tampawn Archive

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8	Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you? Here it is in a nutshell. Women want to be seen as a good person. Some even want to BE a good person. They do NOT want to be the bad guy, and they want everyone to love them and like them. But if they reject someone that's hard to do. One things works against the other. So they know when they've rejected you they have to take you off the list of people who love/like them. And that hurts. They want to be liked by EVERYONE. So if you see a woman who has rejected you in the past, don't ignore her. …	/r/seduction	07/04/26 10:27 PM
5	Date was going very well until I said one sentence Going somewhere more private...to her...means lets go fuck. And she may want to fuck, but she will never want to say she does. Women like indirect talk and euphemisms. You probably could have said just 'let's get out of here!' or 'People are looking at us like Get a Room let's find a darker corner' or 'C'mon let's find a more fun place' Anything that doesn't indicate you know she's dtf and want to move. Take her by the hand and walk out. And hey never apologize for loving on her. You overdid the…	/r/seduction	28/01/26 01:23 AM
1	If a woman sets up a date and then suddenly cancels saying she is no longer interested and the "vibe is off", how do you guys react? Go to the nicest and most expensive restaurant in town, take a picture of you with women at the bar, send it to her and says thanks for bailing! This is more fun. Then block her and move on...	/r/seduction	30/06/25 12:28 AM
3	All these three first dates asked EXACTLY the same questions ---no barely at all --I seem to do much better in person ---Define relationship ---I don't have one. I married a tiny blonde and wow that was a mistake. My type is kind warm supportive and doesn't talk nonstop...and here's the kicker...she asks questions! Never answer a direct question with a direct answer. Make it fun, get them talking, and establish some mystery or it will be your first and last date with her.	/r/seduction	23/06/25 04:34 PM
1	2024 was a record year for me in multiple ways and I have this sub to thank for it so I wanted to share the 5 most important things I've learned over the years with you guys Thanks for your great advice. My question is about how do you deal with your ladies' feelings. I feel guilty if I have a great night with someone but then don't call them back. If you're doing 10 different ladies a month, are you calling them back for repeat performances or at least keep them in your loop? Or do they know its a one time thing? With your numbers, I would think you'd have a lot of broken hearts out there, so how do you deal with women that want more. And I'd think you'd have sever…	/r/seduction	30/05/25 01:24 AM
4	How do i make it obvious that im looking for a serious relationship as a female? I'll never forget a date I had about this. She's adorable and has a bubbly personality and we'd met at a party and she was enthosiastic about our date. Once we sat down it wasn't long before she laid out what she was looking for in a man. She wanted marriage and probably 4 kids before she turned 30, and she wanted to date great men who were also down for that. Catholic girl. We were both in our early 20s. And my career wasn't going gangbusters so I knew right then that it was our last date. We p…	/r/seduction	29/05/25 06:22 PM
5	Welp, I got catfished for the first time. I don't consider anyone if they don't have a body picture. If its all faces then they are hiding a whale. Learned the hard way...	/r/seduction	29/05/25 02:55 PM
2	Fumbled this attractive girl, how do i deal with this? Quoting Prince... "The beautiful ones always smash the picture. Always, every time."	/r/seduction	14/04/25 08:18 PM
40	Do girls not like nice guys at all? If she is attracted to you, she will like that you are nice. If she is not attracted to you, your niceness will disgust her. All this other bullshit is just that .	/r/seduction	29/03/25 08:23 AM
5	Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guy You wanted closure. We all do. But men have to take a woman rejecting them without an explanation. You would not have gotten an explanation even if you met. That was rare that she told you she likes someone else....take that and move on.	/r/seduction	18/02/25 10:59 AM
5	Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guy You tried....good for you. Women cannot say No I don't want to date you. They don't want to be the bad guy even if they show bad behavior. So don't wait for them to reject you. Most women don't lie, so take their words. A woman I dated told me 'I'm not very good at relationships' then ghosted me and was dating someone else within a couple weeks. They just do not want to directly reject a man. Crazy...but it is what it is. To me, they do more damage by not telling they're moving on and just ghost…	/r/seduction	18/02/25 10:53 AM
1	I’m dying alone Dude you did everything right until 'forget it'. You have the balls to approach...go with that. After you asked about the air hockey and they looked confused, you should have just kept talking about air hockey or the people around the air hockey table or the bar or a drink you had or if the two girls are on the same team or are they coworkers blah blah blah... Tell stories with a beginning a middle and an end. Nowadays most women are going to be confused about you approaching them, so don't take…	/r/seduction	17/02/25 02:44 PM
14	So Many Men Nowadays Don't Respect Themselves Speak for yourself OP. You're like anyone who accomplishes something and thinks that everyone else needs to do the same thing you did because you had a little uptick in your confidence or bank account. You must have gotten laid last night. The first time in ages. Yet you're not sure about the girl you fucked because of all her red flags. But hey you got laid because you embellished how great a dude you are to impress her and get her legs open. Congrats to OP! So keep dating her beside your reser…	/r/seduction	03/02/25 11:58 AM
1	Impossible shit test She sucks, so I'd fuck with her with humor and not respond for a period of time. You could respond and say Your brother is better looking than you! Happy 2025! Or get all the pretty girls you know together at a club for a picture with them all with their hands on you and caption it, Next! Happy New Year! Or a picture of you laying down yawning with a girl laying on your shoulder and caption it Dreaming of you twirking me like that! Happy Next Year... Challenge her....	/r/seduction	06/01/25 12:57 AM
1	What did I screw up? Match her responses...if she's gives short answers between long pauses you do the same. If she gives long answers often again do the same. Try to appeal to all her emotions and not you screwing up. You following up about the Thai midget made her doubt you. Not the first time you said it, but when you asked later. Be sensual and into her with most responses and treat her like a person not someone you want to fuck. Do not hail Mary...just wait for her response. Just be confident with a world full …	/r/seduction	31/12/24 01:36 AM
7	Should I hook up with girls I don’t find attractive just to gain experience/wins? You'd be surprised how many women think just like you do, OP. They are the ones at the club late looking around. You don't have to marry them. Just be a gentleman post nut and show respect. And live it up...	/r/seduction	12/12/24 10:09 PM
1	When a woman says "let's take things slowly"? Haha!!! 1st is the kiss 2nd is the breasts 3rd the coochie 4th is home plate	/r/seduction	10/12/24 08:08 PM
18	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? Keep it light and only very rarely sway from taking everything lightly. Appeal to a woman's emotions...the more the better.	/r/seduction	02/12/24 02:08 PM
14	When a woman says "let's take things slowly"? This goes both ways, too. She can't hide her real self without exposing any bad traits for too long. I recently dated a lady for a couple months and 8 dates. I had paid for everything. We had made out alot but no second base. One the 7th date I didn't have cash to buy something at a cash store so she paid the $13. On the 8th date she was in a sullen mood on the way there and was distant to me when meeting my friends and sullen on the way home. I had cash to pay her back, but forgot. After droppi…	/r/seduction	26/11/24 02:45 PM
8	What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom? Great story from many years ago: I walked into a club with two out of town buddies. And right after us was a hottie. One of my buddies approaches, they chat a little and she asks, So what do you do for fun? And he says Well fucking is kinda fun, and they left! And went back and fucked at my place, came back an hour later and he told us the story. 5 minutes tops.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 10:26 PM
1	How to show interest in a guy? Walk up to him and ask him is he having fun? And tell him you like to have fun and smile in his face. That's about as indirectly direct as I think any of you girls can get. Othrwise tell him you like his vibe. Some girl told me that a year ago and I still remember it. Men are USED to never getting compliments...ever. Tell him you like his vibe or that you are into him.	/r/seduction	10/08/24 12:48 AM
-1	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Goood!	/r/seduction	15/06/24 11:24 AM
2	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Lotta women out there that think its lame to ask. Weak. So it depends on the woman. If she's sending you all the signals and you ask? Oh that's not good. She might say sure begrudgingly when she really wanted you to go for it. The majority of women want to be taken. Certainly not feminists though... If you really don't know and you're getting mixed signals or nothing, then ask.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 08:27 PM
-8	Do you have to physically escalate on the first date? Or feminist!	/r/seduction	14/06/24 08:21 PM
-1	Date cancelled because she was a bit nervous. Should I next her? In other words, she meant back off. so back off, but for longer than she would expect you to back off. give it two weeks and text her is she still nervous?	/r/seduction	19/05/24 02:36 PM
2	How to get your ex on a date? Give her lots of space and date other people... And ask yourself about the reasons you broke up...will the issues you had still be there and still be unworkable? Because after a breakup you always remember the great times and forget about the troubles. But to get her back tell her you regret the breakup too, that you still love her and if she doesn't want to meet you understand. But if she ever wants to get together to call you, but only then. You need to move on if she doesnt want to meet. Then…	/r/seduction	03/04/24 05:48 PM
2	How to go out alone without feeling awkward or judged? I'm with you...I hate going out alone. So I don't as often as I should. I'm kinda shy. But when I have to go to parties or events because of work or I need to 'make an appearance', there is a time tested way to do it. If most everyone is in a room large or small, the shy quiet people are always on the outer circle of the room, often as couples. And they're just dying to make a connection. So make your way around that outer circle introducing yourself "Hi I'm Mike" and bring up something in cultu…	/r/seduction	14/02/24 08:25 PM
5	She wants to hangout after hooking up last week Try it...	/r/seduction	10/02/24 08:22 AM
35	She wants to hangout after hooking up last week ASk her questions and she's a woman she'll probably talk your ear off. Just go with the intention of getting to know her better. Take the pressure off yourself and let her talk. Then listen to what she says, and ask her questions about she felt about this and that. Not what she thought but how she felt without being too obvious that you're asking her too many feel/felt questions. Lead the conversation that way. If you listen she'll think you are a great conversationalist. Don't interrupt her. Le…	/r/seduction	10/02/24 03:52 AM
3	Do you want to go back to my place? Smirk	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:33 PM
7	Do you want to go back to my place? You haven't really used that have you? What does soft and brittle have to do with each other, and how could she possibly break a cup with her hands? Its wierd dude. This might work if she's also wierd. But regular women would probably give you a look instead of going with you... Girls do love euphemisms for home and sex though. Just allude that you want her there at your place for fun and more fun...	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:32 PM
1	Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date? If she's out with you, then its game on. She is waiting to see how you escalate or not. For her to wait 5 or 6 dates to see if you want her...they might think that you're not attracted to them, when you think you are just being a gentleman. Women don't escalate unless they really really like you. And you're probably not doing it right. If you are scared when you try anything, they'll know. At 34, you'll really need to dive into what to do and when, and keep trying different things until you find…	/r/seduction	09/01/24 04:45 PM
2	What should you wear when going to meet potential girls? Plain shirts with a collar and nice somewhat tight pants/dress jeans. In this colder weather now, I wear a proper jacket with jeans. Women wear jewelry so you should too, but manly like a few bead bracelets and a nice watch. I heard that when women/girls go out, the getting ready time is part of the night. Guys just shit shower and shave but women try on different outfits take way too much time with hair and makeup and they pregame. So a man should look like he 'got ready' too without overdoing …	/r/seduction	02/01/24 08:02 PM
1	Asking for single women aged 30+ I'm attracted to successful women, but when I've dated them they really don't have the time to be a great partner, and they don't really have the interest in being a great partner. They just don't have the time or the bandwidth to participate as much as they would like to have a man. If he totally supports her and picks up her dry cleaning and does most of the work around the house then they will consider it. But with not as much reciprocation as I'd like. My mom and dad were equal partners, and…	/r/seduction	27/12/23 05:39 PM
1	I think I am going to die alone because I am ugly Nope you're not. Hair is your best feature...go with it. I see what you're talking about but when I saw the pics, you're making mountains out of your faults. But if you believe them, they're real to you. Become an expert at something. Be amazing with a hobby or work. And let the ladies pursue you. Don't pursue women because those feelings you have will never go away and will always bug you when you're approaching. Many women will be attracted to you. Be on the lookout for them. If you stick to t…	/r/seduction	20/12/23 06:25 PM