tanalilt Archive

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1	The safe spaces of nerdy men, feminist migration, and alienation Woman here. Out of curiosity, are the women who had previously mocked gaming culture the same women who are now a part of it? Or are these two different sets of women? I have been a gamer since I was 8 or so, and still play MMO's, FPS's, etc. on a regular basis at 23, and I've personally seen that the women that mock gaming and nerds are not the same people who play the games. We wouldn't mock ourselves.	/r/MensRights	28/08/14 10:34 PM
1	Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male development The one rare case, he followed me back to my dorm twice. He tricked someone into letting him in the secure dorm the second time, and from what I hear, went around looking for me. I kept my door locked, watched him come in from the window. He was a creep. I had additional things to judge him on. I don't usually judge that way on appearance, but this guy was unique. I wanna say you're being a bit sensitive, but I also didn't describe the situation in full, so I see where you reached that. Wasn't m…	/r/MensRights	03/12/13 04:34 AM
0	Misuse of the word "creepy" and how it destroys male development Just speaking from personal experience, I've never seen anyone refer to a guy or referred to a guy myself as creepy unless I felt it was warranted. Creepy includes not respecting my personal space, not leaving a conversation when I ask them to leave me be, making comments or gestures of a sexual nature, and in one rare case, actually looking 'creepy' in the way he carried himself; hunched over, eyes darting, etc. He got arrested for sexual assault on campus two weeks after I met him. The point I…	/r/MensRights	02/12/13 01:01 PM
-1	This Was on CNN's Front Page If you watch the news, and reports of rape cases, and the commentary around them on places like twitter, there are tons of people who think rape is either justifiable in certain situations or completely okay. Also - I'm surprised by the accusations made against me on this board. There's no simple discussion here - it's all heated and full of accusations.	/r/MensRights	25/03/13 12:09 PM
3	What is this 'Rape Culture'? I believe rape culture, since there is no specific definition, to be the views held by the majority of people ( or even a vocal minority, as I don't have any numbers ) that lead to the idea of rape being in any way acceptable. This includes, but is not limited to, the defending of rapist based on their other achievements, stating that rape can only be male on female and ignoring all other types, making excuses for rapists based on factors of the victim other than whether they gave consent or not…	/r/MensRights	24/03/13 10:58 PM
-7	This Was on CNN's Front Page I don't think there's anything wrong with teaching boys that rape is not acceptable. Far too few people have this lesson instilled from the very beginning, and think that rape is acceptable for some silly reason. They should be teaching this to everyone, but there's nothing wrong with saying they are teaching it to boys, as it is in direct response to the large case that has been taking over the news. If it had been a woman raping men, yes, they probably would have said 'teaching kids not to rap…	/r/MensRights	24/03/13 09:32 PM
2	Men in gaming I don't want to play a beefy guy or a girl with her tits hanging out. My main problem with video game design is how impractical everything can be. If it's practical - sure. They can look how they want them to look. (Snake is a bad example, I think - a soldier since birth should probably look like that, and he's not the worst offender in the series. That would probably be Vamp or Volgin.) Just... in general. I tend to like things that are practical unless there's something that says that it doesn…	/r/MensRights	28/02/13 12:34 PM
3	Gabrielle Toledano, executive vice president and chief talent officer of Electronic Arts, says that blaming sexism for the lack of women in the video game industry is a cop-out: "If we want more women As someone who wanted to be in the game industry growing up, I had people constantly discourage me from working towards it, including people FROM the industry that I went to for advice on a career path. I'm currently in theatre design and management, which is just as good for me, but keep in mind that women might also be discouraged from wanting to join the industry.	/r/MensRights	23/01/13 11:50 AM
1	My friend asked me to support his organisation's page on facebook. This is what they posted today. We have a lot of work to do There needs to be equal parts awareness of abuse in all types of relationships - but just because it isn't the only form of relationship abuse doesn't mean it doesn't happen, and the problem of abuse in all relationships, especially compliance with that abuse, or not seeing that anything is wrong with the abuse, needs to stop.	/r/MensRights	31/12/12 06:47 AM
3	Drunk girl asks to be taken advantage of video - not really MR, but it shows how persistent a drunk woman can be... So why is this posted here? If you are a respectable person, male or female, you won't take advantage of a person who is drunk, no matter how persistent they are. It feels like, to me, you are posting this to say 'look! This girl is asking for it, literally! This is what we face!'. It really doesn't matter what she does when she is drunk, if she can't legally consent. Same with a man.	/r/MensRights	19/10/12 01:36 AM
-1	So I was walking down the street toward work when a woman said,"You look nice in your suit." I feel violated by this person who only sees me as a piece of meat. ....Why would anyone call someone Smelliot or Vagina Face? Legit question. Kinda dumb names.	/r/MensRights	15/10/12 01:18 AM
1	So I was walking down the street toward work when a woman said,"You look nice in your suit." I feel violated by this person who only sees me as a piece of meat. What is the point of a pity compliment? And though I haven't received many comments myself except for at the renaissance faire (where I'm showing a bit more cleavage, and I've come to expect the comments), there are definitely people who get sexual comments, even if 'catcalling' and whistling aren't as common anymore.	/r/MensRights	15/10/12 01:17 AM
9	So I was walking down the street toward work when a woman said,"You look nice in your suit." I feel violated by this person who only sees me as a piece of meat. The way I am now, I say 'fuck it' to anything society tells me about being a woman, so no, I wouldn't give a fuck, and I would stand up to that. I know a lot of men that would do so now, as well. I'm sorry you don't have the self confidence to stand up for yourself when you're being sexually harassed - you should probably work on that.	/r/MensRights	14/10/12 10:48 PM
31	So I was walking down the street toward work when a woman said,"You look nice in your suit." I feel violated by this person who only sees me as a piece of meat. I thought it was implied that compliments are given out of respect - which includes not interrupting people.	/r/MensRights	14/10/12 07:19 PM
10	A double-standard I recently noticed... It's your friends responsibility to push that person away and say that he's uncomfortable. Unless his discomfort is made known, that person had no way of knowing it was harassment. Women have this responsibility as well - it's not being a jerk if you feel that strongly about it and it makes you that uncomfortable.	/r/MensRights	14/10/12 05:33 PM
149	So I was walking down the street toward work when a woman said,"You look nice in your suit." I feel violated by this person who only sees me as a piece of meat. There's a difference between a compliment and a come-on. I think that's the difference that people don't understand. Women have to understand that a compliment might have intent behind it, but it is sent out with respect. "You look nice in your suit", for example, would be a compliment, same as 'Gorgeous hair / Beautiful dress / etc' said without the voice portraying it as sexual in nature. That's a compliment, and should be accepted as one. What women have issues with are cat-calls, whistles, a…	/r/MensRights	14/10/12 05:27 PM
3	"Real men don't rape." Real men don't rape because people who rape are despicable human beings that people shouldn't give two shits about. Real women don't rape because people who rape are despicable human beings that people shouldn't give two shits about. I'm not talking about people who are wrongly accused, or if a girl has regret a week later or something. I'm talking about the people who make the conscious decision - "I am going to have sex with that person, even if they don't want to". If you are a person that do…	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 12:26 PM
2	How do women apparently have it much worse? To say there is no legislation against women is bull. As of right now, there are laws seeking to take away reproductive rights that we have, laws seeking to abolish the requirement of equal pay, laws that treat the life of a pregnant woman as less than a fetus, and the Violence against Women act (which, prior to this act, women had almost no legal right to sue someone who attacked them, male or female). So to say that there is no legislation against women is bull, and as a woman, I fear the repu…	/r/MensRights	13/10/12 12:12 PM
0	I'm a normal 22 year old guy. No woman has ever expressed her interest in me first. I've had to do all work. If men and women are equal, why don't both genders establish their feelings of interest in each other equally? For the record, I don't hate accountability. Neither do a lot of women I know. It's not 'natural'. Don't assume it is. And I notice avoiding accountability in both genders equally - but I must be in a good crowd, because I rarely see it at all. That really doesn't sound like a way to avoid rejection. That sounds like she's having difficulty knowing how to relate to other people and function in a normal society. That's actually owning up completely to what she's doing. "I AM doing this, whether y…	/r/MensRights	08/10/12 12:02 PM
1	I'm a normal 22 year old guy. No woman has ever expressed her interest in me first. I've had to do all work. If men and women are equal, why don't both genders establish their feelings of interest in each other equally? To be honest, not a lot of people like rejection. There's nothing wrong with wording something in a way that is blatant, but you also have a fallback if you're wrong. It's safe. And if you've been rejected multiple times, sometimes safe feels better.	/r/MensRights	07/10/12 02:48 PM
2	I'm a normal 22 year old guy. No woman has ever expressed her interest in me first. I've had to do all work. If men and women are equal, why don't both genders establish their feelings of interest in each other equally? Oh look! Generalization!	/r/MensRights	07/10/12 02:46 PM
2	I'm a normal 22 year old guy. No woman has ever expressed her interest in me first. I've had to do all work. If men and women are equal, why don't both genders establish their feelings of interest in each other equally? This is incredibly true. Girls are never 'supposed' to pursue the guy, which is just bull.	/r/MensRights	07/10/12 02:41 PM
0	I'm a normal 22 year old guy. No woman has ever expressed her interest in me first. I've had to do all work. If men and women are equal, why don't both genders establish their feelings of interest in each other equally? You obviously haven't met any girls that are upfront about their feelings, then. I know I got the relationship I'm in by pursuing the guy, although there was mutual interest from the start. I also have many friends that pursued their guys as opposed to 'leading them on', and the like. The issue you may be seeing is that women are expected to play 'hard to get'. We're expected to not be too forward, or we might give away everything that makes us good all at once. We're expected to pretend we don'…	/r/MensRights	07/10/12 02:38 PM
0	Baby is a different race than the father? Don't take a paternity test, think of what you could lose(crosspost from WTF) I think that whoever wrote this has the mentality of 'you were going to raise this kid on your own, and you had already grown prepared to love it - if you want to take this as a huge deal, you'd be losing that connection you had already formed, as well as the chance you were expecting and preparing for to be a father'. This assumes a lot of things - that the guy wanted kids in the first place, that he was totally looking forward to raising a child, AND that he would be okay with raising a child …	/r/MensRights	07/10/12 02:30 PM
1	What do you guys think of this??? Then the word should have been 'sexual harassment', which is what that verbal assault was. I would have personally considered it sexual harassment if someone asked me 'why aren't you fingering yourself right now?'.	/r/MensRights	06/10/12 06:47 PM
2	What do you guys think of this??? Granted, I'm female. I don't think sexual assault, physical OR verbal, is okay. Maybe for verbal, sexual harassment would have been a better phrase - but that still doesnt mean that it's okay to be going around saying that to people, same as a girl should't be going around asking men 'why aren't you masturbating right now?'. Harassment isn't okay, and sexual harassment and sexual assault are also not okay. As someone who has been going to conventions and cosplaying for many years, it is always a…	/r/MensRights	06/10/12 06:27 PM
3	Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do? It was aimed at the assholes that do, not the men who don't. I also said, possibly elsewhere, that a good countermeasure could be posting up things that match it, but reverse the genders. I know men who have been raped by women. I also know women who have been raped by men. This isn't demonetization - it's more common for women to be raped by men, and it's going after the mentality of a certain group of college men.	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 04:53 PM
1	Only women are allowed to attend Race for Life, a charity event to support all types of cancer. Men can only "support the women who are taking part". Make a men's race if it matters that much to you.	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 11:48 AM
3	Teacher has group sex with her students, claims she's the real victim because the act was recorded without her consent Woman cheats and has sex with minors. Is this really Mens Rights news, or are you just posting a cheating woman because it's a cheating woman?	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 11:45 AM
19	Sexist posters have appeared all over my college blaming men for rape and sexual assault. What Should I do? What do you think of the My Strength posters? (mystrength.com) I see them kinda in the same line. I guess they're trying to say 'there are men that rape. Don't be one of them.' And as a woman on a college campus for the last four years, I've heard a lot of statements from the mouths of men as to what they think is okay to do. Get a girl drunk, pressure her into sex, etc. I also know not all men are like this. I think, especially on a college campus, these are aimed at the men who don't know any …	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 11:43 AM
3	Why I am MRA at 18, and Why I believe we need to take aggressive (non-violent) action against feminism You've gone through a lot that has shaped your view of the world in a very specific way. I say this because, at 18, I was a very strong feminist that hated men. After reading, taking classes, expanding my view of the world, and reading more on 'social justice' as well as experiencing more of the larger problems than my feminist issues, my views changed, and three years later, I would say I'm more of an 'equalist' than 'feminist'. You had people treat you incredibly poorly, and that wasn't right.…	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 11:35 AM
7	Why I am MRA at 18, and Why I believe we need to take aggressive (non-violent) action against feminism You are 18 and live in Puerto Rico. You have not experienced all women. Trust me.	/r/MensRights	01/10/12 11:30 AM
1	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? Just because it's a right doesn't mean they are able to attain that right. Just because we have a right to food and water doesn't mean that no one in the world is starving. Just because women have a right to abortions doesn't mean they have the money or the time to drive 10 hours and put up with violent protesters and fake abortion clinics that will try and delay them until abortion is not possible. It doesn't mean that they are going to be able to have a safe abortion where they are not risking…	/r/MensRights	29/09/12 11:53 AM
1	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? There are shots being looked at for birth control for men, they just have to be brought out onto the market after testing. And I'm sure guys will be terrified of it, given that it's a shot in your scrotum. I know my boyfriend is terrified. There may be other options, but that's because it's always been looked at as the woman's duty to keep herself from getting pregnant, and it's usually the woman's body where a pregnancy is prevented. As I said, there is at least one drug being tested to be rele…	/r/MensRights	29/09/12 11:49 AM
1	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? Well, at least in the areas of Michigan, USA that I've bought condoms, they're not readily available except at sex shops.	/r/MensRights	29/09/12 11:42 AM
1	Condoms with "GOT CONSENT?" Yes, rapists can wear condoms. It's a thing that happens. Not all rape is JUST forcible - sometimes one or both parties are intoxicated, or the rapist wears a condom anyway.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 11:52 PM
1	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? Some states won't allow abortions. Some don't have clinics that are closer than 10 hours away. Others have protesters out side who physically harm women and couples that go in to get an abortion, or seek other health services. Unfortunately, having an abortion is not as easy as you make it out to be, and there are those seeking to outlaw it altogether.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 11:49 PM
2	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? Birth control can get expensive. When I was on Blue Cross - a terrible insurance, by the way - my birth control was $30 a month, as a college student with no income, and I use it simply for health reasons. When I was without insurance, it went up to $50. I had to sell my belongings to get it. Not to mention there are many states, and indeed, the Republican platform, that wish to ban birth control for women. That's partially what this is in response to, along with restrictions on abortions, as it…	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 11:48 PM
1	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? Women can buy condoms. Men can also refuse to use them. It can work both ways, obviously, but condoms aren't a sure-fire birth control for women, as the men are the ones that have to use them.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 11:43 PM
2	Saw this post on tumblr, is there any validity to this argument? There are tons of places that are trying to outlaw birth control. For example, if the Republicans win the presidency, they plan to try and outlaw the drug. Source: I'm a girl that's on birth control, and without it, I will basically lose all functionality every 28 days. This is a huge concern to me.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 11:41 PM
2	Feminists often paint Japanese culture as "deeply misogynistic" and patriarchal. Really? Imagine the feminist apoplectic fit that would accompany a story like this if the genders were reversed. Oh look, a generalization! Or three.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 03:08 PM
10	Higher risk of divorce when men do housework, Norwegian study finds Wow, incorrect. I wouldn't be supporting my boyfriend financially if security was all that mattered to me.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 03:03 PM
1	Men aren't walking penises? I completely agree with this statement. There are several types of people saying this, though. And the ones that really piss me off are the ones that say 'women deserve to be raped because they were asking for it', and at the same time say 'she was there asking for it, so he raped her'. It's most problematic, and most difficult to get through to the people who have both of these mentalities.	/r/MensRights	28/09/12 02:56 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Please, explain to me how women have a choice. A choice to have an abortion? I'm curious to see where you're coming from. (In my opinion, men have a choice, too - don't have sex. The same way I'm preventing myself from getting pregnant most of the time. Use condoms, and use your own, so they aren't tampered with, if you're worried about it. If a girl says she has an allergy to latex, either get an appropriate condom, or don't have penetrative sex.) I'm attempting to be as respectful as possible …	/r/MensRights	05/09/12 10:53 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. No person or government should be able to force anyone into unwanted parenthood, yet here we are, with abortions threatening to become illegal. Yeah, because it was totally her intention to get raped and have a child from that. Right. And even though they tossed the rape allegations to the side, she is still getting no assistance from the government nor her rapist, the biological father. And oh yeah - that video looks awful factual. THIS IS A PROBLEM ON BOTH SIDES. UNDERSTAND THAT, AND YOU MIGHT…	/r/MensRights	04/09/12 08:00 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Yeah. Because pregnancy is a walk in the park. And the government has done nothing but fuck me over, as well as the many people I know who have been stuck in these situations. Fuck them over on both sides. Whether someone wants a pregnancy or not, it's difficult on both people. I haven't been pregnant, but I would likely kill myself should I ever become so. I am in a place where I would, if my friends are any indication, would receive no assistance, and the family court system would simply blame…	/r/MensRights	03/09/12 07:32 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Obviously, you're not getting the point I'm trying to make. Just because some women do doesn't mean they all do - just because you know one situation doesn't mean you know them all. Maybe if this group stopped acting like they knew everything, people would have some sort of respect for you, but when it's nigh impossible to say anything without someone getting offended, and thinking they know exactly how the world works in every aspect... I kinda just have to give up and ignore you. It's sad that…	/r/MensRights	03/09/12 09:14 AM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Just because some women do doesn't mean they all do. That's the assumption that is made. When I say stop making assumptions, I mean that you can't look at a situation of a single mother requesting child support from an absent father and assume that the woman got pregnant to trap the man, or anything else. You don't know that situation, so you can not judge it without getting to know it better. Those are the poor assumptions that this thread is full of.	/r/MensRights	01/09/12 07:25 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. The same way that brainwashed, raised-religious folks who do harm to others in the name of their religion should be held accountable for, and yet still aren't. They should be. But we need to fix the source of the problem, not just blame those affected by it.	/r/MensRights	01/09/12 07:22 PM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. I'm not blaming it entirely on society. There are shitty women same as there are shitty men. But you can't ignore that there is an idea out there telling women to act this way, same as there is media telling men to act a certain way.	/r/MensRights	01/09/12 02:54 AM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Wow. Look at all the assumptions made there. I am personally of the belief that people should have a discussion before sex - if you get pregnant, either have an abortion, give it for adoption, or raise it. Make that decision before you have sex, and you won't have any problems. There are also SO many other reasons for a father to be absent in a household. Believe me, I know tons of fathers who aren't there for reasons other than a wife kicking them out. I know fathers who aren't there because he…	/r/MensRights	01/09/12 02:54 AM
1	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. Not all situations are the 'knock up a woman and ditch her', as there are some mothers who honestly don't know who the father of their child is. I agree, that a person who is having sex should fully understand the consequences that it could result in a baby, on both sides, and that one should not ditch the other, though. That does put a scumbag mark on the one who did the ditching.	/r/MensRights	31/08/12 04:34 PM
14	I saw this on a website, and it hit me just exactly what you guys are trying to do here. Let me say I'll be more active in the future. ....This is extremely poorly worded. Sure, it might be helpful to have a book about the financial implications of a woman raising a child on her own, especially when there ARE men who will leave without offering to take any responsibility for the child. A lot of this is mainstream society telling single mothers that they are 'Baby Mamas' that need to 'track down that no-good scum that got me pregnant and have him pay what he owes me', as opposed to informing single mothers how they might be able…	/r/MensRights	31/08/12 04:31 PM
2	[HOLY SHIT!]: Son Commits Suicide Due to His Penis Size (He was bullied about it by his gf) I agree. What I don't agree with is calling one certain thing a men's issue when it clearly isn't an issue unique to men. EDIT: I wasn't clear enough in what I meant to say once I re-read it. Edited for clarification.	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 06:48 PM
5	[HOLY SHIT!]: Son Commits Suicide Due to His Penis Size (He was bullied about it by his gf) I would like to alter something you said slightly - while suicide is a men's issue, it is also a women's issue. As someone who has failed to off myself, and then had it negatively affect my life for the 8 years after, I can say that it affects all people. It is not only a men's issue. It is an issue faced by all people, and everyone, regardless of your views on which gender faces more oppression, should be putting out effort to stop suicide by any means possible. No person should be made to feel…	/r/MensRights	15/08/12 03:30 PM
1	"Men are basically unevolved dogs", "the Y chromosome is broken", "men are just testosterone damaged versions of women", "all humans are born female". This is the kind of hateful bigotry currently infecting the skeptic movement. I wasn't trying to shut anyone down. I was trying to calm them down. The way to get around these people and their hateful views is to show everyone else how factually wrong they are. I said that. Nothing I have said here was out of malice or trying to stop anyone - just trying to add a bit of rationality to a group that at times seems to jump every time something comes up.	/r/MensRights	05/08/12 05:52 PM
1	"Men are basically unevolved dogs", "the Y chromosome is broken", "men are just testosterone damaged versions of women", "all humans are born female". This is the kind of hateful bigotry currently infecting the skeptic movement. Then battle them with facts and respect, and do not let people think they are such a large group of people. My comment here was based on my observation that a large number of people in this thread are treating this group as if they are large in numbers. They are not. If you battle them with facts, and rally people behind your cause, their threat will be eliminated.	/r/MensRights	05/08/12 04:12 PM
1	"Men are basically unevolved dogs", "the Y chromosome is broken", "men are just testosterone damaged versions of women", "all humans are born female". This is the kind of hateful bigotry currently infecting the skeptic movement. I'm not saying that they aren't a problem. I'm saying that they are not the majority. I'm saying that not every woman or skeptic or feminist thinks this way. The people commenting in this thread seem to be, for the most part, making the assumption that this is how ALL of women, feminists, etc. think. It is NOT. Continue to tell these people how they are wrong with facts. But don't give them the added support they want by thinking that they are a large group of people. It's like One Million Moms …	/r/MensRights	05/08/12 04:11 PM
2	"Men are basically unevolved dogs", "the Y chromosome is broken", "men are just testosterone damaged versions of women", "all humans are born female". This is the kind of hateful bigotry currently infecting the skeptic movement. Can we stop pretending that this is a widely-accepted point of view and realize that there is only a small percentage of people who think this way?	/r/MensRights	05/08/12 12:50 PM
-1	Tumblr Feminism I get the relation to the idea of racism, and understood that when I made the first comment. The problem is that it's not that common of an opinion - at least not in the real world. The internet often serves to amplify terrible opinions because people get upset about them, blowing them out of proportion in relation to the correct idea of things. These people are not feminists. If they think they are, then someone should show them the definition of 'feminist'.	/r/MensRights	09/07/12 01:55 PM
-2	Tumblr Feminism It's amazing how people will take one post as the entire opinion of a group of people. One feminist on Tumblr doesn't get it? Wow - they all must be sexist female pigs who hate men and think themselves far above all of us! Not so. Don't let one person speak for a diverse group, especially if they are not appointed.	/r/MensRights	09/07/12 01:16 PM
14	What are your problems? And... why can't we acknowledge that both sides have legitimate concerns? Because they are, both sides, legitimate concerns, and have no reason to be compared.	/r/MensRights	24/05/12 05:07 PM
0	Can we discuss this [Slutwalk 2xc crosspost]? I think the problem here is, as PartTimeBadman said, that getting someone drunk is considered a valid way of seducing them. Because someone is drunk, and doesn't know what they are saying, some people might say that they don't know what they're saying, anyway, and that they 'obviously want it'. Some people just don't care - and don't see anything wrong with taking advantage of someone who is drunk. I know people of both sexes that this is happened to, so I don't consider it to be an issue that o…	/r/MensRights	30/04/12 05:54 PM
3	And so the tables have turned!! This should actually be titled: Things EVERYONE should do in a relationship. Both people should assist in paying for dates, bills, etc. Both should treat sex with respect and love, and be open with the other about expectations. And TALK about it. Both should admit when they are wrong. Both should understand that feelings are normal to human beings, and neither side should prosecute the other side for having them. Both should lead dates, both should be up front about everything, thank each other,…	/r/MensRights	30/04/12 05:29 PM