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| 2 | Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced?I have no problem with any two consenting adults who are interested. You may have more luck starting with an escort instead to get some experience. This is coming from someone who met guys on Craigslist personals (rip) and Seeking Arrangements when I was a crazy horny college student with a thing for older guys. I’ve moved now but there are two guys I met who I really clicked with and still keep in touch with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do women hate the "what do you bring to the table?"Case and point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do women hate the "what do you bring to the table?"Too lazy to hit space after a comma? To each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 08:43 AM |
| 2 | Why do women hate the "what do you bring to the table?"You’re going to have a lot of trouble on dating apps if you don’t learn how to use punctuation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieI’m the opposite, I live in a super noisy area so nothing wakes me. I don’t have kids so I don’t know about a crying baby, but I sleep like a (sleeping) baby every night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.Exactly. It’s meaningless because everyone is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Single women are not "the happiest demographic". In fact, married women are the happiest women overall.What are they implying when they say “women are happier in relationships”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Is a woman having a job a bad thing?Why are you relying on men’s opinions to decide that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, you can afford to be lazy and uninteresting and you'll still find someone to provide and take care of you.I’ll concede that if you’re an attractive woman and you’re cool with depending on someone else, then you have that option. Most women don’t want that though. Not to mention that once kids come along then being a stay at home mom becomes your full time job for awhile, and not a fun one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 07:34 PM |
| 6 | The biggest problem we have today is the demonization of men’s sexuality, while uplifting women’s sexualityThat’s not what that says at all though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveI mean I work with a lot of male engineers who are kind and hard-working and all of them have significant others. But if you don’t have any sense of humor and/or aren’t able to connect on an emotional level, yeah that’s gonna be a lot harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveBoy you should deal with your mommy problems instead of projecting them onto every woman you meet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveThe average tall, kinda, hard-working dude with status does not struggle to get a lady. Give me a break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveYou think it’s better for your worth to be based on your looks than on your skills? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.My biggest problem is just not having any chemistry with the people I meet, I’m definitely not meeting people out of my league looks wise but I’ve only ever had serious relationships with people I’ve met in real life. From online dating I’ve probably done like 10-15 first dates so not a ton, but only 1 of those did I keep seeing after the first date. There was 1 guy I liked that didn’t like me back, and the rest there was just no chemistry on either end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.I’d venture to guess that a lot of average women are right swiping on other average looking people. At least that’s what I do, hooking up with some super hot guy who only wants to use me for sex sounds terrible. I think it’s hard for men to understand this because your sexuality is just different and any man would jump at the chance to fuck a model, but it’s different for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 07:12 AM |
| 7 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?When I go into that subreddit I see a lot of self-hatred, in fact most of the threads I saw weren’t even focused on men. Because it’s not about the man, and it’s not a standards issue. When you have crippling low self-esteem it’s really hard to actually put yourself out there enough to build a relationship, especially when you can’t even fathom why anyone would like you in the first place. Then add in fear of rejection and a lot of women don’t even try. I know because I’m 26 and have been single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 0 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeTotally cool if that works for you. Personally I’m fine with being the more “submissive” partner in the relationship, as I’m naturally a more submissive person and am fine letting someone else take the lead, but I could never be with a man who thinks he’s intellectually superior to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeIt seems strange to compare a boss/employee relationship to a husband/wife. Your boss is literally your superior. If you see yourself as superior to your wife just say it, no need to dance around it like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:25 PM |
| 2 | You cant hate the opposite gender and expect to succeed in datingI hope things get better for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world.I enjoy having a job. Staying at home all day sounds miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Traditional or 'pick me' women are the smartest people on Earth, outside the elite few men who run the world.Good luck with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Men don’t see unattractive women as humanI’m a fat woman and my take is that this isn’t a gendered thing. It’s harder to be ugly and people will treat you differently, unfortunately that’s just how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 03:14 AM |
| 8 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?This actually comes off like you're a psychopath, have you never had a close relationship in your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:51 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.The thing you’re ignoring is that a lot of people in STEM marry other people in STEM. And I disagree that these types of people have more trouble dating than the average person, at least in my experience. I work in an engineering office with over 100 people and almost everyone is married or in a serious relationship, even the dorkiest dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?I work in STEM (engineering), I’m female and work on a team with 3 other females and 15 men. Every single one is in a serious relationship except for one guy who is dating. So I can’t say I’ve experienced this in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If age gap relationships are wrong, so is dating a person with mental issuesWho is freaking out about 19 and 17 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen are looking for compatibility. There’s no such thing as the “best” man, life doesn’t work like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSee, the people I know are more of the second. They don’t seem unhappy, they just seem to be okay with living life single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSource? I was just going off my own experience, but it could be off base. I’m 26f and have been single since I was 20. I can also think of three close friends my age who have never had boyfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy theory is that it isn’t that women are only dating out of their league, it’s that a lot of young women just aren’t dating at all. Just talking from my own experience and that of my close friends. We say we want to meet someone but we don’t put ourselves out there (for different reasons) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Are Woman in America are different?I’d say in general I’ve noticed that American people are just generally worse at socializing, especially compared to Aussies. I don’t think it’s a gendered thing and I also think your comparison based on one experience isn’t substantial evidence. The people I met in Australia were very social and easygoing, but then again the people you meet when traveling are more likely to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Is it really surprising that women don’t want to date you when you think so little of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?I’ve never been asked, and if I was I would consider it a major red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousMost women don’t think like that. A real connection is worth so much more to women than sex, even with the sexiest man alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 11:15 PM |
| 12 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousYou clearly don’t understand women if you think his wife might leave him because a bunch of strangers online matched with her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?Which is a symptom of their low self-esteem, not a show of arrogance or entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?It’s hilarious to me that you think the average overweight woman has high self-esteem. How oblivious can you be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Any hole but the holy hole! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.OP I’m sorry but you don’t seem particularly bright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:58 AM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Sure, but it’s rare. Only like 10 percent of women even cum during one night stands. Sure I can find someone to have sex with me any day of the week but I can do it better myself anyways. I’ve only ever had great sex in long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:40 PM |
| 4 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Surprising to read a take here that I actually agree with but as a woman this is completely true, at least for me. Women are more likely than men to say what you want to hear, but we also expect you to read between the lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:55 AM |
| 1 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Except if you were a woman you wouldn’t want casual sex the way a man does, so it’s a moot point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:38 AM |
| 9 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.… literally what this entire post is about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Women are often harsher, ruder, more dismissive, and more uncaring to male strangers than the other way aroundIf you actually read the study on disgust that you linked, it explains several theories on why this may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is?It should still be brought up on her terms, not yours. Using body count questions as a way to get info about past sexual assaults is gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.Interesting. I work with a ton a male engineers and most are partnered with doctors and scientists. They also all seem to have married someone more attractive than they are, it’s kind of astounding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreThis guy can’t be serious… I’ve never read a dumber thread in my life. I can’t believe you tried to argue with him for so long. It’s not worth the energy with these kind of people, you have to just laugh at it and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreCareers, jobs and the economy as we know it will be completely a thing of the past. Keep dreaming, bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Hypothesis: Women in the close future will become poorer, even after earning more than men, as gender relationships decay moreDude… are you ok?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | You’re not good enough to be averageI wouldn’t know, I hate online dating and gave up on it a long time ago. It’s hard to know based on photos and a short bio whether or not you’re compatible with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 06:21 PM |
| 3 | You’re not good enough to be averageI disagree the notion that a lot of overweight women have high self esteem. It’s more like an online dating issue where there’s no reason to lower your swiping standards when you already get plenty of matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Only 12% of women are between the ages of 20-24 which means the dream that redpill is selling is bullshitWhere I live in San Diego I swear like half the women I see are incredibly young and attractive. Only thing is the dudes are pretty good looking too so the level of competition might be the same. Saying this as a 25 year old woman, where I grew up I would be a 6 but here I'm a 3... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 02:37 AM |
| 7 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.I don’t understand your point at all. It’s men who are more likely to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:54 PM |
| 8 | The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned.After age 25 the percentage of people who are sexually active is pretty even between sexes. The difference is that for women it’s usually voluntary. (source) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?Why do you say that? I’ve always felt the opposite. It gets easier for men as they age. Women being into older guys is common but men being into older women is pretty rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?Sorry I should have mentioned I’m a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?Woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What are the consequences of having a colourful past?I’m ruined from having the best sex of my life when I was 18-21 and now it seems like nothing will ever compare, so there’s that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.It seems really hard, I certainly wouldn’t want to be a man of my same level of attractiveness. I think finding a connection is hard for everyone but it’s crazy how hard it is for guys to even get out there and find dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex?I wouldn’t make it to three months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Many men like to talk about how women end up in abusive relationships because they "pick the wrong men". So let's hear it, how would YOU pick the right man if you were a woman.It sounds like you’re saying women wouldn’t be abused as much if they stopped going for men out of their league… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Because we can get off by ourselves better than we can with a random dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemNot always. I have a friend who is super kinky but hasn’t been with any guys and doesn’t know how to put herself out there. I also was kinky before I had ever actually done it. But I agree that if that isn’t the case then there’s a good chance you aren’t compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemYeah it’s definitely a tough think. At the end of the day faking it probably won’t work, and it’s not really something you can change. Maybe there are kinky people out there who can live with vanilla sex, but I know I’d never be able to settle like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemGotcha. It sounds like you two just weren’t compatible, which is a bummer for sure. I’m like her, no clue if it’s innate or is due to trauma growing up, but I have been in her position with guys I really liked and it sucks for us too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Feminists having submissive/degradation kinks is a huge contradiction go their belief systemEven if that was true, what’s your point? Do you expect women into these kinks to quit their jobs and become submissive housewives? Or ignore their kinks and have less pleasure during sex in order to be a “better” feminist? I don’t get it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Florida Court Rules 16-Year-Old Too Immature for an Abortion but Mature Enough to Raise a Child | Feminists suddenly discover what it's like to be male and have no reproductive rights. Naturally they're outraged, but only because it's now happening to womenWhen did I say I was a feminist? I just said that men should have more reproductive rights, didn’t I? And the comment I was referring to said that they were glad this was happening to women, and you said you 100% agree. Don’t start lying now, it’s obvious that you get pleasure out of this. You want feminists to suffer and don’t care who gets hurt in the process, which to me is despicable. At least I don’t find pleasure in the fact that men don’t have reproductive rights, because I don’t lack bas… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Florida Court Rules 16-Year-Old Too Immature for an Abortion but Mature Enough to Raise a Child | Feminists suddenly discover what it's like to be male and have no reproductive rights. Naturally they're outraged, but only because it's now happening to womenShe’s a 16 year old kid, but congrats on holding her accountable I guess? I was actually referring to a comment that said they were glad this was happening, and you agreed. This us vs. them mentality isn’t going to get us anywhere. Men not having reproductive rights is messed up, and that doesn’t make it any better that our society is going backwards and children are being forced to have children. It’s horrifying that you would find any pleasure in that. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Top post today on TwoX implies the only emotion men know is anger.I think this was said tongue in cheek as women are constantly told to control their emotions | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Top post today on TwoX implies the only emotion men know is anger.As a woman, I wish the same. I hate the us against them mentality, when the reality is that sexism hurts all of us. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Florida Court Rules 16-Year-Old Too Immature for an Abortion but Mature Enough to Raise a Child | Feminists suddenly discover what it's like to be male and have no reproductive rights. Naturally they're outraged, but only because it's now happening to womenDo you? Because down below you say you’re glad this is happening to us… | /r/MensRights | 31/08/22 06:43 AM |
| 10 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Her point is that women are happier being single than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think gay men and lesbians don't need to use red pill, fds and debate on subs like this?I mean lesbian bed death exists for a reason. And gay men do have more sex in the first two years of their relationship than any other demographic. I get what you’re saying though, this sub is all about blanket statements which can get depressing. Everyone is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudMy birth was a different kind of paternity “fraud” in my opinion - my birth mother never told my birth father about me and gave me up for adoption. Continued seeing him after as well. I just found out all of this and my birth fathers identity yesterday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 5 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.I appreciate your take. I originally came here for the entertainment and discussion but the overwhelming misogyny can be a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 8 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.True. This subreddit is terrible for my mental health. I just wish both sides could have a little more compassion for what they don’t understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Yeah, no shit. It’s called empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:13 AM |
| 3 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.I don’t see much genuine care around here for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Men care about looks more than women. But the threshold to meet those looks requirements is much smaller, less alterable for relationships, and more alterable for sex. While for women it’s more alterable for relationships, and less alterable for sex.You are all completely ignoring that most people just end up matching with someone who is close to them in attractiveness. Most women don't go for men they think are out of their league. Sure if the 10 asks her out she isn't going to say no, but if she's a 6 she also knows that would never happen because the 10 is probably already with another 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:40 AM |
| 5 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.I think you're looking at personality as a 1-10 scale when it's really so much more about compatibility | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 14 | People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality.Do you care about women's struggles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:20 AM |
| 12 | I feel like social media has fucked women's perceptions of the opposite sex, far more than porn has for men.The article you linked does say this though: "And while both sexes prefer mates who are physically attractive and state clear preferences for the level of attractiveness sought in a potential partner, males have been shown to report stronger preferences for attractiveness relative to females" Women are more selective in general, but men are more selective when it comes to physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 7 | Why is Dating the only endeavor where people are advised to take an auxiliary approach in order to be successful therein?I’m 25 and I agree, as would all my friends. People want to date someone they know they have something in common with, not some strange man who only likes them because of how they look. It’s weird to me that this even needs to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Has any body had a hard time getting back out and dating since Covid?This sentence has five words. Here are five more words. Five-word sentences are fine. But several together become monotonous. Listen to what is happening. The writing is getting boring. The sound of it drones. It’s like a stuck record. The ear demands some variety. Now listen. I vary the sentence length, and I create music. Music. The writing sings. It has a pleasant rhythm, a lilt, a harmony. I use short sentences. And I use sentences of medium length. And sometimes, when I am certain the reade… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Do men in general envy women?As a woman, I generally don’t envy men except when it comes to workplace related things. I’m in a male dominated field and it’s hard. I also hate how emotional I can be, it makes everything harder. But I’m also glad that I’m able to show some emotion and not be ridiculed the way men are, that would definitely suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticYou would love if your worth came from your physical attractiveness and not from who you are? Okay, buddy. Women are their looks You believe this and then turn around and wonder why you’re a forever alone? Are you really this dense?? If you ever want to attract a woman it’s time to take a good, hard look at yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsYou’re missing the point completely. Your math assumes all women require those things and that they are independent variables, both of which aren’t true. The degrees was just one example - attractiveness is also not independent from weight and height. You also conveniently ignore all the men out there that don’t meet these standards and are in happy relationships. If your math was close to true than the vast majority of men AND women would be single. All you need to do is go outside and look aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 06:16 PM |
| 13 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticStop talking about women like we’re objects. Who wants to be desired/loved just for their value as a sexual object instead of who they actually are? And yet you talk about it like it’s a privilege. I’m used to a certain amount of ignorance on this sub but this is a whole new level. Good god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withIt’s wild to me that anyone would read this and choose B. We’re all gonna be ugly eventually. And I’d rather date someone of similar attractiveness to me than be with a 10/10. Now if it was the same question but instead of attractiveness it was sexual compatibility, that’s a much tougher question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsYour math is shit. You can only multiply probabilities like that if they are independent. Think about it. Say 35% of men have a bachelors, 3% have a masters. Does that mean 1% of men have both? No. The “or” statement is wrong too. You can only add probabilities like that if they are mutually exclusive. Also by your own logic, if all men care about is looks, mental stability, and femininity, then the 10-20 percent of women who qualify are the highest value and can get pretty much whoever they wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsThat assumes people are opening themselves up for a relationship in the first place. I know so many women who want a relationship but because of low self-esteem, anxiety, and/or past trauma they either remain single or go for unavailable guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 3 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Can’t tell if you’re being serious. You never know with this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.I totally disagree, though it's true with online dating just because women have more options than they know what to do with. In the real world, personality and connection can make us go for guys we never thought we would be into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false.I think it goes both ways though, as studies have shown men also put pressure on themselves to be the breadwinner. That being said, a higher percentage of women than men say they wouldn't consider dating someone who makes significantly less than them. It's getting better though - around a third of cohabitating relationships have the woman making as much or more than their partner. Here's some research on the topic. I think changing attitudes about having children is something that needs to be ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:09 AM |
| 8 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.It's also strange to me that small penis jokes are still so widely accepted. If someone made a small dick joke at my workplace people would probably chuckle, at most think it was in poor taste... but if a dude made a joke about women having roast beef flaps they would probably be fired that day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 5 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.Your second paragraph is right on the money, and is also why size isn't as important as it probably seems from a guys perspective (not saying this to invalidate what OP is saying because it is super messed up that society accepts small dick jokes, and understandable that men would think that). If other women are anything like me, then it's more about context for us than it is for men. You could have the perfect technique and I will never cum if I'm not in the right headspace. That's also why for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 02:28 AM |
| 12 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?I think this sub totally ignores the sexual trauma a lot of women dealt with in their teens. Literally me and all my friends, and for some of us it affects our ability to trust and make relationships now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.How was the woman in this situation entitled? She asked for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Even women in their 30s and 40s, well past their prime have almost the same level of entitlement (sometimes even more) as younger women. This is further confirmation that women are completely delusional in their self assessment, far worse than men in this regard.So if she’s picking being alone and OP is mad about that, how does that make her entitled? Sounds like OP is the entitled one in this situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram modelsDo they though? I’ve never heard of a woman masturbating to a picture… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 04:11 PM |
| 0 | Help me understand why you all feel hurt when a guy looks at porn/ Instagram modelsHow so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers or single fathers make better parents overall?There is an absence of research regarding whether single fathers are better parents. However, single fathers can be as good a parent as single mothers. In terms of income and education, single fathers tend to be in a better position than single mothers. You can find a lot of research about outcomes for single parent households in general, and there’s also a lot of data about the demographics of single fathers vs single mothers. You’re not going to find a study answering this particular question … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.I don’t even agree with the guy you’re arguing with but this is such a bad take. You sound extremely out of touch right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.The other thing is that this was an online study that the participants were paid 27 cents each for completing. That seems like it would bias the survey in a pretty obvious way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.Well for one, most people don’t want a free meal badly enough to sit through a bad date with someone they don’t like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 3 | It is unwise for men to be emotionally invested in a woman for the first few months to a year of datingMost women aren’t going after hookups and one night stands though, that’s the crux of the problem with online dating isn’t it? If women liked hookups as much as men there wouldn’t be three women for every man on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Young single women are checking out of dating/society more than single men.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:37 PM |
| 13 | Would you marry a chronically ill woman that may die at any time?Everyone with diabetes dies one day, therefore it’s terminal. Checkmate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxWork around in what way? Why would I be worried about other women “painting me in a bad light”? How would I control what anyone else does? Being lonely sucks. Being rejected sucks. Dating while ugly sucks. Maybe being an ugly man sucks even more than being an ugly woman. Why all the hate though? I bet if we sat down together and talked about our experiences, we would actually find a lot common ground. I think you should consider that your view of women may be somewhat skewed between your shitty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:25 AM |
| -6 | Both Men And Women In "Normal" Society Acknowledge Alpha Fux Beta BuxWomen don’t find you attractive, therefore they don’t care about you? Little bit of a reach there. I’m sorry you’ve had damaging experiences from being ignored and overlooked based on looks. There are probably a lot more women than you think who can relate to that feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Men are way hornier than women, and this is the cause of everything being discussed here. The fact that this is even disputed is proof that women are unable to have an honest discussion about dating and gender relations.I agree, I also think it’s comes down to how we get off. For women context is a lot more important, so even if we’re horny, a hookup with a random dude isn’t going to scratch the itch. Also if you can make one man cum you can pretty much make any man cum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | The “rules” for men and women don’t work for anyoneThe biggest problem of our generation is that teens aren’t getting pregnant enough? Am I reading that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?Might be? Come on now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 10:31 PM |
| 3 | If you're a guy whose goal is to have as many children as possible, what is your best course of action?Please tell me you aren’t saying that because the poor have more children, that if you become poor you’re more likely the have children…? Please tell me I’m reading this wrong and you aren’t actually this stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow many truly “ugly” female actresses are there? The few that exist mostly play the butt of the joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menSo is the point that if women have such high standards they should at least be pretty since that’s what men want anyways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menIsn’t that what most girls want too? I guess I’m not getting how men and women are different here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menYou really believe that? I think it’s hard for anyone to find someone “great,” because everyone is different and compatibility is tricky. It’s exponentially harder for guys because even getting a foot in the door is hard, and I agree about women having high standards. I just don’t really see what weight has to do with it. Being overweight lowers your dating pool whether you’re male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI think it’s interesting that you say that it’s important to recognize the challenges other people face, but then go on to say some really offensive things about women. “All you have to do is be pretty,” really?? For the record, I agree that men have it harder in the dating world. I also think you could have made that point without denigrating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menThat’s why online dating sucks though. It’s hard to get a feel for someone’s personality so of course you end up swiping mostly based on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menNo one has the time to talk to every match if they are less picky though. Saying this as an average/slightly below average looking woman… I probably swipe left on tons of guys that would be great boyfriends. It’s hard to tell on dating sites which is part of the problem. But if you’re getting more than enough matches, why would you be less picky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Need a good comeback to a feminist.Except Muslims don’t do most of the shootings so that would be objectively wrong. White men do most of the shootings so OPs friend is objectively correct. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Need a good comeback to a feminist.Feminism just means men and women deserve equal rights. If your dad didn’t think of women as objects and was more of a feminist he probably wouldn’t have called you out on how fat you are, just saying. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Need a good comeback to a feminist.fetuses* | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 01:20 PM |
| 9 | Another woman chasing height gets wrecked.That’s strangely specific | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/11/18 02:19 PM |
| 4 | The ring is not as I hoped for, so I'm "tolerating" and decided to share my dissatisfaction onlineAlso the font looks fake | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/11/18 07:28 PM |
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