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She didn't talk much about him, I mostly guessed and got it out of her later on Thanks, I'll do that
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:06 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it and it really helps putting things into perspective. The only time the dynamic was ideal was in the beginning, but since I'm still learning and unsure, want to believe otherwise, I probably fucked up. I kinda wanted to believe it'm doesnt have to be a game, play it cards on the table. Even worse, I was the one asking for the gf thing, telling the "I love you", I felt like it didn't matter or something, it's like I forgot everything I already knew. I don't do jealousy …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 05:19 PM
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Seeing it written helps me man, I know that deep down too, but I wish it could be different this time maybe, idk if it's just about this girl or if dynamics are always this way, does it get better with age? I feel like laughing and isolating myself at the same time Spot on with the alpha widow part too At this point I dont know what to do, we're traveling together, I might try to learn something out of it, is it possible to fix this temporarily being or is it fucked and there's no way of gong ba…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:17 PM
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Fuck. I know you're right, and I read ready sidebar, I just don't want to believe in it fully, but I also know that (at least with this girl) it's the best course of action. There's conflict about accepting it, because it still feels manipulative to me idk I know she's attracted at least physically because she's touchy and initiates sex too, also years of lifting have given me a pretty good physique Yeah, as much as she insists on talking, it feels like it's mostly one sided, I know that now Fuc…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 03:04 PM
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Also, for more context, she's 19 so of course she needs drama/excitement and last weeks have been pretty chill (we're by the countryside so not that much to do, if someone has some thoughts on that), so yeah the 'me' travelling and sending cool pics on social media was more exciting than fucking and spending a lot of time in bed
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:59 PM
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Yeah, I think this is a good part of why I lost my first "plate". While I thought I was really upfront about it ( told her early on ) I was doing all the boyfriend shit, and didn't really think much of it. In the end, when she asked what we were, and I told her the exact same, it broke down pretty fast. She later told me she felt I led her on and it took me some time to understand why she'd feel that way. It's basically my actions and thoughts not being congruent, it does help me seeing it put i…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:32 PM
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I meant that more in the sense of trying to get an understanding of what works and what doesn't, so I can handle things better (I'm still calibrating). But it's also true that I've got a lot of work to do on my abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:14 AM
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Fuck, that's exactly what I'm talking about, some shit is so deeply ingrained that it comes out like that. Just my own hamster running I think, I'm still trying to internalize things, recently deleted her from everything
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:02 AM
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Yeah, same thing here, I've been reading for more than a year but things didnt really start clicking till recently, and I'm so fucking far from where I want to be that I'm surprised I could even have thought that I understood anything at all. I was just (am just) a beta masquarading as an alpha, I realized that by taking a long hard look at myself and where I went wrong with the last girl. Too much neediness, using the concepts without really having the mindset to go with it ( which actually sti…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 10:52 AM
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