tapewormterry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Importance of the opener seems underrated	tapewormterry	/r/seduction	04/03/18 03:05 PM
3	rejection anxiety?	tapewormterry	/r/seduction	13/11/17 02:58 PM
3	Making it 'interesting' after the open	tapewormterry	/r/seduction	06/05/18 09:58 AM
2	Anything I could have done?	tapewormterry	/r/seduction	02/02/18 12:02 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Making it 'interesting' after the open Then he asks the girl getting to know you questions. She doesn't talk much, she doesn't pick up her end of the conversation. So he thinks that he needs better questions. So getting to know you questions after the open are OK? He'll say something outrageous or provocative, she will be offended, he doubles down, and she wonders if he's serious. He might say something about her, and she may get intrigued. A million things can happen - but the guy that is good with chicks is looking to cause emotion…	/r/seduction	07/05/18 08:32 AM
1	Does failure really make perfect? How did the approach go out of interest? But they say 'what you say doesn't matter' and there's really no rules in 'game' anymore, so i'm sure you did fine and didn't do anything 'wrong', and they were just 'no girls You'd have likely got the same result even if you'd been 'gaming' for 4 years. It's not as though one starts to learn magic lines that get the girls or anything	/r/seduction	07/05/18 07:36 AM
3	Making it 'interesting' after the open yes, I find it cringe as well. That's why I asked lol That's the advice lots of people here having given me - I tend to just use 'normal guy stuff'	/r/seduction	06/05/18 02:30 PM
2	Importance of the opener seems underrated My opener: "Hi. I'm smooth21" I then extend my hand for a hand shake are you in the US? That sort of opener seems to be fine over there but weird here in England	/r/seduction	05/03/18 10:51 AM
1	hooking is hard in England!? I mean you personally. I've read the side bar. ''You look like you do something artistic'' kind of assumptions. Bit cheesy and overdone. I guess that's why RSD just ask name and stuff and appear more 'normal'.	/r/seduction	21/11/17 09:44 PM
0	hooking is hard in England!? The questions you ask are boring as fuck These are questions that I see in every infield I've ever seen, to be honest. What do you ask girls after you open them?!	/r/seduction	21/11/17 05:59 PM
7	[FR] Tried some approaches last night it seems to be quite popular advice to not ask the typical questions after you open a girl (name/age/job etc like most guys do after they open a girl) as they get bored, so the advice seems to be to tell stories, do cold reads etc etc. Make them laugh and want you to stay, I guess	/r/seduction	19/11/17 04:46 PM
1	You are losing the game by playing hard.This is what you miss. what sort of skills are you referring too in regards to those taught by cold approach? Seddit seems to only really care about 'inner game' and so i'm not 100% sure what you mean. What things does a guy who has learnt cold approach do that put him at ease in social situations that a guy with no cold approach experience doesn't? cheers	/r/seduction	15/11/17 09:00 PM
11	You are losing the game by playing hard.This is what you miss. What are you actually advocating in practical terms though? As someone who is basically a life lonog viring who girls aren't remotely interested in I mean, I go to work and talk with everyone there (I work with about 9 other men) In my lunch break I try to make small talk with the people who serve me food. I go to the bar after work a few nights a week. Approach some strangers and talk to the bar staff. I go to the gym some nights, and try to talk with people there. I play football in an indoor …	/r/seduction	15/11/17 03:53 PM
1	rejection anxiety? I agree, and I get that. I guess currently rejecting yourself seems easier on the ego! Hopefull i'll snap out of it! A thousand rejections or so can take it's toll , lol	/r/seduction	13/11/17 10:10 PM
1	rejection anxiety? true. I'm gonna try to just push through this current state. It just effects me week when i'm constantly thinking about all the rejections I get in the days following them. thanks	/r/seduction	13/11/17 10:08 PM
1	rejection anxiety? yeah, I know what you mean. For a long time, I used the fact that I feel like shit on nights where I fail too approach as fuel to actually approach, and it did sometimes work and make me approach. But there seemed to come a point where I found my confidence just taking a beating due to just constant rejection over the course of like a thousand rejections, and I start to think i'm not sure how much I can handle!! lol But anyway, i'm just gonna try to power on through and hope I get some luck than…	/r/seduction	13/11/17 10:06 PM