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| 2 | Found myself with better-quality women after prioritizing honesty over getting laid.Excellent approach. Sharpens your life, personality, character. Creates unshakeable foundations for relationships. Attracts powerful peers and shakes off those who are a detriment to you. And you never have to say the FULL truth, because that's up to you and nobody can force you. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone successfully asked a waitress out?Don't overthink: Feel. Have asked/been asked 3 times (Thailand, Copenhagen). Be polite and respectful, lighthearted. If she likes you you could be a great distraction from a dead end job for her. The simplest way is to try to ask her something, about her, maybe try to notice something about her as best you can and gauge her reaction and tone of voice when she isn't too rushed. Then say "Any chance you're free for a coffee some time?" And it'll write itself from there. Remember to be kind and smi… | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Do they pull the women that you think you really want? A large part of that culture is undeniably appearance, which is surface-level at best. The core of the culture is something else. You can try to transform yourself outward-in, starting from appearance and mimicking their steps, but you can also go inward-out, and look at your own core values, history and experience, and move that towards your admirations. Practically it means building yourself through actions instead of appearance, i.e. if w… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I get more “drip”?Rough comment section. What kind of fashion do you admire and why? Specific examples are good. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Life is Comic ConAs much as I want someone to listen to the advice of loving yourself, it isn't just the fear of rejection but the labeling that goes along with it, and how far that can reach nowadays. Anywhere popular girls or attractive girls assemble, their voices are amplified, through things like social media. You can end up being videotaped, branded a creep or loser, and you can then spend your life reminding yourself to love yourself, but the times you believed someone was worth it and they instead made i… | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 08:42 AM |
| 147 | How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck?Book 69, Part 420: Why Breathing as a Male is aiding the Patriarchy .... | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 06:23 PM |
| 0 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?Cards, then take turns deciding the game. I'd go for bullshit because it's simple and fun | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 08:38 AM |
| 5 | What's the best way to practice banter/responding to shit tests?I take it very seriously and confront her on the test, then begin psycho-analyzing her for why she might be doing it. Then they usually end up ruminating on their past trauma, and it's very effective for making them stop saying them again, or anything else for that matter. Slay King! On a serious note, like most have touched upon, a balanced response, like a balanced person, is good. She may be doing it consciously or unconsciously. There's always a seed of truth, they say. So you can show her h… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | How did dating in your late 20s / early 30s compare to dating in your early 20s?What were you doing in your early 30s? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Why does working on yourself feel so lonely and hollow?I have the same experience as you. But I've accepted this feeling. I see it as the space within me that can hold other people is expanding. But that's akin to knowing hunger, and thus progressively becoming hungrier. But one day we will be able to lift so much for others, once the time comes. | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Do girls like to get picked on by guys?Any personal examples you'd share? Especially a good one? | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Got any principles to share about skin? It seems very individual to me. I have generally nice skin with no issues. But I'm quite dry and most things don't seem to make any real difference, or don't last. Should I just persevere and try new things? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nice post! Respect for voice clip response. What's your workout routine and body shape like? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 10:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you pull a feminist/SJW kind of woman?You could try taking her seriously, reflecting on her opinions, but without necessarily forcing yourself to change. Sometimes those with loud opinions have just never been listened to in an intelligent way. But there's a line between being sharp enough to process what she's really saying and coming off as an asskisser. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It will take some practice to make it feel genuine when you do this. You can try to practice with a friend. Tell them to tell you a story about something that happened to them, and once in a while to stop and wait for you to repeat back to them in this way. And ask them if the way you said it sounded sincere. You need to actually be sincere in just trying to reflect the person's story and feelings though, this isn't a 'trick'. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If you don't know what to say, try just listening to her by saying her words back to her, in your own way, this will also help you reaffirm reality and gives you a chance to dig deeper since it clearly confused you. "So you just enjoy feeling horny all the time?" Or "Sounds like a fun product." Or "Seems like you've found a way to enjoy yourself, how does that affect you?" | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 11:51 AM |
| 3 | DaygameJust wanna say kudos. That's a steep, scary hill and you went there. In time your courage pays off. I don't cold approach a lot, my history and experience is more from just providing people with nice interactions as a baseline, no romantic or hidden interests. Just normal, pleasant, well-mannered social situations for everyone. If I can't at least do that, I wouldn't have confidence I could also be flirty in a day situation. If she notices you might be trying something, her guard may instinctive… | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 08:27 AM |
| 32 | Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks?Extremely based post | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?Ok | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 04:15 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?What does that even nean? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If you’re very excited to meet this girl should you suppress it in order to appear cool and masculine?This is an interesting discussion. In my experience, on one hand you might trigger a bad impression by appearing out of the 'norm', whatever that is expected to be in the situation. But on the other, if you are in fact out of the norm and are looking for someone who matches you, it's an acceptable strategy to try to break it. I'm heading into a first date situation with someone I've texted with for about a week this Sunday, and while I won't give it too much thought right now what my moves will … | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlHVM content | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 10:32 AM |
| 5 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from itListen to her, actively, by showing you hear what she says in this situation and hear her out. Do not use judging language ("That's not good. That sucks."), probes ("Why did he do that? Was he against it?"), personal anecdotes ("Oh yeah, I had something similar happen to me. That reminds me of this one time."). This takes a bit of skill to get perfect, so start with taking what she says, and adding "So..." at the beginning. Just become a mirror for her to work through her feelings and memories. … | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourself"How can you appear in public with this girl. Haha" would you kindly elaborate on this? I would like to understand the mechanic behind the answer of the 'introduces you to physically superior male'. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 12 | Fuck thisFuck yes. When you shelf someone you used to put on a pedestal, you increase your own value immensely. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 11 | She said lets be friends, I said byeThis guy is right. Adults make friends, because that's where relationships start. If you need a relationship that bad, you're probably desperate and that's why she didn't want to date you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean?Yeah, you're not wrong that it might sound like a waste of time. I just find the women I like respond well to a good listener. But you're also right because some people actually are so unused to being listened to that they respond negatively when you give them undivided attention. But anything can backfire, you never really know. I just prefer to train my character while also dating women. Relationships and flings come and go, but I need to wake up and face my decisions every day. So I want to m… | /r/seduction | 20/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I wait for a reach out from her or stick to the “contact once a week to set up a date”?So you: - Have shown to be trustworthy by respecting her boundaries. - Have shown responsibility through communication. - Have let your enthusiasm and curiosity bloom because of her. These are all positive facts. You seem like a good guy, and you feel chemistry with her. She sounds insecure, however. It sounds like she has a couple of issues with keeping her schedule/life under control and fitting you in -- but the fact that you had to cancel once means, obviously, you're not perfect either.… | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean?Because there ARE other dudes out there. Competition exists. Some are bigger, smarter, stronger than you. But you are an individual with unique traits, and you need to be aware of your strengths and weaknesses; you need to be aware of your cards, and how you play them is what actually matters. Not facing this, however, is what we call a lack of confidence, or insecurity. Avoiding this reality or subject will not help you. It's in fact a shrouded opportunity to face yourself in front of her, and … | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 6 | Was on a date, it went very well, lots of typical IOIs etc. During the date she twice made remarks about how she gets interest from guys - what does this mean?I'd ask her about it when she shares it. What does it make her feel like? Listen to her. Reflect her words back and find out what it means to her that she's sharing it with you. E.g. she goes "and he just keeps hitting me up, all the time!" You go " So you think he's into you?/So you're getting a lot of attention there." Then she will probably confirm or deny the assumption, and tell you more. Then you just repeat the action, hear what she says, feel what the underlying feeling is, and rephrase … | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 09:17 AM |
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