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| 1 | My husband can't follow instructionsSo he's not your husband... let's just start there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Guy breaks up with me after 3 months because he “can’t do monogamy”Simple. If they're single at 40, there's something wrong with them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/24 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Liberal men vs conservative womenI would agree. I think traditional values come into play more than political affiliation. I think OP is confused on the 2, and I get it. Conservatives generally tend to be more traditional than progressives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/23 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Is this true?No. That's a horrible thought process. If we're talking legit love, it would be creepy as hell for him to be in love with you from day 1. Granted, he should know pretty soon after (6 weeks or so), but not only is your friend setting up HORRIBLE expectations for men, she's getting infatuation and love confused. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/23 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How important is education(university degree level)?? I want to earn money right now!!!Right, but as many other comments have already established, you really can't become a full on psychologist with a 6 mo to 1 year program anyway.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 05:57 PM |
| 3 | How important is education(university degree level)?? I want to earn money right now!!!Ah. Thanks for clarifying. We all have baises, and mine definitely come from the reality that I didn't go to college and when I worked, made $60k a year. My mother, who also doesn't work, has taken home over 100k a year with no degree for over a decade. Granted, my husband has 2 masters and makes $130k, which I don't realistically ever see myself making without a degree/education of some type. I think for OP, it depends on if she wants to make a lot of $€£ or have a highly purposeful life (so sa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys feel a little blue when your husband is away?Lol yes. I fully get it. We are blessed to have people to miss. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | how do i work around this?Wow. I really appreciate you taking the time to say that. I have such a heart for so many of the posts here, and the idea of not feeling like you're enough personally resonates very deeply with me. I love that this is a relatively no BS sub, but we have to remember that truth, spoken in love, is the best. You made my day!!! ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 04:07 PM |
| 2 | how do i work around this?A. I'm glad you broke up with him. He was trash. B. You need time to mourn the situation. This was something that was important to you, and now it's gone. I grew up religious as well, and remember when I had the same experience. Don't push it down and suppress how you feel. Grieve. Mourn. And then forgive yourself. C. I know it feels like no high value man will want you, but that is just not true. You cannot control whether you're a virgin any longer, but you can control whether you're enjoyable… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 03:49 PM |
| 7 | How important is education(university degree level)?? I want to earn money right now!!!It's fine that you think that. To me, it's terrible advice to tell someone to sign up for $80k in debt because they may be able to pay it off one day. We have 10 years of anecdotal evidence in America that this mentality is just NOT working. Again, it depends where one lives. Here, you can do squat with a bachelor's in psychology, except go for your master's. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 03:44 PM |
| -1 | How important is education(university degree level)?? I want to earn money right now!!!I completely disagree with another poster. Financial freedom is not to be found through a loan. That is literally indentured servitude. Not sure where you live, but you can find MANY well paying jobs through and apprenticeship or 2 year degree program (paying community college prices). | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/23 04:03 AM |
| 5 | I’m single at 30 and feel…lost…My husband saw me when he walked into the shop and decided to sit down in the big fluffy chair next to me. He proceeded to kinda stare at me over his book (in a less creepy way than what I just typed) until I got the hint. We ended up chatting for so long that we closed the coffee shop down. He asked if I'd like to keep the conversation going over dinner... and we proceeded to close the Mexican restaurant down as well. After that, it all just fell into place. I WILL SAY THIS: I think the geograp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/23 03:23 PM |
| 3 | I’m single at 30 and feel…lost…I met my husband organically in a coffee shop. This was in a city of 2.5 million. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/23 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Fashion advice to be feminine and timeless but also take body type etc into account?I'd recommend looking up the Kitchner essences. I'm Soft Dramatic in kibbe, and while I always knew that things like wrap dresses looked good on me, I cannot fathom wearing most of the SD wardrobe. Then I found the Kitchener essences and it all clicked (for me, I'm a mix of classic and romantic with just a tad of dramatic). Also, even though I'm 5'7", I don't read as 'tall' the way most SDs do. For complexion, if you can't figure out whether you're cool toned or warm toned, you could be neutral … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys feel a little blue when your husband is away?Yes. My husband is currently driving our first car from Washington to Virginia. I'm not with him because I'm pregnant and it's not safe to drive that long. I miss him and look forward to him being home in a few days. I will say: I'm not sure if it's because we've recently turned a corner into summer, if it's because I know he's still in the continental US, or of it's because I recently had to deal with him being in Thailand for a whole month, but this separation is WAY easier for me than it woul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/23 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Those of you who have no personal income and stay home with your kids, what does your financial situation look like?Currently cooking up baby nunber 1. Due in 2 months. I've been a SAHW since April of 2022. We have a spreadsheet we stick to. Every 2 weeks, we sit down and go over it. We allocate what money goes where. We built into our budget each of our 'discretionary funds' ($200) for whatever the individual wants, and a date night budget of $300. Both of these are every paycheck, so every 2 weeks. I have an app that has a bucket system showing which money goes where. So he'll transfer me the $$ for things … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/23 02:08 PM |
| 7 | How do you all feel about situationships?That's just called dating.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/23 01:54 PM |
| 29 | Ungrateful - An UpdateYou've literally taken away ANY power you have in this situation. You're playing wife to someone who won't propose. And why would he? By your actions, you've said you're accepting of whatever he deems fit to give you. He absolutely feels entitled, and if you aren't willing to leave this situation, you will always be right exactly here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/23 02:58 PM |
| 27 | As RPW, what are your opinions on age gap relationships?I dated a 52M when I was 26. I would not recommend. Looking back, I now see that there was a reason he was dating someone so young... and it's not because I was just so mature. It was because he was that immature in his development that nobody his age wanted to be with him. There's a reason for these things. Now, I'm 29 and married to a 37 year old. That's a 7ish year age gap, and I find it MUCH better. My husband is 100 times the man my ex was, and is like 30 years younger. Age does NOT automat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/23 03:56 PM |
| -6 | Many RPM and some RPW content creators are against no-fault divorce. Do you agree with this?I'm against no-fault divorce, but not against divorce altogether. With technology being what it is, it is NOT that hard to submit proof of abuse via Ring, etc. (looking at you, Steven Crowder). However, if the parameters are "emotional abuse", there will inevitably be those that just don't want to be married, but use the "emotional abuse" excuse to get their way. Idk if it can be implemented in today's society. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/23 02:46 PM |
| 5 | How can modern dating change?It has to be on the ground, and not government mandates. Work on yourself, marry a good man, and raise kids NOT to be this way. Take young girls that are struggling under your wing and show them a better way than the one they have. I'm not here to normalize shaming women foe their pasts (and have gotten much hate on this sub by arguing that). We have to be able to articulate and show young girls why the 'normal' path is a road to destruction, not fulfillment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/23 02:07 PM |
| 32 | How to come to terms with male sexuality?No, this is a man attempting to normalize infidelity. This is NOT "just how men are". This is how children act. You are under no obligation to "come to terms with it." Unfortunately, you're going to have to address that this is NOT acceptable now, or you will resent this in 10 years, after he's given you an STD from fu**ing around (happened to my great aunt). | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?No, I do not agree with this. I know you're a MOD and I say the following with full respect for the position: While everyone deserves to be happy, you CANNOT say, in good faith, that being a sugar baby conforms to RPW ideology. Actually, it goes against MULTIPLE things in the wiki. Women have inherent power due to their sexuality, and selling that power to a man does nothing to ensure her long-term happiness, nor increase her prospects at finding a mate. This is basic RPW ideology. Also, the ide… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-countNo!!! This is what I hate about the whole 'body count' talk. It NEVER goes well, and your bf ends up judging who you were, not who you are.. You are NOT worthless. You ABSOLUTELY have value. It sounds like you need to grieve and mourn your past, but you are NOT defined by it. Of course, your bf may see this as a no-go for him, but to me, that shows that he has no grace for your growth as a person (as a Christian, I find that to be a little icky). The reality is that you once lived a life that yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a failureLots of women in history also lived until 30... and that's if they weren't part of the 33% dying in childbirth. Give yourself a break, girl. 21 is NOTHING. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 05:20 PM |
| 5 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?Lobe that 2nd paragraph. So true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?May I ask you a question, a Christian woman to a Muslim woman? How does the age difference factor in for you? Is this relatively common in Muslim circles? Is it abnormal? Is it culturally accepted? I know that a 20 year age gap would be VERY scrutinized in most non-cult parts of Chriatian culture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Would you marry a man who divorced 10 years ago because of infidelity?Abso-fucking-lutely NOT. A. He is okay with dating someone 20 years younger than him. Not good. B. He's twice divorced. Which means he doesn't know how to be in a healthy relationship long-term. (My mother married my father after his 2 divorces. Guess what? He was a piss-poor husband, and the relationship lasted 7 years). C. He cheated. Nuff said. D. He sprung his kids on you without a heads-up. This kind of behavior is not a one-off. This is who he is. Truthfully, you know the answer to this al… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | how to embrace aging and age with grace?Again.... genetics. Also, this is not a recipe for a healthy marriage. But that's an aside. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I am feeling conflicted about opting to be a housewife or stay-at-home mom instead of pursuing a conventional job.Also a SAHW. What does your day consist of? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 11:37 PM |
| 5 | how to embrace aging and age with grace?I think that's called genetics, dude.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 11:30 PM |
| 21 | I am feeling conflicted about opting to be a housewife or stay-at-home mom instead of pursuing a conventional job.Not sure which country you're in. Here in America, there are many 2 year degrees (our normal degree is a bachelor's at 4 years). The 2 year degree is absolutely recognized as a legitimate path, but it's moreso for jobs that don't need extended training (sonography and dental hygienist are 2 2 year degree options). I would recommend looking I to something like that, so that you DO have a path to gainful employment, should you need it. There's no guarantee that you'll get wiped up next week, and a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 11:27 PM |
| 22 | How to feel and look less like a child and more like a women ?This will naturally fade as you age.. I had EXTREMELY baby-faced cheeks until I was 23 or 24. As you get into your 40s, you'll appreciate that you had so much collagen, because you won't get the sunken-in cheek thing. Imo, there are some topical things you can do in the meantime: - adopt a more sophisticated hairstyle. Extra long hair SCREAMS 'young'. Think past your shoulders but before your boobs. - dress the age you want to be. When I was in my early 20's, I was all about cheap clothes from F… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 05:23 PM |
| 4 | How to find a boyfriend/husband who is looking for a housewife?My husband is career military (17 years). I can attest that driven, successful men are absolutely looking for this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 01:41 AM |
| 9 | Boyfriend treatment vs husband treatment? Do you draw a line somewhere?Here's my 2 cents: women naturally look for things/people to nurture. It's biologically built into us. This is not a bad thing, but can absolutely be taken advantage of by the wrong person. You MUST have 7 you will end up being used by someone who either wants a mommy or a maid. This urge you have to nurture shouldn't be suppressed, but it should be protected. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 01:34 PM |
| 16 | Are guys talking to you in the streets/pick up artists only looking to smash and dash ? Should I avoid them ?Idk is this counts, but I met my husband in a coffee shop because he sat down and started talking to me. This used to be a normal thing, but now, I think a lot of guys are afraid to do so, lest it look like "sexual harassment ". | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How would you handle?Second this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 04:54 PM |
| 7 | What actually tends to happen to women who marry conventionally attractive men?That's so dumb. Being conventionally attractive does not automatically make one a giant cheating douche. Sounds like they have some ish from their past to work out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 04:53 PM |
| 3 | hello, please help me how i can show him affection even with my condition. i like himI read your older post, and it sounds like you have some trauma to work through. IMO, "making peace" with never having sex again puts the power and control into the hands of your abusers. That fear/shame/whatever emotion controls you, and will continue to do so until you conquer it. Also, I do not feel it's fair to vilify men for their sexual needs and nature. Men bond by accomplishing tasks with those they care about (eg, making their partner orgasm). To take that away from someone, or expect t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Is 23 too old? Was I supposed to start earlier?I get this, to some degree. I grew up in a very fundamentalist religious community and I scared all the guys (and they bored me). By the time I was 20, I realized I didn't know how to date, so I downloaded an app to learn how to talk to guys and go on dates well. It helped me. Obviously, you have to be discerning, but you have to eventually get out there and try, imo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/23 12:08 AM |
| 8 | I am in love? I am confused.It is unwise to put expectations of how you're "supposed" to feel on yourself. Speaking from personal experience, I used to have a very similar situation. I was raised in a family where the motto was, "When you have to choose between logic and emotion, choose logic." This impressed upon me the idea that emotions are bad and to be repressed. Obviously, this is untrue. I would recommend you take some time alone with yourself to journal how you're feeling. Currently, it sounds like you're going thr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed for a Young 23MI mean, maybe start by redefining your vernacular in regards to women. No self-respecting woman wants to be with a man that calls her entire sex 'hoes'. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/23 05:00 AM |
| 4 | He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously marriedI agree. What constitutes as being a HVM on this sub is woefully narrow, imo. Also, it seems that it's usually the case that some dude calls himself a HVM, and then the woman just accepts it and goes with it without scrutinizing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 10:24 PM |
| 9 | He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously marriedYou may not want to hear this, but that likely due to your age. We've all been there. For me, it was a guy 27 years older than me (I cringe to think about that now.) At the time, I thought "well, I'm obviously just very mature to be able to keep the interest of someone that age." Now, I realize that he was just that immature that a 23 year old kept his interest. I promise, you can do better than this guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 10:15 PM |
| 13 | He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously marriedYou're not cutting him off if he's planning to come visit and you're still entertaining him as a potential dating companion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | He(M32) didn’t tell me(F22) he was previously marriedNumber 4 is my personal favorite. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Food for thought – reframe on accepting being provided forWhat a great perspective! I love that!! ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/23 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Am I ignoring red flags?I mean, numbers 1 and 2, under the context of number 6, essentially translates to "I will cheat on you, and I will gaslight you into thinking it's normal." An aside: I feel like it would be v helpful for posts asking advice to give ages. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 02:06 AM |
| -1 | Am I ignoring red flags?Number 7 is fine. Other than that, he sounds like a very immature early 20s guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Harvard scholars: Marriage makes women happier and healthierOh, I agree wholeheartedly. Idk why they only used one demographic. That said, I genuinely do believe married people are happier. Multiple studies have concluded that at the very least, married men live longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Hi, I'm not redpilleed at all but I've found it enlightening in this groupI agree with you. My man is very stereotypically masculine (career Army), but he'd be the absolute first to say that there are things I'm better at/more suited to/know more about than him. And obviously, vice versa. It isn't about surrendering all of your autonomy to some dude, imo. It's about feeling safe enough in your relationship that you cannlet go of the urge to do it all and be it all. That's true for me, anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | how to stop feeling bad when receiving?I know, it was a bummer that she deleted her account. We've all been there, and it's 0% a judgement thing. I feel like a lot of us know this from walking it the hard way. I'd love to see those knocks make someone else's life easier. The Lodge is great! I've cooked in it before. Lol, my husband did the same thing when I wanted a $400 pressure canner. He said "try the water canner and if you stick with it, we'll get the pressure canner." I say this standing next to my bougie pressure canner as I t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | how to stop feeling bad when receiving?Oh man, congrats. im jealous!!! I told hubby that before the year is out, I NEEEEEEEED us to purchase my dream Le Creuset dutch oven, and he promised. So I get it too. I remember when I was 21. I had a friend who was 23 or so but he didn't date. I remember asking him why, and he said "I'm almost done with college. I know that after I graduate, I'm guaranteed a job making 90k. I feel like dating should have a reason, and if I'm not ready to be a financial provider yet, I shouldn't be dating just … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Women from broken homes - how did you find the joy and motivation to keep going?I come from 5 generations of divorce on my mother's side, and I've never met my biological father, as he wanted me aborted. When my mom married my adoptive father, it was so unhealthy that I made a VERY solemn vow to never be divorced and that I wouldn't put kids through this. My husband has just as strong a stance on marriage as I do, and divorce is not an option for him either. For me, it was always the tenacity I have that kept me going. I refuse to be like my family. I refuse to get old and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 03:23 PM |
| 2 | how to stop feeling bad when receiving?You know what was sexier than my man showering me with gifts when we met? The fact that he knew he wanted to be married one day, so he was financially responsible prior to us meeting and saved enough to buy a house in cash. That ish is hot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | how to stop feeling bad when receiving?Texan, born and raised. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 12 | how to stop feeling bad when receiving?Yall need to have a polite conversation about this. If he's going into debt to spoil you, that's not good, and is actually counterproductive in showing you he can be a good provider. I would sit him down and say, very nicely, "I appreciate all the gestures, but I'm slightly uncomfortable with this and don't know how to respond." Fair warning: depending on how young he is, he may get a Lil hissy over this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/23 10:54 PM |
| 3 | "Ladies, Are You Sabotaging Your Own Love Life? Here Are 3 Ways You Might Be Breaking Your Own Heart"Tbh, it sounds like this individual (if they are actually human) is trying to figure out how to be some kind of trad influencer and comes off as incredibly pious and patronizing. I would not hate if this person was encouraged to leave.... other people may vary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How to not be heartbroken after a breakup?3 is SO important. I agree wholeheartedly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenThat's awesome! I've seen them for carseats when they're rear facing. Super smart for the stroller!! What a brave new world I signed up for.... lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenThat's a really great tip. I'm giving birth mid July, so the weather will be fine for me to be out (maybe a little hot) with her from the get-go. I'm trying to have grace for myself, because I know it won't be exactly what I think (I thought I was going to be so healthy in the first trimester, and I was so nauseous that the only thing I could eat for 2 months was processed food...) but I want to set myself up for success... mainly, I just don't want to go so far down the road of saying "eff it" … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenThank you for this! I really appreciate it, as most of my friends either don't have children, or the kids are old enough that the moms have forgotten what it's like. I'm very thankful that my husband will be taking 3 weeks paternity leave after baby comes, which should help alleviate some of it. We are also planning to have a meal service deliver to us for at least the first couple months, so that we can make sure we're nourished enough to take care of bb. I had been planning to wait until after… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 07:49 PM |
| 24 | Harvard scholars: Marriage makes women happier and healthierLiterally the only people surprised about this are the angry feminists. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 06:36 PM |
| -1 | Dating advice: when can you trust a man has left his “hoe phase?”Literally just ask him "how do I know you've ended your hoe phase?" and see if he spouts some bull. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 06:35 PM |
| 13 | Guy having tons of female friends: red flag or normal?Regardless of his creepy social media postings, 14 years is a BIG red flag, trust me. Some age difference might be acceptable, but you have to stop and ask yourself 'why don't women his age want him?' And in this case, I'm not buying the excise of 'men get more valuable as they mature.' That may be the case with some men, but this one sounds like he's aging like milk, not a fine wine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 06:34 PM |
| 3 | do I look fat/overweight to you?Those clothes are doing nothing for you. Even if you're having a problem with those last 10, a change in wardrobe would DRASTICALLY help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenHow do you make time to self care with a new LO? What does that look like for you? My biggest fear is turning into frump mom with a fupa.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Appreciation post! What’s something sweet your guy does? ❤️Also, how do they fit their car in their bedroom?! Props!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 10:10 PM |
| 3 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenThank you!!! It's quite the adventure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 05:20 PM |
| 11 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenI agree 100%. Especially with modern conveniences like washers and vacuums, there's not sufficient work to necessitate someone stay home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 05:12 PM |
| 13 | Appreciation post! What’s something sweet your guy does? ❤️Might want to get your car checked out.... pretty sure it isn't supposed to do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Appreciation post! What’s something sweet your guy does? ❤️He takes the trash and recycling out so I don't have to. Every morning he leaves for work, he always comes to kiss me goodbye and tell me he loves me. When I was a neurotic mess during dating, he would always me me with grace and understanding; never once with annoyance. He always opens doors for me, no matter where we go. If I try to open my own door, he'll pull me back by my coat in a playful way (but he actually takes this action really seriously and has since I've known him.) When I was so i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 03:45 PM |
| 23 | I want to be a SAHW but I don’t want to birth any childrenI'm a SAHW, cooking up our first kid. I will say this: being a SAHW doesn't add enough value to the bottom line, imo. Yes, there are things one can do being a SAHW that otherwise wouldn't be accomplished by you working, but having gone through it myself, I don't think there's enough to entice a man to work to provide for both of yall while you just stay home. Even with cooking and cleaning. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 03:40 PM |
| 15 | Quick relationship question (not domestic enough?)Yes, and no woman finds the man she has to mother as sexy, long term. I don't think he realizes that his behaviors will cause you to eventually resent his weakness. I wish you the best of luck in figuring out how you're going to handle this situation. Just remember that you deserve someone that's all in on you!!! ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 01:03 AM |
| 25 | Quick relationship question (not domestic enough?)I had a chance to read on your other comments.... yeah, he's being a child. Expecting you to clean his apartment and change his sheets is ridiculous. At the end of the day, a relationship is a partnership. You're not his maid. And I applaud you for being financially conscious with your student loans. If I were in this situation, I'd ask him "okay... so you want me to go halvsies with you on loving together, but I'm trying to be responsible with student loans, and make good on my promise to pay t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 12:54 AM |
| 35 | Quick relationship question (not domestic enough?)Yeah, so not a single thing about that says "provider". That screams that he wants to cosplay the 1950's on your side, but has no interest in ponying up on his end. Have you asked him where he sees this relationship going? How old are y'all and how long have y'all been together? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 12:46 AM |
| 41 | Quick relationship question (not domestic enough?)You are not his wife. You have no obligation to play wife if he has not made you the offer of marriage. Turn it around on him: how is he actively working to provide for y'alls future? How is he showing up to be the man that you deserve? Quite frankly, I imagine that if he were acting put his part of the equation, you might naturally feel safer to exude femininity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/23 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Help me find meaningYour account is today old. How long have you been here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/23 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I have nothing significant to offerI mean, you're 21, so you can have kids. That's a HUGE offering, imo. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/23 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Boyfriend making comments about women multiple timesYou're dating a child, pure and simple. You will never make him man up and be what you want. You know what you need to do. I know it's hard, but it's worth it on the other side. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | “The Wall” - can it be avoided?Odd contribution, but doing things with your husband that are an obstacle that y'all can overcome. When men overcome an obstacle with someone, their body releases vasopressin, which is the male bonding hormone. (This is why you should never fake it in bed. Men see sex as a challenge to be conquered.) Do things that yall can overcome together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 02:54 PM |
| 2 | “The Wall” - can it be avoided?That's because older men don't realize cargo shorts and Air Monarchs don't scream "im a sex God." 🤪 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 02:49 PM |
| 12 | why ghost thenLol, this was me growing up. Nobody ever told me guys don't enjoy being shown up in their own game. I genuinely thought it would make them respect me. Didn't realize they took it as immasculation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?I wish you the best in your search for happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?I actually don't disagree with the principles, by and large, and am not sure where that's coming from.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?I get what you're saying, and for the most part, I agree. To respond to your murder example, I could say that that is an extreme example. If someone is a recovered alcoholic, and shows that they've changed, I would not hold them to the standard of their worst self, because I believe in redemption and growth. That said, I may not choose to enter into a relationship with someone who has been divorced 3 times, because my values do not align with divorce. I agree that the number of sexual partners h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/23 12:00 AM |
| 0 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?I get that. There was a point that I was having a lot of pointless sex with randoms that, upon retrospect, were not worth my time. I would never recommend my daughter do what I did. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:53 PM |
| 0 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?No condescension was intended whatsoever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?Yeah, I don't buy that. Emotional maturity and the effort to improve oneself is far superior, in terms of potential longevity of a relationship, than the number of dudes you drunkenly hooked up with in college. I DO believe that women with higher body counts are trying to overcome some deep-seated fear/resentment within themselves, but body count alone is not an accurate predictor of relationship compatibility or emotional health, for that matter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?That's a great point that I've never thought about. My husband and I have never discussed body count, because it doesn't matter. Of course, we've discussed past previous relationships, especially if there were lasting effects, but as we were both serious from the get-go, past sexual partners were irrelevant. In this case, it sounds like OP brought it up, and I cannot understand why women on this sub are so fixated on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?I'd like to ask: now that you've found yourself in rpw, how do you feel about your sexual past? What emotions does it bring up? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?Ma dude.... delete that list. Nothing good will come of it!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Seeking advice: Is using a location tracking app on my boyfriend crossing a line?The location tracking is a symptom of a larger issue. That issue is the fact that you haven't worked through past traumas, and you are now punishing an innocent individual for the depravity of an ex. The location tracking is a bandaid, but it won't fix the gaping wound. You have to do that work yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Should I be honest about my shameful past?Real question: why are people talking about body counts at all? Presumably, if you're looking to find a long-term romantic partner, past partners are irrelevant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I Effed Around and Found Out (Need Advice)Have you verbally acknowledged to him "hey, I see that what I'm working through can wear you down, and I wanted to say 'thank you' for having grace for me? I want you to know that I do see it and I really am thankful"? Sometimes, acknowledgment will go REALLY far in helping the situation. I also wanted to add: i know a lot of the other comments say "nuh uh. He is low value. I would never let that slide." The reason I didn't jump there is because it can be SO easy to have leftovers from previous … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | I Effed Around and Found Out (Need Advice)It depends. I see 2 scenarios: Dude has a habit of being unsupportive or emotionally wishy washy even outside of these insecurity interactions. If that's the case, I'm afraid that that's how he is and there's no way you can change that (he has to want to change on his own). He is otherwise very supportive naturally. If that's the case, I'd sit him down and say "I've been doing a lot of reflecting on this issue. As we've previously discussed, I have some anxious attachments I'm actively working t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I Effed Around and Found Out (Need Advice)Have you expressed that second to last sentence to him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I Effed Around and Found Out (Need Advice)Have you expressed that second to last sentence to him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | I Effed Around and Found Out (Need Advice)Gentle reminder that the picture isn't really the problem, your insecurity is. I'm not judging because I had the exact same issue when dating my then-bf (now husband). I straight up told him on date number 4 or 5 (after I could tell there was something between us) that trust was hard for me and that I will get there, but I'll be a Lil twitchy for the first 6 months or so. He was thankful that I gave him that heads up and was SO gracious during that process. He didn't bounce, and when I got a lit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 8 | is it just me or are a lot of women finding Christ?I thinknits natural cause and effect. The broader culture has swung so far to the humanist/secular side, and everyone seems effing miserable, that there will necessarily be a backlash of people who want nothing to do with that life and will start exploring religion. If/when that does happen, it's the responsibility of the church to foster that in a healthy way. I'm skeptical of how much the Church has learned and grown in the last decade. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:18 PM |
| 9 | How to Stop Chasing a Man Without Even Realising ItThis is NOT good advice. Single ladies: don't do this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 26 | Did I ruin my chances? How do you handle breakups? 23fDude. Let this poor bastard go and find yourself some therapy. You very clearly have some issues to resolve within yourself before you're in any place to bring someone else into it. Have some compassion for your future potential dating companions by not subjecting them to this level of unhealth, I beg you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 10:33 PM |
| 8 | How to know when he sees you as a forever girlfriend or as a future wife?If I have learned one thing, it is this: you cannot attempt to coerce or convince someone in this situation to have a change of heart. This is NOT a small matter. If he DOES 'come around' (read: give in to make you happy), he will likely resent you later for it. This is why it is SO important to have the hard conversations super early. I know women hate that idea, because they assume that men will be scared off. The truth is: men will NOT be scared off. Boys will be scared off. Men are looking t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 3 | How to know when he sees you as a forever girlfriend or as a future wife?He's still developing mentally. Since he's not innately horny for marriage, he'll probably wait until his 30s to get married. This is very common for men. Women mature faster and are aware of our biological clock, so we're more apt to get married younger. I'd be really honest with myself if I were you. If you know what you want, is this individual worth the sacrifice? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Our marriage (F33 and M35) is fine but we lost our spark (because of me...?)Leave the kid with your parents and go have a romantic weekend. Sleep. Order room service. Have sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Is this a red flag?What's the context?!? Are yall dating? We're you as blunt as you alluded to here? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 10:18 PM |
| 12 | Does your husband support your hobbies?That last paragraph is some TOXIC AF internalized misogyny. Of course your hobbies are just as important. You're not your family's doormat. You need time to and for yourself. I would recommend really looking into where in you that last paragraph stems from. That is a real quick recipe for you going down this path for a decade only to wake up and realize you're miserable and resentful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | i left the left and i have a questionPretty sure one does not need to be a cochise addict to "speak out" and say it's a life-ruining addiction. Likewise, you do not have to be black to say that fatherlessness is one of the major problems facing the black community. Facts are facts are facts. No skin color or sexual orientation will change that. I had a big WTF moment during COVID too. I'd recommend you just keep unlearning the lies and filling yourself up with truth. Eventually, with enough truth, the things haters could call you s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 10:02 PM |
| 10 | How long should I be in nun mode?This. This is the way. No checklist is going to make you marriage material. Sure, some guys won't like certain attributes, but there's not a "do these things and you're good to go" strategy. That seems to be the predominant thinking here and these girls are just going to be set up for disappointment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Can women increase their dating value or worth to men at all?We all need it from time to time, right?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Can women increase their dating value or worth to men at all?My husband literally said this on date 3.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 05:05 AM |
| 14 | Can women increase their dating value or worth to men at all?Imo, you're trying to solve an internal issue with external solutions. No amount of dresses or a soft spoken demeanor can fix your opinion of yourself. Unfortunately, I fear that what may be driving men away is what you called 'desperation' in another comment. At the end of the day, quality men (actual quality, not overgrown frat boys with an ego) care less about whether we wear feminine perfume and work as teachers than the grace and dignity we carry ourselves with. There are PLENTY of women wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 12:37 AM |
| 11 | Can women increase their dating value or worth to men at all?In the nicest way possible: you clearly (from your post) do not see yourself as worthy. Why would any high value man? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating, Conversations & First Dates: How to handle it all?I'm not Catholic personally, but I know a lot of protestant churches have a young adult group. Maybe there's a Catholic equivalent? Also, Meetups may have some fun things going. Like game nights, etc. It may be a good way to get the ball rolling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/23 07:38 PM |
| 0 | Online Dating, Conversations & First Dates: How to handle it all?Online dating isn't particularly effective in finding a potential partner, imo. On these platforms, people are generally looking for things they see as deal breakers, where if you were in person, these attributes may not seem such a big deal. I'd recommend either joining an adult sports league, finding a religious community with people your age, and/or making friends with married couples, because married couples want to hook all their single friend up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Delaying sex - how long to wait?My girl, we had sex our second date. It worked out well and we're now married with a baby on the way (so it does show that there are times where it works out) but I would NOT recommend this. I'm not sure where I stand on sex outside of marriage as a Christian context, but I DEFINITELY see why it's beneficial to wait. Looking back, I have regrets about the people I slept with *mainly I regret where I was emotionally at those times), and admit that it would be really nice for both my husband and I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Delaying sex - how long to wait?The second to the last sentence of your first paragraph says it all. Tell him that. Personally, my husband and I didn't wait to have sex, even though I was raised in the Church my whole life. Looking back, I wish I'd waited ... not just with him, but with anyone I'd had sex with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/23 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Ask if he's ok with me being taller in heels?You mean Pashions? I have 3 pair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/23 12:40 AM |
| 6 | How to feel less cringe about my femininity? (21F)I relate a lot. The men in my family wanted respect they did not earn, and it gave me a HORRIBLE view of masculinity for the longest time. Again, I was able to work through that by having a partner that is all of the right kinds of masculine, but I wish I had some ta giblets something to give you besides "find a healthy man".... because that's not nearly as easy said as done. Something that really helped me (independent of my relationship status) was researching and learning what healthy masculi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/23 01:41 AM |
| 11 | How to feel less cringe about my femininity? (21F)I had this in certain aspects... not so much in baking or wearing dresses, but I had this inability to let a man help me, because it made me feel weak. I eschewed the color punk because I hated the connotation. This was due to being raised by a single mom who works in a man's industry, and also a healthy dose of internalized misogyny on my family, both from men and other women. For me and my personality, I hate being co trolled by things: be they a circumstance or a mindset. So when I realized t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/23 12:52 AM |
| 9 | I can't cope with my non-RPW pastFrom on Christian to another (who has been exactly where you are re: the shame and self-loathing) You MUST forgive yourself. The Bible teaches that if we ask for forgiveness and are truly repentant, Jesus will always forgive. This is not a surprise to Him; He loves you just as much now as He did then. Ask God to show you how HE sees you because we are to renew our minds to see like Christ... NOT like how we see. I'm not saying that you can do whatever and it's fine because you're forgiven, obvs … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/23 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Should I (28F) be concerned about my bf's (M29) lack of financial concern?Yes. He's not interested in bettering himself; the apathy proves that. If you see a future with him, make sure to factor in the probability that he will always be this way... especially as he's approaching 30. This is a 21 year old mindset that he has no interest in changing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 5 | body count issue UPDATESerious question: what about this guy attracts you to him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Need advice and maybe some friendsOh, yeah! It looks like it got deleted!! Lame, reddit. This page is really great (only found it a few weeks ago) as a starting point for women to figure out what they want in life/a partner. I wish I had known about it when I was learning a lot of this stuff. Some of the best unsolicited advice I could give is as follows: A. Learn to be the kind of person that your dream person would want. B. Learn about your attachment style; heal unhealthy attachment styles before committing to someone. C. Bei… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Need advice and maybe some friendsI actually love my story (I'm biased). I had been doing the normal online dating thing and I was EXHAUSTED. Eventually, I'd had enough and decided to stop dating and work on me. 2 days later, I was at a coffee shop and noticed a cute guy was watching me over his book. Eventually, I remembered what Matthew Hussey has said about asking a guy for a favor that doesn't inconvenience him. I asked to borrow a pen, and that struck up a conversation. We talked for a few hours and he asked me out to an im… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:36 PM |
| 2 | What kind of shoes do you wear?I wear a lot of flats, and Pashions that can convert from heels to flats. I like things that do double duty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Sense of styleI would recommend: A. Find your essence and style (https://theconceptwardrobe.com/7-style-essences/complete-style-essences-guides). There are certain styles I love on other people that don't work for me. I appreciate them for what they are, but I don't waste my money on things outside my classical/romantic essence. B. A line dresses will be your best friend as you're on your weight loss journey. Find some cute ones that you like, but don't go crazy on price, since you'd like to lose weight. C. L… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Need advice and maybe some friendsGood on you for telling her. That takes balls and shouldn't be overlooked. Hopefully this is a good learning opportunity. Also, if I can offer a piece of unsolicited advice: DON'T date random on the internet. I made this mistake, and it's how a creep ended up driving from Reno to Santa Barbara (where I lived) to come find me... without consent. In person, you can judge their character and not just what they say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Need advice and maybe some friendsThis exact thing happened to me when I was 23. Turns out, it was a catfish troll that stole other guys' photos and used that account for validation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How to gracefully distance yourself from toxic family memberI wouldn't make up a lie (one's parents' actions should not dictate your own integrity), but I would say something like "we're not in a great place right now, and I don't feel comfortable going into details." If they continue to be tactless, I would reiterate that this is uncomfortable for you and would they please change the subject. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How can I support my s/o?Ask him this question, and then do what he says. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Is my(32F)future mother-in-law(67F) living with us (4 year long term relationship) a dysfunctional dynamic? She helps him (41M) with his business, cooks, and does his laundry. And she’s one of his employees. He’s made it clear that she’s there to stay.The sunken cost fallacy is ABSOLUTELY a thing for women.. especially when they're either a certain age or have invested a lot of time into a relationship. I see this with my own sister. She has been in a relationship for 4 years and has admitted to me that it isn't going anywhere, but she can't bring herself to leave him. You hit on some great points. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Is my(32F)future mother-in-law(67F) living with us (4 year long term relationship) a dysfunctional dynamic? She helps him (41M) with his business, cooks, and does his laundry. And she’s one of his employees. He’s made it clear that she’s there to stay.Again, my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt: As you're not his wife, trying to take that place without the title leads to an increased possibility of resentment on both sides (this is Kevin Samuels saying this, I can probably find the video on this if you want.) It is not your duty to be his wife until you're his wife. Personally, I believe y'all need to have a very clear conversation on where this relationship is going (if anywhere) and what that looks like, both in time and commitment. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Is my(32F)future mother-in-law(67F) living with us (4 year long term relationship) a dysfunctional dynamic? She helps him (41M) with his business, cooks, and does his laundry. And she’s one of his employees. He’s made it clear that she’s there to stay.In the most gracious way I can, I want to point out a couple things: A. You're not married to him. His mom is picking up a lot of wife duties (probably a holdover from her marriage). I'm not sure that you can reasonably complain of her doing this, as it's been 4 years and you're not married. B. Yes, it does sound like his mother is infantilizing him. Which should be a concern to look at as you decide whether he's a good candidate as a long-term mate. C. Does he actively want kids? Have y'all tal… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 04:54 PM |
| 6 | The advice here really works!Love this. Congratulations! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 04:13 PM |
| 6 | What does obedience and submission mean to you? Do you think either of them are important in a marriage?Personally, as a practicing Christian, I believe that a women is to submit to her husband, as the Church submits to Christ. I ALSO believe that a man is to die (to himself) the way Chriat died for the Church. Practically, that looks like my husband making the decisions in the realm that he's moat comfortable, and I make decisions in the realm I'm most comfortable. It works well for us. I DO NOT BELIEVE WOMEN ARE CALLED TO BE COSMIC DOORMATS FOR OVERBEARING MEN. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | How to help my husband with his porn problem?That is absolutely preposterous and NOT backed up by the data. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/23 04:12 PM |
| 23 | How to help my husband with his porn problem?You cannot help someone with a problem that they either don't see as a problem, or don't want help with. The first thing has to be a frank conversation with him, expressing that you found his porn stash, and that this has opened up a number of issues for you that you need addressed. Additionally, another commenter said that if it's child porn, he needs to be reported. I agree. If that's what it is, imagine if those were YOUR children in those videos, being abused for the gratification of randoms… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 09:15 PM |
| 2 | What draws the line between having Good Morals and Being Feminine?Nice men do not have the ability/desire to ever tell you the hard thing that's in your best interest. They'll keep it sunshine and rainbows 100% of the time.... which is great when it's sunny outside. But they're not going to tell you something that may upset you, disrupting the vibe, even if it's what you really need to hear. Example: you want to buy a car WAAAAAAAY out of your price range, feel some trepidation, and ask for input. The nice guy is going to say "wow it's great, it's beautiful, d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | What draws the line between having Good Morals and Being Feminine?To answer your question, I'd like to use my relationship as an example (NOT to throw my happiness in anyone's face, but because my husband and I naturally occupy the masculine/feminine dynamic very well, and it makes for an easy comparison.) My husband is a career military man. Served 2 tours during the war. When I met him, he had amassed enough in savings to buy a house cash. He makes great money and does very well for himself. He is the PERFECT example of a good provider. Once, I asked him why… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 04:34 PM |
| 8 | What draws the line between having Good Morals and Being Feminine?Morality is not innately feminine. I think certain aspects may appeal to men and women differently (eg nurturing for women and chivalry for men). But having good morals is universal. Imo, being feminine looks like embracing feminine energy (creativity, nurturing, seeing and cultivating beauty in all things.) That said, I do NOT believe being feminine makes you a demure pushover. I'm married, and am in my feminine more than I've ever been. But if you know anything about the enneagram, I'm an 8, a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/23 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Where/ how did you find your partner?My husband literally walked up to me at a coffee shop, sat down in the seat next to mine, and made "I want you" eyes until I started a conversation with him. Best day of my life, besides the day I married him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | What are your hobbies?Gardening in the summer, flower arranging, pen pals, reading, and I devour podcasts. I also like to bake. And bought a sewing machine. I'm unintentionally becoming the trad wife 15 year old me despised.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/23 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Book RecsYes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Book recommendations on the biological, psychological and emotional differences between men and women and how to grow in my femininity?A bit different than the others, but Louise Perry's The Case Against the Sexual Revolution is marvelous and discusses the innate differences in how men and women approach sex. I cannot recommend it highly enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with fiance getting emotional during disagreement?This will not change with time. This is who he is, and assuming that things will be different after marriage will lead to resentment on both ends. Saw it with my parents. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/23 03:32 PM |
| 5 | If she doesn’t leave immediately after the date for ****’s sake GO FOR ITLiterally the opposite of toxic masculinity.... | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 02:16 AM |
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