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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Ever notice that "Alpha males" have no real friends?Why not? | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/25 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Ever notice that "Alpha males" have no real friends?I meant to include that caveat in the post. Yeah, you're not going to be hanging out every weekend like you're in your early 20s. But if people will agree to see you two times a year MAX...it's kind of a likely tip off that it's something about you. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/25 05:14 PM |
| 17 | Ever notice that "Alpha males" have no real friends?I get it, but I'm moreso just using it as a shorthand term for the collection of bad traits that such people have. I didn't want to try to define something extremely complex. Just wanted to see if people relate to what I'm saying. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have a strange relationship with nihilismThat's actually exactly what I'm talking about. Why is that "over-thinking" to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill has now been well-known for about a decade. It seems it's track-record for actual helping men is dismal.Maybe there are some inherently tragic aspects to life or at least society in its current form, if that's what you're implying. But ultimately, if red pill makes claims to be able to help, it should be demonstrating that it can deliver. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/23 08:00 PM |
| 2 | What would “society being honest with men” look like?Ok, maybe you're just trying to promote something good for the few people who are like this. But you should just leave it at that. It seems like you're trying to imply that your approach should be applying to a lot of people, perhaps even most. There's no evidence for this whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 06:53 AM |
| 20 | What would “society being honest with men” look like?Some things can be changed, but a lot of the damage is already done. A lot of things must be addressed in the developmental years. It's exponentially harder to change certain things once you're nearing the end of your 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 06:49 AM |
| 2 | What would “society being honest with men” look like?What's the evidence that people merely use relationships to fill a void? That doesn't seem necessarily true at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyWhat’s PUA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyHe’s a POS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyWho is ARC? Is there a video of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyI believe there are a lot of bad faith people in red pill, but that doesn’t mean they’re literally scammers. If a guy gives what I find is ultimately crappy advice and other people are willing to pay for it, that’s their prerogative. But this guy is actually misrepresenting himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:28 AM |
| 7 | A "Red Pill" scammer got exposed recentlyThat's is 100% NOT what I'm doing. That's why I put "red pill" in quotes in the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/22 10:24 PM |
| -1 | Are women able to experiment with their careers choices more?I don't get this reply. And yeah, some have lives and kids etc, but it's getting exponentially harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 08:33 PM |
| -1 | Are women able to experiment with their careers choices more?That was really just a poor descriptor I was just kind of harkening to things like unpaid internships or some low paid gigs across the country just for the experience. You could add in low investment start ups that will likely go nowhere. Stuff like that. My sister worked in a fairly low paying line of work (small time acting, musicals, shows etc). In her early 30s, she took a summer gig across the county mainly just for the experience. A man in her position would never do that. He’d be anxious … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/22 07:11 PM |
| 2 | The "reward" for successfully implementing red pillDonating wouldn't directly contradict anything I stated about him. I'm aware that red pillers claim to want to help some people, so the donations don't contradict that. What makes them suspect is that they advocate for a belief system that claims that almost all men and some women are screwed and seem to have no problem with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 38 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?That's a ridiculous thing to say. People who are so lacking in empathy that they can't even form relationships are rare, and aren't the primary cause of problems for men in dating. You picked one aspect that basically relates to sociopathy (rare) and overemphasized it. And you make it sound like having empathy for decent men who are struggling finding a partner is tantamount to placating sociopaths. That's not realism. It's bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Guys complain about being lonely/sexless but isn't it just survival of the fittest?I understand where this view is coming from. But don't you realize millions of people have been socialized to expect having children as part of the next phase of their life? You're not going to get most people to accept it and just be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?this is a great point. I've always thought this but couldn't articulate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Maybe when you turn 35 it gets different. 30 is just the same as being like 27 though. Still “young”, just getting older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 15 | Women really dislike autistic menThe problems are real, but death sentence makes it sound like you can't have any success with women or any social aspect. That isn't true. I'm guessing you're trying to assert realism here, but that really is an exaggeration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Like it kind of just sounds like you listed everything seen as good. But not just some things. Pretty much...all the things. If it's real, and I guess it probably is, good on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?Is this real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 11 | Why do red pilled men attempt to date seriously?If you actually believe any of this crap, the most rational thing to do would be to give up. Seriously. If women must be dealt with in the terms you describe, what's the point of pursuing and maintaining the relationship? It's more bother than it's worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pilled men attempt to date seriously?Well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | There are tons of guys who self-identify as ugly but why aren't there many women who self-identify as ugly?Good question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 02:02 PM |
| 14 | Redditors always say treat women like people and not objects to be won but the way dating has gone encourages this sort of thinkingI’ve never heard this. Some incels may be average looking, but most are under average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedThe problem is they THINK they want this, in part due to feminist narratives. It’s true that the trend you describe is happening, but the modern women who went that route are largely still 35-45ish. They are still young enough to be able to stave off unsatisfied feelings with sex, nightlife, a lot of traveling etc. Many will change their tune when they are 46 and lonely. More women are CHOOSING the path you describe, but that doesn’t mean they are satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedWomen don't mind being "single" if they're 20 somethings. When they get older and are running out of time to have kids, it's a different story. They have less time, less options. Most women are like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedDude. You literally used the "but think about the poor WOMEN!" card when describing a scenario that in no way benefits women. Women aren't alone because they "can't find" a man. Women are alone because the men available aren't men they want to spend their life with. I don't see how "you don't deserve to get what you want, you should let those men have you anyway" is helpful. It does benefit women. They likely end up with a solid man who is attractive to them in some ways, but perhaps has a coupl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 0 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedYou just did it again. You ascribed bad faith to me when there was a better explanation present. Honestly just skimmed the rest of your post. Whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedI feel there is a lot of pain in this world right now because people had expectations of having a family. A lot of women seem not to want to settle, even for men who have their shit together. It seems to me a lot of unnecessary pain could be avoided if women would just cast a slightly wider net. You say I'm treating people like objects. I feel I'm just responding to trends in dating and the loneliness that many people report. I agree it's unsettling somewhat to look at people/dating this way, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedWhy not? To me, attraction isn't an all-or-nothing thing, whereby anyone below the acceptable line on my attractiveness scale registers as equally unattractive. To the contrary, I've met a lot of women who, while I didn't currently find them worth pursuing, felt that if they could just change one or two things, they'd pass as attractive for me. I think it's the same concept with settling. There's still some things about them you DO find attractive, but other things throw it off a bit. With settl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Women will settle slightly if they’re running out of time to get marriedYou think they should, and that makes sense as this would benefit you and people like you, as it gives you more of a chance. I provided a factor that is undeniably weighing heavily on many women (and men also): They don't want to be alone and childless. Seems like real low-hanging fruit to suggest I'm just saying it for my own benefit. The only thing to address is the cost/benefit analysis in my post. You're just listing the potential drawbacks to my approach, and in my opinion, exaggerating qui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 07:01 PM |
| 3 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?What I never see accounted for here is the fear of being alone. That should work to men's favor. If you're running out of time to tie the knot, you have to cast a wider net. I believe you can't drop your minimum from a 8 to a 5 or something like that. But you could drop from an 8 to a 7 if you're running out of time. It's not irrational either. Settling slightly> Dying alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Yeah, but this runs up against the fear of being alone. They should lower their standards for this reason, if only by a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?Interesting observation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time when men react with frustration when women reject them it is because the woman is less attractive than them and has an inflated image, not because they are “entitled to sex.” Women react the same way when they don’t get what they feel they “deserve,” yet only one is shamed for it.I understand the point he’s making though. You could argue it’s not happening as much as he suggests, but I think it’s happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:48 PM |
| 0 | If your daughter slapped her boyfriend and gave her a black eye in return, would you accept it?Ok, so in fairness, the force being used is different. But it's still just a one for one in terms of a strike being delivered. We can't reasonably expect everyone in the heat of the moment to perfectly control their level of force, so I don't policing that in particular as a viable solution. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 02:07 AM |
| -1 | If your daughter slapped her boyfriend and gave her a black eye in return, would you accept it?So nothing would be unsettling to you about the disproportionate force used? | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 02:06 AM |
| 1 | If your daughter slapped her boyfriend and gave her a black eye in return, would you accept it?That's kind of beside the point. I'm trying to see if people would accept the incident as being settled and done with (in terms of a blow being delivered and a blow being returned) or if people would feel the urge to confront the guy. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | If your daughter slapped her boyfriend and gave her a black eye in return, would you accept it?Well, no, as I see it, a blow was thrown a blow was returned. The difference would just be male strength. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | If your daughter slapped her boyfriend and gave her a black eye in return, would you accept it?Let's just say it was a heated argument that went bad. Nothing out of the ordinary. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Confidence doesn't help physically unattractive menInteresting, I think there’s some truth to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.But are you saying the obesity rate is a negligible thing in some areas? I think obesity rose more in some areas/groups than others, but is it possible that all groups increase somewhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:45 PM |
| 2 | A large percentage of women are undeniably drawn to assholes and men who exhibit toxic, abusive behavior, but lie and say they just want a guy who will treat them rightWait, so you're actually making someone argue that a lot of women say there are "no good men"? I'm confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer?Being “average” doesn’t mean there’s nothing to like. You could like someone’s personality or have a genuine connection with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?Former MMA fighter Miriam Nakamoto spoke at length about this on a Joe Rogan podcast. Richard Cooper even retweetee it. Her SO lost an mma fight badly, and apparently he kind of just gave up during the match and looked pathetic doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Equality lefts & rightsshe almost caught him with a right. got dropped but still. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/10/19 05:34 AM |
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