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Quite a bit of the negative traits that you're point out about her and the large contrast between your values and hers. There's a big enough value difference that you shouldn't compromise what you want, which looks like it will be the case since you haven't already stamped out the idea for her that if you go any further you expect your wife to work/ect whatever your idea of marriage is.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:38 AM
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^ All that is needed.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:06 PM
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Thats not what you said. That fact is true. This is not: "What may happen is that you will be so focused on just fucking a bunch of women because you think it will be amazing. But when you do then you will realize its not as cracked up as they make it out to be and you will end up feeling empty and wishing for a genuine connection[...]blame yourself if you're later unable to form an ltr" Fucking a bunch of women can be amazing. Moralising puritan virtues under the guise of trp advice is not.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 12:01 PM
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The comment you're replying to is hardcore scarcity. You do you. You don't look back on life before you have even started really maturing and wish you had stayed with one girl, that is oneitis.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 09:11 AM
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I agree with you. Being direct saves time and bs and is a good filter for time wasters as well. She may be down for giving bjs and hanging while he does what he wants. Eventually she may just get over selfimposed rules and jump him anyway. My point was not to ignore his current desire to sleep around
/r/askTRP18/06/21 05:11 AM
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As cliche as it sounds I seriously feel like I am reading about myself here. This was exactly me one a half years ago. I decided to wait and became her first boyfriend, and first for everything else. My advice without going into detail is don't. You can always get out, but as you say, if she is actually a nice girl, IMO its not great to put her through the process of making herself vulnerable, developing feels, committed ltr, to cut it eventually off because you need some strange. TRP and sexual…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 04:00 AM
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Context is the thing here. If she's young and fairly inexperienced it less likely shes going to be a veloci-snatcha-raptor for every guys dick, so it would be more reasonable as a case of being dumb and naive. On the other hand if she had a history of cheating and or being a slurry, then huge red flag obviously.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 09:06 PM
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That's quite sneaky shit. Get it done is public so you are under the scrutiny of her friends. Manipulative af.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 08:58 PM
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Yeah, balls in a very-nicely-upholstered -with-cute-cushions-and-perfume bear trap. Too convenient.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:49 PM
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Nah, not much the same. 5 years ago was prime.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 09:38 PM
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Religion and upbringing/guilt are big factors. Together they may attribute to a cork on a bottle of repressed sexual desire that you just happen to be the one to pop. And if her interest in you is not sufficient, and she has other ambitions on her mind, then it won't matter of her lack of experience. I think the point to make is that virginity MAY have a higher correlation with a successful ltr but it is not so conclusive.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 09:38 PM
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Kudos to you for your open mindedness. All reasonable. It would be quid pro quo if it were two sided. For #3 an option is you can clarify that you will support him in that situation as a caring partner, but you may want to separate that, if so, you are not going to put yourself in the position of a surrogate mother. Hopefully this case doesn't happen, because whilst a deterrent, if he does get someone pregnant, your relationship ecosystem is not going to be the same. Bear that in mind.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:02 PM
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I don't think they are naive to it. The premise of why having an only fans is so lucrative is because it is easy to exploit those exact guys; the obsessive creeps who would open their life savings for a foot pic, as well as any other type of guy buying a subscription.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 02:20 AM
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"The point of the question is not about situations of cheating/trust/bad behaviour." It's not a case where a boundary is crossed in any form. Ill restate the question: Would you be content to stay in a relationship if it's good, or would there be something, any thing - physical/spiritual/emotional/whatever that would make you want to be single?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:35 PM
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No. I'm not disagreeing that she is likely disloyal, and he should be wise and doubt that she is completely honest with him. I'm saying don't leap to 'anger phase' advice and create some cinematic that she is a harpie succubus. She may be. But saying that adhoc doesn't help the guy because its not constructive or something since he's even asking this question is actually going to be able to contemplate. Its sperg
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:26 PM
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It definitely did. That's not a maybe. Look up childhood traumatic attachment and attachment style. You'll find your ex described somewhere there
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:19 AM
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I just read your post history. A girl that sleeps with someone else that was previously a virgin, in order to cope with a significant emotional event, is not healthy. Moreover, she was addicted to your uncertainty. Among other things they are all evidence of issues that stick around from childhood traumatic attachment. Moreover to endure emotional distance for that long. She was broken already, you didn't do it
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:38 AM
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Depends on how broken they are. If they're deadbeat trash with traumatic attachment then no shit, they gave up their dealer. If not, and they're a healthy well adjusted girl, they'll maybe get over it eventually and replace it with self respect, but also occasionally think back, long for/ and hope/cope. I think I can see what is happening for you. My unsolicited but compassionate advice, if so, is to not look for answers, because you will never actually get any
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:29 AM
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Depends. In general, I think there will always be a level of comparison. Though real-life isn't so easily reduced to one thing. She will likely get a nice home, family/kids, holidays ect with the provider. That would give a normal person some kind of satisfaction. If that aligns with her true happiness, then maybe. What will cause unhappiness is if she sees she is settling to get all of this and missing out on the emotional/psychological submission/excitement of being with an 'alpha'/real man, a…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:50 PM
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Christ this is just extreme. Not enough in the post to go off and conclude she is a cum guzzling penis trap from Mars. Her question should put up on alert because it's a strange question, but not have a such a knee jerk hamster response.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:29 PM
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There's a reason for beta bux's and not going from uncertainty to uncertainty. I don't think the average girl, that isn't far end spectrum bdp or forever single, has it in them to go from high uncertainty/insecure relationship to high uncertainty/insecure relationship. Where they are always on a rollercoaster. It's their biological drive to settle down at some point whether it's with a good man or a average provider. In comparison men are more likely to repeat and face the emotional challenge of…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:16 PM
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Emotions and insecurity, that's it. The downgrade if so is usually for more security. The breakup may have rattled them and they want someone they can be in control of for their egoic stability. My understanding would be that in theory breakup may be driven by hypergamy. But it is not so mechanical, there is ego and insecurity , feelings and validation that need to be abated as well to function. There are very good old post on what happens in a woman's mind regarding perception of self worth eve…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 05:30 PM
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Yeah, youve got the right idea. Scorched earth man. Nuke the memory.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:46 AM
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Unfortunately, its just the way it is. You know? It's still pretty early and you sound like you've maintained the same frame for the most part. Beware if you have anything suppressed milling in the back of you mind, which it seems to be the case, because when you are least composed it will come out perhaps with a future ltr an just perpetuate the existential suffering you were/are feeling. Hope you find you own way through it.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:03 PM
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Me too. Sad but true
/r/askTRP11/11/20 09:58 PM
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I've read a bit more of your situation and other posts and got crazy deza vu. Always happy to chat. GL dude
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:52 AM
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Man, I'm feeling a lot of what happened with both of my two last ltrs combined into one with everything you're saying. I learned all of this by allowing it to happen first. Exactly, I see the same. The only two people to have a say in what goes on you and her. If youre happy, and she's happy, then stfu. Just keep your head about yourself. My last was came from a totally matriarchal family, grandmother and mother ruled the house. They expected to be pandered to and what they said taken as gospel.…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:19 AM
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TL;DR If it's actually a big issue/clearly the mother is trying to manipulate her, talk to your girlfriend, find out what her position on it is first, then just say what you need to say. From her response, you can gauge appropriately if she's going to be passive to it/or fix her boundaries with her mother. Amused Mastery all the way. Or YOLO, game the mother. -------- It depends how much you want this relationship to succeed I guess. Like the original comment said, you can't force her to do anyt…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 01:11 AM
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Fintechs love da C++ Congrats
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:06 PM
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2c. I anecdotally stress the original reply. Its a game of a attrition when things aren't going well and the women in the family don't like you. The rate increases exponentially by the number of women. Every single doubt against you will be considered if ever you go into a stalemate in your partner choosing the mother vs you. I've been through it twice and didn't check my sense of reality with what was actually happening at home with her when my SO wasnt with me.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 08:42 PM
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Im in the middle of my exams, that's textbooks and readings....
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:53 PM
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She went again the next night we weren't talking. I feel like the silence has worsened the situation When do I start giving her attention again?
/r/askTRP16/06/18 11:50 PM
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It will dislodge debris between the teeth, however, and this is the essence of flossing, it will not remove food that is stuck in the upper level underneath the gums near the base of the tooth. Bacteria from food here spreads and leads to issues like gum irritation, gum disease, teeth falling out. Do a quick google and you'll see or ask your dentist.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:12 AM
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They are useless. It's like dipping clothes in water to wash them
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:33 PM
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Have had the exact same thing happen. Worst way to start a relationship. You'll always be second guessing. Whatever level of relationship, she'll be coming in with baggage
/r/askTRP31/12/17 08:42 AM
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This here. I was with a girl her very early told me she 'was not sexual'. Turns out she just had never been fucked well. SGM and excercise go a long way. Then she became converted and a full time addict for my cock
/r/askTRP11/08/17 03:32 PM
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It's a comfort test mostly. My best response to varieties of this has been 'For as long as you can keep up' any more questions after that, laugh, spank her ass and thrust harder
/r/askTRP10/08/17 04:06 AM
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How's this 'I'll bear that in mind the next time we speak. Take care '
/r/askTRP29/07/17 05:47 PM
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Scat joke, though probably not effective
/r/askTRP17/07/17 12:38 PM
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Talk to everyone you meet. Seriously. Just start conversation with people, ask directions, find out what classes they're taking. They know as few people as you do and they would be happy to meet someone friendly. The rest follows from there
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:07 AM
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Nice. What do end up texting them?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 01:39 PM
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It's hard to see, but the point is, if she really felt comfortable with him and wanted his approval she wouldn't have anything on her phone that he would dissaprove or potentially dump her for. Trust their actions not words. Hers was to conceal and distract, rather than reveal and endure whatever consequences of him seeing her original messages.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 07:55 AM
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I went through virtually the same thing a week ago. When I told her to show me, the first time she blew up and refused. A couple days later, the next time, she stalled for a few moments then presented her phone, and happily showed me her messages. A few days later I hear from my best friends girlfriend that my ltr had started talking to other guys and it had become noticeable throughout her social circle(our circles did not overlap much). I broke up with her the next day. The entire time she was…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 07:41 AM
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Broke up with my ltr yesterday for the final time. I realized I lost sight of my goals and neglected focussing on myself. I was wasting my life being with her. My achievement was to realize my worth and that I had fallen into a scarcity/heavy oneitis mindset. Moving forward. This weekend I'm going out and reconnecting with my social circle that I neglected while I was with my ltr. I'm going to the gym with buddies outside of my regular training to bond with other men. I have to study and coach u…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 03:58 AM
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Out of curiosity, what would actual efforts to keep him look like?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:56 PM
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True. I missunderstood the subtext. Thats a good one
/r/askTRP12/04/17 12:09 PM
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Bukowski is great. If you haven't already, read 'Women'. It's a pseudo-autobiography of Bukowski.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:13 AM
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Tonight I deadlifted 140kg for 4 reps at 65kgs bodyweight, 5'6". My goal is reach a 1rpm of 180kg in a month. Unfortunately I can only say that this is my sole achievement. I've been drifting. An ltr relationship has become my biggest distraction from studying and achieving my goals. Currently at seven months together, the desire to fuck more girls, a greater variety than I have already, is creeping into my thoughts. I feel the need to restart and refocus. Uncociosuly I know what I need to do, o…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:12 AM
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One you don't cover up, you move on and don't talk about it. You cut people out by not talking to them, essentially, ghost them.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 12:12 PM
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Be relaxed, go for coffee, tease and escalate verbally, gauge her interest - flirty or dtf, kiss and leave or take her back to your apartment. If you kiss and leave, don't be overly invested in the kiss or build up to it. Be causally dominant when you go for it. Establish a sexual frame early and throughout. The next time you escalate with a movie in your apartment ect My 2c
/r/askTRP19/03/17 03:28 PM
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I appreciate that. I'm referring to the 48 laws of power by Robert Green. The OP referenced them in detail when he explained how he went about the process of interacting with his ex wife throughout the ordeal.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 02:17 PM
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Are you saying you can't reestablish with dread?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 11:05 AM
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You can try and sleuth the truth from her friends or people that know her. However that can appear invasive and needy. A girl can be a virgin and want dick, simply waiting for the right one to jump on, in the meantime having make out sessions and lining up hand jobs and rimming guys like its Christmas. Or she may actually be conservative and carefully experimental. Youre approach is to hold frame, escalate whenever you're together, gently swat away shit tests and pursue. To the point that she de…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:14 AM
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A relevant time to remember to not drop the weights
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 06:52 AM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP01/01/17 12:54 PM
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Lingère or a card that says I am going to make you cum seven times
/r/askTRP17/12/16 09:44 PM
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No. Don't bother
/r/askTRP13/12/16 01:04 PM
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Get her to hang out with you. Don't mention the boyfriend. Treat her exactly as if she were single (though still be discreet) do not mention anything about a relationship.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:56 AM
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Have more value than him and they will come to you. Or befriend him and employ 48 laws. This route still requires you to be increasing your value so that at the right moment you can take the established leaders place But that is when power is most likley the goal. Generally friendship groups can have multiple people directing at times and is, somewhat, less well defined.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 03:24 PM
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Great list. On the status side: Work yourself into a position of power/responsibility/leadership. The status benefits are plenty when you are the leader, socially, in a group, community team ect. Become a leader in an activity or area that you are passionate about relating strongly to your mission or favourite hobby. This is not necessarily restricted to teams or clubs. For example an owner of a business is a leader - start a business. He easy cases like lead singer, head bouncer ect are clear
/r/askTRP04/11/16 01:12 PM
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NO. Just hire a prostitute. Seriously
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:12 AM
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I've lived like this for the last six seven years. My self appointed treatment had been to involve myself in social activites that involr dialy/weekly interaction with the same people, like a community club, ethnic club, sports team ect. It dosent matter if its not necessarily all guys, if there are only a few in the group you will organically bond with them if they are also sociable and friendly. As for the reason I struggled to become part of a close group of friends is because I was/am deeply…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 06:37 AM
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If you're asking this question, you already knew the answer
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:36 AM
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This has happened to me almost exactly. They play a devious and nasty game. Hypergamy is the motive, she was testing your frame hard to see if you were authentically alpha/high status/worthwhile etc. The bedroom scene and stopping you was the carrot for you to pursue: get her number, find out more etc. At the same time if she were to break up with her boyfriend at some point and you were pursuing her, you would be the next in line if you were deemed appropriately attractive value/status/power et…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:46 AM
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Ideally by the time you're 60, you've taken care of yourself for the last couple decades so your body and mind dont go to shit
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:32 AM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP23/09/16 03:38 PM
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Boom. Having a fragmented family at an early age is often irreparable. She'll have trust issues, and later a tendance to be co-dependent if you get closer. Neither of these are your responsibility to fix or deal with. You're doing fine. Keep escalating and she'll pressure for a relationship or more if she is interested, respond as requires.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:59 PM
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Sleep more. Try and get a tan at the least. Fix your skin. Get a cleanser, exfoliant and moisturiser. Done. Drink water regularly, and don't spend your day infront of TV, computer or mobile phone screens. Reread that you're in Australia, Paula's choice is an affordable online store for skincare.
/r/askTRP05/09/16 06:19 AM
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Agree with the others itt, up to 15 do team sports. Soccer, football, swimming, ect or take him boxing once a week. Or, enrol him in some martial art: Karate, akido, Wing Chung, judo are great. I've trained in karate since I was 8 at a local dojo. There I learned discipline, responsibility (you become a senpai after 1st Dan back belt and teach low level classes) and assertiveness alongside how to fight. I believe this was most because the instructor was an old school hard-nosed master (50 years …
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:35 AM
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Agree, again it reinforces the issue that you need to be aware of what value you have and the frame that you hold with women/others But where does that really define the pace? If you're at a stage of wanting and ltr or similar, you would have to consider promiscuity within reasonable means relative to green flags for the average girl. Caveat, what are the allowable red flags if you chose to do this?
/r/askTRP20/08/16 07:26 AM
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Sperm wars, written by a credited academic with extensive work in the field of evolutionary biology. It gave a clear, carefully articulated and accessible explanation for all the basic theories: hypergamy, alpha qualities, obersavtions on fucks/bucks mentioned here, through succinct a hypothesis and conclusion structure of the writing. Just without RP terms Honestly until I had read the book, I didn't truly understand and in turn believe the concepts I mentioned before. If you're analytically mi…
/r/RedPillBooks15/08/16 04:00 AM
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Some chick is ruminating because she passed up getting with an gold medal winner. Schooling , the one that beat Phelps. He had messagef her on tinder a few months before the games and she ignored him. The story only surfaced because she saw the chance to get media attention and instant validation following the sudden attention on him e: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10154875740916840&substory_index=0&id=21785951839
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:26 AM
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Check glo's post history from about two years ago. There should be a post titled 'the real'
/r/askTRP13/08/16 01:05 AM
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You're over thinking it. It will be forgotten quickly if you don't bring it up again or shut it down quickly with AM if anyone else does
/r/askTRP30/07/16 08:49 PM
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Bring some bros with you to have fun, or just one close one to bail with if it's boring. Either way it's not a date, more like social proof proving to see how you interact with her friends. I'd go if I had something else to bail to if it was a waste of time
/r/askTRP30/07/16 08:44 PM
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Read sperm wars follwed by red queen. Understanding the basics of evolutionary biology completely how I view relationships between men and women. (And do this before you get into any pick up or seduction books. If it could be compared to a pure science; evolutionary biology is theoretical and seduction/pick up - models, mode one ect, is experimental)
/r/askTRP26/07/16 03:28 PM
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Just fuck. My first time was with a girl I had met three days prior.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:08 PM
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I have a feeling that you've misread this, op is a nurse getting hit on by all the women in his ward
/r/askTRP10/04/16 02:24 PM
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They're all brutal
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:19 PM
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Wow that sounds intense. What kind of job do you have?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 02:20 PM
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Hobbies. If you don't have the time to go into high traffic/socially intense work, get into small or large group events; dance class are a personal favourite, sport, language evenings at a pub, volunteering (soup kitchens ect)
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:03 AM
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Sales, customer service roles or food/drink serving types of positions.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 09:24 AM
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There may have been attraction but you killed it with multiple sit down and chat dates and tepid physical escalation. It seems like you took the path of least resistance in determining her interest by innocuously being physical (almost like a friend...) and then declaring your own interest to her in a way of validating your feelings/fantasy that developed between dates.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 09:37 PM
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I understand now, thanks for the perspective
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 01:49 AM
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To clarify, and not to be facetious, you mean approaching within the means of your time and interest with slow progression is the most effective
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:59 PM
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0 Test? I'm not well read in steroid use, would you be able to explain how that is possible?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 01:27 AM
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Wit, sarcasm, sharp comebacks are the bread and butter of amused mastery/AA/shit test busting. Being witty has helped me countless times shutting Amogs and shit tests down. Wit often indicates social intelligence aswell as actual intelligence.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:57 AM
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There's a great chapter on flamboyant homosexuality and how it relates to a lack of honour in The Way of Men by Jack Donovan. It's pretty abstract though may shed some light on your problem. Donovan is also a gay man however there is no question of his masculinity or any insecurity.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 11:53 AM
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You sound like a good father, all the best.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:56 AM
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I'm in. Melbourne Australia if anyone is looking to buddy up.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:42 PM
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Ahh I had no idea. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/askTRP02/01/16 07:31 AM
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You feel uncomfortable because somewhere deep it jars violently with your current beliefs. Take it as a suggestion, not something dogmatic that you have to praise. Reflect on it and look for evidence of what the book talks about in your life. You feel uncomfortable because you are inherently afraid of letting go your current world view that you have held your entire life. It will not change quickly or easily but you must try and connect everything you read with reality. You don't want to be a ph…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 02:54 PM
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No she has a shape, blobular.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:10 AM
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Always bang. If she's not interested as others have said, move on
/r/askTRP12/12/15 02:59 AM
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The wiki in r/fit has some good resources in the programs section that you could check out to get a better idea
/r/askTRP09/12/15 03:19 AM
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It's potentially very unhealthy. I can say in as much it's a competitive urge that'll likley get you into trouble if the boyfriend finds out and happens to be less than forgiving. On the other hand you get the same rush as 'winning' in some pursuit. I'm not decrying it as morally wrong, that's for you to decide. Say you don't land a high-validation girl, will that make you depressed, despondent, feel like a failure? That's a way to test if the behaviour has a negative impact on you. If you base …
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:23 PM
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Green light. She's got a huge gaping hole from her relationship that needs to be filled... and probably something to do with emotions too.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 12:55 PM
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That your interactions with women are boring. You don't exite her/enrage her/do anything that would cause her to purposefully react to you
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:30 PM
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This is fairly basic side bar stuff. In answer to your title: I assume that you imagine you've found the 'perfect woman' only because you've only just started having 'real sucess'. Correct me if I'm wrong. Also answer me this: If it's 'perfect' why do you want to leave?
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:20 PM
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I feel the same way, however I know a lot of successful guys that text often and with great effect. Personally, I don't bother texting plates outside of logistics and some light banter to soften the edges. (this would be 'text game'). If it's bullshit and the message is not relevant to the plans I just send' sounds yummy' or 'sounds good'. Then the onus is on them to continue or reinitiate the interaction later and I tend to ignore further mesages. Even if you are just fucking them, inevitably y…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 04:20 PM
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Go for positions that allow you the longest path for each thrust. Ie ankles behind her head as far as possible instead of straight missionary. -On her back with her knees together and to the side as if doing an oblique twist, then push her knees towards her chest with one hand with your other firmly on her ass. -If you have the strength and she happens to be small: legs wrapped around your neck and her hands holding your head. Cradle her body with your arms pulling her closely either standing or…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 06:27 AM
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Nice take on the are you gay test!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 05:41 AM
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I can see that I was to passive at that point. You've made me realise that I put too much effort in being aloof and cursory. Thanks for the helps
/r/askTRP23/10/15 11:17 PM
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I'll say fuck it, I've taken the former oath to often and it gets me nowhere though I see the validity of your point. Time to make some mistakes. Cheers
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:19 PM
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Cheers. Got a response: "That's not enticing enough"
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:01 PM
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Great, practical and relevant. The funny thing is that you've underscored all the elements of a healthy lifestyle; the physical, social and intellectual. The proverbial eat, pray, love sans 'feels good' bullshit. OP, simply if you've maintained all of these or are working towards so, you are a badass. Thanks for the content.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:47 AM
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Day 24. 5 hours. Party. Bed at 1 30, up at 6 30
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:35 AM
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Day 23. 6 hours. Bed at 11, up at 5 for gym.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:34 AM
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Day 22. 6 hours. Bed at 11 30, up at 6 30
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 02:33 AM
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Day 21. 9 hours. Late working. Bed at 2 up at 11.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 01:02 PM
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Day 20. 7 hours. Great night out with the guys. Bed at 4 up at 11.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 01:25 AM
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I've experienced/am experiencing this as well. Going uo I was distant from almost everyone in my life, I studied and played cod online with a few close friends. Into university any relationship that I started would soon end, normally after a few weeks. The reason was the same, I unconsciously sabotaged every one. I did this while reading trp. Perhaps I didn't internalise it well or maybe the fear of abandonment is insurmountable alone. Recently I began therapy and I have found it very helpful to…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 05:41 AM
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Day 19. 7 hours. Bed at 12 30, up at 7 30. Poor quality. Need to in bed by 10 to feel rested.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:49 PM
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Thanks. It's something that I often fall in the trap of doing.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:44 AM
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Cheers. I appreciate the advice. That's something I'll have to look out for.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:44 AM
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Day 18. 6 hours of bad sleep. Study till 1, up at 7. Got the number of a cute girl in the library. Calling her tomorrow. Set up a date with another for sat. Respond to girl to come over I'm Sunday. Evidence that in simply making the effort to change and be better brings me more opportunity than that I had in life before.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 01:06 PM
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I like the idea and I'll definitely remember it to use sometime. Cheers
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:22 AM
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Cheers. I've definitely come to realise that. The reality is just new to me. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:21 AM
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Ah, I'm getting the idea now. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:17 AM
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How about, "sounds like a good dream, save the rest for Sunday "?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:10 AM
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Day 17. 6 hours. Bed at 11 up at 5 to study.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:57 PM
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Day 16. 8 hours. Bed at 10 30, up at 6 30.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:56 PM
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Day 15. 8 hours. Bed at 1, up at 9.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:59 PM
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Day 14. 10 hours. Bed at 11, up at 10.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:59 PM
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Day 13. 3 hours. Part last night. Best night in a long time. I sent with a hardcore natural friend who's behaviour the entire night motivated me to push myself. I ended up pulling a very attractive girl sometime into the night. I was totally self amused by it all, I didn't even hang around her after like I normally would. In my mind I felt total abundance. I went off to have more fun with my friend and together we started all the dancing. At a later pint an old fwb came up to me. I was reluctant…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:46 AM
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Day 12. 8 hours. I'm feeling a lot better. Morning routine was a bit off. Bed at 10 30, up at 6 30.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 12:01 AM
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Day 11.6 hours. Most productive day in last two weeks. Bed at 11, up at 4 45.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:18 PM
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Day 10. 7.5 hours. Poor work motivation in the evening. Bed at 10 40, up at 6 30.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 12:07 AM
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Day 9. 6 hours. Good meditation in the morning. Efficacy and focus petered out during the day. Slowly finding my motivation again. Bed at 10 40, up at 4 45.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:51 AM
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Day 8. 4.5 hours. Friends 21st last night. Made a few new connections, got myself invited to another party. Struggled mostly to have fun. Bed 3, up at 7 30.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:22 PM
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Day 7. 9.5 hours. Sleep was fantastic, my head has not felt this clear in a while. However late gym sessions stuffed up my day and I was distracted mostly. Bed at 12, up ta 9 30.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 09:02 AM
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Day 6. 4.5 hours. Late night out for dinner with dance group and early morning gym. Gym was good. Switched to high bar from low bar squats. Bed at 11 30, up at 4 30
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:26 AM
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Day 5. 7.5 hours. Slept well. Rest day form gym. Woke up groggy. Actually feeling a lot better getting 7 hours or more sleep. I plan on blacking out my room soon to see if I can further improve sleep quality.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:33 AM
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Day 4. 7.5 hours. Bed 11, up at 6 30. Skipped gym this morning as I'm feeling run down with a cold comimg.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 12:19 AM
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Day 3. 6 hours. The day was reasonably productive. Shorter sleep as I woke up early to gym. Despite only six hours I feel like a god in the morning after a gym session. Far better than 7 hours of sleep and no gym. Bed 11, up at 5.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 01:22 AM
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Day 2. 7 hours. Woke up feeling lethargic and poorly slept despite a much longer sleep than normal (5 hours). Bed 11 30. Wake at 6 30
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:29 AM
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You need to get her more turned on. She might be a slow burn depending on her experience. Most likley this is asd attributed to her age and self image. If you escalate over a slower time say an hour or so of making out in an isolated place (house/car/closet ect). Most likley reason girls will stop you escalating is due to a lack of emotional conviction. She'll be keen to get primal with you once she has all her hamsters firing. What does this mean? She needs to be convinced (dosent have to be tr…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:31 AM
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Day 1. 7 hours. Unfocused most of the day and late start which shifted my gym session and final meal late in the night. Bed at 1, got up at 8.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 02:10 AM
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Tag2man will the part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:55 AM
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Eye contact. It's my first weapon of choice for every encounter. Master the smouldering stare and no learn to swim fast because you will be drowning in it.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 12:11 PM
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Don't settle, you'll hate yourself for it. Alternatively, consider if you'll have the will power during a drought, whilst working towards high quality girls, that you won't regret your decision for not plating 5s.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 06:43 AM
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Hell. Yes. Be open minded. Act interested. Be an echo chamber when you're around them. They'll love you more for your interests in equality and loathing for patriarchal oppression. Even better, they'll lose interest in probing you as there's no challenge in doing so with someone that already agrees with you.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 02:55 AM
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No worries. You'll be fine. By all means absorb as much theory as you can and arm yourself with knowledge. Sidebar of seddit might still have some good stuff if I remember. Foundations by rsd covers the basics. Look for what you need. Just avoid following scripts.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 02:11 PM
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Listen. This is important. Don't learn lines. That's not a new revelation. Even if you get good at them and learn pages upon upon pages for numerous situations, you will still get caught out. Not only that but you will develop a false confidence by learning the canned material. I know because I did. Eventually I stopped using them because I had gained a certain confidence in myself. However it wasn't authentic. I was subconsciously undermined by the belief that whenever I failed it was because I…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 08:59 AM
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Ok. I feel I'm almost taking the pill all over again. This part definitely didn't sink in. The gist I get from these comments is that it's a reality that girls will fuck and they will fuck a lot if they can (generally). My attitude is to go about doing the things I want to do, with women I want to do it with. In it for the fun of it to put it simply.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 02:04 AM
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I see what you mean. For casual nature of it all, asking is irrelevant for the fact that it's just repeating history. Thanks, I hadn't considered this perspective at all.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 11:22 AM
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Read up on BDSM even if that is not entirely what you want to get into. It will give you a good primer on how to go about introducing kinker stuff in the bedroom. Nipple clamps can hurt. If she's into it, by all means. Try some out on yourself so you get the idea before you buy.You can add on cuffs with the clamps if thats what she likes and move onto further restraints from there. A good bed-tie set goes for about $70. It's a worthwhile investment and if she has a submissive side she will fucki…
/r/askTRP26/07/15 06:09 AM
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It's still a little self deprecating. My 2c
/r/askTRP24/07/15 12:52 PM
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Rectangular shape, partially framed metal, grey or black.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 01:51 AM
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Great points and perspective
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:19 AM
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I have a feeling she needed a bit of comfort for this round. Even serious talk can be courted with an aloof frame. At some point women need an emotional connection so they can convince themselves they are not a complete slut. You're approach was to shortcut that. Sometimes it works and sometimes it dosent.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:16 AM
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If those arms (read: tinglelizer 3000's) are the size of a taller man's legs she'll feel safer than a catholic school girl in a monastery. I'm 5'7" also and there are situations where girls do tower over me in heels. Yes some will feel very strange and even uncomfortable being with you if they are taller. Fuck I was on my tip toes to kiss the girl I saw last night. Still, she was attracted to me. That's a mind game girls create to marginalise the weaker men from those that are worth fucking.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 08:23 AM
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What are some examples of things that have been said to you?
/r/askTRP22/07/15 07:56 AM
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Much the same. I normally go for a while with a condom then towards the end after an already solid fucking for her, I treat myself and take it off in the fourth quarter. Otherwise there's no chance if me finishing.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:27 PM
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Good point. A few other situations come to mind now where that might have changed the outcome.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 03:16 PM
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Quite the opposite actually. If you ever think your getting signs its because you are. More often than not, and I'm guessing you're not the exclusion to the rule, you're not confident enough to go for it. Example. She held eye contact with me ridiculously long. In every goodbye hugged me and then looked into my eyes. Countless other cute flirtatious instances that inwardly make me want to punch myself in the nuts for never taking the chance. Counter example. Another girl smiled, responded very w…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 02:07 PM
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She's coming to my house on the 29th for some good old Aussie rough sex Be sure to introduce her well to the "thunder down under"
/r/askTRP16/07/15 03:10 PM
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Romantic dosent have to be cheesy movie dates, dinner, picnics. That's materialistic romance. The most romantic thing I have ever done, because I'm a loving sob was spontaneously with a girl I was casual seeing. Romance is the casual fucking you do with any girl with the added intimacy of one you are committed to. Example. I had a girl over and during the initial make out sesh I get up and dim the lights and put on some soft music. I pick her up then start slow dancing with her. The whole time w…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 01:00 PM
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Cheers thanks for the advice. I do 30-45 HIIT once a week. On a non-gym day
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:40 AM
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Hijacking the moment, advise at will. I've been training for four months. 20y. 63kg. 5'6" approx 18% BF. SS with dips, and ab acessories. Bench 60kg, Squat 80kg, Dead 90kg OHP 40kg all for 5 reps. Chins 5kg by 15. I've seen good results but I feel like I'm stalling more often now and that my upper body is falling behind. Leangains diet, 2800 cal workout day, 2400 rest. Goal weight is 70kg. Question: Because of the heavier weights and rest time my workouts are going for an hour and half+ (too lon…
/r/askTRP12/07/15 08:07 AM
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Yeah I've started to realise this as well. Honestly it feels a little lazy. That said this is after a grand slab of pua learning. How did you reconcile the idea that (pua theory) you can game any girl into wanting you? For me it was a complete and very difficult (considering most entry into trp seduction is initially fuelled by a oneitis) change in mindset.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 05:37 AM
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I'll agree with most of the posts here insofar as the fact that you're stuck with it, so deal with it. The caveat is 'pussy slaying' power is still possible, save it'll take hard work. In fact, depending of the person, you've gotten the most tangible and easy parts out of the way and I expect well under control. (looks, finance, mission, blah, ect). The lynch pin to maintaining the high abundance of women you desire (I expect this is what you're lacking) is attitude. I know a 5'4" guy who is sol…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 08:58 AM
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I tend to agree with with the commentary here. You can find almost anything in Victoria. Uni students in particular range from the religiously chaste to catholic school girl with a coke addiction slutty. It's just happens to be wrapped in a fairly accepting and liberal environment with elements of tradiontal values carried on but sadly dying out from second and third generation immigrants.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:18 PM
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Cheers, you're probably right. I feel the first time was more clear cut, my gut says this time around something else is going on. I might just leave it, thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP27/06/15 08:28 AM
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Good post. I'm a year younger, though at the same height, same degree. I'm curious to see your routine, particularly if it differs from SS/SL derivatives.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:07 AM
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Shit that's young by my taking. Out of curiosity, do you come from an ethnic/european or strongly conservative background?
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:39 AM
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My interest is notably piqued Edit: I've noticed come any international competition ie aus open, it's flooded with European girls absolutely everywhere around the city bars
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:23 AM
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It's a shit test. Normally a ridicule type. Deep down they want you to pass and have a good banter, another level deeper and they intend to determine or reinforce who's top dog. Ingoring bypasses this and implies that they have total dominance. Would you give a shit about the tiny little poodle amongst the wolves? Ex. "nice pants, did your mum get those for you" "your hair looks too good, are you gay?" One up them, and it could turn into and endless dick sizing competition. Most effective is as …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 12:13 AM
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See illimitable man's thorough deconstruction of shit/fitness tests. In RP lingo, my interpretation is that he means for the disagreement to comfort, and the amplify, his flavour of amused mastery. The second half is most important as it is an expression of your frame. In layman's terms, you're comforting her with the charming smirk of a loveable and cocky bastard. Personally I'd follow this with an over-the-top bear hug and sloppy kisses, inevitably leading to sexy times.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:01 PM
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10/10 for Musashi. A very interesting and enlightening read alongside the 48 laws.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:31 AM
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Fnordsnord has it right. It less of a shit test and more does this guy have any sense of how to deal with a woman. (there's some nuance there) she threw the ball and you dropped it. There'll be a next time. This is a recurrent thing that you need to get better at handling. For the next time, "let's finish this conversation before we do anything about that" "hmm, my watch must be slow, it's not even X time yet. Oh well, come with me"
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:25 AM
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This is a fantastic reply u/cock_unblocker. I agree with your sentiments of the short-sightedness most apply with the RP. OP, it's a matter now to divulge yourself of self improvement myopia and regard more broadly in what your want from life. You've realised that you're unhappy, it's symptomatic of your current lifestyle. The goals and plans you prepared are likely unactualisable because they align better with "someone" else. Reflect, as I cannot, if they resonate particularly as things you WAN…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 05:18 AM
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Simple. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:09 AM
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Warm her up with a callback message to something funny or get straight to business. "Meet me at X at Y time. Wear something interesting." Or "come over to mine at 7, let's work on my anatomy homework " "I'm drawing moustaches on public figures at 7, meet me at X" Make it direct and be purposeful. Colour it how you will. You seem to have this down. If she doesn't buy your first message or at most a second, she's not interested. Move on
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:41 AM
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I've definitely heard this before also. I remember it as a wizened old man educating a clueless youth. "Fuck or be fucked". Was it from a movie?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:19 PM
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Models. Bang/day bang. Book Of Pook. Best to start with these. Also I found that reading The Game-Neil Strauss was effective in shocking me into the reality that it was OK to be sexual with women. However, avoid imitating any of the techniques used.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:25 PM
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Just about to go to a gym session so I'll add more to this later. Read AntiDump's machine. It answers on detail a nuance to this question that is often overlooked. Her interest level. If it's not high she dosent get to pass go and collect your commitment. Best of luck brother.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 07:56 PM
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I take a slightly a slightly different approach when it comes to a standard meet-flirt-kiss-number-bye. 4 to 6 hours after meeting them or the next day, I send a message "hey nice meeting you, (I may make a callback to something funny in our conversation) - tag2man" A short text conversation may ensue, I keep it very brief however enough to be on her mind (always 2 to 3 texting ratio). This is for a little comfort. If we already discussed meeting up I'll say something similar to "let's see that …
/r/askTRP15/12/14 10:27 PM
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Yes. In the strictest sense, outlining specific times you will do certain things. Particularly writing a thesis, consistency over a long period of time will be bliss come big deadlines. When I get home I'll upload a photo of what I'm using currently.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 09:44 PM
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I like the idea of using a binary/score system. Currently, I'm assuming you'd look at this and go about your day. Perhaps implement a timetable version of this as well so as to have more structure. I find it useful to have a loose routine as it limits the chance of ever having a zero day.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 06:57 PM
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Ha! Read it in Patrice's voice, well played
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 03:59 AM
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Sidebar. You've found an interesting recipe book, but don't have any of the ingredients. Got get some ingredients. Otherwise realise you're trying to replicate a recipe on how to be 'someone'. Avoid putting that pressure on yourself. Those things will come if you join a sporting team, special interest club, take people out to lunch and get to know them. Being self amused is the basic tenet of fun. Others will see it as uninhibited and genuinely carefree. Ergo, fun. You put yourself in the place …
/r/askTRP12/11/14 01:20 PM
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From experience I've found that if they're a virgin (read: 20 years old and attractive, read: fuckable), they normally have strong values, come from traditional family and are a slow burn type of girl ie LTR. She'll want to take things slow, and if you remain with them it can be a very rewarding relationship. Bear in mind, the other case is that by coincidence and not by choice she is a virgin. Depending on the level of attraction, the amount of reluctance to have Sex may be minimal. She may jus…
/r/askTRP05/11/14 07:01 AM
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An article on it appeared on my newsfeed. For the excuse of a laugh. (I'd quote it, yet on my phone). http://www.mamamia.com.au/social/julien-blanc-melbourne/ Apparently the hotel at which seminar week it was going to be held at cancelled the event. To my knowledge I didn't think feminist movements were so aggressive outside if America, (just from reading trp) yet equally commercial business seems to crumble in the face of freshly bunched panties. Most concerning is how decisive the response of …
/r/askTRP04/11/14 07:43 AM
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In the words of a wise man: "At the end of the day you're just looking for two wholes and a heartbeat"
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:02 PM
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"I wonder what's she's like" instead of "I wonder if she likes me" - Models by Mark Manson. It's a good book to establish an effective mindset for confidence and the basics of attraction. I recommend during the early days. Try supplementing RP reading with this.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:23 AM
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You can't really 'enlist' a mentor the same way you hire a maths tutor. Get out, meet people, do manly activities with others. This way you will have a chance of associating and socialising, 'breaking the mold'. If by chance through this you find some guys or man that appeals to you. Spend time with them, get to know them, ask them for advice. The key to this rather than explicitly finding a 'mentor' and deriving a relationship, seek out healthy male relationships. They can arise in almost any w…
/r/askTRP06/10/14 06:50 AM
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Golden
/r/askTRP04/10/14 12:18 PM
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Good points. I agree.
/r/askTRP23/09/14 09:40 PM
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Nice and concise. There may be a mixture of jealousy and resentment that it appears (to her) that she is a slut. She may project these feelings into outbursts towards you. If she continues making a scene in public , call her out, hold frame, and let it spin. Play it right and you may even get a few more rounds out of her. Alternatively, if you want to minimise conflict, appeal to her compassion. Next time she accosts you play to her fantasy (you cooked her dinner and didn't fuck her? Consider th…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 09:58 AM
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All my life I have been told i am smart and talented. And then left on my own because I am smart and talented. Judging by life's net negative outcome so far doing it on my own does not seem to be working. I am failed enough to acknowledge I could not do it on my own. Your last point resonates deeply with me. Life may be the blank canvas on which you paint your masterpiece, yet without proper guidance how do you know to even make the first brush stroke? Colourful metaphors aside, from my own expe…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:00 PM
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This is very doable, I like it. Cheers
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:41 PM
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Thanks redpillington. I appreciate the perspective of acknowledging boundaries and noting my complacency. It looks to be likely a slow burn if I take it as as an LTR. Whilst considering her boundaries, I weigh it with what I can tolerate. Cheers
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:32 AM
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Thanks, I appreciate the advice. I hadn't considered that at all. I'll see how it goes.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 12:57 PM
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I am already quiet forthright with her, but I see what you mean. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:41 AM
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Thanks, this is great stuff. You're quiet right. Yes, she'll know what's coming and turn her head. I think I see what you mean instead I'm moving too strongly/persistently perhaps. It has me wholly confused. She seems very much like an LTR (very good RMV ). I've been playing consistenly with much more promiscuous girls. My game may require a different style to be successful.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:34 AM
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Cheers. Initiate as normal after? How doing deal with it long term if I decide to?
/r/askTRP31/07/14 06:51 AM
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Too true. It's easier to change colours when the paint hasn't had too long too dry than late game remodeling. That said it's up to them to acknowledge and change. Good points man!
/r/ThankTRP15/07/14 10:44 PM
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I agree with this. An enormous understanding that you must internalise IS that you do what you want with a powerful confidence and TAKE (within reasonable definition ). Good stuff man
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 05:18 AM
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