. Being clean is not more "right" than being messy, but it sounds like you just don't get along well with your roommates. Lose the right and wrong bullshit. A Jedi kills just as often as a Sith. Try this. Whenever you catch yourself thinking about doing the "right thing", try to reframe the situation. Try to c…
/r/seduction25/06/10 08:08 PM
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I'll usually jump at any opportunity to call a douche thing douchy, but this, my friend, is not a douche thing to do. You don't owe her anything. She doesn't owe you anything. You two had sex. End of transaction.
/r/seduction25/06/10 03:01 PM
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Sums up most of the best I've seen The worst comprises a class of methodologies humorously referred to as "social robotics" by Brad Bollenbach. Talking up strangers and coming off as a well-adjusted person worthy of sexual interest is a Good Thing. The best way to come off as high value in the eyes of attractive girls is to be high value. So hit the gym. Live for something greater than yourself. Entertain yourself by interacting with other people. It may take longer, but it's a much sturdier fou…
/r/seduction22/06/10 03:07 PM
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So should I just lie if necessary? Sure. If you want to be a total douchebag. Blatantly lying about your intentions to deceive girls for sex aside.... For most of these questions, you should give indirect answers if you don't want to answer them. It's usually good to end with a question to keep them from just asking it again. The idea isn't to lie -- it's to hint you find the question invalid (without having to answer it, of course.... they are somewhat loaded questions). If it were me, I'd repl…
/r/seduction22/06/10 12:57 PM
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+1 for level-headedness. PU advice is such a strange mix of gold and garbage :/
/r/seduction22/06/10 12:43 PM
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Relationship_advice exists for young PUAs who realize that getting that relationship wasn't such a good idea after all.
/r/seduction22/06/10 12:42 PM
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That situation sucks. It kills social circles. Avoid her as much as you possibly can. Don't hang out with friends when they hang out with her. Don't go to parties if she's coming. Recover as many friends as you can from the impending disaster. It will be a disaster. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/06/10 05:13 PM
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I'm not talking about escalation. I'm talking about breaking out of your physical comfort zone. Touch is important. It sounds like you are comfortable with touch. Many guys aren't.
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:59 PM
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I agree. Touching isn't really ballsy. But it's a more basic skill than kissing. You need to nail it early on.
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:40 PM
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The 'PUA' community has allot of cringe-making bullshit. High five! The second is kissing them Buh? ;( Kino first, dude. Being comfortable with touch is much more important than making a move on her. Cuddling is the door to all intimacy.
/r/seduction21/06/10 01:52 PM
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Behold! The Book of Pook. A great guide to becoming a real man. Unlike many other seduction books, Pook is 99% bullshit free. Exes are never worth pursuing. Ever. It's best to follow the Usual_Advice: Cut all contact. Delete from Facebook. Hit the gym.
/r/seduction21/06/10 01:44 PM
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lolfag
/r/seduction21/06/10 12:58 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/aKaLa.jpg
/r/seduction18/06/10 03:26 PM
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I could see that image turning into the meme that offends the most veterans ever.....
/r/seduction18/06/10 01:06 PM
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Yeah.
/r/seduction18/06/10 01:05 PM
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Is seddit your own personal blog now? Go sign up for wordpress and just link us, k?
/r/seduction18/06/10 01:04 PM
1

Accepting a gift need not lower your status If it did, I'd just hand out shitty souvenirs to hotties at bars until I was no longer intimidated by their looks.
/r/seduction16/06/10 06:29 PM
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people who say "Let me check my schedule", as opposed to "I'm going ice skating Wednesday" are... I'll credit you here. I use "I'll have to see if I'm free that day" all the time with my friends. It's a bad habit.
/r/seduction16/06/10 06:27 PM
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LOL it's so cute you think a line like that would ever work. While you're at it, why not tell her that her nose looks funny when she's mad? If the girl you're talking to has any value of her own, it's more than possible she might have something to do during the week. Maybe she works. Maybe she has homework. You don't know. Nocking's advice is spot on. Try and get her to make a counter-date. If she doesn't, she might need a prod. If she still doesn't, next her.
/r/seduction16/06/10 05:52 PM
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"I MADE A POST ON REDDIT AND NO ONE REPLIED BOO-HOO." -you
/r/seduction16/06/10 04:14 PM
3

Just like roofies isn't a PUA technique. Well fuck. I've been doing this all wrong :<
/r/seduction16/06/10 04:12 PM
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I'm going to have to second (or is it third) the "then what?" notion. Introductions don't make good topics of conversation.
/r/seduction16/06/10 02:49 PM
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The complement of this argument is that by giving a simple response, you show that you enjoy her attention, but you don't need it. Drawing attention to how cheap your hat really was isn't going to raise your value any in her eyes. Neither is telling her how much salad you had to eat before you lost all that weight. If you're really worried about "just taking it", give a dismissive spin in the tone of your voice. You'll break a little rapport over it, but it will leave her confused ("did I offend…
/r/seduction15/06/10 04:56 PM
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Say 'thanks' and smile?
/r/seduction15/06/10 03:25 PM
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You could also try set subtraction.
/r/seduction15/06/10 03:23 PM
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Not to be a dick, but I'd like to see LESS of each of these things. Field reports come off as cheap stories. They also lead to bragging and exaggeration. What does it matter how many IOIs you got from her if in the end she flaked out? Equally so, what does it matter if you got her number, kissed her, or fucked her? I don't give a shit about Annonymous. Meet ups would be neat, but reddit isn't centralized enough. Your meetup in New York or London is my spam. I don't buy into the NPL, bodylanguage…
/r/seduction11/06/10 09:05 PM
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A little too revolutionary near the end if you ask me.... Though I largely agree with the sentiment that it's all about self improvement. I don't believe the perversion is unique to PU or any of the communities. Self help is like any healthy food -- healthy for people, but just as healthy for worms and maggots. For all the positive change people can bring about in their lives with selfhelp-style writing, an equal amount of money can be made by dreampeddlers selling silver bullets and false hope.…
/r/seduction11/06/10 05:23 PM
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You are overly sexualizing the woman in the relationship (lingerie... maybe. A clit ring? Get over yourself). Much of PUA advice is geared towards DEsexualizing women to even the playing field for guys. Not to say that sex in the relationship isn't a key factor (it is). But a girl's proper role in a relationship isn't to become your personal tramp. It's one thing if a girl likes to give you blowjobs. But if she feels she has to give you blowjobs to keep you at all, you could do better than her.
/r/seduction11/06/10 02:43 PM
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I know some schools advice never to dance It's hard. Therefore, don't try it. You'll only make a fool of yourself. Am I talking about dance? Or pick up? (Or, fuck, ANYTHING difficult in life). There's no shame in taking a little time away from asking strangers about what to call your fictitious, fucking, three-legged cat to do something natural like moving your body to music.
/r/seduction11/06/10 02:19 PM
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You might want to add a tl;dr: "nothing interesting happened to me walking down the street today"
/r/seduction11/06/10 02:01 PM
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How's it feel to be full of shit? ;o This little essay sums up in a few too many (and a few too misogynistic) words that it is important to maintain high value throughout a relationship.
/r/seduction11/06/10 02:00 PM
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+1 on dance. I started Swing just over a year ago. Best decision of my post-college life.
/r/seduction09/06/10 06:42 PM
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The difference is that improv actors are always working with you. It's the role of everyone on stage to make you look good. A good improviser is more like a good wingman than a PUA.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:24 PM
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Isn't it obvious? Stop seeing, calling, texting her...
/r/seduction07/06/10 09:37 PM
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Just pick one and do it. Texting is more casual. Phone is more personal. But fretting about which to use it unreasonable. Just call her up and and ask her if she wants to hang out or do something with you this weekend. If she doesn't give you a straight answer (or you get her VM and she doesn't return your call), move on.
/r/seduction19/05/10 01:40 PM
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You couldn't tell a PUA from a troll on the net, dumbass <3
/r/seduction18/05/10 07:37 PM
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Where I went to school, there was a weekly open mic night. Their motto was inspiring for those of us who want to try out something new: "Dare to suck" I still recite this motto to myself when I feel uncomfortable. Go out there. Suck for the sake of sucking. Go out and see how badly you can suck. Embrace your failure. Lose your seriousness. And do it all for the lolz.
/r/seduction18/05/10 03:31 PM
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Ask /r/sex
/r/seduction18/05/10 03:16 PM
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I say date the screwed up ones anyway and break their hearts if it comes to that. Both guys and girls have enormous opportunities to grow when their problems bring an end to a good relationship. In the long run, you're doing her a favor.
/r/seduction18/05/10 03:12 PM
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I like it, but it ought to be a statement: "I will fight him."
/r/seduction18/05/10 01:57 PM
1

This girl I used to date had this cutest little dog just like that! If you end with this sentence, you lose the date.
/r/seduction18/05/10 01:31 PM
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Nice summary. It's good to step back and find symmetry in your philosophies. Overly religious While I agree that there is some correlation here, I think "religious" and "sex issues" are disjoint. I once dated a girl who was agnostic, but could compete with the best of the puritan catholic girls. Do you think women can grow out of their patterns and problems Sounds like a limiting belief if you think you can't. Not everyone has the drive (or was it stubbornness?) to seek change in themselves. But…
/r/seduction18/05/10 01:27 PM
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Something similar happened to me. And to a friend of mine. I'd say it's worse in a way. You know she's attracted to you to the point where she'll sleep with you, but she -- for whatever inherently unknowable reason -- won't any more. Don't take the downgrade in friendship lightly. It's a slap in your face, and if you wanted more, then you should lay it down. You won't invest time with girls who treat you like that.
/r/seduction12/05/10 05:23 AM
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