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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Approach got away from me due to some other guys. What could I have done?		targetLocked	/r/seduction	09/03/13 08:18 AM

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1	Approach got away from me due to some other guys. What could I have done? ah yeah, I shouldn't have worried about being rude or whatever. I'll remember this. One of the guys seemed pretty timid, so I was just hoping they'd bail and I'd interject before heading out. They were pretty persistent though. Gotta at least give them credit where it's due. It's worth noting that I don't think they were better looking or better dressed than my friend and I, so it goes to show how important just sticking with it can be. If your game falters, it doesn't matter how solid your look…	/r/seduction	09/03/13 09:05 AM
0	Why Looks Don't Matter Your point that attractiveness is the cognitive alignment of what you are and what you think is attractive is... correct and also a restatement of what this subreddit already says a lot. That said, I think you take it too far with saying things like: “Does this mean I can be 500 pounds, have terrible acne, never shower and still be attractive?” Yes. But only if you believe it. I get that you're taking your thesis to an extreme to perhaps solidify your point, but I think we should always be seeki…	/r/seduction	20/08/12 06:33 AM
2	Why so much hate for r/seduction? But the main people being tricked by PUA are the men carrying it out, it tricks them into being confident, gives them something to say in those situations they wouldn't have said anything, when they get blown off they don't blame their person they blame their use of the material and instead of taking it as a personal slight they bounce back and try again. Those seem like good things.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 07:18 PM
7	Why so much hate for r/seduction? I think for the purposes of discussing techniques and behaviors, it's simpler and more effective to generalize across all/most women. For instance if a guy wants to know how to escalate better, it's not helpful to go off on a tangent about different personalities and try to account for every possible way that a woman might respond to a given touch. That sort of thing can be mentioned later or perhaps in a post telling how to deal with rejection. I think it's safe to assume certain things like ba…	/r/seduction	01/08/12 06:14 PM
1	girl dancing near me Careful. I saw a marriage/family ruined over addiction to that kind of shit. Plus, it kinda goes counter to the whole self-improvement thing we talk about here.	/r/seduction	09/07/12 04:29 AM
2	girl dancing near me What are the pain pills for?	/r/seduction	08/07/12 11:23 AM
1	How do I "do it for myself"? I think whatever keeps you motivated and going regularly is fine. Just try not to think of it only as a means to an end. To be effective, you'll have to do it a lot, so it should be part of your lifestyle and should continue even if the end (getting a girl) is met.	/r/seduction	08/07/12 11:16 AM
0	Are white knights overwhelming Seddit? "Manipulate" has a negative connotation and doesn't reflect the changing nature of Game. Seduction is becoming more about betterment and self-improvement because that's a more reliable road to success, not to mention the related benefits of just getting your life in order. And ultimately, seduction is a real, human thing. We can't just strip it bare of all humanity when we discuss it. Sure, we shouldn't get mired in PC nonsense, but the human element is what's compelling. And no, this subreddit …	/r/seduction	04/07/12 01:33 PM
1	What would you have said? Starting with a joke and getting a chuckle is good too. Anything that gets investment, really. I like asking about her day because it's small talk, but it usually uncovers something. Maybe she's tired, maybe she's unusually happy, maybe she just got shit from a crazy customer. There tends to be a thread I can grab onto. I think if you have something more clever, funny, or specific to go with, best to use that, but sometimes I find myself drawing a blank so it can be nice to fall back on this.	/r/seduction	08/10/11 12:25 PM
1	What would you have said? My go-to line right now for when I have nothing else to go on is "How's your day going?" Usually gives me something to relate to, then I introduce myself and go from there.	/r/seduction	07/10/11 05:23 PM
1	Morality of hittin on a girl while shes working ? Sometimes work is the only place to do it. It's the only place you know she'll be until you get to know her and ask her out. Ask her how her day's going the next time you see her. It's a simple way to get her talking and you can just suggest a time to continue the conversation elsewhere.	/r/seduction	07/10/11 04:53 PM
3	Having trouble flirting, connecting on dates This article has helped me some. Try to dig deeper. Start with small talk, but get to the meat of things. Don't just ask where she's from, ask how she felt about it or why she wanted to move and how she's adjusted. Don't just ask what her job is, ask why she got into it and if that's her passion or she has other hobbies. Then pick up on things she says and give your own thoughts or anecdotes about it. I've heard that it's good to do something active on the first date as well, so that you're not …	/r/seduction	06/10/11 04:49 PM
1	I think that there's too much emphasis on what you actually say. Obviously the non-verbals are the biggest part, but it can't hurt to have a few go-to responses. These shouldn't be things you have to memorize on cue cards. I do it a lot with jokes already. Sometimes similar conversation threads pop up in different groups and I can use the same joking phrase to get a laugh.	/r/seduction	12/08/11 07:39 AM
1	A challenge to all of the internet PUA gurus who think they're capable of schooling a square Pretty much everything on here. Work on your approach and try threading through some conversations. Get out of the house and do things with/around other people. If the "chubby" thing is getting you down, start an exercise regimen and try a modified diet. If there's anything you want to improve on in your life, just do it. Read things around here as well; I find it to be helpful.	/r/seduction	12/08/11 07:27 AM
0	xpost from /r/fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu A day in the life of a nice guy. I think when done right, it's just friendly conversation and for a guy in the right mindset, that's really all it is. I'm still skeptical myself, but I'm hardly a good judge. I don't really socialize with passers-by much beyond a cursory "how's it going." I'm not really well-practiced with observational stuff.	/r/seduction	04/08/11 08:48 AM
1	xpost from /r/fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu A day in the life of a nice guy. Whether or not someone finds validation in socialization depends on that person. Regardless, improving social skills is beneficial in a lot of ways, not just for a person's emotional health.	/r/seduction	04/08/11 08:39 AM
1	Met a girl a few days ago, how to escalate? Send her a message. The worst that could happen is she doesn't respond. Don't think so much about worst-case scenarios; a girl you just met thinking you're weird isn't that bad in the grand scheme of things and you'd likely forget all about it later if it doesn't work out. So yeah, just do it.	/r/seduction	03/08/11 10:56 AM
3	Exactly What To Say In A First Message If a person is using the advice here and being fake about it, they're doing it wrong. It's about being genuinely better with women by using the skills and potential we already have. Some people may be here to pick up tricks for an easier lay, but most of us just want to take control of our love lives instead of leaving it all up to chance and wishful thinking.	/r/seduction	03/08/11 10:48 AM
3	Some vile and vapid advice these 'nerd loving' girls on my facebook keep posting. It's like that "Ode to the Nice Guy" thing that was going around a few years back. Sure, it'll make you feel better by telling you you don't have to change, but it doesn't end that miserable cycle.	/r/seduction	28/07/11 09:00 PM
1	What does your room look like? Messy now, work's been crazy. That's step #1, I think; getting my place ready should get me in the right frame of mind when I'm out. My ideal place would be bigger than a studio... and have better air flow.	/r/seduction	26/07/11 04:26 AM
3	The importance of eye contact. That's when you tell them to wait in the car; good friends would understand.	/r/seduction	26/07/11 01:25 AM
1	I lived too much by seduction "rules" and now I've found a girl who doesn't really respond to this stuff. Good story. Exactly. I've made it a policy to just avoid using the words "I'm sorry," unless it's a really heavy situation, like if I fucked things up royally for a friend or hurt someone in my family. I'll admit mistakes and offer explanations/solutions, but it's just one of those things that has collateral impacts on your demeanor. Kind of like how looking up when you walk increases confidence, so does finding better ways to express regret or offer apologies.	/r/seduction	26/07/11 01:04 AM