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Now why would thay be on this sub?
/r/seduction26/07/26 05:18 AM
3

Dawg it can get rough when this happens, in most cases I recommend just smiling(even better is laughing) and walking away.
/r/seduction10/07/26 08:01 PM
-1

No. I actually do my best to decline numbers because Instagram is one of my best pipelines. We live in a world where people want to spy and peek and look at reviews for ~everything~ and they oftentimes use IG for that. The answer isn't "battle her for her number" the answer is "get off your ass and make a half decent IG" there are hella videos on YouTube that teach how to make one. It'll take like a month.
/r/seduction01/07/26 02:55 PM
7

Idk how true this story is but assuming it is, keep away from her as much as you can.
/r/seduction23/06/26 12:02 AM
1

You did fine. Just like in door to door sales, don't let it eat you up.
/r/seduction21/06/26 06:37 AM
9

You may have gotten too invested too soon. Sorry man. Try to circle back in the Fall if you still care too though
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:24 PM
1

I enjoy it when it smells/tastes fine, I can tell she enjoys it, and it doesn't take all day for her to finish.
/r/seduction19/05/26 02:14 PM
1

"Social". You have to continuously learn and recalibrate and that mean that you'll inevitably make mistakes
/r/seduction01/04/26 03:14 PM
1

You're misunderstanding social status. In nightlife your last name or BMI or net worth or career don't mean shit to people that you're trying to vibe with. In your belief framework: you deadass believe that a completely boring imbecile is more "high status" than you if they have a better career or net worth than you. That's not the case.
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:25 PM
6

No. Believe it or not there's actually not a risk to seeing whom may be interested on the apps while you're just sitting on the toilet. Dating apps can be a massive help to her. It's a low commitment, low cost of entry way to see what's potentially out there. When you say "risk" do you mean meeting a stranger during a first date? That's a different thing than hopping on an app and filtering for potential matches.
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:20 PM
8

She can literally sort through likes like an Amazon shopper. It's of no cost nor risk to her lmao.
/r/seduction20/03/26 03:07 PM
0

Hinge and this one app called Feeld. Put your "seeking" as short term and you should be fine. I'm sure there are things you can text to further screen but I'm not super privy to them due to being a dude lol. Best of luck!
/r/seduction20/03/26 07:08 AM
100

Dating apps. Have fun
/r/seduction20/03/26 04:52 AM
74

Oddly enough dog girls are much worse than cat girls imo. It feels like dog girls want to fuck their dogs and want to use you as a human substitute lowkey
/r/seduction02/03/26 05:06 PM
1

I can't tell if this is real... Bro, this wasn't an approach, this was catcalling at the worst possible time to be catcalled. NEVER catcall, look up the word "catcall" on offmychest or feminism ir another subreddit. Imagine, if you were sitting at a bus stop and this happened to you - would you dig some rando doing that? You're on your journey, you're learning, this doesn't make you a bad person, but holey fuck that is a stupid method...
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:19 AM
-5

It's astounding how both of you are insightful and silly in your own ways
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:44 AM
14

Lame-o mentality. Hella women avoid black guys but you won't see us complaining about it. Just on to the next one.
/r/seduction19/02/26 05:43 AM
1

Absolutely
/r/seduction15/02/26 12:54 AM
7

Hinge has a section describing what women are seeking. Put yours as "short term" and filter on that for them too.
/r/seduction29/01/26 01:56 PM
1

A chick opened me because she heard me cussing at my boss on the phone and was interested in some toxicity
/r/seduction14/12/25 10:17 PM
1

Text to speech
/r/seduction09/12/25 12:15 AM
1

IG >>> phone number. Especially if you don't have an iphone
/r/seduction01/12/25 11:31 AM
79

Turn her into a wingman
/r/seduction25/11/25 04:04 AM
3

Why questions? Sometimes just statements will get you where you wanna go conversationally
/r/seduction24/11/25 11:38 AM
23

CAP. There are Hella unemployed guys killing it
/r/seduction23/11/25 08:14 PM
21

Are you exercising? What content are you consuming? Music? Comedy? Or grindset and depressing news? Watcha eating? How often are you going outside? How often do you smile nowadays? Is it less than when you were kicking ass out there? Adjust and let us know next month
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:31 AM
2

The feelings people have in any sort of club or party environment is drastically different than that of an afternoon or even when going to bed after the night out/working. Perhaps it would be better to have asked her what she was doing after the show and go on date 1 from there?
/r/seduction07/10/25 12:29 PM
6

Logistics. Most of my first date sex is from a really close venue to my place. Every time I drive closer to them it becomes much tougher.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:27 PM
1

Such an Atlanta/Miami ass question
/r/seduction30/08/25 04:38 AM
1

Women and men are both liars in one way or another when it comes to dating apps. Say what you're looking for and see if she agrees
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:12 PM
1

Say you went to sleep and reply in 2-3 days lol
/r/seduction28/08/25 06:37 AM
2

I don't think you did anything wrong from how you describe it, but in nightclubs and in nightlife, women get BOMBARDED with shit behavior from dudes. If she was chill at 11pm and then pissed an hour later she could have simply reached her limit or maybe had a bit much to drink. When it comes to the later parts of the night, a lot of people are more prone to being tired and aggravated, I wouldn't look too into it
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:01 AM
15

Denver?? SLC??? Bro those are easy layups
/r/seduction25/08/25 04:21 AM
1

Bro. Be real with us. Have you gone on a photoshoot yet? Like to a library, a body of water or somewhere outside with a lot of green? Get a tripod from five below, and take 40 pics. Put it into roast.ai(or learn what works for free) and let us know how it goes
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:10 AM
10

I'm a massive liberal and have seen some leftist men win and others take some horrendous Ls. Politics can help in some cases but it's not the thing that usually drives you to success. Talking about politics in cold approach isn't a great idea, even as a rapport builder
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:04 PM
1

Heavy like metal? Yo you should listen to the Guilty Gear soundtrack. https://youtu.be/fMrpVDYZCbU?si=22qeLltb48QgJtWT
/r/seduction27/07/25 08:03 AM
1

What do you do to raise your mood? Meditate? Fun exercise? Listen to fun music?
/r/seduction25/07/25 07:19 AM
1

Fremont is cool if you're looking for tourist attractions, but it hasn't impressed me when it comes to single women. Like ever. You might find an odd Bachelorette party or girls trip but that's about it. It's all old people or couples. The arts district is like the hipster part of town and like all hipster parts of a major city it usually will have a decent amount of single women. Fremont has cool food though.
/r/seduction20/07/25 10:04 PM
1

The strip > the arts district >>> Fremont
/r/seduction19/07/25 12:28 AM
5

That's not what I took from my reading of The Truth. He essentially became addicted to gaming and couldn't be faithful to his partner. This lead him to do non-monogamy in various forms which lead to believe that non-monogamy wasn't for him. He literally gets back with his partner in the end and marries her after he faces chaotic relationships and childhood trauma
/r/seduction15/07/25 09:21 PM
2

Be the 3rd friend
/r/seduction02/05/25 06:03 AM
2

Insta is good. Do you have a memorable Instagram though? Like is the content you have subcommunicating that you're an interesting person?
/r/seduction15/04/25 09:46 PM
1

I wish I can give you a tier list that works for everybody, but the absolute truth is that different people need more investment in some areas rather than others. HMU if you want to talk fashion for free though. Best of luck, king
/r/seduction07/03/25 03:17 AM
3

If you guys are friends you already have great chemistry. Act normal, be fun and it should all fall in line, gang
/r/seduction23/02/25 07:26 AM
6

I feel like it's usually the guys job to use protection on one night stands. Out of the 10 girls I slept with last yr, only 1 wanted me to use protection. Others even tried telling me not to use it. Concerning, because most guys I know don't even care to use protection
/r/seduction22/02/25 10:22 PM
2

Women of all attraction levels can go for a fat guy. Work out because it helps you stay alive and stay erect
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:32 AM
1

What do you eat before dates? Is it an energy drink of some kinds
/r/seduction10/07/24 07:05 AM
1

Talk to him about it and see how well he receives the feedback but most likely he simply can't be around women with you. A lot of guys suck so bad where they NEED to put someone down like an 8th grader to win. You're not the one
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:51 PM
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Instagram is better as long as they follow you and watch your stories imo
/r/seduction04/04/24 07:50 PM
1

Why not?
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:49 PM
1

Their qualifying themselves as more sexual as well as making the convo more sexual.
/r/seduction06/08/19 01:50 PM
9

Less of a demand for a breadwinner along with greater social and sexual freedom. This is a good thing though because you no longer have as much of a pressure to be a breadwinner and it's becoming more acceptable to have more sexual freedom as a man(aka more partners) Our forebears weren't so lucky on the freedom end but they did have easier paths to navigate.
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:47 AM
4

If you want the results you need to take action. To be honest those are extremely weak excuses to not take action when you know you need to. Start small- ask strangers for the time. If you eat lunch on campus and your campus is busy, sit with total strangers. These things will build your nerve when it comes to approaching strangers.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:14 PM
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There were a handful of girls who I at one point thought were flirting with me, but every single one of them turned out later on to have boyfriends. I'm not kidding. I don't know why girls with BFs are so friendly to me haha. Honestly they might have been flirting with you. Just because they had boyfriends doesn't mean they lost the ability or drive to flirt with people. Is this normal? Basically I havent asked a girl out since I was in high school, I'm now in my 20s, and the main reason is beca…
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:57 PM
1

Don't exclusively approach women in cafeteria areas. Talk to everyone to network and become better at socializing so you'll have more opportunities and more skill while gaming. -I gave you tips on what to join in the post, dawg.
/r/seduction20/08/18 04:21 PM
2

Just graduated. Remember these things: -People in college are incredibly malleable-- if you talk with enough congruence, they probably will listen. -If you fuck up, don't worry. People tend to forget in about 2 weeks Okay. - Join a co-ed organization, use common sense please. An lgbt group or a feminism(nothing wrong with feminism btw) group, or an engineering group or a nerdy interest group are most likely bad ideas due to a low amount of single, attractive women.--- try things like a salsa/bac…
/r/seduction20/08/18 04:23 AM
2

Are you anxious because you're afraid of ruining a good conversation?
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:09 PM
2

Fun read. I like the preventative measures the writer gives at the end as well
/r/seduction07/04/18 07:06 PM
6

I wear the same pair of pants most days but I don't think anyone notices. How can I tell I need to wash?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 07:03 AM
3

Another black sedditor here. Black skin can get egregiously ashy and lotion prevents it. I personally prefer St Ives.
/r/seduction22/10/17 03:03 AM
1

Logistics. Is your place a hassle to get to, or is it a short walk/ride away?
/r/seduction06/09/17 11:25 AM
2

Seconded. I've successfully approached girls my age with their moms in the club( yes, the club. White ppl are weird sometimes)
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:55 PM
2

Oh fuck, that's a good video, thank you for sharing it, dude
/r/seduction23/05/17 05:00 PM
1

Legit
/r/seduction20/03/17 07:06 PM
1

There's plenty of ways to create emotional investment. It can range from location changes to make-outs to a fun dialogue. Another great way is to agree on the Day 2 before even getting the number.
/r/seduction08/02/17 06:45 PM
1

Is "all" a decent number or nah? I hear guys say "all" and they have a sense of despair and are only talking about like 5 girls lol. Anyway, Jeffy (or maybe Luke?) from RSD says to establish and agree upon a Day 2 before leaving or sometimes before even getting the number. You gotta make her invest in you and the interaction a bit to leave a workable impression.
/r/seduction08/02/17 06:02 AM
1

I wouldn't say ~never~ ping text. It's better to do it with some girls rather than others though.
/r/seduction14/01/17 06:43 PM
1

That's basic, add humor.
/r/seduction26/12/16 03:57 AM
1

Truuu, see if you can walk with them out of the venue at that point. Location changes build intimacy.
/r/seduction30/11/16 03:27 PM
1

At the end of the night, when the lights come on and they kick everyone out, what do you do? Did you already leave the girls or do you walk with them out of the club or what?
/r/seduction27/11/16 04:24 PM
1

I wish I could give you a fast fix but I can't. You gotta start small and social proof your shit. Every big dj and promoter I know started from the bottom(unless they knew people)
/r/seduction25/11/16 09:15 AM
3

Improving looks is always good but that's not his biggest problem. I know dudes that wear cargo shorts and pull. I met a guy who wears fucking skirts and pulls. Mystery, one of the greatest PUAs in history, would consistently pull with mascara, heels and black nail polish. There's more to this shit than looks
/r/seduction15/10/16 02:56 PM
18

Nigga she's emotionally cheating with ~you~ by doing that lol Get like an astronaut and get some space
/r/seduction05/10/16 03:09 PM
2

Was it flat out rejected or is it still pending? I've noticed some inner circles are kind of inactive maybe your city's is too
/r/seduction12/09/16 08:59 PM
2

Never listened to Mark Manson. What's he about?
/r/seduction12/09/16 08:57 PM
1

"Hey, is it cool if I sit here?" she usually says yes BOOM.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:34 PM
2

I actually have a promoter friend who does photography and asked him how he gets so many girls are to his events. He says that no attractive girl says no to a picture and it's super easy to chat them up afterword and get contact info right after the impromptu photo session. Photography isn't really my thing but I would definitely recommend trying it if it's yours.
/r/seduction24/08/16 02:32 PM
1

Damn I haven't been to the Groove since I was a teenager. Unfortunately, I already made plans to go to a Christmas in July party on Saturday. DM me your Facebook url so I can invite you to shit tho
/r/seduction30/07/16 07:25 AM
1

Every college town I've been to.
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:13 PM
16

There are plenty of reasons this happens, Maybe she was too drunk or wanted to impress her friends, or was in a bad mood or had a bad experience on the dancefloor and didn't want to repeat it or only likes girls or was just a fuckin' weirdo. It's not always us, and sometimes we shouldn't give so much value to a stranger's opinions.
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:09 PM
7

No, you don't always need to chat with someone beforehand, especially on dancefloors
/r/seduction17/07/16 06:00 PM
1

Yo yo yo, I'm in the O. Orlando also has an okay rsd page on Facebook
/r/seduction16/07/16 07:02 AM
1

Dates are all about logistics, when I get first date lays, the main location for the date is less than 3 miles away from her place. Anymore, you'll be dealing with bad commute times and whatever else.
/r/seduction13/07/16 05:42 PM
1

Went a year ago when Julien was in my city, it was fantastic. The marketing was only like 2 minutes long compared to 2 hours of useful information.
/r/seduction04/07/16 10:39 PM
1

Post more. If they continuously like the posts then feel free to DM them.
/r/seduction04/07/16 04:47 PM
1

Look at RSD Luke tho...
/r/seduction25/06/16 05:13 PM
1

Yeah, it's my pleasure. Have a great Summer!
/r/seduction12/06/16 02:46 PM
1

Damn, I'd totally jump on the opportunity if I was up there. New York definitely has a thriving RSD Facebook group, I'd recommend checking it out.
/r/seduction11/06/16 09:05 PM
4

Friends with two naturals. Oddly enough they both are mentally damaged imo. They also got action at a young age and just kind of never had to work for it. I think that they just don't care. Everyone's just a funny character in a story to them. No insults really scathe them, no social pressures are real to them, they just dance to the beat of their own drum.
/r/seduction07/06/16 01:51 PM
1

What's wrong with weird?
/r/seduction24/05/16 08:11 PM
1

Bruh the Julien stuff has a lot of shock and awe, but it can't be well-emulated by newbies or intermediates. If you don't use the techniques of his with enough confidence and feel glued to a particular outcome it most certainly will not work.
/r/seduction05/05/16 06:37 AM
6

We like what we like yo. Most of the girls my friends like I consider unattractive and the girls I like they consider unattractive. It's all relative.
/r/seduction30/04/16 03:28 PM
1

It's better for everyone if you don't automatically assume it's a slight against you. It could very well be something totally different than how you perceived it.
/r/seduction13/04/16 02:22 PM
1

They don't and probably won't know. Honestly, my family is super religious and they thought I was gay for the longest time, I don't think they'd be too mad.
/r/seduction18/03/16 04:53 AM
1

I put whatever interesting things I can on my story, I don't really snap to specific people anymore.
/r/seduction01/03/16 01:42 AM
1

Basically it's physical contact. Interactions without kino are almost always unsuccessful.
/r/seduction28/02/16 01:20 AM
1

Damn I'm hella inspired to get into a festival for free rn
/r/seduction26/02/16 07:27 PM
3

Pole-dancing. I personally don't hit on my classmates but it's good exercise.
/r/seduction26/02/16 05:55 AM
0

Oddly enough, I don't feel like it. Going on and on how religion=guilt, your writing style("hahahahaha") and sheer amount of subjective input you took time out of your day to contribute are indicative of Wendy's french fry level saltiness. In any community there are some that will do terrible things in the name of that community and some that will do good. Religion has shitheads but there are shithead feminists and shithead lawyers and the media loves pointing out shithead pick up artists. That …
/r/seduction15/02/16 09:01 AM
1

Yeah you know little about Christianity or you're super bitter about organized religion. Maybe both ("hahahahaha"). Sex isn't necessarily a sin. The bible even has multiple poems about sex. Premarital sex is considered a sin but you don't -need- to have premarital sex to understand or incorporate the fundamentals of pickup in your love life.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:51 AM
1

Don't listen to the edgy guys here. Many of the things here can help finding a wife you just have to be a little more selective than most guys. Most of the info on this sub isn't inherently sinful it's how you use it.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:31 AM
1

My strategy is hang with the homies for around an hour while getting into a good mood and then "get lost"(abandon their asses) until it's time to leave. It works.
/r/seduction15/02/16 07:26 AM
1

Depends on -your- attitude towards -them- do you find enjoyment from their company or nah? If hanging with them augments your mood then that can seriously help you talk to girls. My friend group of guys are all taller and/or better looking than me and I'm usually more successful than they are.
/r/seduction12/02/16 05:24 PM
1

I've had success with this before. Once you're friendzoned you can easily make a wingman out of her if she's even slightly cool.
/r/seduction12/02/16 05:19 PM
1

Being a nice person and being a good person are two different things.
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:09 PM
2

YES!!
/r/seduction02/02/16 03:59 AM
1

Black guy, in my experience, girls that only like a specific race are almost always, if not always, low quality. You're better off without. You think that the hottest: college chicks, bartenders, ivy league grads, actresses, instagram babes, etc. give a half shit, whole shit, or quarter of a shit what race you are? Nah.
/r/seduction02/02/16 03:58 AM
2

Good for him, I'm glad he got over the chick from The Game.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:35 PM
4

Nigga what? Some people are courteous enough to put their last name while adding their number to your contact list, some people aren't. She put her last name, it means nothing, you should even appreciate it. If you were to get 2 new numbers a week for a year that comes out to 104 numbers a year, dawg. Trust me, it's so much more trouble to keep up with without last names or hints(x trashy nightclub) where you met them. Stop overlooking minor details, OP.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:33 PM
3

We all have different goals and standards for success. You don't have to bone on a date for it to be a successful date.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:24 PM
1

Is it an open relationship?
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:54 AM
2

*Cool, not nice.
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:51 AM
1

No guy guy attracts or even truly wants to attract ~every girl~! Be less serious about everything. Taking every little thing to heart is not an alpha quality. Life is funny, Danny!
/r/seduction06/01/16 01:50 AM
2

These are your boys, your squad your wings. These are the guys that get you in a jolly mood before you get jolly with the ladies. These are the guys that'll buy you condoms when you stumble into impromptu car sex with a club girl(it happens). Do not fuck up the wave by obnoxiously hitting on the got damn receptionist or the waittress or the bartender. A better way of doing things is to approach randoms who aren't at work. Talk to your friend group like "wow, that girl over there's really cute. I…
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:36 PM
3

Those are girls at work, he's fuckin' up the wave for them and his squad. It really is better to hit on randoms i.e. girls not on the clock that aren't obligated to be nice to you.
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:21 PM
2

Also, it's usually bad form to hit on someone while they're working. When you hit on someone while they don't have the option to leave the conversation, it creates an unfair power dynamic and can cause the label of "creep" to be attached to you and/or your friends. I don't think your friends mind that you game girls, just that you do it at the wrong times sometimes.
/r/seduction05/01/16 07:15 PM
1

I frequently find better content from RSD, but I consider seddit a tad bit helpful so I still come here whenever.
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:58 PM
0

I don't see why this got downvoted so bad. If it's genuine advice it benefits the subreddit
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:11 PM
2

It'll work as long as you're not Garbage Pail kid tier ugly. Trust me, Danny!
/r/seduction02/01/16 07:02 PM
1

Daygame.
/r/seduction31/12/15 09:36 PM
1

No you're not. I'm darker, shorter, fatter and debatedly uglier than you and still do fine, it's something else besides your appearance. We need more info than what you're giving to determine the exact problem but I know for damn sure it isn't looks.
/r/seduction30/12/15 09:10 PM
2

Early on, I became super boastful over the most miniscule successes and was prideful in a way that highlighted my insecurities. Later, I became more successful and much less prideful and obnoxious about my closes and whatnot.
/r/seduction24/12/15 08:29 AM
3

I changed for the worse in 3 months then I changed for the better in a year.
/r/seduction23/12/15 10:48 PM
1

Smiling, body language, dancing. Plus you can yell if all else fails
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:31 AM
1

From my experience, a lot of circles but people are usually super social while out so just be friendly yo
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:26 AM
1

Flying solo: I either ask to dance or make eye contact then extend my hand. For both of these you have to ooze a little confidence and not every time will work. Female friends often bring in girls for you without them being aware of what they're doing. They make you look good just by associating with you. If you're with a girl, dance with her and see just how many girls come over, dude it's beautiful.
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:56 AM
2

My stategy is to pump myself up by vibing with a friend and then splitting up to dance with girls. Female friends are cool tho because they make you more attractive to other girls(see: Social Proof). The best thing you can do is smile and enjoy the night.
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:37 AM
1

There are very successful Indian and Asian PUA's. I saw someone ask Julien Blanc the same question at a seminar and according to him, a former RSD instructor was Indian and would always pull white chicks(usually blonde and taller than him). The Indian instructor said there sometimes is an initial disparity of value based on race due to society telling them they were destined to marry a white male but it can almost always be overcome. TLDR: we sometimes begin on a lower level of value because we'…
/r/seduction23/12/15 03:23 AM
2

The Game was written 10 years ago, a person working on his craft can do a lot of maturing and learning in that time.
/r/seduction22/12/15 10:04 PM
5

How so?
/r/seduction22/12/15 09:59 PM
1

Ohhh okay. I confused it with "immoral" for some reason.
/r/seduction22/12/15 03:14 AM
2

I'm dumb. How's game amoral?
/r/seduction20/12/15 08:23 PM
1

4? Maybe more though.
/r/seduction20/12/15 08:20 PM
1

I just laugh or smile or whatever and walk off or just platonically enjoy a tiny bit more of the convo. Don't pry, it's never worked for me. I've had instances where she rejects but sends IOI's later that that night/month/year.
/r/seduction17/08/15 10:26 PM
3

Someone once told me to search for my reflection in their eyes. Still working on it but it seems like solid advice
/r/seduction18/06/15 06:56 AM
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Orlandoan here, even in a small place like this, there are many spots you can go to meet people. There are foodtruck meetups, wine/art related events, open mics, whatever, etc., yadda yadda. Some clubs are even hopping on Wednesday. You'd be surprised, man. What I do is check out event calendars in locals college kid/ hipster kid publications for leads.
/r/seduction16/06/15 04:10 AM
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You'll see her when you see her yo. It's not healthy to fall into "that one special girl" mindset about someone you barely know. I strongly believe you wouldn't feel this way if you expanded the amount of women you see and are in contact with. Thanks for coming to us for advice and not carrying this out lol
/r/seduction10/06/15 07:38 PM
3

That wasn't nearly as bad as you guys made it out to be lol
/r/seduction22/05/15 06:54 AM
1

Feel the moment... Then go for it... You can either verbally ask her(usually works on dates), notice the copious signs she gives(us dudes suck at this), do it at a random time and hope for the best(meh), or not kiss at all. Break a leg!
/r/seduction10/05/15 03:06 AM
1

Kino is physical contact used to build attraction.
/r/seduction10/05/15 02:56 AM
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1.) You can have plenty of success by yourself. 2.) Ever heard of social proof, bruh? Female wingmen are SO much better than male wingmen it's fucking beautiful.
/r/seduction05/05/15 02:18 PM
1

Attracted.
/r/seduction02/05/15 06:28 PM
5

Wtf is wrong with you niggas? Who gives a fuck if she's pretty or not, it's all based on opinion anyway. She's giving good information for our benefit, it behooves us to listen. Even RSD Julien doesn't follow through with the "never ask a fish how to catch it" rule a hundred percent. Don't be laaaaaaaaaamee!
/r/seduction02/05/15 06:21 PM
2

Also an Orlando native, hit a nigga up!
/r/seduction29/04/15 02:35 PM
1

Average confidence = shit confidence
/r/seduction27/04/15 05:54 AM
1

Black guy here. If she honestly gives a shit about your race, she's probably a shitty person to give the gift of your presence to. I have never encountered a girl over 18 that was like "nah, I don't like -insert race-" and meant it.
/r/seduction04/03/15 12:38 AM
1

Thanks for all the well thought and varied answers, guys!
/r/seduction29/01/15 06:16 PM
1

Solid advice. I've been friendzoned like that many a time but I've never done the friendzoning like this. Thanks!
/r/seduction29/01/15 06:15 PM
2

Truuu
/r/seduction29/01/15 06:01 PM
3

You lil betch you're more attractive than me! All you gotta do is smile, dawg. Smile while walking. Smile while shitting. Smile while wacking.it. Smile while there's nobody in the fuckin' room! If you force yourself to smile, you'll build a habit that'll help your love life and career. Do that shit!
/r/seduction29/01/15 09:24 AM
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Why'd this get downvoted so much?
/r/seduction13/11/14 10:38 PM
1

Just turned single. What're you up to tonight?
/r/seduction11/11/14 01:23 AM
1

Howdy!
/r/seduction10/11/14 06:51 PM
1

Sup, from the Ucf area
/r/seduction10/11/14 06:50 PM
2

I heard it while reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss hahaha!
/r/seduction27/09/14 04:36 PM
1

Try to smile more.
/r/seduction26/09/14 05:26 PM
11

Wanna see a cat do backflips?
/r/seduction26/09/14 03:40 PM
2

Was the go to method in high school I don't really do it now but it occasionally worked lol
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:06 AM
1

BADASS
/r/seduction10/07/14 06:23 AM
1

There's a female version if Seddit, it hurts my male mind and i forgot what it's called
/r/seduction04/07/14 10:57 PM
1

Bah! Limiting belief!
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:48 AM
1

"so are you always this flake-y or is it just your hair" #burn #ohsnap
/r/seduction01/07/14 07:21 AM
5

Use kino to hold her hand. From there, talk a little bit while still holding shawty's hand and then go somewhere while dragging her along. Boom. Isolated. Wear protection. You're not a bad writer for your age btw.
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:28 PM
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If you stay in your head and look lost while at the club Then you're probably gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction29/06/14 07:08 PM
1

Come with super low expectations and HAVE THE MOST FUN. All I gotta say...
/r/seduction27/06/14 06:32 AM
1

You open with "what's up" successfully? Whuuuuuuuut?
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:09 PM
2

Niggaaaaa If you were able to kiss shawty on multiple occasions then you KNOW you have the confidence and momentum to close- you already did lol
/r/seduction23/06/14 05:30 PM
2

That's not creepy, mate.
/r/seduction21/06/14 04:09 AM
2

Maybe she's into femdom Y'know... cuz she won lol
/r/seduction20/06/14 11:54 PM
1

Button up shirt with jeans is my fave
/r/seduction20/06/14 08:21 AM
1

Damn, how'd I forget Justin Wayne?
/r/seduction19/06/14 08:28 AM
3

My favorite is RSD, a lot of people who tread lightly regarding pua really like Simple pickup. 21 convention is cool too. I haven't read any pua literature but "Models" and "The Game" are popular.
/r/seduction19/06/14 01:29 AM
1

You're right. Will I get rejected in the future? Certainly, I can't wait. I'll also have many more successes in approaching girls. (P.S. Walgreens has two for one on Midol this week. Just looking out for you, kid.)
/r/seduction18/06/14 09:10 PM
1

1.) Most clubs in my area(Orlando) are 18 to enter 21 to drink. Me and my wingman went to a liquor store that I knew didn't ID for some half-pints, snuck them bitches in and began to party. My wingman got caught, but I'm more of a regular so they must've been more lenient on me 3.) Yeah, sometimes I should stop being so reluctant to get numbers. I should also be a better improvisor. ~Thanks for the tips, bruddas!!~ (P.S. I wasn't actually wearing a fedora and trenchcoat in the club)
/r/seduction17/06/14 03:15 AM
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I thought about it. Then I was like, nah. Nahmsayin'?
/r/seduction16/06/14 08:22 PM
1

All right, I didn't give you guys an in-depth field report so I guess I deserved these responses. Here are some more details. 1.) Met her on the first floor. After dancing a while and seeing IOI's I decided to carry her upstairs. How did I know she was fine with it? She was giggling and talking about how strong I was and how my fedora and trenchcoat were sexy n shit. Honestly the bouncer was my fault. At the staircase he said patrons aren't allowed to carry each other. I decided to tell him I wa…
/r/seduction16/06/14 08:19 PM
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I've been to: Mad Hatters- ok Knight Library- wild, dirty, energetic Independent bar- some ups and downs, definitely not the average club Backbooth- not bad, LOTS of guys tho
/r/seduction16/06/14 05:45 AM
1

Most definite, dude! Wanna work on club game?
/r/seduction07/06/14 10:42 PM
2

Not being sober hurts most peoples game. It kills mine.
/r/seduction07/06/14 04:12 PM
2

UCF! Whattup playa?!
/r/seduction06/06/14 06:51 PM
1

Steve? Is that you, dude?
/r/seduction04/06/14 07:04 AM
1

400?! Damn. I thought I was hot shit for 40+
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:07 AM
0

Tinder. You're welcome, lil nigga.
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:03 AM
1

At least it's not the reverse grind lol
/r/seduction23/05/14 06:57 AM
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You're starting game this young? You're gonna be a monster lol
/r/seduction20/05/14 07:11 AM
1

Orlandooooo! Dude, thanks for the tips, we gotta link up some time!
/r/seduction18/05/14 07:21 AM
1

Orlando
/r/seduction02/05/14 06:33 AM
3

Pick her up from the ass, not the waist or armpits
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:50 PM
1

It's college, bro. We can make the biggest jackasses outta ourselves and nobody will remember!
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:43 PM
0

Dump her first...
/r/seduction22/04/14 12:59 PM
1

My sober game: meh My drunk game: horrible with occasional hints of "meh" when girl is gone almost as much as I am.
/r/seduction18/04/14 06:28 AM
1

You remind me of me in high school. Honestly dude, chill out. When guys tell girls things involving words like like "beautiful" and "sexy", they almost automatically hop on the friendzone/creeper bus. DON'T BE LIKE THEM. Go work on your fucking self confidence. Exercising helps, staying away from oneitis helps, NOT sending needy texts helps. You know what she craves. Attention. Do you seriously think that if she got attention-handouts from you she'd like you more? Would you play a videogame that…
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:34 AM
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