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| – | Weekly check-inI made the (oddly) difficult decision to move back to my parents. I moved 1000 miles away for work and after 4 years of isolation from them, as well as all the financial hardship from failing economy, I am going back. I view it as a failure but I am also trying to tell myself to believe in the proverb about “it is necessary sometimes to take one step back to take two steps forward.” I am trying to view it as “resetting” and see it was a necessary step backwards in order to move forward in life. … | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/12/24 02:42 AM |
| – | Weekly check-inWe are still making plans, but some seeds are being planted and I do have some things I can think about more. I think getting into journaling and reflecting on the sessions can help. | /r/MenSupportMen | 10/09/24 02:37 PM |
| – | Weekly check-inStarted therapy few weeks ago after making a scene at work. Appointment 3 is tomorrow. Trying to use therapy and the idea of it to help enable me to start taking better care of my apartment. Small steps at a time. | /r/MenSupportMen | 08/09/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else not interested in dating anymore?Its been about 8-9 years since last relationship, which was high school. I started focusing in schooling and career, but dating went to hell since then. I have had a few dates, but ultimately I am not interested in most of the people on these apps. I also have my 8-9 years of walls being built and I dont do anything exciting, so I feel like I come across as standoffish and very boring. Plus online dating sucks anyway but I dont feel like I have much if an option given capitalisms war against thi… | /r/MenSupportMen | 07/08/24 12:07 PM |
| – | Weekly check-inUSPS has a domestic priority express package stuck in an international distribution center. Parents and I have had to have several conversations on how to handle the “Santa” gifts in front of my 6yo sister. And I dont have wrapping paper or a tree. Luckily I have some other things from family and even a personal thing I ordered that I can just play off as “from Santa.” Just gotta be careful to keep it off camera during the video call. Plan is basically tear random bits of paper to make the unwra… | /r/MenSupportMen | 25/12/23 06:24 AM |
| – | Weekly check-inNew to sub. This week is going better than last, but the looming threat of repayment, combined with lack of energy to do basic chores has been weighing on me. Loneliness is more persistent now but it usually comes in waves. Still wondering if my decision to move across the country has been worth it. Too many days i come home from work and just stare at empty apartment wondering “Is it worth it? Why am I working so hard for a dream that is tearing me away from family and leaving me feeling hollow… | /r/MenSupportMen | 03/10/23 02:06 PM |
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