tangotom Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	"Feminism is for men too!" that third picture, the commenter doesn't seem to grasp the delusion she's in. she says: toxic masculinity is so rampant from social media and in the previous sentence she says: I think it is quite common now for women to not go through with birthing male babies Hello??? Do you not realize you are murdering male babies and bragging about it on social media? The hypocrisy is unbelievable. Toxic femininity is a blight on society.	/r/MensRights	22/07/26 12:41 PM
8	Hot-take: I think that the Shift of male voters in the most recent US elections was not a net-positive reaction to the misandry, it validated the gender-wars instead You're a fundamentally unserious person No need to resort to ad hominems, you could've just said that you didn't want to admit you were wrong. Saying the same thing 10 times does not magically make you right. The TN bill wasn't about saving lives, it was a backdoor to allow unlimited abortions for "mental health". The NC bill didn't and doesn't have widespread support, and won't even be voted on, so using it as an example of Republicans at large is deceptive. The end.	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 08:06 PM
13	Hot-take: I think that the Shift of male voters in the most recent US elections was not a net-positive reaction to the misandry, it validated the gender-wars instead As usual, more word games. The Tennessee bill was not at all what you claim. From your own source: The measure would have allowed physicians to perform abortions in cases of rape and incest without the threat of a felony charge under the state’s restrictive abortion law. This is NOT what the article's headline claims, which is "Tennessee lawmakers defeat abortion bill protecting mother’s life". It's also very much worth noting that the law you are talking about would have added a clause permitti…	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 06:09 PM
14	Hot-take: I think that the Shift of male voters in the most recent US elections was not a net-positive reaction to the misandry, it validated the gender-wars instead Get me a source for any of that. 99% of the time it's word games.	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 05:06 PM
2	Hot-take: I think that the Shift of male voters in the most recent US elections was not a net-positive reaction to the misandry, it validated the gender-wars instead Abortion is murder, which is already illegal. It's not even a religious thing. Just strictly look at the rights of an individual, first and foremost which is the right to life. And yes, it is a human being, it has unique human DNA; there is no point where you can point to the embryo and say "this is where it becomes a human".	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 05:05 PM
41	Hot-take: I think that the Shift of male voters in the most recent US elections was not a net-positive reaction to the misandry, it validated the gender-wars instead And by electing a party with a hard stance on those issues, justified the game by playing it even harder. "Men voted in their own best interests, women most affected" type of logic. You claimed not to want to talk politics, but you brought up politics... seems a bit of a double standard, no?	/r/MensRights	08/06/26 04:58 PM
1	Why the hell should a man consider marriage? There are so many times I see posts in this sub that make me question why I still read it. Nice to see a bit of sanity in here. My wife married me when I was a jobless student, now we have kids and a house. My wife stuck by me when I was diagnosed with cancer in my 20s. My wife plays video games with me and we watch anime together. It really is about finding the right person. I understand that it's harder in this day and age. And I understand that feminism has festered in our court systems like …	/r/MensRights	12/05/26 04:31 PM
2	My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial? You have a few paths forward. You could talk it out with her. Tell her what you told us, about how you knew that guy at work who got obliterated by a divorce. Tell her about how the court system is rigged against men. You could reframe it in an emotional light, one that she might be more likely to understand. She says it's unromantic, she says it's about trust. Turn it back on her. Ask her why she is against a fair agreement- is she already planning to divorce you? Tell her that she doesn't trus…	/r/MensRights	19/02/26 08:40 PM
1	The Demonization of Porn is misandry That’s not at all what I said, you’re not engaging in good faith. My great grandpa smoked for 70 years and died of testicular cancer when he was 102. Never had any negative consequences at all. But my father in law died from lung cancer, as did my wife’s aunt, and my wife’s other aunt. Just because one person has no negative consequences doesn’t mean that there isn’t a trend of people who do. And you didn’t even mention marriages… of course people married for 20 years aren’t dating lol. Plenty o…	/r/MensRights	31/12/25 02:32 PM
1	The Demonization of Porn is misandry Some people smoke cigarettes for 50 years and die of natural causes. Doesn’t mean that cigarettes aren’t bad for you.	/r/MensRights	31/12/25 04:26 AM
8	The Demonization of Porn is misandry As I said, you’re free to make your own choices. Goon as much as you like. Just as you are free to talk about it, I am free to criticize it. I think that porn, AI girlfriends and sexbots have a net negative impact on society, because a society is ultimately made up of the individuals within it. Although it is hilarious to see all the feminists cry about being replaced by robots… so I’ll give you that!	/r/MensRights	29/12/25 05:23 PM
18	The Demonization of Porn is misandry I think this is one of the things that a lot of people don’t get. Porn causes changes in your brain chemistry, especially if started at a young age. Porn creates a Pavlov-style conditioning for men to cuck themselves, by constantly watching other men have sex with women they are attracted to. It is addictive, as you said, just like any dopamine-providing vice. Despite all that, I still don’t think it should be banned. Ultimately people have to be free to make their own choices. But I am also fre…	/r/MensRights	29/12/25 04:47 PM
0	Charlie Kirk saved my life Tell me how this isn’t racist. Well... since you asked. DEI policies are inherently racist, because they make skin color a factor in the hiring decision. And, because it makes skin color a factor, experience and merit are not the only thing that determines the hiring decision. So, logically, DEI policies will lead to hiring decisions where applicants with less experience / merit are hired. If your stated goal is to increase the proportion of minorities in employed positions, you are engaging in …	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 12:42 PM
-2	Charlie Kirk saved my life This victim blaming is abhorrent and telling about the character of some people. EDIT: And, on a side note, I'm sure none of those quotes are edited or taken out of context.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 12:20 PM
-4	Charlie Kirk saved my life I'm sure this Wikipedia page is completely unbiased and based only on the full context of his quotes.	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 12:17 PM
1	Sometimes to win, you don’t play the game. Uh, breastfeeding is have to insist on a woman. But formula allows you to do it, as a man. You can use knowledge and smarts to overcome physical limitations. That's one of the essences of humankind. Babysitting isn’t gender specific. You're correct, and the reason I mentioned this is because it leads to a good question to challenge you. What if you only needed to lift 50 pounds? That's not gender specific, and most job descriptions won't ask you to lift anything heavier than that. I’m the ripe o…	/r/MensRights	22/07/25 02:17 PM
2	Sometimes to win, you don’t play the game. Did they ever teach you in school about how women used to have to fetch water from wells? That was a "feminine" job. Do you have any idea how fucking heavy water is? Have you ever had to carry buckets of water from a well? I have. Let me tell you, it's not an easy job, even as a man. It can be crushing when you bring back a bucket and you realize that you've barely gotten enough water to cook with, let alone wash any dishes or bathe. Just because women had gender roles doesn't mean they didn't d…	/r/MensRights	22/07/25 01:51 PM
1	I've been noticing a lot of white knights on this sub. I think the reason some people get upset about this type of post is the same reason people get upset when someone says “all lives matter” in a conversation about BLM. It takes away from the topic at hand without adding anything meaningful in exchange. Is it technically true? Yes. But it’s used to distract and obfuscate.	/r/MensRights	21/06/25 04:00 PM
12	Tinder is testing a HEIGHT filter - as devastated users say it's 'over for short men' People are allowed to have preferences. I agree, and I think most people here agree. The reason it's being called out is because of a double standard. These apps will introduce a filter that is targeted to help women (so women can filter out short guys), but the apps won't introduce a filter that is targeted to help men (filtering out overweight women). The perception is that women are often espousing hypocritical views / double standards. That being, they want to judge men on their height, but …	/r/MensRights	02/06/25 03:04 PM
1	Crazy to think of how the first feminists created a great society for men and women alike…but modern feminism destroyed it all I don't know which modern feminists you have been talking to that want equity, not equality. (not radical shouty ones online who don't represent the general feminist movement) I'm putting those out of order, but you kind of answered your own question. They do represent the movement as a whole; those who self-describe as feminist overwhelmingly agree with the shouty ones. If you speak to any real women you will learn that they would prefer to be able to vote, and that they don't think conscriptio…	/r/MensRights	27/05/25 01:31 PM
4	Crazy to think of how the first feminists created a great society for men and women alike…but modern feminism destroyed it all You’re not wrong, there are fates worse than death.	/r/MensRights	21/05/25 02:08 AM
6	Crazy to think of how the first feminists created a great society for men and women alike…but modern feminism destroyed it all I know in our current society those two aren't linked, but that's not how it was historically. It was commonly understood that men got to vote because men were the ones who would have to fight and die based on the consequences of the votes. As u/Icy-Picture-192 said, many women actually didn't want the right to vote because they didn't want the responsibility that came with it- conscription and military service. This is part of the nefariousness of feminism. Feminists claimed that they wanted eq…	/r/MensRights	20/05/25 07:21 PM
4	Crazy to think of how the first feminists created a great society for men and women alike…but modern feminism destroyed it all Great, so when will the draft be abolished?	/r/MensRights	20/05/25 05:48 PM
3	Due process is important regardless of what the person is accused of Last time I checked, conservatives are the ones who speak up for men’s rights. It’s a big thing that the left hates about them, remember? They’re the misogynist patriarchy guys.	/r/MensRights	29/03/25 10:48 PM
1	Update: “not all men, but always a man” This was mind-blowing to me. It's something I always knew, but didn't fully understand until you framed it this way.	/r/MensRights	08/01/25 04:18 PM
4	The fate of a married man in the bedroom You clearly didn't read what I wrote if you believe what I said was to "treat her like crap". In your original comment, you wrote this: Always keeping the upper hand in the relationship ( "treat her mean - keep her keen" is sad but true) That's what I'm referring to. If you enter a relationship with this twisted idea of having to be in control, and having to fight your partner for control, I don't understand how she's supposed to see that as anything other than manipulative. I know the comment o…	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 05:58 PM
8	The fate of a married man in the bedroom I'm a 30 yo married man with two kids. My wife married me when I was poor, and she stayed with me when I was diagnosed with cancer. (I'm cancer free now, thankfully) We have a rock solid marriage because neither of us plays games with the other. We talk about everything, and we help each other with our problems. We treat each other like normal people. I get that the dating scene is tough for guys right now. I'm not disputing that. What I am saying is that you have control over exactly one thing …	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 04:45 PM
-3	The fate of a married man in the bedroom Not always being around (even in marriage), go on longer business trips Always keeping the upper hand in the relationship ( "treat her mean - keep her keen" is sad but true) Making sure she always knows you have other options in life, for both sex and relationships, and that other women want you Making sex something "she has to earn from you" ( the other way around is detrimental for women's sex drives) This is terrible advice. If you go into a relationship with the intention of playing games, y…	/r/MensRights	19/12/24 04:19 PM
1	Female double standards You’re correct. Legally it’s allowed, it’s just a moral gray area. I don’t think it should be made illegal, though. People have a right to make their own choices in life, even bad choices.	/r/MensRights	08/10/24 01:29 AM
-9	Female double standards A 28 year old could almost have an 18 year old daughter. almost Reading comprehension challenge: impossible	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 11:16 PM
-3	Female double standards If a guy had a daughter when he was 16, his daughter would be 12 when he was 28. That scenario is well within the realm of possibility. An 18 year old is closer in age to his daughter than to him. I don’t get what’s so hard to understand about this.	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 11:07 PM
-8	Female double standards Idk why you’re downvoted, it’s true. The rule is half your age +7. 28/2=14 14+7=21 A 28 year old could almost have an 18 year old daughter. That’s kinda weird guys.	/r/MensRights	07/10/24 10:31 PM
1	The “Childless Cat Lady” Feminist Outrage Truly Proves We’re Living In Bizarro World R/politicalcompassmemes is centrist/right	/r/MensRights	11/09/24 10:20 PM
2	My girlfriend would choose the bear I came for the bear memes but stayed for the deep and insightful life advice. Jordan Peterson also has some insight on this, about being harmless or dangerous.	/r/MensRights	07/05/24 02:24 PM
4	Body count lies and extreme hatered towards men and teen boys . Yes, it is a joke. The idea behind it is that men tend to inflate / exaggerate their body count, while women tend to deflate / conceal their body count. The reasons for this are that many men want to look cool and brag about having lots of sex, while many women want to appear more “pure”.	/r/MensRights	15/04/24 11:13 PM
0	I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do? This is bad advice.	/r/MensRights	06/02/24 12:15 AM
3	Men are finally waking up, and feminists aren't happy Have to agree with you here. I’m a new dad and I would rather work 8 hours than be a stay at home parent for 8 hours. I respect my wife so much and I make sure she knows that.	/r/MensRights	15/08/23 02:48 PM
35	Young men are not being "indoctrinated." Young men are simply disgusted by feminist rhetoric and want nothing to do with you. You read my mind. This trend has become so painfully obvious and stale.	/r/MensRights	04/07/23 11:47 AM
9	This is my first post here. I never really post. But this comment chain from r/nothowgirlswork needs to be seen. It is surprising what feminists seem to think of the MRM (read till end, some real gems in there) (hope the flair is all right) And what do you think the odds are that some of them are among the group that labels all right wingers as nazis? Then turning around and complaining that not all feminists are misandrists. What a lack of self awareness.	/r/MensRights	01/06/22 03:00 PM
5	Reminder: 50% of all Marriages end in Divorce. 70-90% of all divorces is initiated by the wife, 90% of custody is given to Mothers. You and a lot of other people in this thread are being doomers, and rude about it at that. You didn’t need to personally call out his username in all caps, and yet here we are. Strawman. OP never said to tell people “I told you so, fuck you”. Strawman. He didn’t say that you said those exact words. He said that you’re behaving along those lines, saying things akin to that. Which I must agree with him. /u/Billy-Batdorf is right.	/r/MensRights	07/09/21 12:31 PM
6	SCOTUS allows Texas abortion ban to proceed. Bodily Autonomy is important to everyone, no matter what form it may take. Thank you. This is the thing that rabid pro choicers forget or ignore. Quite literally 90% of abortions are voluntary, not driven by medical reasons. https://abort73.com/abortion_facts/us_abortion_statistics/ provides some unbiased data sourced from the CDC and one other institution. I make the distinction earlier of rabid pro choicer because I believe both sides of the issue have normal people that realistically have almost the same views on it. Very few people actually like abortion, and most …	/r/MensRights	02/09/21 12:24 PM
16	PSA: how I respond when my SO accuses me of "mansplaining" I will say I don’t think that giving someone the silent treatment is a good way to get them to come around to your side. It’s manipulative, and it could just push someone away. Good communication is much better, I believe. Like you said, firmly say that you don’t appreciate being silenced or belittled, and if she responds to that then you have a conversation like adults.	/r/MensRights	29/08/21 04:17 PM
12	Circumcision is a crime against humanity, and a senseless evil in 99% of cases. What an insightful comment. Do you mind if I save this to share with others?	/r/MensRights	23/08/21 08:16 PM
5	It is an absolute outrage that AgainstHateSubreddits wants to ban Men's Rights https://www.rareddit.com/r/WatchRedditDie/comments/jkb683/in_depth_observation_of_the_accusations_against/ Here’s a good write up for you that’s safe (no risk of accidentally viewing CP)	/r/MensRights	05/08/21 11:28 AM
1	WIFE AND I ARE SPLITTING UP BUT I WANT ANSWERS! It's absolutely true that women can ruin a man's life. It's justifiable and reasonable to be afraid of that outcome. In fact, I would say that if you aren't at least a little afraid, then you're doing it wrong. The problem is that the guy I replied to is taking it beyond that, in my opinion. He seems to be saying that because of that fear, you should give up on even trying to find a happy relationship. That "true relationships", as he puts it, are impossible. It's society's fault, for being gyno…	/r/MensRights	09/10/20 01:10 AM
8	WIFE AND I ARE SPLITTING UP BUT I WANT ANSWERS! This sounds like the same logic that radical feminists use. “There are no good men because the patriarchal society gives men all the power. Even the good ones can’t help it, it’s society’s fault for making things this way.” In my opinion that is such awful logic. It’s so disempowering and takes responsibility away from an individual for their actions.	/r/MensRights	08/10/20 08:05 PM
80	Man 'raped and killed by parents' after daughter 'joked he molested her' I’m going to start off by saying that I don’t disagree with what you’re saying. I just want to offer some potentially new perspective. Children lie a ton. Once they learn that they can lie, they will do so, because they don’t fully understand that it’s wrong, or the consequences of doing so. Children also have the capacity to be very selfish and cruel, again for the reasons outlined above. They are still learning what is okay and what isn’t. Why do you think bullying is such a common problem in …	/r/MensRights	29/09/20 12:53 PM