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tantman/r/askTRP04/07/15 05:28 AM
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tantman/r/askTRP24/05/16 11:19 PM
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Can you provide links to resources that show the mindset of the hyperachievement feminists?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:12 PM
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Based on the excellence of the first two Rational Male books, I'm buying the kindle version now... insane ROI... it's a no brainer.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:19 AM
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She sounds similar to my wife of 16 years, soon to be ex-wife the way things are going. Here is what I have learned from marrying a hard-charging feminist corporate type: Don't take feminism at face value. "equality" is never quantifiable, and with my hard-charger, I never did enough to "arrive". I tried to make her happy... now I realize that's never going to happen. Briffault's Law: you sacrificed to enable her to take that big promotion that required uprooting the family and moving them thous…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 02:14 PM
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Fear of a man killing you is not the same as fear of losing a man who adds value to your life
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:55 PM
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Please elaborate... how did you drag the truth out of her?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:34 AM
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Assuming of course that you find the truth before dating. Getting an accurate history can be very challenging.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:58 PM
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That might be some of it... but thinking about this a bit, she's always been antagonistic to some degree, no matter who is working. I had thought that she was simply pushing hard to help get us where we want to go... i.e. being a good partner in working towards our goals. I didn't like that she was not able to enjoy the journey... but just thought, "ok, she's high strung, i'll just deal with it until we get more on top of things" But once we "arrived", I found out that she could not relax and en…
/r/askTRP07/07/15 03:56 PM
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thanks man, very helpful!
/r/askTRP05/07/15 05:01 AM
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Well, I was thinking I was doing it for "us"... but yeah, gotcha, I'm going to invest very heavily in myself now.
/r/askTRP05/07/15 05:00 AM
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Yes, I put her on a pedestal, big time. Now I see the error of my ways. I really bought into the whole Unicorn thing, big time. Just glad to have my head pulled out of my ass in time to enjoy my remaining years of life better. She will not control my life from now on. No matter how this plays out.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:23 PM
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With all the negative evidence I've posted, she still may not have cheated (1 in 100, just maybe) so yes, I do need to be more attractive and see if she changes. a I am going to just improve myself, assume nothing either way and make the right moves things go along. I understand OI, have done a lot of OI throughout my life and will do it again here. I am going to do stuff on principle, and will be fine no matter how it turns out.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:14 PM
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BATNA... looking into it, thank you.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:09 PM
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Yes. Take note. Money will help if your woman is truly a partner... but she may not be, as in my case. If you want to be an equal partner, she can play that without really being one. One of my many flaws is that I am WAY too open, I just tell people what I think, honestly. I am getting over that now, in a BIG way... someday I will be the Amused Master, I can FEEL it coming.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:05 PM
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Yes, the thing that is so disingenuous is that she KNOWS I am trying to treat her equally, but instead of honoring that, she is using it. The itch to fuck some fantasy alpha just explains everything... I'll be amazed if that does not end up being the answer.... just need to figure out how to uncover it.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 08:00 PM
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Excellent. That's what I'm doing... thanks.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:58 PM
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Noted. Thanks.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:56 PM
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Hey guys... a follow-on question: how can I find out about her past? Like if she was riding the CC in college? She belonged to a sorority, so I'm going to look into old online photos, etc. Any thoughts or suggestions on how to REALLY know someone's past? The mistake I made here was assuming that men and women are the same... sure I fucked around some, so if she did a little too, that's ok? But I never really dug into whether it was really "a little" or if it was more like "a lot, and she cannot …
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:56 PM
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I didn't say it was tech... want to be vague, concerned someone who knows us will put 2+2 together and tip her off. (paranoid, yes, but with good reason, i think). but yeah, i can set up a server... i can figure that out, thanks for the tip!!
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:49 PM
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I'm no Chad TC, but I am considered very well above average looks and had my fair share before getting married. In 3 months of working out and eating well, I get ripped. I do it every few years to maintain... doing it again now. I am so DRIVEN at the gym now! I had so much energy tied up in the frustration of my situation and I drive it into those weights... cathartic!! I have turned down lots of ass through the years... trying to be honorable, man. Funny, I go through all the episodes in my hea…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:46 PM
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I am not completely set financially. I have a lot of rope, but I can't just retire yet, and do not want to... but I get your point and I'm going to look after myself, as you suggest... thanks. I have a lot of improvement to do, it will take me a while to completely swallow the pill... but this just feels SOO right.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:37 PM
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Very good insights, I agree with all of what you have said and THANKS for helping me! The mistake I made was assuming that I was getting what the feminists have been saying they want: equality. Once it became clear that her life is about HER and not US, I started waking up (with the help of TRP). Part of the reason she is not "impressed" by my achievements is that she is also very capable and on her own will also score 7 figures in the next few years, just on salary on stock. I was very alpha at…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:33 PM
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They are mine, for sure. Look just like me, so no issue there.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:24 PM
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Yes, we are a pretty unique couple. We have tag-teamed our careers in a way where we go for the best opportunity that either of us has... this has worked out quite well for us and over the years we built up to where we had our house paid off, lots of options, etc. (Once I hit the big score, we bought an even better house, cash.) But still lots of stress keeping to careers going in an on and off fashion and raising kids. The thing that really started waking me up, is that once I got a big score t…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:22 PM
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Kids are 8 and 12. I might just have that 1 in 100, but I am going to run with the assumption that I am not. The more I think about it, she probably gave in to temptation and is feeling very bad about it. I see her hamster work so hard always trying to make everything my fault. I actually feel compassion for her, now that I see where she is REALLY coming from. But with that said, the deal was MONOGAMY. And if that deal was broken, I am OUT and this is OVER and I will be ruthless s in the split u…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:09 PM
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I will check that out, but to me what I've always wanted is piece of mind. Instead of taking a loan out and trying to invest the rest, I say fuck it. I want to FUCKING OWN my house, not have the bank own it. Allows me to be Alpha as shit at work, I take no shit from anyone, I don't have a mortgage hanging over my head. When the shit hits the fan in the economy (which it just might very soon with this Greece thing) it will be nice kicking back in MY house. So that's my mindset anyway... if I have…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:05 PM
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Are there any good resources in manosphere that you know of for doing a bang-up job of this?
/r/askTRP04/07/15 07:00 PM
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Thanks to everyone for all of the excellent comments and suggestions. I will respond to individual comments also, to clarify. My overriding emotion on TRP is GRATITUDE. Down through the years, I've worked hard to rid myself of internal conflicts... you know that feeling like you've got your foot on the brake and the gas at the same time, that there is some fundamental disconnect, something very important I'm missing... Reading TRP, it's like I've had all the cans of my six-pack, just not the pla…
/r/askTRP04/07/15 06:57 PM
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My gig played out, I netted 7 figures. Now she has found a killer gig, I have backed off of my gig and she is making multiple 6 figures. I am only consulting now. One thing I did do right was to marry someone who is very capable at her work... she kicks major ass and is going to do very well going forward, she is positioned very well in her industry.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 06:45 PM
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