taralala15 Archive

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1	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. Look no need to get aggressive. Don't be monopolized by what society advertises. You cant request honesty while being dishonest yourself. How that translates when it comes to sex? When you want to find a woman who wants to have sex 10 times a day, you have to be able to give her pleasure and /or orgasms 10 times a day !!! Do you know the number of women who are sexually dissatisfied / can't orgasm/ have to fake orgasm?? With a quick searsh we can get a number. I disagree with women who fake orga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/22 02:20 AM
1	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal Alas, yes I agree. As a woman, I am always drawn to positive masculine traits and averse to negative ones. I like how you described them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:24 AM
2	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal “I want an equal relationship on EVERY level. Agreed with this, but it does not mean that men and women have the same role in relationship.in actuality women make everydays life decisions in relationships ,so can i at least expect him doing the asking out , the sex initiation most of the time...it does not mean I'm never going to initiate ... we alternate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 11:22 AM
1	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal is not kow-towing to what women seem to like in a given moment in time. This is imposing your word on someone else. It is often confused with masculinity. What type of women are you with? With the right woman, she won't let you kow tow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 03:21 AM
2	Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Ideal Don’t be aggressive, but be assertive, insistently so when necessary Don’t physically dominate others, but be physically dominant Don’t talk over or aggressively challenge women, but speak up for yourself when you have a disagreement Don’t be emotionally repressed, but don’t give women more “emotional labor” than they already deal with Be respectful of women’s physical boundaries, but take sexual initiative without explicit permission Don’t always treat women as sexual objects, but treat them su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 03:02 AM
2	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. But the thing is you can't have sex 10 times a day even if you wanted !	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:27 AM
1	Contemporary dating is based on cognitive dissonance There is no middle ground even when eventually people do find a middle ground naturally after failures. Your middle ground is settling...you're just calling it a fancy name ! We are told to dump our partner if they are not I think people give relationships multiple opportunities before "dumping" the person...but let me ask you, what do want those people to do? Do you want them to stay in a relationship even if not happy? This reminds of women who don't enjoy sex with their partner and the partne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:18 AM
1	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. People can change, sexually just like any other thing. But were they truly compatible in the first place???? And who's lack of judjment was it?? Objectively speaking. Because it makes a difference. Normally when you want to marry someone, you re thinking about how much you want them, what THEY can give you, not how much you're compatible, or even how much they want you. This is where people err...i see it with friends. It's selfishness. I think about what can I bring to the table? How can I impr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:51 AM
1	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. In a time when contraception didn't exist and you could only have sex in a commited relationship, having sex once or twice a year wasn't really a problem Also, inaccurate. Back in the day, in primitive communities, promiscuity was the norm. Everyone was having sex with everyone. There were even sex slaves. Women were also practicing promiscuity. Ive heard from older women ( my grandma 's age that they use to use piece of cotton in their vagina as a barrier method ( ofcourse it's totally unhealth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:33 AM
1	CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly. women have lower libidos than men Hmmm...but we can orgasm about 10 times a day, while men can prob do half that...food for thought!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:27 AM
1	q4a does your perception/definition of love changed with age and experience? I think with age sexuality is becoming a non discriminatory element of it - if this is the right word to use- it was not in my younger years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 10:40 AM
1	What exactly makes women horny? Things that arouses automatically ? porn can do it, sitting in sunlight for couple hours has this weird effect on me. When i looked it up, it turns out its a thing. https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/study-sunlight-aphrodisiac-sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 10:29 AM
1	Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners. sex is a sacred, intimate thing you’re only supposed to do with one person/your spouse/those you genuinely love, and/or desire to share first experiences with a similarly inexperienced partner Sexual experience is a compatability issue just the same as education, religion, social status...in general people with the same background should be together, and occasionally people from different backgrounds succeed together. Sex is sacred, and intimate and I doubt people who are promiscous get sexual s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 01:50 AM
1	Does unconditional love truly exist? Only between parents and their offspring. I use to think love between lovers could be unconditional , now i think that if my lover was having a bad hair day I may stop loving him because of that lol... I'm joking about the bad hair day, but you know what I mean...	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 01:40 AM
2	My fiancé wants to sleep with other girls but still be with me Tell him you love him too and the only way this would work out if you were sleeping with other men too. If he says ok, try it for a while and see how he feels 😆🤷‍♀️ Your fiancé needs to grow up. He's a kid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:32 AM
2	Are there immoral dating standards/dealbreakers? But whose standards are we talking about?whose standards are we following? Who is making those standards? Some redditors? even though they themselves may not be sexually pure) Haha...plz explain what you mean. The deep true secret that no one dares to admit is that most men in most cultures prefer virgin women. Don't get me wrong. I refuse the concept of virginity. I see it, as a matter of purity not penetration. The new trend that surfaced refusing virgins is advertized by men who are looking f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 03:12 AM
1	Can someone explain men who criticise women who sleep around while also being angry they’re not having sex What's worst is that most men think it's ok to date multiple people casually until they commit to one seriously. I find it desperate. Can't you stay single for one week? Then they judge women who do the same. I'm not into dating multiple people at once but when I get back to dating in a few weeks, I'm gonna mimic the man's behavior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 05:30 PM
2	How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman? It depends on your standards. For instance, An Intellectual man is a requirement for me. At your age I joined okc. The problem was that most intellectual men on okc were couple of years younger. I had no interest in younger men. But the person who contacted me had most things i was looking for, except he's couple yrs younger. So i thought, WTH, I'm single, I ll try. To my surprise, It was not bad . It didnt last long, but the age difference wasn't the factor. I bent the age rule/standard, now I'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/22 02:56 AM
1	ladies why does it seem so hard to get to know u guys? i was hoping some of u could help explain the behavior of a lot of women i meet irl. they generally run and play hard to get and hope i'll chase them i assume How do they run and play hard?? What is playing hard to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/22 11:12 AM
1	Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? What do you think could help decrease divorce rates? People treat marriage like a summer fling You're right, there is a lot of immaturity and non recognition of the responsibilities of marriage. In fact, i have two acquaintances who didn't even want kids, they got married for the wrong reasons and now have 2 kids each. They still don't like kids. One got married for financial security because she does not want to bother with a career. The other lacked beauty, but has the degrees, she earns significantly more than her husband, her husband would hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/22 12:45 AM
1	Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? What do you think could help decrease divorce rates? then that means their standards were higher at one point No, not necessarily. It means that they may be lacking one advantage that puts them at a disadvantage. What do you think is causing these people to settle? Usually it's the not finding what they want, also having less to offer. Not pretty, awfull family, not educated...	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 04:06 AM
-1	Are you concerned with the rate of failed marriages? What do you think could help decrease divorce rates? If people would stop marrying the wrong people, then the wrong people would be left for the right people and marriage as an institution would succeed. The problem is that a lot of people are settling. If people would stop rushing to get married, or would marry for the right reasons, then more right combinations of people would meet and get married . There isn't one marriage in my surrounding that is the right combination. I'm one of the few people in my social circle who hasn't settled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/22 12:58 AM
3	Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common with Neither. I ll tell why. Option A: i actually have that option right now. I met this person in 2016. We were slightly interested in each other for a short period of time, I'm the one who never took it to the next level. We're just acquaintances now, not really friends. We're same age, he could be a great father, heavily involved in raising our kids, educated, same level of cleanliness, we have common hobbies. Non smoker . I know for a fact that This guy is the type that will truly carry me thru s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:47 AM
2	Women only play hard to get with men who have no options, dating her is easy when she's actually interested The thing is i know for a fact they both liked me. They were both introverted men, a little shy, plus it happened that there were a certain Profesional relationship that came into play, when i expressed my interest. It wasnt very serious. But both men were afraid of breaking a certain Profesional code. Both men were surprised by my action, a little freaked out, and they acted in an exagerated immature way. The first time is was a colleagueship of sort, that he was scarred he crossed a line becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 02:23 AM
2	Women only play hard to get with men who have no options, dating her is easy when she's actually interested Pursued? I don't know what is considered pursuing. I think I'm far away from pursuing. I'm not that type. But i have hinted or expessed my feelings indirectly on different occasions, in different ways. But both times, my behavior wasn't received well. Eventhough it was the men who started it, not me. After hinting that im on board, From my perspective there wasnt anything else i can. I just withdraw back and my feelings start to dissipate. I want someone's love voluntarily...women who pursue wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/22 02:20 PM
3	Women only play hard to get with men who have no options, dating her is easy when she's actually interested Some people think I play hard but the truth is I resist relationships because I'm a little afraid of getting hurt and a bunch of other issues...but when I fall hard, I ll explode if I don't express it. The few times I fell hard, I surprised the men and by the time they processed it, I had already withdrawn. I'm only willing to put myself out there for a short period of time before i withdraw back into my bubble. You can call that playing hard, i call it having issues...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/22 11:21 PM
1	Absence makes the heart grow fonder No it does not . absence is a message that you're not interested. An aquaintance expressed interest in me then suddently disapeared on purpose, even from a friends messaging grp. In His mind, ball was in my court . i was interested but i didnot know him enough. I needed him to introduce himself properly, like tell me more about himself things i would care about, or why he liked me. I never contacted him, even though i could ve. Just said hi, how have you been. My feelings eventually disapeared ,…	/r/seduction	01/08/22 03:53 AM
1	Absence makes the heart grow fonder Silence can equal apathy or moving on. Who are you?? I feel hacked😆 suddenly you switch things up Boom As humans we can only judge how much someone cares by their actions toward us, Agreed There’s a difference 👍	/r/seduction	01/08/22 03:38 AM
1	Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be Honest Agreed	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:41 AM
2	Emotional Men (Ye or Nay) - Be Honest Yay...I would love to be with someone emotional . It reveals their human side	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:40 AM
2	Ladies - Would you 2nd guess your boyfriend/husband if other women didn't find him attractive? They want to know that their man is sought after and want a man that other women find attractive as well. Is their truth to this? Ladies. Not me. I'm confident as a person, my confidence comes from within i don't need external validation from other people. I just need my confidence that this person is a good fit, he makes me happy, i enjoy my time with him.other people's opinions don't matter to me as long as I'm happy. Plus, looks are relative. Someone may be good looking, but not my type. Also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:16 AM
2	would a guy really be too nervous to make a move? If all men who liked a woman dared to make a move, more compatible people would be together. As a woman i never know what to do in the stage where interest is there but no relationship yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/22 02:25 AM
0	The reason why you struggle dating as a guy is because you lack fundamentals of attraction. WRONG...the fundamentals of attraction are not what you think. The fundamentals of attraction are what you do and how you do it to attract a woman. For gym girls probably being a person trainer will a following will help. For anime girl being a guy with a good twitch following maybe. For academic college girls, being in a frat, student head or athlete. For religious girls being a pastor or head of church department. You get the point. Financial may be having at least a decent low end job or inte…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 01:46 AM