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tap0988534/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 08:32 PM
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tap0988534/r/askMRP03/05/19 09:25 PM
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Doom is up to you. Women fuck for reasons other than attraction. Pair bonding...procreation...horny...etc. What she said is that she was attracted to you (probably as provider) but not sexually. So now your job is to be attractive, and to not be unattractive. She may become attracted to you in the process.
/r/askMRP30/06/20 07:52 PM
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Her words are just a fit. I used to get texts like this everyday. She doesn't know why her feelz are maddening or what she wants. She is on the verge of figuring out you can be her oak. Your job from now on is to be calm, fun and reassuring in the face of the dragon. You don't flood with emotions. You dont want a divorce, but youll be fine if she does it. At the end of this fit, you can fold her into your arms with a 2 min hug while she sobs.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 11:38 PM
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I third this. Women are capable of being fantastic workers and leaders, but are typically nightmares. Also, the more women an org has in key leadership roles, the less effective that org is. And orgs vastly dominated by women leadership cannot survive without being propped up by grants, taxes, donations, additional investment, etc. A talented women, however, in a male dominated hierarchy can shine.
/r/askMRP18/02/20 07:39 PM
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It really depends on the laws in your country. Are you getting married under sharia or is there a non-sharia government who will fuck you over if you put her out on the street. A true sharia marriage will give you the power, so it's not a bad deal. It's up to you to define the power dynamic. What would she do if you said you wanted to marry her so you could take her by force whenever you want, and make her obey your every command. If you can't say this, you're not ready to be married. If she bal…
/r/askMRP13/02/20 07:51 PM
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Classically it is called a reductio ad absurdem, but the major plus in all this is that I know I have social proof now, because I could hear one of the girls on her video chat say "He looks like he would touch dicks with his own dad", which must be something she thought was hot. And they were all laughing so hard and having such a good time, they were literally in tears. Girls are always jealous for the man who is good-natured and can bring the fun and laughs.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 10:15 PM
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OYS #11 41y, 214lb., 22%BF, 20yr Marriage (38f), Many Kids together (including newborn) Lifts have gone down about 50lbs from PRs due to extreme cut ​ Reading: I've read the entire sidebar and all the flagged posts, and a bunch of others, and I'm reading them again. ​ Mission To be attractive and have an amazing life. ​ MAP Weight loss is my highest priority above work, kids, anything. I am on 800 calories and it starting to come off steadily without the yo-yo. I have 29 lbs to go. The second st…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 06:27 PM
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What the hell is up with "notice me" shit at the gym. At 6am, I am the worst looking guy in there, but some perfect looking 22 year old comes over in her Bralet and flops next me on a gym ball doing some sort of upside down twerk while moaning. I refuse to reward her with my attention and she actually starts slapping stuff and heavy breathing to try to get me to look at her. Get your validation somewhere else, sweetie.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 04:23 AM
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Flee. Now. And start working on yourself. Pre-wedding disrespect is deal breaking red flag. Pre-wedding assault is worse than if she fucked your Dad and sent you the video. Women openly admit to fucking for other reasons than attraction. This usually boils down to pair bonding and soothing your ego until commitment is achieved. After this there is no reason to fuck. She already holds you in contempt. Pull the ejector.
/r/askMRP05/02/20 03:20 AM
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In France, not too long ago, if a man was beaten by his wife he would be punished. They would bind him and parade him through town riding backwards on a donkey and the villagers would rub dung in his face. This is what you deserve for tolerating her.
/r/askMRP02/02/20 11:32 PM
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By backing out of the wedding and dropping her off a financial cliff, you are a grade A asshole, but that is trillion times better than the monstrous evil of tying down a girl you're not into for decades of matrimonial pain and misery. So wear your scarlet asshole with pride, because you could have let yourself do something truly heinous and horrible, just because it was easier, felt nicer, and came with social approval and validation. You're not just dodging a bullet, you're saving her from one…
/r/askMRP01/02/20 10:08 PM
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Wish I had 20 upvotes to give.
/r/askMRP29/01/20 04:05 AM
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I don't know if that's good news. When your wife steps out on you for Tom Hardy or Chris Hemsworth and their beautiful blue eyes, your mind can accept the loss as raw competition. When your wife goes from not letting you touch her to letting Roy roll on her whenever he pleases, it can shatter your psyche. She doesn't even know why she likes him, but mostly it is because he isn't you. You know that her bar was low enough to jump the cretin with swamp ass and so your mind concludes that you are le…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/20 11:13 AM
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I think there are limits to what you can teach while someone is being cared for. No one gets a fire lit under them until they realize what their limited skillset allows them to afford.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 07:31 PM
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Also, while not formally considered omega behavior at Mrp, any sexual activity that involves payment or monetization is a giant display of low value. Strippers, cam girls, prostitutes, even free porn proudly proclaims that you are incapable of pulling real women without monetization, and are essentially a worthless male.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 07:15 PM
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From here you get a Ronco ball growing kit. Carefully plant the ball seeds. Each day water them and give them sunshine. You talk to them, sing, rub them, soon they will grow. Once your balls have grown and your ball sack is heavy and full, tell bitches you vote for whoever you damn please, and that Trump is s God among men.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 12:51 AM
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Read. Read. Read. And lift and STFU. The first, easiest step is to eliminate omega behaviors. Omega behaviors are inactive entertainment like TV and video games, bitchy fits, and irresponsibility.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 06:33 PM
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The oak is alpha+beta. It is the heart of Mrp. Read bpp book. Also read do this pants make my ass look fat?, a paraphrase: Athol wakes jen up who fell asleep on the couch. Jen: I'm tired we still gonna do it? Athol: yes, do you want to come? Jen: too tired tonight. Athol: do you want almost rape, gentle lover, or ocean wave? jen: ocean wave sounds new Athol: take off your clothes and lay on your belly. Sex should be a given. Coming for her should be an option. If you can't make her come you need…
/r/askMRP05/01/20 06:11 PM
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Do you think a flashing green ELO mesh half-shirt is too much? Maybe I should wait til I get down to 40% bf?
/r/askMRP05/01/20 06:01 PM
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Would you have ever predicted that you would be less of a beta bitch in LTR than Mystery?
/r/askMRP03/01/20 08:06 PM
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It means the guy you thought you could go into business with has gotten creepy and weird and you should start figuring how to separate assets and form your own company.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 08:03 PM
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Are you a publisher? I can send you the first chapter of my homoerotic interracial cuckold romance: "Slick Triangle"
/r/askMRP03/01/20 07:44 PM
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Master it now. Consider this training. Not caring how things end up will give you automatic OI. In the next relationship you will both be swimming in foggy love chems and then you will wake up in the same scenario. Your wife is your practice target. She exists now to hone your skills. Since, you don't care, you can take huge risks, be bold, and do things you might otherwise be afraid to do. Learn to dominate the shit out of her in bed. Fuck her in public. Tie her up and blindfold her. Learn how …
/r/askMRP02/01/20 07:38 PM
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You might look into hcg. Can get at online pharmacies. It is a non-suppressive t-booster. AAS folks use it to prevent shrinkage, it stimulates testes to produce T. It is fertility treatment that ups sperms count so beware pregnancy. The problem with T is always suppression. Also check diet for all important T precursors. Selenium, zinc, choline, vit k, iodine, magnesium, etc. A good NO Booster often helps as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/20 06:49 PM
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Stop caring about things you don't control. You don't control how she feels. You do control how you think, act, and feel. When you lied about feeling tired, she knew you were lying. She didn't hear an amazing reason you were lapping up flirt validation from an old woman, she heard. "I am weak needy and inauthentic, please like me anyway. I have no integrity or authenticity in my actions, and so I will make shit up like a douchebag to try to get you to like me. I am also stupid enough to think it…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 06:20 PM
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Do you know if your ED is mental, hormonal, or physical? Do you know if its the result of a serious porn habit, gear, etc? If PDE5 inhibitors and hormones aren't helping there is a chance you have a lot of plaque build up. There is a shockwave therapy treatment that is supposed to ultrasonically dissolve all the arterial plaques in your junk.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 08:27 PM
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Avoid beta dread. 3 weeks in, I took my pregnant wife to swing dance lessons on a date. I was terrible and awkward. She was crazy jealous and refused to swap partners. She wanted to leave as soon as the free dance started. At the main event I got snot sobs about how mean it was to take her. I'm still fat and have no dread. Get your DL up to 3 plates (intermediate) and then do dread. Early beta dread works against you. This is especially true when the hot 30 year old cringes at dancing with you, …
/r/askMRP31/12/19 06:30 PM
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This can be related to drugs and hormones. Stims like meth, caffeine, pre-workout stacks, eca stacks, can turn you into a two-stroke man. Also prostate swelling can do the same. 2.5-5mg daily cialis is safe to reduce prostate swelling significantly, and allow you to last longer. Find Jason Julius - extreme stamina. It is by far the most useful material of any I have found. It sticks to the physiology and mechanics of the various techniques to last and have without getting into the tantric spirit…
/r/askMRP29/12/19 04:56 PM
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Thanks. We always fret about Chad, but it seems like every damn time it's fucking Roy swooping in.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/19 07:30 PM
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What you are talking about is a real phenomenon. This is often described as Kundalini or Love-drunk, etc. It is caused by the "falling-in-love" chemical Phenylethylamine (PEA) which has major effects on dopamine and adrenaline. ​ This chemical typically ceases in a mature relationship, beginning to taper off by year 3 and usually disappearing by year 5. This chemical plays a major role in female sexual initiation. Even girls highly attracted to their men, tend to stop or greatly reduce independe…
/r/askMRP26/12/19 07:59 PM
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Congrats on finding a lovely unicorn. Let me tell you what life looks like when you aren't able to pull other women. Your unicorn will notice, and she will be repulsed by you, even if she stays by your side, and she will find ways to avoid the ickiness of fucking you, and when she does give you duty sex, it will feel like you are raping her, but not hot, exciting, my-village-being-conquered-by-the-sons-of-Genghis-Khan-rape, but withering I've-been-drugged-by-the-mutant-hobgoblin-whom-no-woman-wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/19 06:50 PM
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Engage, but as the Alpha. She wants to push you off balance, so that you act like a weak child and lose standing. But you are unflappable. You do not become flooded with emotions. She says the meanest thing she can imagine, but it amuses you, because you see how weak she really is. She is desperately afraid of losing you. She knows that you are the prize. She knows that you could do better. She longs for the comfort of having you under thumb, even though she would come to loathe and resent that …
/r/askMRP20/12/19 07:28 PM
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To win at life.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 04:34 PM
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Very Nice!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 03:53 AM
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I'm skeptical that expensive makes it better. Most stuff that is known to actually work can be found in inexpensive products also see r/skincareaddiction
/r/askMRP17/12/19 10:22 PM
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Dermarolling or microneedling help restore collagen, also supplement collagen at least 20g a day. Gear will age you crazy... https://i.redd.it/y59bs8n8d5041.jpg That is before and after pic of a 37 year old man. The old guy is the before.
/r/askMRP17/12/19 10:20 PM
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OYS#10 41y, 222lb., 2x%BF, 20yr Marriage (38f), Many Kids together (including newborn) OHP 175lb, BP 290lb, SQ 310lb, DL 375lb Reading: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male, SANGAF, TWOTSM, BPPSLSM, SGM, Ironwood, Mastery, Models and many others. It has been 4 months since my last confession. ​ Mission I've been thinking a lot about mission, and I know deep down that I don't really have one. It has always been something along the lines of "die later". I know t…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 06:28 PM
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I think this is a semantics issue. The way I have always understood mateguarding is chaucer style, where the old man bars his young wife from socializing because he knows she is faithless. When I hear no mateguarding, I hear don't be controlling. I consider this different from a direct challenge from another dude. When another dude comes to your girl in front of you, this is to make you look like a pussy. Without being controlling, it is imperative to stand down this challenger. Caveat, some guy…
/r/askMRP16/12/19 05:41 PM
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All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.
/r/askMRP14/12/19 11:17 PM
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I happen to think part of a man's mission should include many children. Women are limited in their capacity for children, so I think 6 wives is a reasonable target for an exceptionally high valued man. Modelling after holy Roman emperor Charlemagne, he spent his life dedicated to excellent work, set up the European duchy system for governing, and became the most effective and innovative ruler the world had ever seen, overshadowing Augustus, and Marcus Aurelius. Ignore the costs of government mar…
/r/askMRP13/12/19 02:35 PM
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Move to Thailand for a few years.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 11:29 PM
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This is a more than a hamster. For a woman that needs a strong man with boundaries, a nice guy can actually turn her into a crazy person. While it was my fault she was nuts. She was still nuts. And yes, many years ago she did do really crazy things that should have led to the police, but I was too nice. I just wanted to help her get better.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 11:20 PM
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I partly feel like my wife got Alpha-widowed by her asshole dad.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 10:23 PM
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I don't think an alpha widow can ever be happy. You can train them to make you happy with enough Alpha, but deep down they crave a guy who is a massive asshole, so they are always waffling between being hurt and being dissatisfied. True alphas are incapable of the beta qualities that make an LTR possible.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 04:59 AM
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Yep. Now she is mostly sweet and submissive. It is humiliating to recall the shit I endured trying to be pleasing and nice to crazy, when all she ever wanted was a man who had boundaries and stood up for himself.
/r/askMRP11/12/19 12:34 AM
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This is most certainly true. The nicer you try to be, the more insane she will go in her pushes to get you to be a man. My wife had textbook bpd for decades. After years of going to therapists and learning how to walk on eggshells, Mrp cured it.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 10:27 PM
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Someone needs to write an article on inverse dread. Paying for it when you can't get it....(strippers, hookers, cam girls) is like a public confession of undesirability. Girls are filled with scorn, repellency, and disgust for this behaviour in a special way, because it is like raising a white flag of low value.
/r/askMRP10/12/19 05:36 PM
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Use symmetricstrength and look toward the advanced bracket or higher. Also http://www.strongur.io/body_fat_calculator/ Can estimate lean mass based on lifts.
/r/askMRP06/12/19 06:55 PM
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You don't have frame yet. Your goal at this point is to get out of your wife's frame and start to build your own. Frame is built by reading > application > failure > revision > rinse > repeat. But this must be accompanied by getting strong. The little girls I see at the gym doing deadlifts are usually pulling two plates. The most important thing in your life is to abandon all need for validation. Every time you catch yourself offering up words to another person in the hope that they will praise …
/r/askMRP26/11/19 09:11 PM
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Try these: The Hitachi phone sex primer Impotent man's guide to multiples with the Hitachi wand The Hitachi miracle Also don't forget: 5 Love Languages, Accepting the shame of a dominant wife, crying with feeling, pegging 4 dummies, and broken shiva
/r/askMRP26/11/19 07:41 PM
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Since Mrp I've switched to this song during boombox stalking: It's not a case of doing what's right It's just the way I feel that matters Tell me I'm wrong I don't really care It's not a case of share and share alike I take what I require I don't understand You say it's not fair You expect me to act like a lover Consider my moves and deserve the reward To hold you in my arms and wait, wait Wait for something to happen It's not a case of telling the truth Some lines just fit the situation Call me…
/r/askMRP25/11/19 11:55 PM
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Love, I don't like to see so much pain So much wasted and this moment keeps slipping away I get so tired of working so hard for our survival I look to the time with you to keep me awake and alive And all my instincts, they return And the grand facade, so soon will burn Without a noise, without my pride I reach out from the inside In your eyes The light the heat In your eyes I am complete In your eyes
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:58 PM
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Before Mrp, babies meant little to no sex while pregs and little to no sex while nursing (2 yrs). With our last kid, she was still eager to bang one out hours before we went in for the c-section. After the post-op greenlight she's been an eager Beaver. She's even nursed the baby during sex to shut him up. I've gotten home at 6 while she's serving dinner, led her to the bedroom, and she's spent 90 minutes banging it out while toddlers try to break off the doorknob, and the older kids slide art pr…
/r/askMRP25/11/19 10:07 PM
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As a hail Mary, OP should try waiting outside her residence, and when she comes out surprise her by wailing and sobbing "I need you." for at least 90 min. Don't forget flowers.
/r/askMRP25/11/19 09:35 PM
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I personally think she left him for a 40" tentacle dildo. Not for the sex, but because it was more manly and charming, had better social skills, muscle tone, whined less, and never put her on a pedestal. Compared to OP, tentacle dildo has an amazing attractive life, knows how to STFU, and never complies with unreasonable demands.
/r/askMRP25/11/19 09:32 PM
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Yes. You are correct that your life is shit and cannot be redeemed. Redemption means that someone else pays your way. No one will. No one can. Imagine that I was your benefactor and paid your way. What would that even do except make you an even bigger failure? What happened sucked, but you have let it define you because you like attention and validation even if it comes in the disgusting form of pity. Why are you wallowing in shit? Other people in the world live on a dollar a day, see their wive…
/r/askMRP25/11/19 09:16 PM
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When you get worked up over her emotions it fills her with shame for her shitty behavior, but she also hates you because it makes her feel like she must shut down her emotions for your sake, which she knows is impossible. This makes her feel like you are too weak to handle her femininity. If you respond aggressively or withdraw, she hates that you are shutting her down, but if you placate her she hates you even more, because you are a spineless milquetoast, and you don't even know what the hell …
/r/askMRP22/11/19 11:15 PM
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Your wife wants to be fucked, just not by you. Your wife wants to choke on cock, just not yours. Your wife wants to work hard to be alluring to a man that tosses her around like a ragdoll in bed and leaves her shaking and incapacitated. Become a man that women want, and this could change.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 09:43 PM
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This isn't a comfort test. This is marital abandonment. Marriage is an agreement for exclusive fucking. Your lack of attraction comes from a place of bitterness. Figure out how to harness that bitterness into rage and channel that rage into passion and then hatefuck the shit out of her. If you can't figure out a way past your bitterness to fuck her, then just give her the divorce.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 12:11 AM
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I feel like this is the key problem. You are butthurt, because you resent that women are female. Females are sexually responsive. They don't initiate on their own, especially after early stages of relationship. Lesbian bedroom death occurs at 5 years on average. (you are here). Girls crave and need domination. It will do wonders for your libido too. Be sexually commanding and assertive. Make her your fucktoy. Girls are generally starfish. It is up to you to direct and guide each encounter, to pu…
/r/askMRP19/11/19 11:56 PM
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Sneak cheating is nuking your marriage. Double that for pregnant and double it again for newlywed. If you are the prize, then you need to just be honest about your manly desires, and that you can promise to love her but not keep your cock out of other women.
/r/askMRP19/11/19 01:28 AM
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Autophagy is also induced by exercise. However it really kicks in at around 7 days of water fasting. This can provide a lot of health benefits, including killing most cancerous and precancerous cells in your body. It works by sending a signal to all cells to systematically break down a bunch of their machinery and consume it. Cells that have broken mechanisms can't do it and just die. When the fast is broken, the machinery is rebuilt. Useless tissues and old scar tissues get heavily consumed. So…
/r/askMRP18/11/19 11:41 PM
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You need to use sex bargaining to get what you want first. So the next time she gets all horny, say "If you want the D, you stupid bitch, your gonna have to give me a rimjob and peg me a little, first." Make sure to say "Stupid Bitch" because it provocatively lets her know you're in charge, establishing both dominance and strong emotion at the same time. Then when she's ready to toss your salad, surprise her by wearing a diaper. Women crave variety and it will show her that you're creative AND k…
/r/askMRP15/11/19 11:11 PM
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You need to learn to understand your body in a number of ways: 1) Hormones: These are affected by age, diet, bodyfat, exercise, and activities. T is the big one, but all of these have very discernible primary or secondary sexual effects: T, Free T, SHBG, e2, dopamine, prolactin, pregnolenone, seratonin. For example, if estrogen is too low, your libido crashes, lose sexual sensation, can't nut. If estrogen is too high then libido is weak, erections are soft, you feel overstimulated, and you nut i…
/r/askMRP15/11/19 10:41 PM
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From following forums, I gather most doctors don't know what they're doing when it comes to TRT. I'm sure another would prescribe to you if you complained the right way about your symptoms. But beware, docs don't order enough detailed bloodwork. They often screw you up by letting you aromatize until you need a mastectomy, or giving you a gel that does nothing. If you're going through a doc, you need to know exactly what is important to complain about at the right time. T-booster supplements tend…
/r/askMRP13/11/19 12:44 AM
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There are no trusted sources of info on the internet. I go with weight of evidence approach. Validate everything. Sources with more users tend to get called out more when wrong. But r/steroids sidebar has a ton of good info on t, e2, and aromatization. I usually search for something like "how to lower my shgb" and then read everything relevant on the net.
/r/askMRP13/11/19 12:23 AM
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An aspect of manliness is generally being dtf. Even the best looking guys will go home with 3's when the pickings are slim. If you don't believe me go to Alaska. When T is really low, men will turn to porn for sexual validation. The constant visual stimulation is capable of arousing you, even when you don't feel horny, like a vague reminder of what being a man feels like. This can trick us to thinking we aren't attracted to our wife, since we never have those feelings spontaneously. We believe o…
/r/askMRP12/11/19 11:30 PM
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There are dozens of online forums, subreddits, and blogs dedicated to T. Some are geared towards performance enhancement. Just understanding how aromatization works will answer a lot of questions. Many will include links to research articles. Also just ordering regular full hormone panels will help you understand your own levels. What e2 level do men feel comfortable at? What is dangerous? What are symptoms of too high or too low? Another thing to realize is that the main anabolic steroid in use…
/r/askMRP12/11/19 11:01 PM
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This is critical piece of sports gear to keep those hemorrhoids from crawling out like a worm-legged benthic sea-spider. I have the spotter lie down with his nose face up directly between my ankles. He should keep one eye fixated on the plug (a quality jockstrap will keep it exposed) and one looking directly into my eyes. If the plug starts to slip, the spotter can apply pressure mid squat.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/19 07:47 PM
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High 400s is good if you are transitioning into a woman or 75 years old. At that level my dick barely works and I can hardly stay motivated enough to spend the whole day crying and watching soap operas. If your e2 is also high then it is killing you at the same time it is making you feel like a sad, broken shit-stain. You can't be authentically cocky or masculine with those levels, you can only fake it, and women can tell that you're faking. Get your T up to 800 and see how you feel. Get your e2…
/r/askMRP09/11/19 12:22 AM
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This is a process. Good for you for having a spine and standing up the powerful apparatus that crushed your career. It's OK to be vulnerable. It's a show of strength, and a lack of neediness or desire for validation. You fucked up by putting her on defense about her appearance. At 40 she is past the wall and her sex value is in rapid decline. She probably feels desperate to prove her attractiveness. Her comments about male attention were validation seeking. She needs praise to feel feminine. It'…
/r/askMRP08/11/19 10:41 PM
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Live as though your parents are already dead. Take charge of your life and create the life you want for yourself by doing the hard shit now. Accept that your parent's marriage is over. Don't bother with sides. Support them through all of the shifty decisions and growing pains that are coming for both of them with out getting sucked in or dragged down. You are your own man now. The king is dead, long live the king.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 09:54 PM
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You aren't using words right. Next means "the next girl". It means I'm done with this girl and moving on. Regardless, of whether you're going to next her, it doesn't work during a fight. Go make up, then next her or don't. A soft next means moving on for a while with the option to keep the nested plate should she correct her behavior or prove interesting. Instead of being manly, you are acting and/or afraid. Manly men aren't petty. Go home. Say apology accepted. Then say, I don't think things ar…
/r/askMRP06/11/19 08:32 PM
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I think this is cultural. Traditionally, marriage included more physical dominance and forced sex, and the male had absolute legal and economic power. Women crave submission to the dominance of a powerful man. When they don't get it, they feel married to their grandma, and so they push him. Hoping he'll man up.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 07:31 PM
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Her past isn't as scary as the situation. You don't want to be a money prize. In historic relationships, once the marriage happened, all power in the relationship was ceded to the man. Now it is the opposite. At the point of marriage, all power goes to her. This is particularly dangerous if she is way more attractive than you, because it means your stuff and not you are the prize. At marriage she gets all the stuff free and clear. There is no risk to her for banging hot guys on the side once she…
/r/askMRP06/11/19 07:03 PM
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Risk of failure doesn't invalidate a mission.
/r/askMRP06/11/19 12:09 AM
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I thought that the SAONGF was a little hollow. The ending was cringey. Definitely not hopeful. It thought the message was... Everything is hopeless and sucks, but don't kill yourself just yet, because... Ya know what about your meaningless legacy?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 10:29 PM
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I went on a 14 day water/salt fast. Felt like shit. My hands would get so cold they would hurt, and it was summer. All of my movements and speech slowed considerably. 5 days after the fast I was the same weight as before it, all I did was crash my metabolism.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 10:29 PM
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Keto vet here. I lost 65 lbs and kept it off. I did strict keto 3 years. It has some drawbacks, but the main benefit is changes to your physiology that make lipolysis easier and a loss of appetite, which I think is caused by insensitivity to ghrelin, because you aren't using much insulin. It is also much more effective when you have a lot of bodyfat. There is a rate limit to using fat energy based on how much fat you have. So on keto you can restrict calories a lot if you are really fat, and mai…
/r/askMRP30/10/19 10:18 PM
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This. 5g sodium, 3g potassium,1/2g magnesium Keto makes you rapidly flush salts.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 08:59 PM
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Although feminism tries to quash the truth of it, abandoning sex is marital abandonment. The state's stamp on a piece of paper doesn't make a marriage. She divorced you 11 years ago.
/r/askMRP30/10/19 08:54 PM
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Tell them you can make 315 work. You are worth what people pay. Come in at 210 and they'll be having you clean toilets. The more you're getting paid, the more opportunities you'll have to be successful.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 07:14 PM
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Sounds like you're an old man. If you were horny enough, you'd fuck Richard Pryor's corpse. Maybe you swallowed a black pill, and are seething with bitterness, instead of accepting your wife as the full flower of femininity that she actually is. Do you also resent your children forever, when you discover they act like children? You aren't trying to fuck the kinda cute girl you're married to, but a mountain of baggage. It's time to cut yourself from all this resentment. Every day is a clean slate…
/r/askMRP21/10/19 08:38 PM
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The 5 Love Languages. The Anal Sex Positions Guide
/r/askMRP14/10/19 10:45 PM
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I highly recommend Jason julius' female orgasm blueprint and extreme stamina. I found a torrent that had the whole library and they were better than any of the sgm technique videos.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 12:53 AM
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Daddy, this is starting to sound black pill. You love pussy, but loathe femininity. You're dream girl is an autistic dude with a cunt. Have you done a blood panel lately? You sound like something might be off. You are in the middle of a challenge. It is your opportunity to grow into a man. A man delights in femininity. He cares about the people he leads. You're wife honestly sounds like a great catch, and wise. I wish you were able to enjoy her. When you're hatefucking her it doesn't provoke the…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 10:41 PM
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Daddy, I thought her letter communicates that she's super into you, but she's frustrated when you behave in an unmanly and low value way by having tantrums, jealous fear, and needing her constant submission for validation. Nothing she said or did screams divorce. Yes, she is lashing out, but it is because she is pushing you to be a real leader. She wants you to be the leader that helps her grow into a mature and healthy person, not one who exploits her out of his need for validation. She wants t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 08:54 PM
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Keto Flu is easy to handle with minerals. It is just mineral depletion. Just drink 5g/Sodium, 3g/Potassium, and 1g/Magnesium everyday and it disappears. I bought mortons lite salt (part potassium) and drink 1 tsp of it in water 3 times a day. You should do this whenever you're super low carb or fasting.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 04:22 AM
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Keto was a fix. But semi-keto doesn't do anything. Strict keto modifies brain chemistry. Brains consume a ton of fuel and you would die if it ran out. When your body doesn't have a supply of glucose, your liver will start converting stored fat into ketone alcohols. Brains will switch over to this fuel. I typically feel increased calm and clarity and am able to focus much better. You also never become agitated, irritable, or fatigued from a lack of glucose. There are also some documented cases of…
/r/askMRP25/09/19 07:54 PM
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/s
/r/askMRP25/09/19 07:46 PM
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That came across as super judgemental. You should have told her how hot it was and let her know you'd take her sister to poundtown in heartbeat too. Maybe texted back a few pics of yourself wanking over the idea of them in bed together? Definitely jump on the first flight home so you can get in on the action.
/r/askMRP24/09/19 02:16 PM
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OP, while this is still all your fault. Keto made a huge mental health difference with my wife. Pms would send into rages where she screamed at the kids, smashed stuff, cried for hours, etc. It alters shbg levels which can eliminate certain hormonal imbalances like PCOS. She was also very sensitive to bc. After our first kid, she got a hormonal slow release bc injection, and it sent her into a year of clinical depression where she barely got out of bed to piss.
/r/askMRP19/09/19 08:24 PM
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I don't post anything to the Web that can tie to me irl. I go to a cash kiosk to buy overpriced bitcoin for my vpn, which I route through separate vpn. If I was going to do an fb account, I would buy a phone validation with btc, and use mullvad tunneled through tor on a clean hardened vm where I had never logged into anything. Tracking tech is very sophisticated. FB, reddit, and most sites can pin you if you ever logged into another site that shares info from the same browser, and sometimes even…
/r/askMRP18/09/19 09:00 PM
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Heavy fucking words. Lingering upon them, I feel like this harbingers the need for close male friendships. Even 100 years ago, male friendships were viewed as the ultimate human relationship, but somewhere between faggotry and feminism, we lost this sense. Male friendships are the place for us to compete, lament, and be challenged to do better. We need them to replenish our masculine energy and right our course through life's treacherous storms. AWALT can never be our soulmate, friend, or closes…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 05:53 PM
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I was mostly saying it to myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/19 02:44 AM
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Reading OPs post is infuriating to me because its like looking in a fucking mirror. I did this to my wife as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 11:10 PM
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Reading this post reminded me of true love, specifically about the time I learned what true love is. My gf is really into rough sex and rapeplay, which I have for the most part gone along with. Our safeword is "primrose". She likes surprises, kind of like Kato from the pink panther movies. Anyway, lately she has taken to sneaking up and jumping me in the shower, and I can't really defend myself as she is trans, 6'4", and a former Olympic weightlifter. She has been so surprising and forceful that…
/r/askMRP22/08/19 05:10 PM
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She was confrontational with my mom the whole visit, making shitty remarks, etc. Did you cry on the phone to your mom after about how hard things have been? On one occasion my mom was helping my 3 year old pick flowers and my wife came and just picked her up and took her away. Did you look on helplessly, but with grave concern? My wife asked me if she could confront my mom about a comment my mom made 5 years ago. I said no, I don’t think that would be helpful. So your wife has been pissed about …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 08:04 PM
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Stop whining. You are the cause of all this shit, and you need to realize it and take responsibility. Even if you ultimately leave her, you need to fix yourself before you do. Your wife is now your own personal crash test dummy laboratory. Until you've fixed this, you're only good for MGTOW, not other women. Walking out is simply running away from your problem which is you, not your wife. I understand it's scary to face yourself and realize what an utter piece of shit and waste of life you've be…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 07:37 PM
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Years ago Mtv made a spinoff show from sweet 16, called Exiled, where spoiled brats were exiled to third world villages for a couple of weeks to have meltdowns. One episode featured this scenario. All of the children mocked the ridiculous American snotting tears because she had to walk five miles with them to fetch water.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 04:50 PM
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Walking 5 miles to fetch the water is work for children. It is not much of a burden. The children laugh at his weakness and complaint of blisters. The water is full of shit because the animals drink there also. When the children see the "man" getting emotional about a 5 mile walk they tease him nearly to death. The women in the village hear of it and his wife beats him with a stick until he can only crawl on his knees. The villagers collect fresh dung, and pelting him with it, drive him from the…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 03:52 PM
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I’ve been generally unaffected by my wife’s shit tests this week but she started escalating on Sunday. Up until Sunday, they were all the same “Blah blah, fuck you. Words words, you’re an asshole. Blah blah blah”. I’ve been using STFU, fogging, broken record with some teasing thrown in. But now the shit testing has started to ramp up again. It seems like she’s trying to pull the kids into her shit tests as a way to up things on me. Sunday afternoon she went all uber-bitch on them over lost under…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 10:38 PM
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OYS #9 Beginning 19th Week: 40y, 6’0, 229lbs, 24% BF, married 20, kids: bunches and pregs https://symmetricstrength.com/ (69.5) Back Squat: 305 lbs[Intermediate] Deadlift: 355 lbs[Intermediate] Bench Press: 280 lbs[Proficient] Overhead Press: 175 lbs[Intermediate] ​ Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male, SANGAF In Progress: TWOTSM and dozens of Sidebar and Non-Sidebar ​ Mission Become the ideal man. ​ Physique & Diet This week marks a week of failure n…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 06:13 PM
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I have been hearing this for 20 years. My wife just sent me an article on how women find dumpy Dad bod's sexier than fit men. My basic take on this is that it doesn't have a chance of being true. At best it is an attempt at "no those jeans don't make you look fat", at worst it is either jealously or dread-induced fear that other women will compete for you. Even if your particular gal just had a thing for undermuscled guys (for whatever reason), several things remain true: The attention you get f…
/r/askMRP13/08/19 05:49 PM
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This stone by stone element cannot be overstated. It is an iterative cycle in which the mind follows the body and the body follows the mind. Every challenge alters you, changes your biochemistry and blood, changes the way you carry yourself and think, and this changes the way others see you, which propagates the feedback loop and iterates another cycle. Tiny micro improvements begetting more micro improvements, until one day you're THAT guy.
/r/askMRP12/08/19 01:45 AM
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Every day I still have to wake up, remember what a fucking worm I've been, and kick myself in the pussy until I can make myself go lift.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 05:21 PM
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I won't volunteer in my son's scout troop, because I'm too busy, but most volunteer leaders leave when their own kids age out. That is the norm. As for hobbies, giving back, volunteering, etc. isn't a hobby, it is a charitable act. If you're going to do charitable acts, do the ones that the leading men in Romance novels do. Giovanni's muscles glistened and rippled as he rescued the orphans from medical poverty and adjusted his official Scoutmaster cap and neckerchief slide. My suggestions for ho…
/r/askMRP09/08/19 05:15 PM
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Holy hell, 2 months ago, I went to a training session at rock-climbing and that gym was filled with 300 physically perfect 22-30 year olds. Every chick in there could have been a fitness model, and there wasn't another ab-less dad bod in the house. I felt like one the malformed creepers that skates by himself at the roller rink on kids night. Talk about a wake up call, I almost had to cover the mirrors and shower with clothes on that week.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 04:31 PM
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Like a child, your wife gets a clean slate every day. What she did yesterday was mercurial and immaterial. It is gone like a vapor. There's no need to be cold and bitter to your child.
/r/askMRP09/08/19 12:39 AM
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Anger is fine as long as you're fucking angry with yourself. Every time you've rolled over, you rolled over on yourself. You've created the entire situation. Women are responsive beings. The way your wife treats you is not a reflection of her, its a reflection of you. The first 6-8 months of MRP involves 3 things: STFU 5-days/week of heavy barbell lifting Sidebar Your MRP journey will likely take at least 24 months. Be angry all you want, pour it into your lifts, just STFU and don't lose your co…
/r/askMRP08/08/19 10:15 PM
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I will definitely check it out. I am saving off all the posts that spark a significant change in the way I see and approach the world. My notes are getting extensive enough that I might need to make a book out of it someday.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/19 10:27 PM
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Thanks. I appreciate the compliment. It's part of my trek into social mastery. Gathering from about two dozen sources on social dominance, connection, and flirting, I divined that a significant portion of one's social value and standing comes from displays of linguistic intelligence, which might be called wit. Anything I write now is a chance to practice. The key element in the display is the use of original metaphors, which create emotional bonding and women are particularly receptive to it rom…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/19 10:21 PM
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OYS #8 Beginning 17th Week: 40y, 6’0, 226lbs, 23% BF, married 20, kids: bunches and pregs https://symmetricstrength.com/ (67) Back Squat: 305 lbs[Intermediate] Deadlift: 355 lbs[Intermediate] Bench Press: 260 lbs[Intermediate] Overhead Press: 170 lbs[Intermediate] Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male, MAP, Models In Progress: Dozens of Sidebar, RP, and Non-Sidebar ​ Mission Become the best man that I can be. To me this means becoming dominant, protect…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 10:18 AM
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I told her x. I explained y. I demanded z. I laid down the new law and order, but she's not submitting to my authority, guys, and she should be doing that. In order to lead, someone must want to follow. Other than letting her know that you plan on being an asshole from now on, where is your vision? Where's the life? Where's the happiness? Where's the fun and excitement? What is going to be so much better about you and your life in 6 months or a year, that she's going to want to be a part of it? …
/r/askMRP05/08/19 05:24 PM
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Maybe... Its weird though, because she's been on my case for years to actually do the things I'm now doing. I'm definitely bit autistic when it comes to these things, but I think there is some super powered preggo shit going on. She's been thanking me every day for liking her, and bursts into tears when I tell her she's mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 08:30 PM
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Please explain better. A few weeks ago I had her take the test posted here just to see where she registered on the FA scale, because she'd always seemed FA. I never discussed it with her, she loves personality tests. When she went all nutty, she took it again on her own and sent me the results to me to let me know she was freaking out. I'm actively working to not do ANY dread right now (per BPP) because she's pregnant. Our bedroom isn't dead. I'm not following what deadbedrooms Beta dread is. Bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 06:19 PM
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OYS #7 ​ Beginning 10th Week: ​ 40 yo, 6’0, 223lbs (-23lb since start), 22% BF(Navy, -7% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ285, BP240, OHP160, DL305 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male In Progress: Models, The Game, Art of Charm Toolbox ​ Mission Be a fun, active, competitive, attractive, expert, successful Lord Protector that captains my ship with endless energy, drive, and skill. Get laid like tile. ​ Physique Shit week on li…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 05:27 PM
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Anxiety or stress will push her back to her LSE base though. I've figured out this is what is happening with mine. Even unintentional dread is like strapping her to the front an express train hurtling toward death. It causes a transition from secure to FA. The issue last night was I had asked her to put an empty glass I was holding on the end table next to her. She said I had to say please (compliance/shit test). I said no (should have been a pass). Hilarity ensued. You might try a different app…
/r/askMRP13/06/19 11:43 PM
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Interesting, i may skip then.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/19 08:03 PM
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I also freaked when I read PFP. My was LSE, but is now mostly HSE, was BPD, but is now less so, and was FA, but is now mostly secure. Dread of any kind sends her off the rails. Give an example of a compliance test. I look at a compliance test as her demanding something unreasonable or in an unreasonable way. If it is something that I should own but have slacked on, I reframe it as my responsibility, and something that I will take care of because it is my job, and I will choose the best time and …
/r/askMRP13/06/19 07:55 PM
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It is to build emotional connection, and reduce her anxiety that your body has been taken over by an alien named Jon Rambo. You basically just put down your phone for 30 min, pay attention while she talks about stuff, talk responsively, and don't interject anything about yourself: "That's so awesome." "How did you manage that?" "Oh. No. That Sucks." "Cool. Tell me more." "That must have made you feel amazing/crazy/furious/terrible/horny/etc." Edit: She actually told me that a few ago. We were go…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 07:56 PM
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It's normal to need to cycle stuff with tolerances, and I could probably handle that. But I'm curious about the problem solving. What does it help with if not creative thinking, memorization?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/19 04:39 PM
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Are you tracking your micronutrients? At this level, especially with keto, I'd be concerned about electrolytes and shit. And are you getting at least 1 g/lb lean body mass per day of protein? Micros are really hard to measure, but I take plenty of minerals and electrolytes. I do a minimum of 125g protein, but often 150g-200g. Lean mass is probably 172lb. Overdoing protein is bad, it get converted to glucose and causes a lot of trouble. I don't I need as much protein as some say, but I always up …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 11:26 PM
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https://www.buymoda.org/ Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 10:24 PM
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> I finally took the plunge and bought some Modafinil online and had it shipped. ​ Where is a good place to get this, I'm skeptical of random sites that come up in my search engine.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 09:06 PM
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I'd go with Gorilla Mindset first. It's sidebar and a quick read.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 08:38 PM
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I'm no red beret, but TRM was more insightful to me than useful. It helped me understand what was going on, but not what to do. Plate theory lacks utility for someone unattractive with their balls in a vice. As a noob that just read these I would #1 recommend WISNIFG as an essential primer on how to do assertiveness, and manage shit tests with no frame. Next I would do NNMNG and MMSLP.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 08:36 PM
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I've been trying, she promised she ate yesterday, but I can't know for sure, she's not going to eat in front of me. The baby is pretty far along, so it's a lot less likely for it to cause problems than at the beginning. I cautioned her about it and she just accused me of guilt-tripping her when I don't care about her or the baby anyway blah blah.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 08:15 PM
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So you're going to be cutting over 2 lbs per week and increasing your DL 1RM by almost 10 lbs per week? I'm a relatively novice lifter and you clearly know your situation better than I do, but gains like that during a cut sound... optimistic. I'm too new to figure out a realistic target, but you don't get anywhere without goals. I'll eat more if energy levels get too low. I'm doing a keto modified carnivore diet with meat and greens. Most days its just protein shakes, sauerkraut, and salad (Mayb…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 08:08 PM
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Maybe I'm a super career beta. I married a girl with BPD, turned her into a monster by never setting boundaries, turned myself into an abuse victim by playing the long-suffering white knight, and ended up like an abused kid with PTSD and total emotional disconnection, who panics when his wife looks at him wrong. Since I'm already in confessional, this is what I put at the top of my MAP under the heading "THIS WAS YOU!" so that I never forget what I did to myself: There was no power trip too unre…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 07:46 PM
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OYS #6 Beginning 9th Week: ​ 40 yo, 6’0, 224lbs (-22lb since start), 23% BF(Navy, -6% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ285, BP240, OHP160, DL305 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male In Progress: Models, The Game, Art of Charm Toolbox ​ So I was spidering through sidebar posts and found this, and it is me: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2wc1g0/mrp_beginners_guide_for_the_career_beta/ Reading this, it just sort …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 05:10 PM
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Yes. But I wouldn't be a career beta that turned a girl into a monster.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 05:07 PM
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Alphasixfour, If you aren't familiar with the concept of noetic structure it is essentially a mental map of your core beliefs often represented as a spiderweb with a ball at the center and layered beliefs wrapped around it going outward. The outer beliefs tend to come and go (i.e. you think Bill is a great guy... then you find out he eats small children.) with minimal impact to the structure. Beliefs that are deep at the core of structure are almost impossible to let go of because they rip apart…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 07:50 PM
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> I'm now working on 3 different narratives to use I'm pretty new here, but these sound like cases for obligatory sexual compliance, which makes pussies wither and dry. I think every one here could explain to their wives fantastic logical reasons for exactly why their wife should be banging the shit out of them 24/7. However, even in the rare case of an obsequious wife, most of us don't see fucking a disinterested bone-dry starfish as the carrot. You are better off fucking a rubber doll than a w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 06:36 PM
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OYS #5 ​ Beginning 8th Week: ​ 40 yo, 6’0, 225lbs (-21lb since start), 23% BF(Navy, -6% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ255, BP230, BR160, OHP160, DL300 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych, Rational Male Sidebar In Progress: MAP, SGM, Ironwood, Models MAP has been a lot more of disappointment than I expected, as I have done most of the stuff in there even before MRP to little effect, because none of it really helps if you are a fat estrogen…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 05:49 PM
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This is definitely a "had", but not a "has". It has been twenty years. She is one of the rare ones that has actually made the transition from LSE to HSE, from high-anxiety to low-anxiety, from FA to secure. I'm not going to suggest she's completely normal, but her bad behavior these days is more in the AWALT category not the scorched earth category. I think it was the kids mostly, early on it was really intense for her to nurse and hold the babies and have that constant human contact. Hugs and t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 05:00 PM
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I'm starting to suspect that the concept of frame is so alien to career superbetas that even the very ordinary human frame of their wives appears to be an alien superpower. (Pardon the Victim Puke) I'm having trouble figuring out exactly what went on when we got married twenty years ago, but I really have no idea how it happened. There was nothing attractive about me. We were both young, and she was crazy hot, but had a lot of emotional issues, especially abandonement, and I was the most beta of…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/19 11:47 PM
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This is some really important stuff that I need to pay a lot more attention to. I tend to not pay much attention to how interact with people. Outside of work, I tend to have a lot of apathy toward human interaction, instead of the engagement and ownership I should have.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/19 06:20 PM
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That is a pretty good assessment and explanation. "Black-widow" theory leads n00b reforming betas to interpret every word and action of their wives as a shit test or subjugation ploy, so they never provide reassurance or comfort when needed. I can agree with this from personal experience. My wife married me when I was already completely beta, and much of her pushing was to get me to provide this reassurance, which I never did. In fact, she sounded a lot like the sidebar through many parts of our…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/19 06:14 PM
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The choice always was, and always is, in the man's, not the woman's, control. Any claim otherwise is classic beta excuse-making, ego protection, or avoidance of responsibility. Only a truly beta mind could read that "men are weaker beings with no agency who are helplessly and aggressively subjugated by their wives" without laughing. But this is a straw man. No is arguing that men are not in control or without agency. Rather, if you read what I actually wrote, it is regarding a female's biologica…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/19 07:29 PM
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Read PFP, Chapters 4 and 11 This isn't a fear, it is biology. Human females aggressively work to control frame and subjugate LTRs into a provide role, thereby losing attraction for them. In a nutshell, the Female Basic Conflict is: 1) The need to manipulate a man into the role of her Provider. 2) Automatic contempt and a lowering of her sexual attraction towards a man who lets her do so. --Practical Female Psychology, 54 This is the reason most guys come to MRP. They have been relegated to the p…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 07:58 PM
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Pretty much everyone. My tendency is to avoid conflict, even at the expense of relationships. It's not because I'm afraid, but because I feel guilty when I don't get along. So my tendency is to avoid disciplining the kids, or avoid pushing back when a vendor tries to nickel and dime me. So if I have a guy do some work on my house and he changes terms on me to get an extra $50 bucks, I'll usually just agree and then won't use him again. Or if the neighbors are being un-neighborly, my tendency is …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 07:33 PM
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Is the Ibuprofen part of your stack, or is it for pain?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 07:58 PM
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I think part of the secret to frame is realizing that nothing a woman says matters in the long term. Their brains simply don't work that way. This is not a man coming to a logical decision based on facts, this is a woman and her feels. Who knows what she's feeling? Jealous? Horny? Frustrated? None of things matter. She is attacking you because she is wired to work toward subjugating you. There is no blow too low. She will kick you when you're down without sympathy or remorse. She will attack you…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 07:09 PM
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> I have settled on keto, which I will be doing for the forseeable future. I dove into /r/keto this week and settled on the following macros: 1850 calories, max 20g net carbs, min 153g protein (1g/lb lean mass). We went grocery shopping yesterday and I have everything I need now. One thing I liked about keto was that many people report feeling very satiated and rarely hungry. Where I often stumbled with straight up calorie counting was constant feelings of hunger. One concern I have is that when…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 06:26 PM
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> I’ve been running a natural T-booster stack for a couple of months now and I feel great. What is your stack? I've been experimenting, and I'm curious.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 05:57 PM
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OYS#4 Beginning 7th Week: ​ 40 yo, 6’0, 228lbs (-18lb since start), 23% BF(Navy, -6% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ245, BP230, BR145, OHP150, DL300 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych Sidebar In Progress: Rational Male, MAP, SGM, Ironwood I'm at least 90% in TRM, and while the first half did little for me, the second half is amazing, particularly the communication section which such a crazy wake up call for me. Career: Going well, contrac…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 05:37 PM
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Mission goes beyond specific objectives. A Mission might to be reach peak vocation. Specific objectives might include subjugating the Mongolian hordes, or acquiring advanced skill and knowledge in a discipline. Your marriage and kids are not your mission, but being the best possible Captain of your family definitely is. This means taking responsibility for and ensuring optimal education, finances, food, shelter, transportation, social engagement, etcetera. While pussy is not a mission, many guys…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 10:35 PM
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At 15, you are going to be low value. But that value is going to climb staggeringly over the next 15 years, and you will have real opportunities to feel like the man you'll become in the next 3 to 5. Many of your male peers will be whiny, doughy, and hyper-effeminate. They will have no mission, no significant interests, and no goals. They are floating through life following a course set by their guidance counselor. They are stewing in their status of victims of life, wondering why nothing good h…
/r/askMRP22/05/19 09:00 PM
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SAHM/SAHD is Stay-at-home-mom/dad
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:24 PM
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Have you thought about jumping into a workflow management or ITSM webtool like salesforce or servicenow? There's a run on servicenow in some markets, and I am hearing rumors of rates as high as $350/hr (up from about $119/hr a year ago). Dev certs run about 5k, and they are basically collections web components configured with a visual programming interface , javascript and REST api. It might be worth a look while you are stretching. Don't forget that as far as tech jobs go (and probably every th…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:29 PM
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I looked it up. Extreme clit sensitivity is somewhat not super uncommon after an O. However, the girls said they were capable of O after O provided their clit staid out of it, and recommended that the man take charge and work through the problem more creatively.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:10 PM
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Very little alcohol. She's pregnant, and I don't drink on my own. We did have a beer on Sunday. I mostly just can't see an exit plan that looks better than an unhappy marriage. Living on 40% of my net pay so that I can spend every weekend running kids around and babysitting is a pretty meaty finger on the scales.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:00 PM
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The causality runs the opposite direction; your unattractive need for sexual validation has turned her off sex with you. It's not only that, I've spent most of my life becoming the embodiment of unattractive thinking, appearance, and behavior in every conceivable way. It's not just possible, but likely. This is so fucked. I've spent actual decades neutering my personality in order to better walk on eggshells past the crazy. And like some cheesy 80s fantasy movie with claymation muppets, the powe…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 09:28 PM
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I fear change. Fear not. A drastic change isn't necessary, but what is necessary is options. Without options you're fucked. You're probably scared that your options will entice you to change, but if they do, then it's because the opportunity is much better. Are you a primarily a designer or primarily a developer? Does your company build sites for other companies? If you're mostly a dev, then you probably only need a resume. If you're mostly a designer, then your portfolio is your lifeblood, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 09:13 PM
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Still been a month of no sex. Two weeks in a row, last Monday and this past Monday, I initiated and she accepted, only for her to cum too quick and then be done. When this happens, she's too sensitive she says for sex. Last night, she told me to 'put it in' after she came, but it was too late and told her that I wasn't going to have bad sex. She apologised and gave me a blowjob. ​ I feel like I'M going to have issues after reading this. The awkwardness, pressure, discomfort, and resentment ooze …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 07:15 PM
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I didn’t do the dishes the other night because I honestly just didn’t feel like it. Wife started yelling at me and accusing me of making messes I know for a fact I didn’t make...or at least I wasn’t the sole contributor. She started raising her voice and yelled. I told her “You’re not going to fucking yell at me” in a low volume. She yelled “I’ll use whatever tone I want to to get my point across!!” But I had walked away at that point. I didn’t speak to her for the rest of that night and basical…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:26 PM
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Its like the anger stage of red pill and she is pissed at all the people she allowed to use her. I got my wife to read 12 rules by JP. She went full fucking Rambo. Now she makes little needlepoint embroidery of lobsters and hangs them all over the house. I am trying to get her to the point where she can be dispassionately assertive and tell people no without simultaneously feeling outrage that they asked her.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 05:48 PM
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I am trying to brainstorm a way to come up with a promotion for myself. I essentially need to make up a role that has never existed and then convince my boss to pay me more money and give me a larger budget. I have a lot of experience here, and it is no different than the way you all talk about game. Without options, you almost always get pwned, and if you don't you get thrown a doggo treat to shut you up. Go apply for 200 jobs, pre-qualify rates as high as you can. Go to 10 interviews that you …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 05:31 PM
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OYS #3 Beginning 6th Week: 40 yo, 6’0, 230lbs (-16lb since start), 23% BF(Navy, -6% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ235 DL275 OHP140 BR175 BP230 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook, Practical Fem Psych Sidebar In Progress: Rational Male, MAP, SGM, Ironwood Career: Going well, contract is wrapping up in the next couple of months and I'm eager to move on to somewhere more challenging. ​ Mission Be a fun, active, competitive, attractive, expert, successful leader …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 04:46 PM
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I am going to break with the "STFU faggot" crowd, even though I don't actually know anything and recommend "Practical Female Psychology", even though I don't really understand it very well. What you seem to be missing is the understanding is that this is completely normal feminine behavior. Like a black window bites the head off the male after she has mated, the human female works to subjugate the male into a worm slave who will protect and care for her young. This lovely creature's biology is d…
/r/askMRP20/05/19 06:53 PM
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Do you have guy friends? Many nice guys don't have guy friends. This enhances our neediness because we need our wife for validation and companionship. We need to hook our emotional vampire hose up to their wives and suck out their validation, approval, life force, and in the process murder all feelings of desire. "As long as Nice Guys are disconnected from men or believe they are different from other men, they cut themselves off from the many positive benefits of male companionship and the power…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 06:25 PM
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I know your supposed to read the sidebar for yourself, but you need to get back into it, so I'm going to read you a little: "Nice Guys are controlling. A major priority for Nice Guys is keeping their world smooth. This creates a constant need to try to control the people and things around them. Nice Guys are passive-aggressive. Nice Guys tend to express their frustration and resentment in indirect, roundabout, and not so nice ways. This includes being unavailable, forgetting, being late, not fol…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 08:25 PM
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STFU is not a catch all. WISNIFG has completely changed the way I interact with my wife. Wife: "your sister buys our kids shit cheap gifts" Me(Fogging): "They are cheap gifts aren't they." Wife: "you're fat and your hair looks stupid." Me(Fogging): "Yeah. I should take better care of myself and my appearance." Wife(desperate for a reaction): "You're a worthless human being and you suck as a father." Me(Fogging): "Well, I've definitely got room for improvement." Wife: "You love your mom and you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 11:07 PM
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You've misread the situation. One goal of this sub is to teach men to become the prize. There are no options here where you are the prize. If you are needy and controlling, you are not the prize. If you secretly cry yourself to sleep while she is getting intoxicated with a bunch of hot guys in their tents, you are not the prize. Whether it is with this girl or not, your pain only goes away when you become the prize. For argument's sake, lets assume she's devoted and true. So she goes, gets hit o…
/r/askMRP15/05/19 08:48 PM
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There are multiple levels of possibility here. The first problem is why are you angry? Anger usually derives from a feeling of frustration over a lack of power or control over a situation. However, understanding what is pissing you off can help too. Depending on your level of OCD, you might feel helpless when forks aren't perfectly aligned in the drawer, or you may not care if there's cat shit on the bed. Is she deliberately goading you to get a reaction? Is she passive aggressively retaliating …
/r/askMRP15/05/19 07:50 PM
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I don't know if it's broscience, but the internet told me that lifting the heaviest weights you can with the biggest muscles in your body helps maximize testosterone provided your diet has enough cholesterol and saturated fat. Also lower body fat = increased testosterone.
/r/askMRP15/05/19 07:01 PM
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Every situation is unique. But as an epic beta, the only times I was ever direct, assertive, honest, or fun was when I'd had a few. That coupled with her alcohol-related reduced levels of sexual caution, meant drinking was the only way I got laid, so I was always encouraging the booze to flow. However, when ever she had to deal with bad mojo, or wacky hormones, she would dive into the bottle to medicate, as soon as some bad behavior manifested, I responded by getting super uptight, needy, and wh…
/r/askMRP15/05/19 06:48 PM
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I'm noob here and not a healthy male, but I am largely responsible for driving my wife to excessive drinking. This was because I was cruelly dedicated to being nice all the time and it made it so she couldn't stand me, but being devoted, she made stuff tolerable for herself by getting pickled every night, and I didn't fight too hard, because it was the only time she seemed to be able to like me (drunken tantrums and hi-jinks aside). In the short term you definitely need to stop the child endange…
/r/askMRP14/05/19 11:55 PM
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Flatulance is usually the result of sugars or sugar alcohols. Try Isopure, its magic.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 10:04 PM
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OYS #2 Beginning 5th Week: 40 yo, 6’0, 230lbs (-16lb since start), 23% BF(Navy, -6% since start), married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ235 DL275 OHP135 BR175 BP225 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook Sidebar In Progress: MAP, SGM, Ironwood ​ ​ Mission Be a fun, active, competitive, attractive, expert, successful leader that inspires men, women and children alike. ​ Physique I' am tearing my body to pieces, forcing gains on a deficit, but learning to love it. My belt notches are g…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 04:31 PM
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I am a noob here, but I have not fought with my wife since WISNIFG and NMMNG. Fighting requires me to feel butthurt and care that she is lashing out. Moping, Anger, Silent Treatment, and Withdrawal all derive from me feeling mistreated and upset. But I don't get upset with her anymore. She is woman, acting out of natural womanly tendency, reacting to the fact that I've acted like a faggot for most of my adult life. When she lashes out, its because she wants to feel the security of a man that doe…
/r/askMRP10/05/19 11:20 PM
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I don't think she's capable of understanding that a relationship is a two-way exchange Nor is any woman. Your wife and situation aren't special, but the same as most everyone here at some point. The problem isn't with your wife, it's with you. Your wife is not capable of loving, respecting, or desiring you because of the way you think, act, and look. If you make the journey you will become a person that your wife desires, loves, and respects. ​ Any advice that can help break this cycle? Start th…
/r/askMRP09/05/19 10:59 PM
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I have no idea how to deal with the lying pussy mistrust other than to let the hamster deal with it over time, which could be a long time if she decides to go for a deep dive. But I have a similar issue when it comes to men. I haven't really had a male friend since high school. Finding male friendships is top on my list, since they are critical for the development and exercise all of one's non-physical alpha traits: Social Skill, Social Standing, Dominance, Aggression, Competitiveness, and Mascu…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 08:53 PM
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As a total noob, I second this. WISNIFG was a basic primer on assertiveness, but it was life-changing. It was not boring at all. It is one thing to know you need to be more assertive. It is another thing to understand the mechanics of how to be assertive and how it actually works. Assertiveness and butthurt are inversely tied together. I have spent many years being berated by my wife, instantly going into moping, bitter, resentful withdrawal and resulting in massively escalated epic fights that …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 06:24 PM
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RE: Edit - I was trying to post a question on askmrp, and the mod said i didn't have enough karma, so I went and got some, but it still didn't work.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 10:42 PM
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Thanks for the tip. There's no danger of Rambo here. I'm not angry with anyone but myself for being a faggot so long. My wife is a good woman (and pregnant). She's just been desperate for me to be a man for as long as I can remember. For me, being more aggressive is anything that doesn't involve curling up in a ball and hiding. Following the advice of MMSLP, I haven't withdrawn any of my beta comforts, particularly since she's preggo. I figure there's time in my 25? month journey to develop fram…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 08:31 PM
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OYS #1 Beginning 4th Week of MRP ​ 40 yo, 6’0, 231lbs (-15lb since start), 25% BF, married 20, kids: bunches and pregs 1RM: SQ235 DL275 OHP135 BR175 BP205 Sidebar: Gorilla, WISNIFG, MMSLP, NMMNG, Pook ​ In the last few weeks, my entire approach to life has (thankfully) been vanquished. Somehow my goal in life over the years had become to eliminate all dread, all male friendships, and all fun or interesting aspects of my personality. My wife was damaged goods, and I had deliberately made myself r…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 07:11 PM
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