tallonqsack Archive

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0	Women dislike weak and shy guys more than violent misogynists and I'll die on that hill Uh he wasn’t an incel because he literally trafficked victims & raped them. The only consensual sex he had was presumably Ghislaine, and she is an evil rapist herself. That doesn’t mean all women are like Ghislaine ffs. Such an extreme example/anecdote to use as generalization for the argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/26 10:17 PM
0	“Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to men What is “AFBB”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/26 01:31 AM
1	There's No Shame in a Man Wanting a Bangmaid Those aren’t feminist terms…huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/26 03:26 PM
2	Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends? They are saying they do care about the violence, though! You seem to want to ignore that— I guess since it’s just…inconveniently contrary to your whole og premise (which is one big ol’ straw ̛man itself)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 11:48 PM
–	Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends? We should shame both people who want to be assholes but don’t have a partner to harm, & actual assholes who do harm to their partners. I don’t see a disconnect there between who is against such things. Who is “barely shaming” abusers but is shaming sexless wanna-be abusers? If there is such an incentive that exists, even then I don’t think it’s presented by women/those being victimized. I think the incentive would be inherent to men who want to commit these crimes, have violent urges & wish to c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:11 PM
–	Why obsess over women with terrible boyfriends? It’s also just not true. Research shows looks matter more to men as a general population than women in terms of dating habits. And it’s still strange to victim blame women or somehow be jealous when they’re abused by their partners— who btw— don’t usually show that they’re going to be abusive, or advertise their future mistreatment of a romantic prospect from the get-go! It’s typically a dynamic within established relationships that escalates over time. That’s kinda the thing about the cycle of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 08:46 PM
3	Men are hugely responsible for "hoeflation." I agree with everything you mentioned, except for the endometriosis part that threw me off at the end, lol. Cis men don’t have that because it’s literally a disease where uterine tissue grows outside of the uterus & into the abdominal cavity/other internal organs. XY males don’t have uteruses obviously so they don’t have tissues to start growing all haywire in the first place. They wouldn’t have the same type of cells to begin with (nor any of the various other respective parts in that same repr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 03:17 PM
0	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. They’re lined up to get into a party because that’s where you go to socialize. That’s what such events are…not even necessarily for dating but yeah. Why tf would random women be allowed in to hit on men in an academic setting, even if they were to line up to a STEM building where education takes place, not dating/casual socializing? It’s the function of the space not being FOR that. If they’re not students why would they have any reason to be there, or would this hypothetical practice ever be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 08:11 PM
0	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Same with narcissistic psychopathic women having more success with men (romantically, in a certain sense— not necessarily ever achieving long term relationships that “work out” though). These traits are literally skills & willingness to manipulate/use other people. Of course we see them represented this way. It doesn’t mean they’re more attractive FOR being narcissistic or whatever though. The people who like them or associate with them generally don’t believe they are, as the dark triad is al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 08:07 PM
0	Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship? That isn’t the point though of body positivity or whatever. It’s to treat people, including women, with basic respect & decency whether or not you find them attractive (or how much they may fit whichever standards of your own personal physical/sexual inclinations). And that was something that particularly affected women outside the beauty standard aka fat women for so long. It wasn’t just men not being into them but being treated poorly & cruelly insulted for their weight even in platonic relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 01:53 AM
2	Bieng a jerk helps a lot I’d agree with that for sure. Doesn’t that go both ways? (Some) men can have the same “ability to overlook” negative traits of a woman they find physically attractive, & may thus pursue her anyway based on that alone. People can be shallow regardless of gender, basically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/26 02:07 AM
6	What do you like about men? Women don’t have any particular sexual preferences/fantasies, or rather some singular set thereof which we necessarily share. We’re individuals, so what we’re “into” differs. Just as there is still such variation amongst men (when considering each/all amongst the whole group).	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/26 04:49 AM
2	Do you think women are the fairer sex? So most women are attractive/above average somehow, and in turn considered (particularly) funny & smart (due to their appearance)? That doesn’t make sense to me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/26 11:54 PM
2	All the toxic women, Women Say Don’t Exist Are Absolutely Flourishing Women are people and people can be bad/do bad things. I don’t see women as a whole denying this fact, but in fact tend to promote the idea of this simply being reality. In the case of feminism that is especially true…as women, our equal fallibility to all ills (even to patriarchal ideals with their intrinsic “toxicity”) is acknowledged as a fundamental factor underlying individuality itself among the “species” we all belong to/the society we share. Females/femmes comprise roughly half of humanit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 11:53 PM
1	All the toxic women, Women Say Don’t Exist Are Absolutely Flourishing Women are people and people can be bad/do bad things. I don’t see women as a whole denying this fact, but in fact tend to promote the idea of this simply being reality. In the case of feminism that is especially true…as women, our equal fallibility to all ills (even to patriarchal ideals with their intrinsic “toxicity”) is acknowledged as a fundamental factor underlying individuality itself among the “species” we all belong to/the society we share. Females/femmes comprise roughly half of humanit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/26 11:49 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. If you need an “incentive” to be nice, you never were. (That’s just transactional at that point, not genuine— many people can tell the difference, thus not rewarding others for faking kindness toward them)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:43 PM
–	Genuine question , what do men get out of this sub or subs similar to this. What is GNC?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/26 10:40 PM
9	Women, seriously. Why do you have such an aversion to taking responsibility and admitting fault? How is apologizing not “admitting fault”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 10:18 AM
2	Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare. Isn’t it technically masculine though because it’s well, male pattern baldness? So then it’s more just generally cosmetic rather than being explicitly gender affirming, no? Well, not for men & trans masculine people at least. But I could see the opposite being true actually (for a trans woman whom this would be gender affirming to/for in the traditional sense)! Not saying that’s bad/invalid or anything either, if it’s just cosmetic so being done for men’s self esteem/well-being regardless, btw. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 01:42 PM
–	Men think they are more attractive than they really are Lmao wait- what is “female testosterone”? You mean just…testosterone? Because that peaks at the beginning of menstruation, not ovulation. Like the first day or two of one’s period is when they’re the highest, both overall & relative to the rest of the hormones (which are in fluctuation depending on the particular point in time of the entire pattern which repeats every month/for ~28 days). And in general, for women, T levels remain much more steady overall throughout the entire cycle than they do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 03:10 AM
1	There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men. You think women get “satisfaction” in rejecting the advances of men? Huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 04:01 AM
1	There is no moral failure in not wanting to sleep with whatever percentage of men. Hybristophilia exists for/among both men & women but there are more overall- and especially more high profile- male killers rather than female ones. So therefore the entire phenomenon gets seen as those men getting substantial amounts of romantic attention from so many women (per each “bad guy”) when the reverse is true too…it just seemingly happens less often because well, there are fewer targets for the hybristophilic behavior of straight men. It still manifests with the same frequency though.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 03:54 AM
1	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Huh??? Of course I do lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 11:22 AM
1	Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't Handsome Well the bar itself implies consent so no. But I get what you mean since yeah, the prevalence of coercion may play into how relatively “low” the bar is (according to this whole trope regarding standards women have for male partners).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 11:18 AM
1	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy Attraction/beauty isn’t objective though, it’s literally subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 11:10 AM
1	On OLD women definitely privilege the "alpha male" type of guy Do you…not believe in individuality? How, solipsism? Or did you never develop theory of mind during childhood? I am genuinely so confused by this. You must realize each & every human being is unique/distinct/one of a kind, right? And you know how they are sentient just like you are aware of yourself (having an experience of existing), with personal inner “worlds”/minds of their own that are equally as complex as yours is, (but) essentially just full of different stuff…? It’s hard or perhaps impo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 11:09 AM
0	Ironically, progressive women are still obsessed with status in men This is a straw man though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 02:59 AM
1	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy When you talk about consent as if it comes down to whether they “give something up” because the other person/suitor has something of value besides their actual partnership, and is pursuing a relationship with them based on offering (to share) that thing, to me seems indicative of a belief I disagree with. So are you of the mindset that relationships which are transactional in nature are healthy/normal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 12:54 AM
9	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy Due to colorism	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 12:03 AM
2	Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't Handsome He didn’t even approach women- he had them brought to him. Like the guy was literally being straight up hand delivered an endless supply of human beings in a process we’d call uhh enslavement…Ya know?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 02:48 AM
1	Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't Handsome His “status” is certainly high relative all men who have ever lived, basically. And it allowed him to abuse so many individuals, sure, but that’s got nothing to do with his desirability as a partner and it doesn’t prove that it was necessarily increased based upon that factor. I mean…Who was attracted to him? Certainly not his victims— otherwise it wouldn’t be rape then, no? The whole point is the lack of consent (from the countless individuals he’d committed sexual acts upon/against)! He had th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 02:41 AM
2	Status > Looks: History's Most Prolific Men Weren't Handsome So is Obama tbf	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:57 AM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I mean…I don’t claim to have those rules for any men at all, lol. I don’t need a guy to be a specific height, pay for dates, or “provide” for me in order to date them. I just have to like the guy. And that isn’t something I consciously decide based on such defined parameters- I just naturally feel a certain way about the person. It isn’t a matter of ticking enough boxes down a pre-determined list of objective traits/circumstances like that or whatever! My interest isn’t conditional upon any part…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:50 AM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. You are so close to understanding consent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:23 AM
1	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. Well no shit. Why would we want equality at all if it wasn’t an improvement (over inequality)?! We want the same rights/privileges that men currently have in our society, the benefits which were reserved for them but not for us. That doesn’t mean we want men to have disadvantages- feminism is not about flipping the hierarchy to favor women over men or something. It’s about elevating all people to be treated just as well as only some people currently are (or have been historically) by our cultura…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 01:07 AM
1	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. No such thing as a “female brain”- nor a male one, for that matter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 12:17 AM
1	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. Where did you get the 15 hours a week stat from? I’m very curious about this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 12:14 AM
2	Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men. From p in v intercourse, you mean- which is indeed what most people think of as their basic concept of what sex even is. And it’s defined by the man’s pleasure by default- it begins when he’s physically aroused & ends when he finishes. :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 12:11 AM
1	The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either. I definitely agree with your whole general premise here but just wanted to point out that the word “virtue” doesn’t really apply- rather that I don’t think it’s what you actually mean. Virtue is like, a moral character trait or positive attribute which someone possesses…or alternatively, a value/phenomenon that is inherently “good” in terms of ethics. So the usage of it here doesn’t make total sense. I think you’re trying to say that the ability to get sex isn’t necessarily a benefit or privileg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/25 02:47 AM
9	Advice - girlfriend laughing at manhood Trust me, it really isn’t that deep. I mean surely you must recognize the fact that well, dicks- especially outside of a sexual context- make ppl laugh…men & women alike. Right? You gotta work on your insecurities anyway through therapy or what have you especially if it continues bothering you and/or comes up in other ways, as it basically seems to be considering how you’d hide it from her before this happened. Not blaming you at all (unless you treat her badly for laughing or something) as it s…	/r/ExRedPill	06/08/25 12:56 AM
1	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. They’re more likely obese because single moms are poorer than single dads and low income diets- what groceries ppl can afford- are less nutritionally balanced aka “unhealthy” (associated with higher fat & sugar contents, etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:58 PM
6	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. I “won’t” make mine either. But I would if my partner asked me to. If he wanted the bed to be made- our bed, that is. I mean as long as he did equal work to make the bed, too, like taking turns or whatever. Because we share the responsibility of our running our life together, and how that life looks is a matter of both our individual needs/wants combined together. Like I’m saying we each get input on the stuff we share or every aspect of daily household routines/ways- so although it doesn’t matt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:48 PM
4	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Right, but you’re saying parents plural here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:35 PM
5	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. I feel like that’s “the last straw” & not the core reason though	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:31 PM
8	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. To be fair, a lot of single guys do eat like shit! I mean plenty of young men go right from being totally dependent upon their mom for the fulfillment of their own basic needs to living on their own and having those go unmet due to their lack of self sufficiency in those areas. And far too many of those men fail to ever develop those abilities despite their suffering from it for however long…instead they expect to get another woman to do what mom used to- and for some, maybe their gfs/wives do e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:30 PM
3	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Huh? They’re saying that their dad didn’t do the “bare minimum” therefore was a bad parent, not necessarily that their mom was a good parent simply because she DID meet that threshold…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:13 PM
2	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Of course it leads to worse outcomes statistically because you simply have one less adult caring for you while growing up. Less time & less money going toward you in a single adult household, that’s a huge factor. It’s literally cut in half, the resources that can be provided to the child- even if the single parent is trying & giving their literal all. I mean they simply have less of everything versus a dual income one, or even a “traditional” nuclear family setup where there’s a working person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:11 PM
1	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Do you think this changed over time (since the 80s/90s let’s say) or was always a myth?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:04 PM
4	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Why are you dating these women (who you look down on so much)? ‘Neglectful’ mothers are your type or some shit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:03 PM
2	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. Mine was generally weekends with my dad, & weekdays with my mom. I’m not even sure that that was like the official legal conditions though, it may just have been what my mom & dad agreed to because it never seemed like there was any court involvement or supervision of what they did or how I was raised lol. Maybe it was totally informal because there was definitely wiggle room/flexibility in terms of whatever worked at the time. Or I suppose it would never become an issue unless one of my parents…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 11:01 PM
1	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. I can confirm this from personal experience- But that only applies when women want to keep the father from having/sharing custody. My dad was divorced from my mom since I was 2 or something, but remained part of my life regardless. It was a back & forth thing where I stayed with each parent some percentage of the time…I was usually at my mom’s on weekdays and my dad’s on weekends plus other things like spending holidays with that side of the family or whatever events (or just him providing extra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 10:50 PM
3	Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that. My dad was with another woman (my stepmom) since I was a toddler or some shit and was still in my life- what they now call “coparenting”, basically. He didn’t abandon me just because they were no longer in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/25 10:34 PM
1	It's bad when people try to justify women preferences with morality or connecting their preferences to being a good human being. But women don’t follow conventionally attractive alpha males and shit because they’re misogynists. The looks aren’t the reason behind his female following- which isn’t even a majority for Hasan’s audience btw. It doesn’t hurt, just like that’s true for literally all famous people…yes, being considered good looking helps men & women in their careers in media, it’s harder to become a successful public figure/personality/celebrity but that definitely isn’t truer for men than it is for women, whose …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 11:34 PM
1	Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why? Uh yeah so does any famous person, whether infamous for a crime or just a regular Hollywood actor or something innocuous. Because they’re well known to strangers. Of course they get attention if they’re famous. It doesn’t mean they get anything out of that- especially the serial killers in your example because they’re in prison lol. I mean you’re comparing everyday individuals to celebrities at this point. That goes for women too. I think Sydney Sweeney or literally any woman who is a public fig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 11:24 PM
7	Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefit Because it simply is rarer. It is harder to find a male partner who is both willing & (knowledge)able to prioritize their female sexual partner’s pleasure as much as his own. This overall trend/statistic is due to various factors, mainly overarching ones in the environment…I mean the entire concept of sex itself in many ways is defined by the man’s orgasm. P-in-v intercourse is the standard/default and it starts with his arousal (erection) & ends with his climax (ejaculation). That’s just the ci…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 11:06 PM
1	Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefit I mean everyone is different and also our needs/wants change over time. Some women want casual sex never, some want it for most of their life, for most individuals it changes depending on their stage of life so they might want it at some points and not others (like when seeking a serious monogamous partnership/relationship or currently committed in one). It’s on an individual basis so I wouldn’t say your statement is accurate. Nobody speaks for their entire gender/sex- aka half the human populat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/25 10:57 PM
–	Women have not somehow artificially manipulated the dating market to increase their perceived value, the modern dating market simply revealed that women are more desirable than men Wait, you just said you tell her that if she doesn’t like something, she can leave- but that you also work through issues in your relationship…Which is it? Is it only the issues you have (with her) that get resolved? It makes it sound like if she is the one to bring something up, it gets dismissed. But you also say it’s the same for you (that you can leave if you “don’t like something”) so I’m just confused.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 06:54 AM
2	Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”? But people can mutually seek out & enter casual relationships. Like it’s possible for two people to willingly hook up with each other with no expectation of continuing a longer term romantic partnership or committing to one another in any way. I mean- I just think you can not want to necessarily share your life with another person, but still find them attractive & just desire to sleep with them “casually”— with the rest of your whole dynamic staying platonic (between eachother)…So if someone eng…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 05:29 AM
1	Women: Do you hate/despise unattractive incel losers who whine about women's dating standards more than actual abusers, rapists, and violent murderers of women? If so, why? But those killers get attention from a tiny minority of women. Famous killers are just not a large group either, by any means, so they’re outnumbered…thus you get this ratio of “suitors” to each singular serial killer. Also, they tend to be only the mega famous, otherwise conventionally handsome ones who get such treatment. It’s a paraphilia, which means it’s defined by its abnormality. Only a small segment of people have hybristophilia. You can’t generalize that to half the human population (me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 11:53 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come This is what I’ve noticed too. It often goes unsaid, but there’s this particular cognitive distortion- a (gendered) version of the Actor-Observer Bias/Fundamental Attribution Error- which leads to the underlying resentment redpilled/blackpilled men all seem to have in common… Could also be related to the Ultimate Attribution Error or maybe the Group Attribution Error. The Extrinsic Incentives Bias & the Puritanical Bias might also apply!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 11:35 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Right but what’s been making headlines recently? That Gen Z (and likely Alpha will follow suit) has the widest political/ideological divide along gender lines of all the currently living generations. At least among the US population- not sure globally but I think it’s an overall trend that’s reflected here and amplified among the increasingly divisive West. It’s kinda unprecedented.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:36 PM
5	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come Every social ill comes back to capitalism somehow. The profit motive is the issue, as you’ve identified. The interest of the company is not to make relationships happen- it’s quite the opposite. They have zero incentive to actually build their apps in a way that facilitates good matches/long term relationships. They make money off loneliness & desperation of single people searching for love— so if the user actually finds it, then they are no longer a customer of the product/service!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 10:20 PM
2	Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women. Exactly. This is just a non-scenario that has nothing to do with women’s expectations let alone reality, it exists in theory as a device though	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:17 PM
1	Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women. And women are usually r*ped by people we know- in fact it’s often by their own partners, sadly enough, or a family member/friend/other acquaintance is the perpetrator. This is true for the majority of cases versus it being a “freak occurrence” of a total stranger randomly jumping a woman out in public or on the street…or whatever the typical image is, of some crazed criminal (that the victim should have somehow avoided preemptively- according to misogynist logic, at least)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 09:09 PM
1	Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women. That is not true- there is no universal preference for eye color. Brown eyes aren’t considered more attractive…nor blue or green or grey, and not for any reason at all. Because it differs individually for each person. And some have no preference for those specific factors like eye color. And even then it’s a generalization, only discussed in the abstract like the idea of blue-eyed people as a whole versus brown-eyed people as a whole, someone might say they tend to like brown or blue. But in rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/25 08:37 PM
1	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere Yeah, that’s racist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 07:22 AM
6	There is no point in telling women theyre not entitled to safety. What do you mean “male nature”???	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 05:25 AM
4	If a woman voted against your reproductive rights, would you still want to date her? Where? Roe V Wade was overturned in 2022, and now abortion has been criminalized in many states- many going so far as to even make it a crime for their residents to travel to another state (where it’s still legal) in order to have one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 09:05 PM
3	Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy. https://www.reddit.com/r/pointlesslygendered/comments/gkmuvs/this_is_absolutely_correct/	/r/ExRedPill	22/11/24 01:00 AM
8	Honestly as a man who is in his late 20s I hate that we live in a patriarchy. https://www.hercampus.com/school/vcu/is-the-hatred-of-cats-rooted-in-misogyny/	/r/ExRedPill	22/11/24 12:59 AM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Do you have a source for these preference importance rankings by gender?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 10:27 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Wishing for a hypothetical man who would meet their needs in a relationship and fulfill certain standards or preferences they have is very different than wanting someone who actually exists (or wanting “a” woman “of your own” as a thing) & resenting them for “rejecting” you by refusing to give you sex/romantic attention. Feeling wronged by them when it’s not mutual is a possessive, objectifying attitude. Women saying “where are all the good men” is kinda the opposite. What they really mean is th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 10:09 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Attraction (& even compatibility) is subjective & differs on a personal level between each individual/potential “pairing”, and even within an established ongoing relationship. It isn’t some permanent intrinsic trait but a dynamic & exists as the feelings (romantic ones- or lack thereof) toward/for that person by another human being. Desirability isn’t something one “has”. Like beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder. So when you say “desirable men”- desirable according to you? I don’t think you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 09:47 PM
–	The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average women Desirable to whom??	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/24 09:32 PM
0	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? Some women are. This is the problem with generalizations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 04:05 AM
2	I realized I’m not attractive enough for “casual sex”, or at least not as attractive as some of my friends. and it’s messing with my head. Or are you applying a different standard to judge them by rather than your own? If so, is that just based on what you imagine women (as a whole, I guess?) would see/think of the same exact people…which you believe would be quite different- specifically more negative- due to their gender, for some reason? Why exactly would you assume that they’d find these individuals’ non-physical traits to be less appealing/more off-putting than you as a fellow man do?	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/24 06:08 AM
2	I realized I’m not attractive enough for “casual sex”, or at least not as attractive as some of my friends. and it’s messing with my head. If they don’t have good personalities, why are you even friends with these guys? Platonic relationships aren’t typically formed based on attractiveness- since there is no attraction- so how can that be the only thing they have going for them if you yourself have befriended them?	/r/ExRedPill	22/10/24 06:07 AM
1	If Spongebob didn't teach you marine biology, you shouldnt be using fiction to talk about women’s attraction. https://theconversation.com/do-women-really-go-for-bad-boys-heres-the-science-that-settles-the-question-59409 https://www.theguardian.com/science/brain-flapping/2016/may/12/science-hasnt-proved-that-women-go-for-bad-boys https://www.thelist.com/1240835/relationship-bad-boy-myths/	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/24 09:44 PM
1	If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance? I mean, as a woman I don’t agree with their take…(because we’re not all the same, believe it or not) No duality here…🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 04:10 AM
1	If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance? Except for women who want casual relationships— believe it or not, they can still have standards for engaging in those, too…🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/24 03:36 AM
1	Porn consumption is one of the biggest threats to empathy, connection, and love between men and women “I don’t pay for it” exactly…that makes it worse in terms of your argument. Traditional porn is exploitative of the performers (financially). At least with OF now, people can be “content creators” and their own boss/work for themselves, and produce the material they are comfortable making themselves. Plus of course they receive all of the profit, as they should for what is their labor (physical of course and mental/creative/social). With the typical arrangement involving producers/directors (tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/09/24 02:42 AM
10	Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards? Right but that’s exactly the issue with these men viewing media from, or set in, the (idealized) past & acting as if the tropes portrayed within it represents the reality of traditional marriage- or anything else back then, really/actual people’s lives, in general…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 10:52 AM
7	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. Uhhh pretty sure they did? Well, plenty did. Women aren’t a singular hivemind, they’re a bunch of people which together comprise half of the human population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:55 AM
–	A lot of society does not appreciate motherhood until no one wants to do it. I think in this context they meant “appreciation” as in like: having gratitude toward, or respect for someone– and not appreciating something aesthetically as you would a piece of art, or how media gets consumed…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 11:38 AM
–	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? Who do you think the girls were dating, if not their male peers (at their high school, in their same grade)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 07:06 AM
–	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? You do realize there are women with the same “nerdy” interests…just ones you’re not attracted to, I guess?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 06:18 AM
–	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? Dating apps aren’t only about getting sex. Some are on them for casual hookups and others are looking for a long term relationship, etc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 06:02 AM
–	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? Why are you assuming women wouldn’t consider that rape? I do. Who exactly says that women never perpetrate SA, or that it doesn’t ever happen to men? Every advocate & advocacy group I know of doesn’t characterize such situations differently based on the gender of the victim/rapist. That’s not really a relevant factor in determining whether something is assault or not. It’s either consensual or it’s not…for any sexual encounter/sex act, the same rules apply to determine that (regardless of the se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 06:00 AM
–	The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be taken Who wants to ban men going overseas? I’ve never heard of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 12:19 PM
1	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? You said you see it “on tv” & talked about media (of both the traditional & social variety) so that’s where I’m getting “celebrities”, or at least people of note that are obviously going to be dressed up & done up to get their pictures taken or appear in content/entertainment, etc. Not everyone has an Instagram, it tends to be certain people who have a reason to post pictures of themselves, so it leans toward models, etc, more than other platforms or just, you know, people you would encounter on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 04:36 AM
1	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? Uh, sure? I’m saying that it doesn’t reflect what average everyday people look like in person, not just because of makeup but photo editing, AI, etc. And the fact that it’s not a random sample of women whose profiles you’re seeing on your feed. The algorithm isn’t serving you like, people in your area, or anything representative of the general population. So if you’re imagining that the majority of women must look just like these images which you consume online…I think you should test it by goin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 04:23 AM
1	Can you empathize with the other side? That’s not a feminist belief at all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 12:49 AM
1	Do men and society even need women (besides reproduction)? The last part, lol…(seriously, wtf?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/24 12:42 AM
2	Can you provide examples of rape victims being blamed for what they were wearing? Huh???	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 10:45 PM
1	Can you provide examples of rape victims being blamed for what they were wearing? “Most of these still do not result in a conviction, charges, or even an arrest.” Uh, exactly…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 10:44 PM
1	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? You keep mentioning celebrities & images you see online. That’s far from “80% of women”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 09:34 PM
0	Why is the role that makeup plays in women’s privilege downplayed so much? “on instagram” you say?– well no shit…lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/24 09:31 PM
1	Can men expect the bare minimum from women? Of course not. But no male friends randomly meet one another by randomly approaching eachother “on the street” either. We meet people in social settings where people are talking, conversing. Opposite sex friends and professional contacts meet eachother this way, not by cold approaching people they visibly see walking down a sidewalk for no reason. Idk why human interaction is boiled down to either being all Or nothing “cold approaches” between strangers versus where people actually interact	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 06:29 AM
2	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? I think you should “orient” yourself toward what you find attractive and what you want in a partner. Not the “average” person of the opposite sex. Seek out who you genuinely feel compatible with and attuned to, regardless of anything else. And by orienting I just mean finding yourself and finding what you like and learning how to present that authentically toward others. I also don’t believe there is an “average” to find or assess, and if there is such an ideal it’s usually tainted by popular cu…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 06:15 AM
1	Why is confidence so much more important than other good traits like humor, kindness,etc. when it comes to dating? It’s not more important. I’m not sure why the trope of such advice “confidence is attractive” exists other than the fact that maybe it just means showing your personality? If your personality is kind, funny, etc, you only show that if you’re “confident” enough to do so- I guess…I think this is based on the misunderstanding between bravado/cockyness & self assuredness or like, earnestness. I do believe in the advice of “just be yourself” although that’s easier said than done of course and I think…	/r/ExRedPill	12/04/24 06:08 AM
2	To what extent have women been oppressed in history? …did you think they meant the company?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 04:05 AM
2	I want to make exredpill female friends? The closest thing to a formerly “redpilled” woman would probably be ex-“tradwives” and whatnot (so, under a different name than any of the manosphere titles for guys who joined these movements online originally)…including former religious fundamentalists who have left the extra-patriarchal communities & cults they were raised into or recruited by/groomed into by a former partner/abuser. Plenty of ex-Mormons, etcetera fit this bill.	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/24 03:51 AM
2	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health https://theconversation.com/other-people-are-having-way-way-less-sex-than-you-think-they-are-101153 https://www.healthday.com/health-news/child-health/most-u-s-teens-aren-t-doing-it-723903.html https://ed.stanford.edu/news/misfit-or-miss-goody-two-shoes-study-shows-misperceptions-abound-among-adolescents	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 03:00 AM
1	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health Huh?? What is that?	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 02:48 AM
2	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health I mean, like any medium of entertainment, certain messaging is widely ingrained into popular media. This goes for porn, and the common portrayals of men vs women measurably differ for most porn that’s aimed at/is consumed by a straight male audience. There’s just apparent widespread themes of objectification & degradation of females appearing in mainstream porn, and disproportionate aggression/violence is shown toward female porn stars during the majority of straight sex scenes almost by default…	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 02:45 AM
2	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health I think people on the “anti” red pill spectrum (aka blue pill) are finally coming around to this reality, too. Millennials and Gen Z especially are now realizing why this stuff needs to be addressed. Especially as they see how it’s different from like, conservative slut-shaming/purity culture, or whatever it’s seemed to get confused for in more left-wing/feminist circles (in my experience)! At least in the past that sort of knee-jerk association’s been prevalent. For the past decade or more, the…	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 02:04 AM
1	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health So I don’t recommend 12 step ideology for any type of dependency, substance or otherwise (unless it’s the only option left that you go into informed & intending to only take the good/helpful parts from) but I agree with everything else you’ve said here! Porn, as it now stands, in this current culture, IS indeed a problem- or at least, the influence of the porn industry manifests itself in certain social ills. It definitely contributes to the vulnerability of young men to going down the red pill …	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 02:03 AM
1	Porn addiction is ruining my mental health So I don’t recommend 12 step ideology for any type of dependency, substance or otherwise (unless it’s the only option left that you go into informed & intending to only take the good/helpful parts from) but I agree with everything else you’ve said here! Porn, as it now stands, in this current culture, IS indeed a problem- or at least, the influence of the porn industry manifests itself in certain social ills. It definitely contributes to the vulnerability of young men to going down the red pill …	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 02:02 AM
1	Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go? From the outside, it’s impossible to know. I mean the relationships of strangers- like everything else about a person’s personal life- don’t necessarily reflect their social media representation…even for healthy partnerships! You might be perfectly happy together but still aren’t going to broadcast all your fights online- even if they’re totally normal arguments that get resolved just fine. Because that’s just not the way people present themselves as a couple in the vast majority of cases…except…	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 01:27 AM
1	Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go? “Loving”, or victimized & abused/manipulated into keeping up that appearance?	/r/ExRedPill	12/03/24 01:19 AM
2	Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifes I’m just not sure this is true…do you have a source for that stat?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 04:13 AM
2	Can men expect the bare minimum from women? Right, it’s not about actually giving their own # to people they’re interested in. So if there is no further interaction and in fact it was a way to disengage from the interaction with the person who instigated it, and it’s specifically meant to halt them from pursuing her further…why exactly would her boyfriend take issue with that? Just because the random guy might think for now that she might be into him & he is left without an obvious rejection from her? Why does it matter if that’s actually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 10:31 AM
1	Can men expect the bare minimum from women? Right, it’s not about actually giving them to people they’re interested in. Cheating is cheating, if it never leads to that, because she doesn’t actually want to, why does it break any trust in a relationship? And being approached for a number versus receiving & reciprocating “an advance from a woman” as a guy is very different. Unfortunately women can’t openly decline to consent to strange men’s advances in the same way men generally can- not to mention the fact that men probably aren’t going t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 10:22 AM
3	Can men expect the bare minimum from women? I don’t know how else to tell you this but you’re just wrong. It’s not even a moral disagreement. That whole “no girls allowed” mindset is just so childish…and incredibly outdated. As for platonic relationships between people of the opposite sex, I mean, I’d say grow up- except people of all ages can be mature enough to let go of the cooties mentality shit. Men don’t befriend women except to try to sleep with them at some point? Lol, tell that to my male best friends since 7th grade (we’re 31 no…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 10:08 AM
-1	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason This is just a repackaging of the common misconception/trope that “women are all the same”, basically, whereas men are individuals— It doesn’t hold up when you look at objective research measuring traits (& compare the results for each gender)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 01:39 PM
1	Women are becoming accepting of their own averageness yet desire above average in men more than ever before Porn ≠ sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 02:04 AM
–	Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble? It was an entire group of people in a public setting, I’m pretty sure they could take one guy on if he were to try to attack them when called out on actively committing a crime (which is unlikely already when he’s so outnumbered, but still). The one woman that’s being drugged, as the sole victim, is at risk of his violence already and stands no chance against the perpetrator on her own. She doesn’t have to be on her own in that situation yet the bystanders did nothing- that’s beyond being a witn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 10:14 PM
1	If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it? Birth control fails, you know. It isn’t even accessible to everyone who needs it, but that’s another story. Even if it were perfectly available to all, it’s still possible for it to not work. A certain percentage of the time it will result in pregnancy regardless of being used properly. And the consequence of sex between two people is solely a burden placed upon the woman and not the man. There should be the ability for her to terminate that unplanned pregnancy. Not to mention the other one-side…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/23 08:08 AM
-4	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Well…Over half of women and almost 1 in 3 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact during their lifetimes. One in 4 women and about 1 in 26 men have experienced completed or attempted rape. In 2019, over 652,676 women were raped in the US- not including unreported rapes, which are the vast majority according to studies. This figure excludes non-rape sexual assaults but includes date rape statistics; if included, data from non-rape sexual assaults would take the figure clos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 04:39 AM
1	Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners? I don’t find most men unattractive, but I am not attracted to most men, either. There’s a difference! Basically when I’m just encountering Average Joes, I’ll find their overall looks to be neutral (more often than not)…as in not being sexually attracted to their physical appearance alone- versus finding them outright unappealing/“ugly”	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 09:28 PM
2	Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners? Not all women like the same type. It seems to me that preferences vary quite a bit from person to person. I personally have never been into “athletic” builds- so 6-packs & such just don’t do anything for me, and I hear a lot of women say the same thing! That goes for most of the typical features male celebrities who are considered “handsome” have, too…including a chiseled jawline and strong brow, amongst various other characteristics of the specific traditional look portrayed in mainstream media…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 09:13 PM
1	If the 80/20 rule is true aren't most women having unwanted sex since women are viscerally disgusted by sex with unattractive males A single comment by one individual reflects upon an entire half of the human population?	/r/AllPillDebate	29/08/23 08:27 PM
1	Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners? …what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 07:53 PM
1	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. That article states that “A 2008 study in the United Kingdom found that biological fathers were misidentified in 0.2% (1 in 500) of the cases processed by the Child Support Agency. Of that 0.2%, those resolved with DNA paternity testing between 2004 and 2008 showed that between 10 and 19% of mothers had misidentified the biological father; data about why mothers identified the wrong biological father were not available.” So, sounds like intentional paternity fraud is not at all commonplace, nor …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 02:16 AM
1	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Seems like the issue is women being mistreated by men in relationships and how common that is. The entire red pill argument here is erroneously blaming the victims of/for those men’s actions, by claiming that the woman “picked wrong”- when rarely do abusive men advertise it from the get-go, or fit the Chad stereotype. And there’s really no evidence to suggest that abusers are simply being “chosen” at higher rates than men who do not become abusive in a domestic partnership (you know, the so-call…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 02:05 AM
3	Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce. Glad you’re thinking for yourself & seeing the issues with this ideology	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/23 01:57 AM
2	Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for? Huh?? She’s not even slightly chubby…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 10:31 PM
1	“i literally have no idea what men want”, not all men want to have a sexual relationship, some just want to have a woman that loves him and takes care of him. Nooo it’s not a double standard only applying to men or anything, I’m just saying..the equivalent of a dick pic offer would be involving their p{}$$y as opposed to a mention of their chest (which is something you can see while someone is clothed, too)	/r/AntiFeminists	19/01/23 05:52 AM
2	Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimum Tinder isn’t applicable to attraction/dating dynamics in general (certainly not in real world interaction & organically meeting potential partners) There’s many reasons that go into the Tinder/online patterns of usage but the first one is that they are not evaluating the men themselves, they’re evaluating the profiles of actual men (who exist irl, but whom they don’t yet know & have never actually met)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:21 AM
2	Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimum Source?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:19 AM
5	Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimum “You just see hot/stunning women as average.” Exactly!!! (This sort of goes along with the whole “bar being lower for men” concept, too)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:19 AM
2	Bar is too Low for men .They dont even do bare minimum You’re just describing attraction, you could say the same about men being into a woman or not. Of course if you like them, you like them and if you don’t like them, why would you “give them a chance” or whatever? That makes no sense…sure, feelings can develop over time when you’re getting to know someone and all of that, but that doesn’t seem to be what you’re referring to? To me it’s like, if someone isn’t into you, of course they’re going to reject you. The reason being that they aren’t into y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 03:14 AM
-7	“i literally have no idea what men want”, not all men want to have a sexual relationship, some just want to have a woman that loves him and takes care of him. I agree, for urinating, mainly. I guess in that case it’s more of a state thing, flaccid vs erect. & It just matters what you’re doing with it.	/r/AntiFeminists	18/12/22 10:38 PM
-5	“i literally have no idea what men want”, not all men want to have a sexual relationship, some just want to have a woman that loves him and takes care of him. “Most men have arousal towards boobs over clit” haha of course they do 😣😔😒 unfortunately that is obviously true…ugh	/r/AntiFeminists	18/12/22 10:35 PM
-9	“i literally have no idea what men want”, not all men want to have a sexual relationship, some just want to have a woman that loves him and takes care of him. I’m saying that depending on the context, talking about boobs is not the same as someone talking about or showing someone their erect penis or clitoris- that’s like actual sexual arousal/getting off, versus a body part that can be totally inert in many circumstances (even if breasts are frequently viewed & treated as a “sexual object” in modern media, etc) And as you said, breasts are a secondary sex characteristic of XX aka female humans…and I suppose they’re basically part of the reproductive …	/r/AntiFeminists	18/12/22 09:39 PM
1	The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist. Well it’s homophobic/biphobic, not sexist…but it’s still stupid & wrong (to have such a prejudice against dating them, solely due to their orientation). Personally I’ve never really heard of this being a common thing, though. And I don’t hold any of the ignorant beliefs listed in the post. In fact if anything, to me it’s only a plus if they’re bi. I know I’m not alone in that either- that’s actually the attitude I typically hear other women having about the subject, as well…and if it isn’t posit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:29 PM
5	Don’t expect women to care about men’s “sexual needs” when women are shamed and dehumanized for satisfying those ‘needs’ by men. Those are movies/tv shows, not reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:04 PM
-69	“i literally have no idea what men want”, not all men want to have a sexual relationship, some just want to have a woman that loves him and takes care of him. Except breasts aren’t a sexual organ, so IMO it’s significantly less threatening/inappropriate than talking about your genitals would be (regardless of gender)	/r/AntiFeminists	18/12/22 03:53 PM