talkstojeebus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Can you tell what sort of pussy a girl will have, based on her body type?		talkstojeebus	/r/seduction	14/01/13 02:08 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What to do when girl you want to approach seems occupied with something? If she looks uncomfortable and busy, she has probably had enough attention that day and can't wait to get to where she can be comfortable. If you're a friendly person and can offer genuine interest and no pressure, by all means, do what you do! but otherwise, give it a pass and approach the next time. We build our walls higher in defense of those who don't get these cues. Don't make it harder for each other.	/r/seduction	12/03/14 09:45 PM
1	"Spread Your Legs." Yes yes yes! You said it better than I did below.	/r/seduction	15/02/14 09:19 PM
2	"Spread Your Legs." Oh yes, DO follow up with sex. But, know that the bond you are forming in her eyes may be deeper than you intended. If you ask for trust, you have to be responsible with it. When you ask for trust, you're basically saying that you won't misuse it... (In our eyes, anyway... Might be a naive perspective, but lots of us think that way.) My point is, the hot thing about a man who can take charge is that they can handle the charge they take. Don't take on jobs/women that are more than you can or want…	/r/seduction	15/02/14 09:18 PM
18	"Spread Your Legs." Woman here... This works as a bit of a trust fall. It's great! When you play trust games it invites and asks for vulnerability. Have fun but try not to ruin things by asking for trust and then not holding up your end of the bargain. Doesn't mean you have to even call again. It does mean you have to do what you say you will.	/r/seduction	15/02/14 01:19 AM
1	Short guy picking up tall girls better for who? ;)	/r/seduction	07/09/13 08:38 PM
4	Short guy picking up tall girls Pushy. :( I don't mind pushy if comes along with way less posturing and jumpiness. Relax, little guy. Some of those bitches were rightly pretty uncomfortable. Didn't even seem warm. I like warm.	/r/seduction	07/09/13 05:38 PM
1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Didn't realize it was a mystery. Also, there are no "No Girls Allowed" signs on the door. I joined r/seduction because I like seduction on both sides... The name of this subreddit is hardly descriptive of what I view as seduction. It's more like how to play games that might get you laid. lol Which, is not at all the same! BTW, I like how you bolded the fact that I am a woman, but completely missed the part about like women too.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 05:40 AM
1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... I'm not saying he should be. But if he isn't, then that means she is only good to him for the physical pleasures and adventures that her body has to offer. Which, is the part that icked me out in the first place. Not that anyone here cares about that. but hey, you asked.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 04:35 AM
1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Is he open to the possibility of friendship? It doesn't sound like it, although I can't tell for sure, only he knows.. That's why I used the word "seems". I meant to ask for clarity not make a judgment exactly. Make sense?	/r/seduction	01/08/12 01:53 AM
2	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Naw, I don't think making out with someone I don't know is a big deal. I think that making out with someone that I don't even have a little bit of care for is more about me than than him or her. I think that when we look at other people's bodies as ways to meet our own needs and see those bodies as the only thing that a person has to offer, there is a potential for harm. I'm no prude, or christian or closed minded person. I apologize if it seems like I am projecting my views onto others with dif…	/r/seduction	31/07/12 11:07 PM
-2	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... line? lol	/r/seduction	31/07/12 10:56 PM
-5	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Isn't that why it's important to get to know people? To decide whether you like them enough to spend time with... Before making out with them or trying to make them to meet your needs?	/r/seduction	31/07/12 10:35 PM
-1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... But isn't it only a game if everyone knows they are playing? Not trying to be a downer, naysayer, I'm just having a hard time understanding this perspective.	/r/seduction	31/07/12 10:34 PM
1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... hrmn.. So beating them to the punch is a protective stance? I think I get that, but I question the rationality of it. I think there are fewer people that suck than don't... That doesn't mean every hook up or relationship will work beautifully for both parties, but it means that the people involved aren't necessarily out to "get" each other. As people get older they get kind of cynical and you hear singles start to complain about the opposite sex as having baggage. on both sides, there is baggage…	/r/seduction	31/07/12 09:58 PM
-1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Pretty good. I never have to feel bad about my intentions with people. That stuff makes a difference as you get older and have to think about your own actual worth in the world. Also, no lack of interest from the opposite or same sex and the people around me trust me.	/r/seduction	31/07/12 09:51 PM
-3	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... But why make out with someone you don't even like? Isn't that kind of grody? I personally have an investment in every single interaction with other human beings. That doesn't mean I want more of them in my life, even. It just means that I do not just use them for my own purposes until I figure out if they are worth my time and effort. Unlike so many PUA types I see around.	/r/seduction	31/07/12 08:03 PM
-5	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... I wouldn't expect you to fear losing her... just maybe see her as a person. Why does it take time to do that?	/r/seduction	31/07/12 08:01 PM
-1	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... To be clear, it seems like you mean "if they want nothing to do with sleeping with you". This is insisting on a certain type of relationship and is about control-not mutual like, respect, etc...	/r/seduction	31/07/12 08:00 PM
-21	I was trying to just mess with people and ended up somehow pulling in an HB7... Hilarious for sure.. but the view of women in these seduction posts is pretty concerning. Not caring about whether the girl hangs with you or not, smacks of really not caring about her. I'm grossed out by the idea of being with someone I don't care about or who doesn't care about me. Actually more than grossed, out. It makes me feel a little like you might be dangerous. Why? Because you don't care. It's caring that leads people to treating each other with respect, and it's care that makes people…	/r/seduction	31/07/12 06:59 PM
7	I think it's worth clarifying what exactly it is that we do here on Seddit. Thank you so much for saying all of this. I would sooner sleep with someone like you than most other posters.	/r/seduction	07/06/12 09:38 PM
2	Do tall girls perceive themselves as of a higher value than "normal" girls, or am I projecting wrongly an exclusively male behavior on tall females? There are inherent positives and negatives attached to being tall. As far as positives go, I can reach things. I can reach them for you too! Please know that I love to do this, because I love to be helpful. In no way, do I want to lord it over anyone. But, I also want to be asked nicely to do it. My tallness doesn't mean that I owe shorter people anything. But I do like to help.	/r/seduction	07/03/12 01:44 AM
2	Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity? haha, yes! Avoid "surprise sex". It doesn't always end well.	/r/seduction	05/03/12 03:15 AM
1	Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity? Maybe when people have more experience it is appropriate to call each other "the pussy" or "the cock", or whatever. But in my opinion, when you're talking about putting your trust in someone and asking for theirs, for your very first sexual experience, you may want to try to see "the pussy" as a person. But, I agree, pedestals are not helpful, no matter your gender and who you are interested in having sex with.	/r/seduction	05/03/12 03:14 AM
1	Should losing your v-card be meaningful? Should you lose it at your first opportunity? Hi, 34 yr old woman here. I lost it when I was 16. I felt it was time, and I had an older guy wanting to date me. At the time, I knew I was just doing it to get it done. I dated him for a month and messed around, trying to gain some experience with mine and his bodies. We had sex feb 12. it wasn't "meaningful". But, it also wasn't harmful. I think its important to understand the distinction between, an intimate time that isn't really meaningful, vs having sex with a person and treating them like…	/r/seduction	05/03/12 03:09 AM
1	Tyler Durden at 22 years old, with Mystery. I have always thought that the "2-6 rule" is a good way to see iff ages are compatible. Divide the older persons age by 2, then add 6. The answer is the youngest appropriate age that the older person can date. In the case above, a person who is 31 should date someone who is at least 21years old.	/r/seduction	19/02/12 09:52 PM
2	Picking up girls who are at work Uhg.. I have always hated getting hit on at work. To be honest, the person would have to be very attractive to me. And I think it would work best to go in and see her a few times before going for it. Good luck!	/r/seduction	13/05/11 08:05 AM
0	epiphany I am attracted already!	/r/seduction	30/03/11 12:24 AM
2	A girl who was statutorily raped gets her abortion paid for by the taxpayers; a boy who was statutorily raped is obligated to pay child support if his rapist decides to keep the baby a paid for abortion isn't what I would class as a real win, a gift, or anything of the sort. These are always accompanied by pain of all kinds. No one actually feels good in these scenarios.	/r/MensRights	03/02/11 10:37 PM
1	Crosspost: By request: I'm a guy and in eighth grade I was raped by a group of girls at a party. AMAA. its adding insult to injury, when a bad thing happens, you do your best to survive it, and then you can't tell anyone. I am sorry this happened to you too, and I hope that you can find a safe place to tell your story, and that the response to your story will be respectful, and see you as brave and a warrior.	/r/MensRights	31/01/11 08:37 AM
1	Crosspost: By request: I'm a guy and in eighth grade I was raped by a group of girls at a party. AMAA. I am sorry that happened to you. I will ask some questions, Have you told anyone else? If you did, what was their reaction, and how did the reaction impact you?	/r/MensRights	31/01/11 07:55 AM
1	Are women unhappier because of money? Unhappier: Word of the year...So far.	/r/MensRights	03/01/11 02:53 AM
1	This is an unacceptable way of treating your son Used to get shit for "stealing" food as well. I think it was partly because we were poor though, and had to ration food. we were only allowed to eat what we were given.	/r/MensRights	30/11/10 09:02 PM
2	This is an unacceptable way of treating your son I'm 33. I used to get the hot sauce for lies and soap in the mouth for swears. I cried so hard about not being loved (those were the words I used, even at 3 years old) that i would get a terrible headache. This pain made me cry even more. Then, cold water dumped on me to shock me out of my crying and I would sit there shivering, lip quivering and head about to explode. Also, I was often given a choice of spanking or grounding. A few times I remember being locked outside crying and banging on the…	/r/MensRights	30/11/10 08:59 PM
1	Teen mom & BF tape toddler to wall; she gets 10 days, he's sentenced to 36-60 months? This happened to my brother when he was 5, I was 3. Our twin cousins (teen boys) were babysitting us for the night. They grabbed my brother, tied him to a chair with duct tape. Then they hit him repeatedly, with a stuffed animal that had a wind-up music box in it. I remember watching and laughing and laughing until I saw that his face was red. 4 year olds don't understand much I guess. :(	/r/MensRights	02/10/10 09:55 AM
1	Harvard Says 70% 0f Domestic Violence is Committed By Women Against Men Why do I have to be fat and Indonesian, unless I have a pic? I always wanted to be Hispanic :(	/r/MensRights	21/07/10 01:55 AM
16	Harvard Says 70% 0f Domestic Violence is Committed By Women Against Men Finally. And I am a chick.	/r/MensRights	16/07/10 05:52 AM