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As a software developer, I can tell you this isn't it.
/r/seduction10/02/24 10:52 AM
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Only the simpest of simps buy into his nonsense. It should be obvious to anyone with half a brain that he's heavily roided.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 08:10 AM
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If you're on a third date, you already appeal to women.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:04 AM
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Is it a good move? Depends on what you want out of it. It's a fun and challenging line if presented as such. Boring guys will immediately tell a girl their education/work and try to impress her. Delaying it shows that you're not trying to impress her - at least if you don't act like you're trying to be impressive when you reveal it - and it draws girls in, that is, if they actually see that it is a joke. You can use any silly profession. You could also say that you make a living spinning a sign …
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:20 PM
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Lol, no need to pose with how much you “know”, because clearly you think you know more than you actually do. I have an M.Sc. in molecular biology with a masters project on growth factor signalling in the brain that resulted in publications. My judgement of how much I know is fairly precise. You're just an arrogant prick who wont admit how clueless you are. Good luck convincing any fucking biologist or physician that things that are natural are inherently good and things that are not are inherent…
/r/seduction09/03/22 03:28 PM
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Yes, porn does affect you negatively. Masturbation is healthy and natural in moderate amounts, but consuming pornography is not natural. Invalid argument. Sleeping in a bed is not natural. Wearing clothes is not natural. Browsing reddit is not natural. Should I go on? You obviously have little understanding of how the brain actually works, so you shouldn't make biology-based argument. "Chemical imbalance" is such a bullshit term. Do you even know what homeostasis is? There may be some very good …
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:39 PM
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You implied as much, yes. I did not, no. You saw a post that you thought meant something that you disagreed with, so you had to be a condescending prick and put words into my mouth to make it seem like you'd disagreed even more with me. I didn't say anything close to what you're suggesting. u/spicy_simba is essentially saying "just be yourself" No. which does imply that being yourself is for attracting soulmates, not casual sex partners (otherwise you wouldn't have responded to u/spicy_simba in …
/r/seduction25/02/22 09:38 PM
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Did I say that you can’t? Did I say anything about playing games? Why are you being so condescending and put words into my mouth?
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:51 PM
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Did I write off relationships in my post?
/r/seduction25/02/22 05:02 PM
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Sometimes a man just wanna fuck. Not every encounter with a woman has to be about meeting your soulmate. edit: Fucking downvoting idiots. This is not r/relationships. To seduce literally means "to entice (someone) into sexual activity.".
/r/seduction25/02/22 01:33 PM
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Not just mental health, but also willpower. Going to the gym when you'd rather be on the couch, doing your sets at the gym while you'd want to cut corners and go out. Trusting the process and doing whatever it takes to get where you want to be.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:42 AM
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According to the gym crazies I should never be able to pull because I haven’t been working out. Nobody ever claimed that. You really think people are so autistic here that they can't see that people with average bodies have sex? The problem is your reading comprehension, not the culture. The point is that being physically attractive helps your chances. Think, McFly. Think!
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:40 AM
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It's because her farts are so loud
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:02 PM
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Fact: Nobody never rejected a stud because his skin wasn't moisturized enough or his hugs weren't good.
/r/seduction01/02/22 06:16 AM
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the exaggerated, woke third-wave feminism of the West to be a joke. What kind of asshole call somebody an incel merely because they challenge modern feminist beliefs? If you share opinions with some extreme group, you must be part of that group? I guess all muslims are terrorists too? How the fuck is challenging feminism even an incel thing? Feminism has nothing to do with their core ideas about feeling victimized and hating women and "normies". I hate this fucking SJW rhetoric of calling people…
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:09 AM
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Should I directly ask her why she didn’t respond / ghosted? No. Never. That shit is just needy. Bring up something new like her behavior never happened.
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:03 PM
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Lol, that guy is the biggest fucking joke. Ask the bodybuilding subreddits if you don't believe me. He likely uses fake weights and is a fake natty as well. Jeff Nippard is a very good non-BS resource in an industry filled with BS.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:22 PM
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There's some crazy bitches out there. Don't waste your time.
/r/seduction17/07/21 07:18 PM
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You make sure to page them hoes on the night you meet them, whippersnapper
/r/seduction22/04/21 04:47 PM
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n=1 It blows my mind how people keep assuming that a single female can speak for all females.
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:15 AM
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It's probably more like there's some things she's into about him and somethings she isn't - probably some struggle between logical attraction and emotional attraction - there's a lot of other options and she's balancing between commiting to the guy or not. Not escalating put the weight in favor of not emotionally.
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:21 AM
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What do you want to improve?
/r/RedPillBooks30/03/20 07:53 AM
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On the subject of cringe RSD, I can't be the only one who is getting facebook adds for DEREK MONEYBERG; fedora wearing douche who's so much into making money that money is literally in his name and he has a poster of Scrooge McDuck on his wall. Before he put moneyberg in his name he was marketed as some kind of cartoon character. And other RSD guys are pumping out videoes on Corona virus. I think I'm gonna consult doctors on that over a guy who's mostly famous for choking bitches around the worl…
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:02 PM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction29/03/20 07:14 AM
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There's really no absolute answer. Depends on her personality, the contents of the texts and where you are in your relationship and the place it's coming from. But here's some general rules. If the girl just can't be bothered to communicate over texts, you should just use it to setup things. Of course, you can send her something that will make her laugh or whatever, but don't try to force conversations over text. Think of times in your life where you're super busy with school or work and some fr…
/r/seduction29/03/20 06:50 AM
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PUA's are jokes. They try to sell you this magic pill "Come to my bootcamp/senimar and you will be transformed into amazing guy picking HB left and right!" It's such Bullshit. The truth is SO MANY here have to work on themselves FIRST before even thinking about picking up women or having relationships. Ever watch a TV commercial? That's what marketing is. Your life is not gonna be complete from drinking a fucking Coke. I've seen Julien, Max and Alex IRL and they've always been completely honest …
/r/seduction24/01/20 06:54 PM
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You're creepy when: -you're taking talking to the girl very seriously -you think highly of a stranger that you know nothing about and you want her to like you really hard -you're intense and serious in your body language and tonality and you're taking her very seriously -you're overthinking, trying to say something cool and impressive, something she'll like. Interact with the girl to have a fun interaction, coming from the frame that this is what you do, and see where the fuck it goes. You said …
/r/seduction11/07/19 06:23 PM
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My first suggestion is to AVOID DWELLING ON THIS TOPIC ON THE INTERNET. At all costs. Don't become a fucking guy who spends years on the internet reading about how to get women. Go out and hustle. Try stuff. Experience successes and failures. Don't take failures personally. Observe what works for you and others, observe what your friends that are good with women do differently. It's probably very subtle. Now is the best time of your life to take action. Do it now. I think of flirting as challeng…
/r/seduction30/06/19 09:02 AM
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This is an extremely useful mindset to have. On bad nights when you feel AA or everything is going to crap, think of taking action as an investment. You're not doing it for the immediate reactions. You're doing it so you're a bad mother fucker when you meet girls that you are even more into than the ones you've met that night. If you don't do anything on this given night you'll run into some super cute girl in a couple of years and you could have had her, but because you decided to not take acti…
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:16 PM
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Just reply with this
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:06 AM
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This guy fucks.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:04 AM
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Agree, it sounds straight out of The Game.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:03 AM
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hurry up with my damn croissant
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:34 AM
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...But mostly outcome dependence.
/r/seduction08/03/19 05:48 PM
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And don't fucking internalize and make identity of the failures while you downplay the successes.
/r/seduction01/03/19 08:58 AM
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Good job. Now keep doing it on the reg or you'll lose all momentum.
/r/seduction25/02/19 11:44 AM
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I love it when a plan comes together.
/r/seduction23/01/19 05:55 PM
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Yeah but at the same time just improving your life isn't going to get rid of approach anxiety That is correct, but if you're a person who's working hard for succes chances are that you are used to taking action in challenging situations. Like, if you've been working hard for a great body for a long time, you're not going to the gym with a mindset like "I hope I'm lucky enough to set a PR. I hope I dont fail and others see me". Your attitude will more likely be like "WHATEVER IT TAKES". Or if you…
/r/seduction10/01/19 07:26 AM
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I mean, you can be honest about your intentions and still be a needy little bitch who can't lead things forward, which just makes you creepy, so I wouldn't exactly say it's the only difference
/r/seduction04/12/18 07:23 PM
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I'm happy that you wrote the last part, cause you know, it's the traditional sad story of a nice guy romanticising some girl and while he's trying to be "respectful" and get to know her, she's bored out of her mind with him and getting pumped full of dick by some d-bag. Be the guy who dont care about her and lays the pipe; don't be nice guy on the sideline.
/r/seduction04/12/18 05:05 PM
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I didn't say you should do it long term. I said you should undersell her in your mind initially as it changes your attitude towards her when you approach.
/r/seduction02/12/18 07:15 PM
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The only way to deal with this, IMO, is having more abundance of women and taking more action Gonna disagree here. It's just as much a mindset thing. You care about some girls more because of their outer appearance. But what will good looks alone add to your life vs. someone less attractive? Why are you so eager to get that? It's just some dumb trophy. Hot girls are still human beings. They can be assholes, have stupid opinions and believe in dumb shit. They can be a complete waste of your time.…
/r/seduction02/12/18 11:25 AM
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It's not content in a "given up hustling" kind of way. It's more like being happy with your life in general, no matter if you have dedicated it to working hard to becoming a millionaire or to be smoking weed all day doing nothing. If you're unhappy in your life and you feel like you need a girl to fix it, you need to fix that attitude. You don't want a girl you just met to feel like you have a hole inside that SHE is needed to fill - you want the girl to feel that you are having a party without …
/r/seduction08/11/18 04:41 PM
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It's not so much about making sense, but creating an opportunity to showcase that you are attractive. Who the fuck cares if you asked something silly to get a girls attention? Guys have done that since forever. This is not the important part. The important part is that you're charming and interesting when you have the attention. You really think a girl who leaves a great interaction is gonna think this guy was great, but it was a silly question he initiated with, so I'm not gonna return his call…
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:47 PM
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Move on. You're gonna stand out from other guys by not being some little bitch that keeps texting her about that date - potentially she'll notice that and feel under-validated, for lack of a better word, that you're not that eager to go with her like other guys, and she'll start to seek your attention. Maybe she don't care. It doesn't matter. One single girl is not that important. Start going for someone else now.
/r/seduction23/08/18 12:14 PM
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I worked for a large software company as a student, where HR told me that they only wanted student programmers with a bachelor's degree. Well, except for the multiple girls they hired that year that hadn't completed the B.Sc. yet. Here in Denmark girls actually dominate some STEM studies like pharmacology but there is absolutely no effort to make it a more including environment for men. On the other hand, there's a lot of support for women at computer science studies.
/r/MensRights14/08/18 11:30 AM
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I don't know if it's chauvinism. To me it's mostly just dumb. The reality is that every thing you see was built by somebody who may or may not be a good person of one gender or another. Leave it to so-called feminists to interpret the world in absolutes.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 09:34 PM
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It's not like every women care either. The limitation comes from within. Neofeminism boils down to women blaming men for their insecurities.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 01:24 PM
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Accepting yourself does not mean that you should become perfect, so you are able to accept yourself. Look into self-compassion - a book like "The gift of imperfection" can be read in a weekend. Everybody has good and bad in them. That girl that you think is a perfect 10 has days where she doesn't brush her teeth or pig out on food. That's being a normal human being. If you want to date girls you have to see them as normal human beings. Girls want guys that are normal human beings and they want a…
/r/seduction08/08/17 08:09 PM
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Happy to see a company deal with an idiot like they should.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/17 01:18 PM
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Creepy is usually when you want to show intent, but you're not fully secure in yourself, so you show a little bit intent, while you're overthinking. Show full intent, but don't be too intense and rapey, e.g. instead of checking her out for 5 minutes, introduce yourself when you see something you like, say that you wanted to meet her.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:30 PM
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Exactly. Forget that mystery method shit where an interaction consists of 10 phases and you have to do the right thing in every phase or you'll never get laid. Show up, take action, have a fun and carefree attitude, show intent. Don't be insecure, don't seek validation, don't do little behaviors that show that you feel below her (like trying to make her laugh all the time or hideing your true opinions on things) - the easiest fix is to is to not feel below her. Pretty basic shit.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:27 PM
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Are you actually showing her that it is 'on'? Are you teasing her, trying to make something happen (depending on the situation - turning her away from friends in the club, meeting up if you're just texting her), taking whatever necessary steps to progress. Don't wait for things to become 'on'. It don't happen. You make things become on. It's the attitude between trying to kiss a girl and dealing with it if she says no and waiting for the just right moment where she gives you some obvious signal.…
/r/seduction31/12/16 03:23 PM
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Instead of being all sad, why don't you focus your energy on fixing what you do wrong? Get fueled by failure. You're probably thinking that there is something wrong with YOU, while in reality it's more likely your actions. You can fuck things up by being too much of something (to friendly, too into her) or too little of something (not enough tension between you). This is not something you simply switch off or on. You have to go outside your comfort zone and experiment. Then you will fuck things …
/r/seduction31/12/16 02:07 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hou0lU8WMgo
/r/PussyPassDenied17/07/16 10:51 AM
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Think about what creates attraction and put that into text. Be playful, non-needy, etc. Don't be all interview mode or respond to everything she says or at once when she replies. Make it fun for both of you (this doesn't mean that you should be all jokes).
/r/seduction05/07/16 08:28 PM
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To me, this seems like a lot of beating around the bush. I don't believe you're getting out there hustlin'. Are you actually making your intentions clear to girls? I'm similar to you in a lot of ways. I'm in CS too and a normal looking guy who does a bunch of interesting things. I also used to wrestle and do muay thai. Nobody fucking cares though. It's not going to get you laid. I went to bars a lot in my early twenties, hoping to get laid, doing nothing. I was just waiting for some girl to jump…
/r/seduction05/06/16 06:14 PM
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Their marketing material is entertainment. If you see any of the RSD guys in a real interaction, there's a whole range of personality (with the exception of Todd).
/r/seduction05/06/16 06:02 PM
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Not just that, but it's just way higher impact to approach in the most confident way. Don't try to sneak into a conversation with a girl; this just screams zero percent confidence.
/r/seduction26/04/16 06:26 PM
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I really think this depends on the girl and the context. If a girl is insecure the first time you meet her or you've known her for some time, it's perfectly fine, but I see no purpose in complimenting a highly attractive girl when you first meet her. She doesn't care what about her that you compliment, she knows she's attractive and you're just another cheap hint of validation. It's when she starts doubting that you're even into her that you're attractive. Why would you want to compliment somebo…
/r/seduction28/11/15 10:35 PM
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Are you extroverted?
/r/seduction08/09/15 08:58 AM
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Happens to the best. Learn to push through it - take action anyway. Don't fight it though, be congruent. Look into meditation to train yourself to ignore and don't identify with these thoughts.
/r/seduction20/06/15 07:36 PM
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Classical wrestler vs. striker outcome.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/06/15 04:26 PM
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I just saw this article yesterday that really resonates with what you're saying http://99u.com/articles/42627/the-undeniable-benefits-of-being-weird
/r/seduction05/06/15 08:40 AM
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I agree. It's just something you point out early so you don't come as some kind of approach machine. Basically a statement of empathy.
/r/seduction11/05/15 08:23 AM
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There's nothing wrong with you. Your actions are dumb. Learn from this situation and take action next time. Know that this situation could come up again and that you could feel anxious and plan ahead what you're going to do. Do it, and if it doesn't work, rinse and repeat. It's no big deal. When something works, keep doing it. You look like a fool when you try out new things in general, accept it. It's an unreal expectation that you can look and feel confident the first time you do something. Ac…
/r/seduction02/05/15 02:51 PM
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It's a matter of momentum. It sucks for everybody when they're not into the flow of approaching. Create micro-momentum by doing several approaches in a day and just talking to strangers. Create macro-momentum by doing this consistently. Take the wheel. Face your fears. Your fear is to a large extent driven by having an outcome. You want some women you know absolutely nothing about to like you. You need to change this perspective.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:38 AM
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Also, this a big city in an extroverted culture. Try the same experiment walking down the streets of non-capitals in an introverted culture like any country here in Scandinavia and no one will say a word to her. I agree that the silent follower is a creep, but most of these guys are just "want some dick?" dumbasses. However, saying something dumb, but non-offensive, to somebody is not harassment.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 11:33 AM
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Initially, though, you have to push through. A woman can't be interested as soon as you approach unless your looks match her exact mental "attractiveness-patterns". You can't just reject yourself because she isn't reacting with strong emotions to your opener. Imagine if marketers just showed you a picture of their product. No words or text, no price, just a picture. You'd never know if you liked the product except for it's aesthetics. Plowing is you-marketing.
/r/seduction28/10/14 11:23 AM
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Realizing yourself always feels better than being rejected. Take nothing personally. That you take action is the only success criteria. Every approach makes you better.
/r/seduction02/10/14 10:25 PM
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I'm not sure if it's the guy that's being bashed here or the whole nice guy conditioning culture. I've certainly had my frustrations as an imgur user trying to explain the same kind of philosophies that this subreddit represents. It's a certain way to get downvoted and labeled as a bad human being.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:16 PM
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Exactly. Once you get into to your head to not base your self-image on how women react to you, rejections are nothing. There's a new hot girl to approach any minute.
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:41 PM
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Persistence. If she's still talking to you and it's man-to-woman, she's just being a tease. Or maybe she' just not into PDA. I would probably have thrown in a "you don't have to try to impress me, I already like you" for the 10/10 comment. Kissing is not important anyway. It's not an essential part of a pull, don't make that into a limiting belief.
/r/seduction03/08/14 05:32 PM
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Look at the other post I made in this thread. If you think anybody lives a rejection free life, you're completely wrong. You give off the wrong vibe and you get rejected. It's not about looks. You need to change your mindset. Your confidence does not come from how women react to you. Your confidence comes from within. Don't waste your time on tinder and dating sites. It's confidence destroyers. I can't tell you how many times I've heard "I think you're too old for me", yet even though I'm even o…
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:16 AM
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I've been on bootcamp with some of the best, guys who can make a living only by teaching pickup, and they get a fuckload of rejections too and have shitty interactions where the girls just hate them. It's nothing personal. It's reality for every man.
/r/seduction02/08/14 08:38 PM
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I'm 10 years older than you, but I was just as insecure and inexperienced when I had your age. I wasted a lot of mental energy on shooting myself down and my current career is pretty fucked up because of that. This line of thinking is not useful at all. I can't say exactly what changed my life for the better, a lot of things happened in a short period of time. But... First, you need to get your mind straight. You can't attract women if you feel completely unattractive, no matter how good you exe…
/r/seduction02/08/14 08:36 PM
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Good points, good points. Additionally, you're not doing this to get a good reaction from her anyway. If you are, you're coming from the wrong mindset. You're doing this for you. For your journey. For the enjoyment of taking action. Not for instant gratification and ego boosts.
/r/seduction02/08/14 05:47 PM
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I agree. And you would be a complete dumbass if you actually expected every single girl you meet to be attracted to you.
/r/seduction28/07/14 12:01 PM
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Nothing to accomplish, noting to lose. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. It's all about the process, approaching this girl will help you get another.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:58 AM
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