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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGranted, but what I'm talking about isn't really social mobility. People come to the United States to go to universities and work at American companies. Really smart people. For doctors/engineers/tech, your potential to make a ton of money in the United States is far beyond any other country. The idea that you can make just as much money in Lithuania as you can in the United States working for a tech company is simply not true. Most people aren't doctors/engineers/tech, which is why I included t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice is overrated. People like to be seen. Noticing and pointing out the things that make a person uniquely cool is way better than nice. I think you might interpret those observations as nice in the moment but they go beyond typical compliments that guys give, e.g. "you have beautiful eyes," etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue to an extent. The hotter she is, and the more compliments she gets day to day, the less your compliments mean, and the worse they make you look. I don't mind sprinkling 6s with minor compliments. If she's a 8-9, I'm not giving her any compliments. At least not on her looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSort of. If he uses the phrase "sportsball," he is a total degenerate and should be discarded immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadolder men can't get young women This is a cope. Older men can and do date younger women. It's an outlier situation, though. I have dated 20 year olds in my mid 30s, but there are a lot of things that make it difficult and not all that appealing. The reality is, men routinely date women who are 5-8 years younger. If you hang around guys in their 30s with their shit together, you'll know how incredibly commonplace this is. No one my age is dating women our age. Somehow, despite the fact that they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's no better place than the United States to be rich and to get rich, if you're positioned to do so. It's not a great place to be poor, although far from the worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen compliment women far too much. Every time you compliment a woman (especially if she doesn't know you well yet), her attraction for you goes down by 25%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?I wouldn't know, I don't date women that old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Mid 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:38 AM |
| -1 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?If you have zero options, then you have shit to do. Most men don't get to reproduce, thank God. We wouldn't be where we are today if they did. If I were a woman, I wouldn't even consider 90% of men as an option. Blackpill guys spend a lot of time looking for people to tell them that, actually, they are desirable. No. They aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?An abundance of options from which you have to sort the good from the bad is far, far preferable to a dearth of options or, as many men have, zero options. It actually isn't. It is far more efficient to have fewer, but higher quality options, than to have many low-quality options. It takes time to sort through these options. Time is the one thing women looking for a serious relationship don't have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice?Most guys don't understand what it means for women to have a lot of "options." Women have a greater quantity of options. 99% of these options are complete non-options. Fat guys, broke guys, weird guys, etc. They're left with 1% who are viable on some level. Of this 1%, few are willing to commit or go exclusive. Women have this constant challenge of seeing how good of a man they can get, and then, how good of a man can they actually get to stick around. Men have a lower quantity of options, in ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isWell, I was in a relationship for a long time, so that's why. I can't tell you what you should do. If you can date young guys who are attractive and have their shit together, that sounds like a great option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like every woman I meet these days wants to be spanked, choked, slapped, manhandled, bitten, etc. It's seriously like 70% or more. Honestly, I'd prefer to do none of these things, but if she asks for it, I'll do it. I read a lot on PPD about how supposedly men are picking up violent acts from porn, but I don't watch porn, and to the extent that these acts are violent, I'm not the one asking for them to be done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is the correct answer. With women, the prize is sex. With men, the prize is attention. The equivalent of a slutty woman is an overly available man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is this an advantage? You get that the vast majority of men are not psychopaths, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes, many. There's the obvious stuff like strength, size, being taken seriously, having a louder and more commanding voice, stuff like that. But I think the big advantage is that men have to be proactive in the dating market, whereas women are largely reactive. Women kind of have to wait for men to approach them, and hope that the ones who approach are the right combination of attractive and reliable. Women are constantly having to figure out which guys are for real and which ones are just tryin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isThis is generally correct. No one bats an eye at a 10-15 year age gap. If it's an 18yo with a 50yo, yeah, you probably would get some looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Dunking on Legal Age-Gap Relationships is not the Flex You Think it isI'm 34M and I only date younger women. Typically, it's 26-28, but I've dated as young as 20. That's pushing it for me, but some ladies in their early 20s really are mature and have a good head on their shoulders. My friends and family, when they hear this, say, "good for you!" They know my deal. I want to have 3+ kids, something a woman my own age can't give me. You know who gives me the most shit? My friends' wives and girlfriends. "Isn't she a little young for you?" "Do you even have anything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?I don't walk away from them. I like to lead and I like women who will follow my lead. Women won't trust your leadership if they don't trust your judgment. Knowing the right time to go for the kiss is a form of judgment. It requires confidence and it requires a certain social/romantic adroitness. A guy that knows how to read between the lines, navigate ambiguous social situations, observe body language...these are massively desirable traits for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 03:54 PM |
| 4 | How to honestly communicate that you're just interested in something casual with her?If they don't say they're wanting commitment or exclusivity, don't bring it up first. If they say explicitly that they want something serious and don't want something casual, I think you have to be upfront. I'll usually say something like, "I think you're great and we're having fun, but to be totally honest with you, I'm not sure we're a great longterm match." This will usually end things, which is okay. I really don't like leading on women, especially if they're at the age where they're thinkin… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:47 PM |
| 10 | I don't know what to do ...You have two options. You can ask her out next time you see her. No, I don't mean profess your undying love for her. "Want to grab lunch sometime?" She'll either say yes or no, and you can move on from there. The other, better option, is to stop pining for her and focus on bigger things. Nothing good comes to us men when we fixate on one woman. Focus on school, focus on money, focus on your health and fitness. If you're going to date, don't approach things with the mentality of, "this is the one… | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 21 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?I have found that "can I kiss you" and "do you want to have sex" goes a lot further than trying to just go for it. No, it doesn't. Women want you to just get it. Asking or not asking can work, but I've actually had women say, "well, don't ask, just do it!" It's also pretty easy to tell when women will be receptive to a kiss. It takes some experience, but there's a point where you can just kinda see in their eyes and face that they want you to kiss them. Sex is even easier. If you're making out a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 05:38 AM |
| 9 | Fuck stepping in for a woman in trouble"It's a kill quest, we both get credit!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Addicted to approaching? FOMOWhere are doing this? I feel like COVID has really killed some opportunity here. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 02:52 AM |
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