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I had a guy friend who would be such a creep/douche towards other girls. One instance: he called his coworker a bitch during a conversation and he got in major trouble and blamed it on his autism. Many other instances: he would inappropriately touch girls (putting his hand on their thigh, touch their breasts, touch them under their clothes) and when they call him out on being a perv, he’s all “oh sorry. I didn’t mean it. I’m just autistic. I won’t do it again next time” and proceeds to do it aga…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:07 PM
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My boyfriend and I met at the end of April, he met my parents and siblings 2 weeks later, I met his family 2/3 weeks after that, went on a camping trip with his siblings and their friends 2 weeks after that where he also asked me to be his gf. His intention was clear from the get-go so i didn’t have any thoughts about him not liking me or whether or not he was serious about me. We’ve been going strong for 6 months now because of that. Sounds like your guy took a bit too long asking you to be his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:52 AM
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Men, in general, don’t really care too much about their health compared to women. My uncle had always have health issues that he never went to the doctors for. And then suddenly got admitted into the hospital 3 weeks ago where they discovered that he had leukemia and eventually stomach cancer or something similar. Everything was too late and they sent him home to die basically. 5 hours later to be exact 😕 super sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 10:08 AM
30

Right?? The only things I got from a lovebomber are STD and short of $300 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 01:31 AM
6

My boyfriend would drive down to see me once a week when we first started dating, only because he lives 55 miles away and it’s a pain to sit through 1.5+ long traffic. He did that for a good 7-8 weeks until he asked me to be his gf. Now he just sleeps over on the weekends. But honestly it’s up to you if you think it’s fulfilling to see him once a week. Going 4 months, meeting once a week, and no clue if he’s gonna make things official is a huge no in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:08 AM
40

I stopped talking to a bunch of friends from high school except for one. That says a lot about the people I hung out with. The best friend of 10 years always had to bring up something to argue and be petty about. Her boyfriend talked shit about me and she didn’t bother to defend me. Our mutual friend assaulted me when I was drunk so fuck him. Can’t trust anybody these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:40 AM
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I scanned too fast and was like “huh? 1 year age difference. What could be wrong?” Only to reread the title again and was like “OHHHH yea she’s fucked”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:36 AM
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Me: LOL okay byeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:29 AM
3

Haha not that hard to work with once you’re familiar with it ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:44 AM
3

There’s videos on how to use dip powder properly online!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:28 PM
103

My ex pulled that stunt when I was breaking up with him. I was scared shitless so I took him back for a day before ending it the next day because my mind went to a dark dark place after that. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:31 AM
62

Looks like squad 38!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:29 AM
178

*YOUR poor decisions🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:14 AM
3

But he did pick her 👀 eventually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:52 AM
23

I had a friend who would invite himself to hangouts LOL like you’re not invited. Why are you inviting yourself? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:22 AM
11

I was involved with this dude that I was talking to. He seemed like he wanted to be with me. Asked to be exclusive and everything. Then turn around a few days later and said he’s ending it. I desperately tried to change his mind and then when he’s pretty solid on not getting back together, I stopped replying. I honestly felt so pathetic... and then he messaged a couple days later apologizing for being a dick and getting me involved with an emotionally unavailable mess that was him. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:34 PM
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I needed to hear this. LOL This dude I was talking to asked me to be exclusive with him and then turned around a couple days later and said he can’t do it. I’m just too great I guess 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:02 AM
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This guy I was talking to dumped me because I asked him for more attention while he’s playing games. Something about “I can’t give you attention all the time. I have things I want to do outside of us” and then proceeded to give more excuses about how we’re not a good fit even though we get along really well when we go out 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:17 AM
2

I had a guy airdrop me his dick at school/college one time and I had no clue who it was. Disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:56 PM
5

How is she asking for help but not take any advice? Confuzzled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:52 AM
15

She’s a friggen preschool teacher!!! Bruh I would love it if I saw my teacher all colorful like that. I’d think it’s cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 05:46 AM
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Haha that’s so funny.... I liked a guy and that guy liked me back, I told him I want him to formally ask me to be his gf. His response: “I don’t like labels. My best friend and his gf never talked about that and they just got together” me sitting there like ‘wtf so what? That’s them and this is me. I want that label” I never talked to him again after that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:39 PM
12

“My ability to block men who talk nonsense to me”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:49 PM
7

Wait are people on the spectrum allowed to be doctors.....? I’m honestly asking because idk if that’s actually allowed...? I’m so confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:24 AM
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I remember when I first got into OLD. A guy I matched with suddenly started talking about his depression. I got nosy and started asking questions about it and then he told me the source of it. 😅😅 I was young and dumb. Whoops
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:42 PM
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Bruh I would have stopped engaging LOL you’re just wasting your time on a nobody
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:09 AM
41

Yoooo that look like something out of a horror movie. 😬 yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:11 PM
15

That’s a very depressing looking fridge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:08 AM
24

I graduated college with a bachelors after 6 painful years in May. Super unemployed. Lazed around. October came around and then all of a sudden I’m interning for my cousin at her marketing company. Oh and I’m going to beauty school to get my nail technician license. 😅😅 busy busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:04 AM
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He’s sooooo not marriage material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:53 PM
6

She didn’t ask for your damn opinion 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:24 AM
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LOL where do I even start with this one. I’m from American, he’s from England obviously but he lives here now. I dated him briefly for nearly 2 months (I talked about him on FDS before). He did pay for food and initiated physical touch but when it comes down to it, he was only casually dating people to figure out what he liked or didn’t liked in a partner. In conclusion, it’s just an illusion and most men are the same... 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:39 PM
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Haha.... I had a guy I knew from middle school to high school that randomly hit me up out of nowhere a few days before his bday asking how I was doing and if I wanted to hang out. I didn’t think much of it and said sure until I asked him if anyone else is going and he said no and that it will be just the two of us. I backtracked so fast and told him I’m busy. The only reason I backtracked was because I came to the realization that outside of talking in classes that we had together and talking wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:14 AM
9

Thank you!!! You’re so kind ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:36 AM
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Soooo 👀 who knows what anime this is? Haha the art is so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:23 AM
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Aww man I had to let go of 3 friends who were messed up to me. The first one was my best friend since middle school. She got super petty/jealous one day over me hanging out with my sister and how I never seem to want to hang out with her one on one, which made no sense because she always hang out with her bf and don’t really asked me to hang out with her. I just stopped replying because I had enough of her throwing tantrums over nothing. The second was an ex turned friend. He got mad at me one d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:07 PM
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It was all good until she said “ret***s” and I went 😐 put a bad taste in my mouth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:48 AM
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I cannot for the life of me understand guys who treat us well, initiate physical touch, pay for meals and stuff for weeks/months straight and still have the audacity to say “I’m not sure what I want. It’s too early to tell. I’m still figuring out what I like and don’t like”. Like why? You’re just wasting your money and time on a girl who you’re unsure of when some other guy can just tell right away that that girl is the one for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:16 AM
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It’s really funny because I went out with a guy for two months. He always paid for my portion of food when we go out, which is like once a week. He always initiated physical contact; kisses, hand holding, hugs. After nearly 2 months (7 weeks aka 7dates), he’s still dating other people when he’s with me because we’re not official. I just ended things with him last night because it’s apparent that we’re not on the same page.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:15 AM
4

That second one. Holy shit-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:33 AM
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There’s numbers at the bottom left corner Indicating the order 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 11:29 AM
12

Nono the daughters are probably 6 years old. The mother wanted to let him know about them when they turn 10 but he has known of their existence for 6 years. Hope that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:59 AM
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Hahah... funny you said that. The Kevin I met manipulated the hell out of me to scam me and then gave me an STD sooo 🙄🙄 ya know fuck that guy. Hope he dies from some serious STDs. I feel bad for all the other girls he fucked with as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:29 PM
8

What is up with his nose though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:47 PM
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Besides the whole moving thing, did anyone catch the part where he did the exact thing to his ex? The part where he cheated on his ex with her And then he cheated on her with a new girl? Like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:41 PM
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Bruh you’re like so close to death. Should have had kids earlier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:16 AM
12

I put my age range between 24-27. I’m 24. I notice dudes start to get ugly around 27ish and progressively gets worse around 28 and above LOL it’s like they stop giving a crap about their personal hygiene and diet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:22 AM
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I talked to a guy that said that exact thing and for some dumb reason I believed it. LOLOL I played myself 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:40 AM
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I love BTS for teaching fans to love themselves 🥺🥺❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:39 PM
9

This is why I’m team no facial hair. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:54 AM
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LOL I always see this happening. The man wants an open relationship, the woman does not. She eventually goes with it and becomes happier, and the man slowly regrets that decision. 🙄🙄 bruh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:02 AM
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You know they creepy when they have their hood up and just standing around 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:16 AM
6

Ewww this is next level mama’s boy 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:37 AM
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Yup and they got married and had kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:31 AM
4

LOL I see this a lot on SAD (fellow Asians will know) and I cringe so hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:31 AM
19

Concerns me that you’d call a guy like him a best friend considering the age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:12 PM
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Please tell me you made a friend out of her!!! If a girl saved my ass like her, she’s my new bestie 🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:08 PM
6

“if they disrespect you a little, they will inevitably disrespect you a lot. Abusers always start small.” This is so true... I had a guy friend who I’ve known since middle school (we’re 24) now. And all throughout high school and first half of college, he was pretty respectful and then the second half of college is when things got really weird. I guess he got sexually deprived so he started getting handsy and breaking boundaries towards his girl friends. He’d start asking for hugs ( I don’t mind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 09:51 PM
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True. I met this guy’s best friends and then he broke it off the end of the week LOLOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:10 AM
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I never figured that out until later when we weren’t talking and I found the other girls he was playing with and we chatted about all the bs he put us through. LOL 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:08 AM
11

I think he meant friends instead of forward. But my god my brain hurts trying to decipher that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:49 AM
20

I went on a date with a guy and somehow the topic of exes came up. He said “you know. All of my exes are psychos and I feel like I only attract psycho girls 👀. Are you...?” Good to say I blocked him when I got home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:54 AM
6

I talked to a military guy and I thought we were doing good (talked a lot. Met his friends. Paying on dates. Etc), but then he suddenly dumped me based on the fact that our hobbies aren’t similar. Which I thought was stupid af because I could have easily gotten into his hobbies and him with mine. BUT I’m pretty sure it’s because he thinks I’m a fat fuck and he doesn’t like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:36 AM
11

YOU DIDNT EVEN ASK!!! Next 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:42 AM
15

And this is exactly why I only date Asians (as an Asian myself). Ugh the audacity of some people 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 04:39 AM
9

I was eating out with my brother the other day at this restaurant near a dock. This older white guy was just standing there beside his boat and staring at me. Like we made eye contact when I was just looking around. Creepy as shit. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:59 AM
6

He really thought he can change your mind with some dirty talks LOL I’m friggen deadddd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:17 PM
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LOL sounds like it’s a now or never situation where he finally grew some balls to let you know he’s interested by asking you to prom. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ how awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:15 PM
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“I feel really uncomfortable around him now, what should I do” uhh first of all, that age gap. Second of all, he coerced you into sex. Third of all, he didn’t stop to make sure you were okay/didn’t take you seriously enough to stop. Fourth of all, dump his ass. He’s a POS. Someone help this girl 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:32 AM
41

They’ve been together for 2 dang months and she’s wants a baby with him. HOLY WHAT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 11:28 AM
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Yo that sounds like a fight I had with my ex best friend LOL. She never understood why I hung out with my sister a lot and argues that I never want to hang out with her when she basically does the same but with her bf. Umm yea whatever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:59 AM
8

Why yes 😉 yes it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 11:47 AM
10

“Do I look like fedex” holy shit I’m deadddd 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:16 AM
36

I wonder if he’d still laugh if you sprayed it in his face 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 10:20 PM
34

“That’s law” girl. IN WHAT WORLD?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:32 PM
3

Middle school was decent. Just had crushes on cute boys and minded my own business. I wished someone taught me fds back in high school when I was getting fucked over by an emotionally abusive, manipulative bitch of an ex and toxic friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:19 AM
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Lol sounds like this guy I was talking who said he’s looking for friends, more than friends, but not a relationship. 🤯 just say fwb and go 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:14 AM
10

Sounds like my dad 🙄 he would constantly berates her on her cooking and how the house is a pigsty because “you don’t clean the house”. And I’m sitting there, thinking in my head “then don’t eat the damn food and clean the house yourself if you think it’s so damn dirty!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:38 PM
2

I was talking this guy and then when I thought things were going well, he turned it off. I was on high alert immediately because.... that’s strange. Why did he turn it off all of a sudden...? Later that day he dumped me 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:41 PM
22

I’m so offended as a Vietnamese. LOL wtf is this bitch on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:29 PM
11

I had a guy friend who’s on the high end of the autism spectrum. And I always excuse his behavior because i didn’t know much about his disorder. There were a lot of questionable things that he did that he always say “it’s an autistic thing”. I finally cut him out of my life when he decided to try to take advantage of me when I was drunk. 😬 it’s not an autistic thing anymore at this point...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:21 AM
3

I had a guy try to convince me that it’ll feel good and that I won’t be able to get pregnant. I said no. He still put it in and then later claimed “it just slipped in” 🙄🙄🙄 I still need to report his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:57 AM
10

My house is my house. It doesn’t magically become yo house when you step foot in it. Fck off 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:46 AM
13

“What do you think?” What do I think? I think you should fuck off and never think about fetishizing Asian chicks again. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:25 AM
6

I saw my ex on bumble and tinder a couple times. I always swipe left on him. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:30 AM
13

Ooh girl!!! Love your nails 👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:47 AM
16

I’ve never been treated this way 🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:29 AM
3

I recently had to cut off a guy friend. I knew this dude since middle school (currently 24) and things were pretty platonic all throughout high school and first half of college. Then something clicks on him to be more daring and he started putting his arm around my shoulder and my thigh, basically doing boyfriend things when we weren’t even together. It wasn’t just me he was doing this to, there were other girl friends too. We called him out each time and he would apologize but he would end up d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:57 AM
2

Nahh it started with a K 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:42 PM
7

Ooh dang it I crave it now 😂😂 thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:43 AM
11

I had a guy say this to me and then next thing I know it he scammed me of my money and gave me an std. he also did the same to other girls too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:41 AM
9

“My toxic ex finally dumped me”? Girl you should have dumped him before he dumped you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:35 PM
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The lack of punctuation is unsettling. 👀 also that’s a run on sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:33 AM
5

Oh would you look at that? Sounded like a guy I went out with. I sure as hell didn’t lavish him in gifts but I sure as hell gave him money, which he promised to pay back but never did. Manipulated his way into my pants, gave me an STI, and then disappeared. Kept his dating apps after talking about being “official”. Oh did I mentioned he scammed and (sexually and physically) assaulted a bunch of other girls too, which I later found out about. 🙄 the audacity of that SOB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:07 AM
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I REMEMBER THIS. Omg I wonder what happened to her though.... and the fact that he taught his brother how to nab his own gf using the same technique is ever more creepy (fact check me. I can’t remember the details correctly)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:54 PM
6

LOL exactly! That’s why I don’t give out my social media. Like I feel insulted that people would think I’m cat fishing them. Is that weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:11 PM
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A guy did that to me once. Randomly in the conversation, he’s all “hey can I get your Snapchat?”‘and I’m like “for what..?” And he’s all “well to see if you’re real. Like you’re so pretty, I’m scared of being catfish” I initially contemplated on giving him my snap but then decided to never reply because why the hell do I need to prove myself to some guy on an app. Ya feel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:23 PM
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Who the actual fuck doesn’t lock their doors when they’re home? 😱😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:54 AM
7

“Mhm. Glad you knew” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:00 AM
29

Somewhat related but during the Vietnam war, my mom’s family had the chance of escaping Vietnam to come to America. Her youngest sister slipped away while they were escaping and ran back home to be with her bf (now husband). Needless to say, she’s still living in Vietnam while the entire family is over here. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:17 PM
1

Don’t have to be rude about it....? But yes I did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:16 AM
9

They both have 2 monitors though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:53 PM
2

Is it possible that he might not have known he has it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:37 PM
18

Girl all these red flags were waving in my face the first day I met him and I chose to ignore it because I was being stupidly naive. 🙄 it’s a learning curve for sure. But yea. Never trusting any guy ever again. This totally fucked me over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:18 AM
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Been having sex with this new guy. Thought he was clean. Weeks later, got chlamydia. Bitchass didn’t have the nerves to tell me. Dumping his ass soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:14 AM
11

That’s just a bunch of red flags for an abusive relationship. Jeezes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:23 AM
17

You would think that because she’s in law enforcement that she would be smart but nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:53 AM
29

I relate to this. Every time I’m walking by a specific area, I feel eyes staring at me. Like I get it. Idk what I’m doing at the gym but I’m trying. And yes I’m cute but you don’t have to gawk at me like I’m meat. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:08 AM
33

POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:32 AM
11

Koreans are notorious for their good skincare so most guys be having them good ass skin 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:13 AM
33

And this is exactly why my mom made every male in the house sit and pee 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 08:45 PM
74

I think he already does👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:20 AM
18

I never give out My snap for this very reason 😂 every time a guy asked, I’m just like “oh sorry I don’t use IG/snap” they get spooked? Like I’m not trying to catfish you. Just not interested in swapping nudes. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:43 PM
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My ex did this twice and it mentally screwed me over afterwards when he’s more calm and he made it my fault that he’s fucked up. 🙄 glad he’s not my responsibility anymore. His gf can deal with that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:23 AM
55

I have bladder problem that requires me to insert catheters to pee. For life. Why would anyone want to try this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 04:30 AM
44

Eww people need to stop fetishizing us Asians. It’s creepy as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:32 PM
8

I read the part about his graphic tees and instantly recoiled. Because holy fuck my ex be wearing the same thing. He was 19 at the time dressing like he’s still in elementary/middle school. Even my best friend and her bf cringe because of what he wear. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:39 PM
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Imagine meeting a guy for the first time and the first thing he does when he gets close is poke your belly and said “you’re chubby around here” well fucken thanks. Good to say I never saw him again after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:39 AM
26

I’ve had a few guys ask me this. Makes me go “wtf 🤔🤔 why do you need to know?” Well I know but ya know....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:25 AM
16

I had a guy ask me “you into alpha men or beta men?” And I asked him “LOL you asking for yourself?” He unmatched me. Thank gawd trash took himself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:58 AM
2

“Live isn’t the same” bitch say what....? Probably typing too fast but still. The desperation is 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:48 AM
8

Omg this made my skin crawl. I’m so creeped out!! Her friggen husband is a literal psychopathic liar and manipulator. Hopefully she runs and never look back. Never go on social media and sure as hell never get in contact with him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:52 PM
8

You know the kind of face that makes you wanna punch it in? Yea that’s his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:31 PM
1

Jeezes fucken hell. I would have aborted the hell out of that conversation so fast. What an entitled asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 08:26 PM
9

Omfg yes!!! Especially there, their, and they’re. And what’s up with them saying u instead of you? Just pure laziness I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:52 PM
27

Ooh that grammar/spelling. How does a grown man not know the difference between your and you’re? 🤔 incredibly annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:17 PM
13

I started unmatchjng guys who lead very stale/boring one word conversations. Like why are you hitting me up just to be boring like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:48 PM
2

My gawd is he balding?! 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:41 AM
26

I’m so glad I’m taking a break from dating apps right now. All these dudes 😬 they thirsty for all the wrong reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:39 AM
8

I’ve seen a couple guys trying to sound slick with the first pickup line on their bio. Jeezes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:27 PM
46

The women always looks so uncomfortable whenever he would put his hand on their waist. Feel bad for the kids too although they’re a bit more obvious with the creepiness compared to the women. Kids can’t lie for very good reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:20 PM
2

This one guy I matched with the other day asked if I’m spontaneous and if I wanted to go out and get boba. At first I was totally okay with it but then I slept on it and decided “nah... we’re suppose to be in quarantine. Why the heck would I be out with some guy?” Like you would think because he’s 30, he should know better but wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 11:01 AM
12

I had a guy ask me that in person. I’m sorry but wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:14 AM
17

Please tell me you at least report it to campus police or the police? 😬😬 that’s crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:53 PM
10

Well aren’t I glad I blocked all my exes and that none of the guys I’ve talked to have attempted making contacts yet. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:02 AM
2

Why the heck did you just describe my dad? Like literally my mom came home with a bunch of food to stock up and he legit rolled his eyes at her and was like “why are you hoarding all these food? Nobody is going to die. Alright? You’re being scared for no reason.” BRUH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 10:09 PM
28

Did you smack him in the face for being inconsiderate or just left the conversation? Or did you dump his entire ass?? LOL I would have tried the first option and if he doesn’t listen, the third option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:17 PM
8

Haha.... 2 of the guys I was talking to checked off all the boxes. Good riddance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 07:39 AM
19

I thought it was kinda cute until I got to the last bit and started screaming “Jeezes fucken hell! What’s wrong with guys these day”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:36 AM
18

I’m more sick of seeing people use it as an excuse to bully and abuse Asians. 🙄 but yes, jokes and memes are just as fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:40 AM
38

I find it disgusting that anyone would joke about coronavirus right now. Is it just me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:03 AM
66

“Lmao you’re tripping” bitch shut the fuck up. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 03:43 AM
2

Sadly I’m not blond so 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:34 PM
17

Well thank goodness I’m not 5 feet and above. Phew -wipes forehead- dodged a bullet there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:30 AM
34

Sounds like my dad. We went out to eat at a restaurant that explicitly posted a sign cash only. He saw it. We told him about it too and he said “okay. I’ll pay for you”. We finished eating, he went to pay, pulled out his card, they denied him and said it’s cash only, he came back to the table and asked for money because he’s short, he paid, we walked out to the car and all we heard is “omg. What kind of restaurant doesn’t accept card? Are you kidding me? This is utter bullshit. I can’t believe i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 09:57 AM
23

Sis should also check her other text messages. Oi...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:29 AM
36

Damn it’s kdrama in reverse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:16 PM
29

I hate any form of facial hair. Absolutely hate it. Clean shaven all the way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:37 AM
50

What did the fridge ever do to you to deserve this? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:04 AM
13

Right?! I’ve recently had a guy insinuating sex and I just unmatched his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:35 AM
15

I thought it was okay until he mentioned sex and I’m like “nope. I’m out. Done reading”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:41 AM
8

I had a friend who likes to pick fights with me ever so often and would get petty because of it. It’s so tiring. I did stopped talking to her for like a year but became friends with her again after a mutual convinced me to. That bitch didn’t change at all during that time frame. As for me, I matured and stopped taking crap from anybody. The final straw was when she started complaining that I don’t invite her out and hang one on one, which she doesn’t either so wtf? The fight went on for days and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 02:07 AM
6

He sure talk lot of shit for someone who’s a liar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 10:25 AM
29

Look at the poor excuse of trying to defend himself. 😂😂😂 boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:12 AM
45

Just be honest. When I get asked this, I usually just say “I’m hoping to get into a relationship. I’m not on apps to hook up or be fwb with anyone” and “I swiped because I think you’re cute/good looking” I feel like when people ask “so why are you on apps” they wanna know where you stand. Like are you on there to mess around or actually date? Because if your answer doesn’t match up with where they stand, they just run away and this is good for you cause then you know where you both stand and whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 12:13 PM
13

I had an ex pull this bs on me back in high school when I tried to dump him the first time. It messed with my mind and my feelings. Eventually I dumped him for reals and blocked him on everything. Fast forward to college. My best friend started dating his friend again (they dated before in high school) and said I should make amends with my ex so we can all hang out again and I did. Things were going great until his gf dumped him and he pulled the suicide card on me. “I can’t live in a world wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:32 PM
17

Yep. I’ve had guys who are old enough to be my dad swiping on me and I get grossed out every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:15 AM
9

That spelling error kinda irks me 😂😂 how do people still get they’re, there, and their wrong? Like hello?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 10:52 PM
8

Imagine my 11th grade self dealing with a depressive boyfriend who is needy and doesn’t understand boundaries. I tried to break up with him the first time and I threatened me with “if you break up with me, I’m gonna cut myself. Take it back! Damn it, don’t leave me! I’m bleeding. Say you don’t mean it and I’ll stop.” It mentally fucked me over. I was under a lot of pressure and stress trying to save his life. I felt like I had a duty as a gf to make him happy. Eventually I just cracked and told …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:31 AM
0

I mean what do people do with online dating besides trying to “sell” themselves as a “good” companion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 12:09 AM
24

I have a male obgyn who’s my mom’s obgyn. So basically he delivered me and now he’s looking up my vag too 😀😀 totally not weirded out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:12 PM
3

I’ve seen some guys who post pictures with their kids. Like “hey look. I was a teen dad. This is my kid. Hope you don’t mind” kinda situation. But then again I’m in my 20s so I don’t see anything weird about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/19 09:10 AM
2

Definitely. There were a bunch of other stuff too, Especially when I met up with the guy for the first time. 🙄🙄 he q but he ain’t worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/19 07:38 AM
6

I had a guy throw a little bitch fit just because I asked him when he’s usually free to talk. Like it’s just a question ya know? But he went off and said something like “when I’m free, I’ll text you. Don’t ask about my schedule” and then proceeded to say “you know what. I’m at work and you’re making me mad. Have a nice day” LOL what? Excuse me. You’re the one that hit me up first. Good to say I dropped him faster than you can snap a finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 06:39 AM
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