tantricengineer Archive

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2	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... When it comes to approaching women, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain. Well done. Keep at it. The more you practice the better you become. Congratulations.	/r/seduction	06/02/16 05:08 AM
6	Efficiently taking a shower after you bring a girl back? A lovely young woman from St. Thomas once put it to me very plainly. We had been dancing for over an hour in a club, and were covered in a nice "waxing" of sweat and cigarette smoke by the time we got to my place. First thing when we got to my place was drink some water while slow dancing. Then, she looked me in the eyes and said with an ultra confident Caribbean accent, "let's take a shower". Suddenly, it became a super sensual situation. We hopped into the shower together, teased each other, h…	/r/seduction	04/02/16 05:52 PM
12	How to Flirt with the Fuckhot Alpha Male as a Submissive Female Ah, I believe I can help with this. This is a "softly softly catch the monkey" kind of seduction: 1) Plan the date with him as part of the discussion (unless he's already got a plan in mind for you two, which you may awkwardly have to ask!). 2) Tease him gently when he is indecisive about said plan. 3) Remind him it's okay to go outside his comfort zone because you are probably outside yours too. 4) Important: Allow natural silence during the date when you two are walking around. It could be min…	/r/seduction	01/02/16 09:19 AM
1	What to do with a girl who is on crutches? Amusement park, make sure she gets a wheelchair. At places like Disneyland that gets you to the front of the line on all rides.	/r/seduction	31/01/16 03:01 AM
2	[FR]First FR and first K close! Cute Jewish girl from tinder. Just to add on to this: an air of being comfortable with yourself, even when outside your comfort zone, makes your dates feel much more at ease with themselves.	/r/seduction	31/01/16 02:58 AM
3	Random girl with bf messaged me on FB.. Take all that energy you're spending on us strangers on the internet, and go use it on: 1) Cultivating yourself to maximum awesome. Hit the gym, meditate, read books, resolve issues you have with your past so you can be present; Whatever it is that makes you wake up feeling great every day. 2) More beautiful women who are more single than the one you're considering. Your lurking resulted in a great return on time investment: she has a boyfriend, and you don't want to be a homewrecker. Ignore her…	/r/seduction	27/01/16 02:38 PM
8	25m going out with 18f. Date ideas? Go karting, mini golf, bowling, picnic, arcade games, hike/walk somewhere in nature, dance class (salsa/swing/tango/etc), beach, other concerts. To be honest though - if I were you, I'd do dinner, then drive to your favorite makeout spot with a nice view. Somewhere quiet and intimate, and not overly adult.	/r/seduction	06/01/16 08:45 AM
13	How to handle interested girls that are in toxic relationships? just be there This is your problem. Don't wait, just do what you want. If she doesn't know what "healthy relationship means", give your your version of healthy. Lead the interaction on your terms, and manage it accordingly. If she doesn't want that, move on. People are willing to purge toxic behavior just to keep hanging out with someone they find really attractive, even if they know they aren't getting a relationship out of it. Leading by example is a powerful thing.	/r/seduction	24/12/15 07:06 AM
7	One-Itis for a girl that's toxic This. Everything you need to know is this. Especially a, b, and most importantly c. Have some self-respect, son!	/r/seduction	17/12/15 06:44 PM
1	Getting over attached and clingy too fast because lack of women in my life Awesome! First post I've read from you where you didn't say something negative about yourself and committed to some kind of action in the interest of being more awesome. Well done.	/r/seduction	15/12/15 04:25 PM
10	Getting over attached and clingy too fast because lack of women in my life so there are no more and hardly will be. Tell that fixed mindset to go to hell. There are plenty of other women out there. What would be really good for you is what Osafune2 suggested. Go to the mall, and approach random girls, even ones that aren't "your type". Just force yourself way outside that comfort zone, even say shit that sounds crazy, so you can get in the habit of connecting with strangers better. Nothing like an opener that is the truth: "Hey, so I wanted to come over here and say he…	/r/seduction	14/12/15 02:27 PM
3	How you alphas handle serious break ups? Routine is critical, make sure you keep up whatever usual routine you have, minus whatever things you used to do with/for her.	/r/seduction	13/11/15 02:48 PM
2	How you alphas handle serious break ups? This. The connection you loved is now a metastasising cancer in your life that is seemingly everywhere. Purge.	/r/seduction	13/11/15 02:48 PM
1	Girl with a bf giving me signs? I call this "emotional failover": a procedure by which a person automatically transfers emotion to a "duplicate" (replacement) partner when it detects a fault or failure with their current one. This is obviously naive way of going about relationships, but we still see it happen all the time.	/r/seduction	30/10/15 09:26 AM
1	How to Take a Girl From Polite Chat to Super Horny in Less than 1 Hour This is so true.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 07:29 AM
2	[FR] Netflix and chill, with her and 4 other guys... Yeah, even an awkward transition is good enough for the "it just kinda happened" vibe to be there. Two stories that worked out: Was staying at a hostel, there were people around for movie night, I was trying to find a private spot for us to chill. Found a goofy kids book, said to her, "hey let's go read this." We go to this little porch area where we are alone, I get half a page in, say, "hm, you know what's more exciting than this book?" "What?" "This." I looked right into her eyes, start kissi…	/r/seduction	19/10/15 06:36 AM
2	Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon? You can only talk your way out of a girl's pants.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 06:52 AM
3	Told a girl I haven't had sex in 10 months. Im 22. Is there any way to still be seductive after pulling the ripcord too soon? yeah, actions speak louder than words, agree with knuckifyoubruck. In your case, though, make her your wingwoman to meet other girls you should bang? Your situation lacks fun and playfulness, that should shake things up.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 06:52 AM
3	At Starbucks. Gorgeous girl working with headphones on. Sitting in a corner alone. I was thinking of trying this (inside), thoughts? Do or do not, there is no try.	/r/seduction	01/10/15 06:30 PM
1	I am old and my lack of experience is hurting me so much This was just posted, and will help you. Keep working on yourself, it takes time.	/r/seduction	09/09/15 05:11 AM
3	Has anyone had success getting girlfriend in bay area? Bay area native here. You are looking in the wrong places for a FWB or gf for that matter. Use okcupid, daygame, and go to events/classes to meet women. Think tennis, yoga, cafes, meetup.com, etc. Re: girl in group of guys, make friends with the dudes first, ignore girl. When dudes accept you, girl will accept you and dudes won't be defensive about their girl(s) if you are the life of the party.	/r/seduction	09/08/15 01:44 AM
1	State, how do you manipulate your emotions Manipulate is surreptitious modification. You are actively trying to modify, not secretly modify, unbeknownst to yourself. If you put yourself in a manipulative mindset or you will attract manipulative people to you. Edit for removing negative language.	/r/seduction	21/07/15 03:55 PM
3	State, how do you manipulate your emotions In short: Nothing to lose, everything to gain.	/r/seduction	21/07/15 03:50 PM
3	If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend when you ask her out but implies that she'll willing to still go as friends, what does that mean? Move on or have her introduce you to her actual single friends in person? Social proof and all that?	/r/seduction	13/07/15 01:43 AM
1	I'm not good with words, any tips for me? Awareness is the first step to finding solutions.	/r/seduction	16/04/15 08:45 AM
2	I'm not good with words, any tips for me? Use that as a strength, not a weakness. Read David and Goliath by Malcolm Gladwell. Dyslexia can be your prison or your key, depends how you adapt to it. You might even need to hire a specialist who can help you work with it.	/r/seduction	15/04/15 04:25 PM
1	Got a girls number but she has a boyfriend Agree. She freely chose to give you her number, regardless of whether or not she's actually engaged. Stick with the facts and persist.	/r/seduction	03/03/15 02:43 PM