tajake Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I feel like there are limited spaces and few options for me as a politically homeless man with a feminine leaning personality. I'm still trying, but I'm not sure what to do anymore. It might help if you drop more clear definitions as to what you're looking for support on. I hear that you're looking for a space to affirm your definition of your own identity, which is hard as someone who is born male and doesn't fit into the patriarchal ideal of masculinity, even in spaces that are usually counter to that. (I say that speaking as an asexual man.) But I'd be happy to talk out whatever is going on once I have a grasp of what you're looking for.	/r/MenSupportMen	04/09/24 05:35 PM
2	My reaction to my (ex) gf’s dildo wrecked our relationship Life is work, bro. It's not all sunshine and blowjobs. If you don't love yourself you'll have a hard time convincing anyone else to	/r/MenSupportMen	13/08/24 01:36 PM
4	My reaction to my (ex) gf’s dildo wrecked our relationship Bro, self value is something you can only give yourself. You can't get it from a girl or a job. If you're trying to measure up to what society wants from you, you'll never get it because it'll pull you in 5 different directions at once. Find something you're proud of and build off of that. Even if it's something small, like building cool videogame characters or making really good sandwiches.	/r/MenSupportMen	13/08/24 01:07 PM
3	Read the comments on this post and tell me size doesn’t matter They can't. It's not all PIV. Learn what to do with your head and hands, and you'll please any girl you want to please. Your worth also isn't based on your ability to please women. Go feed some homeless people or clean up a park. Sex is great, but helping other people is a hard feeling to beat. Plus, it makes you feel good about yourself. Go to the bar with Bros and shoot the shit without even looking at the girls. Find a podcast you like or indulge in a hobby you enjoy. When you take care of yo…	/r/MenSupportMen	02/08/24 02:32 AM
2	Do I meet Face to Face? That's up to you. If you need closure, have it out. If you don't or think it'll blow up, then just stop replying. From what it sounds like, you just need to get away but sometimes that closure makes it easy.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/07/24 03:59 PM
2	Do I meet Face to Face? If you want to be more than friends and she doesn't it'll never work, even as friends. Those feelings will always be there and at best you'll make her uncomfortable, at worst you'll end up in a weird quasi relationship where you get none of the benefits (like exclusivity or someone to have your back) while she does. Take this from someone who's walked this same path before. It only ends one way. You'll never talk her around. There's always another girl out there. Tell yourself that you deserve a…	/r/MenSupportMen	18/07/24 01:16 PM
–	Weekly check-in Oh yeah. She knew I had a thing for her. Had for years but we hadn't lived near each other.	/r/MenSupportMen	13/07/24 12:44 AM
–	Weekly check-in Drove 2 hours to see an old friend who wanted to get dinner. She comes back to my hotel room, we get close, talk, I let her in. Next day I'm back to friend and she's had her use from me. The walls are there for a reason. Don't let them down.	/r/MenSupportMen	08/07/24 12:45 AM
–	I fucking hate emotional regulation and self-improvement systems with all my soul, and I'm sick of being censored for it! I had these same thoughts. No amount of "embrace the suck" really helped me get past realizing that my life kind of sucks. Reframing that life sucks into life sucking before it gets better, or life sucking for a reason, didn't really make me feel better. What I would suggest is follow that feeling. Why does life suck? List all your problems and admit them freely. Let them suck. They do. Sometimes, you try as hard as you can to escape that gravity, and it feels like there's only one permanent sol…	/r/MenSupportMen	30/05/24 02:57 AM