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To many variables, depends on break up and how they interact. Do not even think about it if they are on bad terms. If they are both cool low drama people you could. If this is not your dream girl I would just say pass, it is not worth it.
/r/seduction09/07/16 09:44 PM
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I do it just before the first kiss on date two. Set a agreat location and have her look around at the amazing view.. This gorgeous via is almost as good as you , this must be the best place for our first kiss then I lean in and his her. I tend not to kiss first date as most times thing go poorly. It also forces he to think if she can actually get me to kiss her
/r/seduction02/04/16 08:49 AM
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Pick a observed thing and ask about it. Never have deep stuff in txt. I always go into subs that have great things you could have a decision over. I tend to keep it edgy and start making them more sexual, or play to my strength.
/r/seduction02/04/16 08:36 AM
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I say well I want to more about you before you get round, my mom said do not take beer from good looking girls you do not know yet. A the say just talking about you body might have been strange. I ask questions that let me humble brace more, like I am a Iron Man. A Ultra runner, and have done a marathon. Ask about sports and cool a activities. So you look like a active girl what's sports you doing and what would be your best memory. I salts try to have girls relive emotion as it bonds them to yo…
/r/seduction02/04/16 08:32 AM
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If it seems like a backhand complement that's a Nag to me. If it's just a mean think he is a dick. Being mean should be on the 3rd grade level and playful. Remember some people like Donald Rump believe you need to be purely mean to a hit as the expect it. (So bullshit)
/r/seduction02/04/16 08:16 AM
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It is not about saying it correctly it's about making the words real and project the correct amount of you care greatly but also do not give a fuck. When I do a date or a extended set, I try to build vail of mystery. I will often have s intense conversation about a topic important to me. I one had a girl a dated change her mind after I was passionate about my favourite Doc film maker. I use passion to increase attraction and that can have them gorget other short comings. If you and I open the sa…
/r/seduction02/04/16 08:08 AM
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This works for some scenarios and not for others. He is saying more about you do not have to be in a relationship to have sex. At some point if you like the girls and she likes you and you both want a relationship you have to have a talk about stuff. For me if I find a girl I like i tend to to set what I want out of it when it feels like the correct time. I like to make the girl show interest in it first, not as a mind game but just to make sure we are on the same page. I have been with girls th…
/r/seduction23/03/16 03:44 PM
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Just get used to talking to everyone as a new goal. You must walk before you can run is my view. Dudes, normal girls, married people, you will find once you talk to everyone girls you are attached to are not scary or intimidating.
/r/seduction19/02/16 04:49 PM
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Conflict is great, just know how to make sure it never gets to violence. This is for men, in all my years I have never lost a girl or needed to get into a fight. If it is a girl I encourage standing up for a view or challenging her on stuff. Just do it in a grownup way like a debate, girls love when you stand up for what you believe. The flip side is it is even cooler if you listen and can reason your position.
/r/seduction06/02/16 05:43 PM
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I think it is simple if you are in shape it shows you have motivation, motivation is attractive to people. It also helps to look good but it has never been the only reason I have attracted a woman. You don't have to pump iron to be attractive, do a activity you like. I do Triathlons and spend less time in the gym. You would not believe how much people respect the fact that I have done a Ironman.
/r/seduction04/02/16 04:25 PM
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Girls love to be approached, when it is done correctly and not forced. Be natural and make it know that you are interested, they will be flattered and mostly respond in a good way.
/r/seduction30/12/15 02:03 PM
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One it makes dating multiple people a land mine field. Two it gives them your entire story for the last 7 years, try telling a story she knows about from your posts. I have to be dating a girl exclusively before she gets a Facebook add.
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:50 PM
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Do not friend girls on Facebook, i make sure I ask a girl some sort of question I can fallow up on the next day. I normally make it a qualification question, and just say it's too loud so give my your number so in case I do not see you in the morning I can contact you. See how I added playful funny to that.
/r/seduction22/11/15 04:23 PM
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If you go in high energy you need to keep the energy up. Hooking someone has them excited, doing something not normal to them. With just moving someplace to talk you have show you are just a normal dude. Think of doing something to keep energy up, pool, bowling just anything other then sitting on your ass. Slow down pushing it sexual, I find it validates a girl thoughts on you only stoping her for sex. You want to come off as a player but not someone just after sex. Once you have her interested …
/r/seduction17/11/15 03:28 AM
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If you are with a girl two month this is more of a dating thing. My response would be based off what I wanted if I had no real feeling for the girl. You need to remember at two month most girls will look at what's going on and if you are not in a place she wants she will start pulling back. Expect this moving forward, two month tends to be the expiration of people if both are not on the same page. If you or both FWB that normally last longer, but if she has stronger feeling for you she is now pr…
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:07 PM
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I break this rule all the time, this is for people who are crap at txt. If you want to work on txt game practice.
/r/seduction24/10/15 06:24 PM
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People who practice know you are going to be seen as creepy by some people. I refuse to do cold day game because it is just so cringeworthy to so many people including me. To get around this I just changed my style to be more natural and to talk to everyone. OP is correct just stop over thinking and focusing on numbers. Go talk to everyone and just practice talking to people and at time let it naturally progress to trying to pick them up.
/r/seduction20/10/15 11:16 PM
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A big mistake is going for just numbers, you need to make quality connections that lead to dates. You are correct if you can extend a set go for it. I hate people who day game and just try for numbers, shit it drives me nuts at a bar too. I once had a dude come up and try to game a girl who was my wing. He was ok but he ejected as soon as he got her #, she would have been willing to explore something with him if he had the balls to stick with it. Quality over quantity.
/r/seduction18/10/15 03:12 AM
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This is just one persons idea about seduction, for some people it has noting to do about hot girls. My path has always been about being a better person and being able to get better at dating. I have never played the numbers game and think that kind of thinking limits potential. Personally I case quality over quantity and a whole package over looks. My view is I am looking for a awesome woman to add to my now awesome life, has nothing to do with need.
/r/seduction24/09/15 09:29 PM
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You are trying to hard, or you have bad breath. Problem I have found with day approaches is the are uncomfortable as fuck when done wrong. I have done it and have had it done to me with my lady one day. It has to feel natural in approach and I find micro dates work best if you can be flexible. Try not escalating to the kiss hand holding or anything that might show ownership, you just meet at a mall, tone it down till date two. I find day game works best if it's a natural open (not a forced hello…
/r/seduction22/09/15 04:05 PM
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Is this a Dorm one room thing? Just let the boys know you are On a date, they should behave. When I had roommates I would just find ways to stay out and do interesting things. Walks coffee and hikes we did lots of stuff.
/r/seduction14/09/15 03:04 AM
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Kino and eye contact are most important, show interest and have a good time. I do not tease people or use banter, at most I looking for inside jokes that only we get.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:07 AM
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When my life got crazy I turned to online dating to meet girls. It was easier to pick a time and set expectations with online. You can easily look for people at are looking for the same thing as you. It also makes setting up dates cheaper as you can just say lets meet for a coffee or a beer and see if we click.
/r/seduction14/09/15 12:04 AM
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I go for the hug and a kiss on the cheek on any second meeting. I then kino much faster and look for a opportunity to kiss again, make sure you feel out the situation. If you feel like she has slowed things down this is probably her thinking you just want sex.
/r/seduction13/09/15 07:22 PM
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Could be a few things, but off the top of my head. Do your targets change or do you lower your standards? Do you find that your mood changes often (ask your friends or coworkers) I hate to say it but if you are getting sex and they walk you are giving off a red flag, or bad in bed. I have a friend that made it clear when he went to bed with a girl it was a very short term thing. I had a different dude look for long term FWB and it worked. Make sure you are giving correct signals, if a girl think…
/r/seduction12/09/15 03:09 PM
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Once you get the girl you need to keep her if you want to. I see lots of people slide once they think they have a girl, and slip back into bad habits. My simple life rule is just never stop trying to be awesome, or better myself. You also have to find the balance in a relationship between not giving a fuck and being open once you start to care about a person. Showing vulnerability is sexy for some girls but it has to be the correct kind and is small doses. Remember once you learn to get girls yo…
/r/seduction09/09/15 05:20 PM
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Might be a bit aggressive for all girls, but you just need to careless about outcomes and open sets and keep moving things forward with girls that show interest. I would say you got lucky with the first time you took the bull by the horns, start smaller next time. If you are good looking showing confidence will take you a long way.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:39 AM
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If you can close people in a friend group then you must be interesting. look at the people you are trying to make first contact with compared to the people you are failing at closing are they vastly different? You might just need a softer or new approach.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:32 AM
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Online dating is real easy, you just have to be interesting and have good photos. /r/okcupid has great advice and help to set up a profile. I have used my skills from real life, and what I have learned about seduction over the years to be extremely good at it. It will take time to develop a style that works but if you learn from your mistakes it gets easy fast.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:27 AM
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I give a fuck about stuff, as long as I have control over it. Caring about outcomes you have no control over is low value, stay away from it. I have found being passionate about my interest is a important thing to a woman, every girl I date says it is a thing that sets me apart from other men. Video games and anime or sports do not count in this list FYI. OP is correct in the base idea about outcomes, the next tricky part is to move to the next step if you want to.
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:19 AM
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To start try a common observation, just look around find something interesting and funny to comment on and ask a question about. Do not make fun of people or things when doing this it shows low values. If she seems interested escalate to different topics, that are interesting and topical to your location. The trick is to let girls know what you are doing, (pickup) but not be blatant about it. I find pushing a girl to give you her number just leads to flakes or non response. As you do more approa…
/r/seduction09/09/15 06:09 AM
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I go from light keno to the kiss, screw the slow strange escalating. Once I get the kiss in everything is on the table and I let my hands start to move around. If you build attraction correctly she should be begging you to kiss her with her eyes. Also keep in mind that it is more then just touch, it is the way you touch. A light touch on the knee can be more impactful then a forced connection higher up on the leg. I will try to find a way to use soft touch to build that spark tingly feeling, it …
/r/seduction09/09/15 05:49 AM
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I use my skills to make me happy, at the moment I prefer to look for relationships. My game is geared to finding great people to bring into my life, if she is hot that is a massive bonus. I am now dating a woman that is crazy good looking and extremely smart. Try to pick up a psychologist and you will know you have got game. Do what makes you happy that is my best advice for life.
/r/seduction09/09/15 03:15 AM
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You do not have to sex up conversations to get sex, yes it can help you with the correct person but it can also backfire. Just be interesting, do kino and take a shot at kissing her if you see a good chance. You sound new to this so build interest and attraction, just use simple escalation after that. I use the shut up and act routine and it works great.
/r/seduction21/08/15 10:09 PM
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My experience is that drugs make you slow and you will have a lower energy. I had to take some strong meds when I was sick and people are now saying I am back to my quick and funny self. In the long run might not be a fix, if you need them to start so be it but cut down the done every week and still keep up meeting people.
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:46 PM
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I think you need to look at communicating better. The thing that gives me this idea is you had a activity and a time you just needed to say yes, this place 12pm and you would be on a date. You give it to the next day and say plans for today?? I am also going to say look at quality of quantity, getting numbers is one thing but making out with four girls in one bar in a night is bad play. The conversation once she got back to her friend group is always "You know he made out with 3 other people, yo…
/r/seduction05/08/15 02:15 AM
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For me it depends on the girl, I just did Shakespeare in the park. Was easy choice as she very well educated, and smart. The key to a good date is setting up the timing to go for the kiss. I normally like to find a reason to go for a walk, normally around water. After building for beginning of the date I go for the kiss. It sometimes happens naturally or I force it with a statement. Never use can I kiss you, I like to say I have a problem. I then go for the kiss, she will say what was the proble…
/r/seduction05/08/15 01:33 AM
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Depends oh how old she is, and the location. I am going to go with the group on this one and say you need to befriend the group. Just trying to go for the grind is kind of creepy, so the solution? Make eye contact, dance like a normal person for a few minutes, show value to friends as not just being that strange dude. Approach group later when off dance floor and chat them up and # close. Once back on the dance floor do some dancing nothing to creepy, but have sexual undertones. The path after t…
/r/seduction20/07/15 03:09 AM
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I have had over 200 stitches and over 30 staples, some on the face even. I have never had a problem. I have even turned it into a game, can you find all my scars? To me Scars are my tattoos, stories and memories.
/r/seduction18/07/15 08:12 PM
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For online try to manage expectations in your photos. Get some body shots, show the real you plus some of your great photos. Some girls are looking for your type, good looking and skinny. I would say look at bulking up some too, you don't need to lift crazy stuff. Go for overall fitness, you will look bigger and feel better. I do lifting and triathlon to get the body I want, the heavy cardio helps keep me from getting to big. I find the girls I have dated like a swimmers built more then a juicer…
/r/seduction11/07/15 07:14 PM
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Find a place you can chat over a drink, coffee, wine, beer, or milkshake. Have a second location in mind if you seem to hit it off. For me I like to play pool, it's a good way to stand around talk and do some escalation. If all goes good we tend to get a drink again or just go for a walk to a cool place. Once at the cool place I go in for the kiss if everything has fallen into place. I was lucky as I could do all of this within a Km of my place. So if the kissing escalated I could say lets grab …
/r/seduction10/07/15 05:52 PM
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I never get my hopes up, but always expect the best outcomes. I never assume a girl will not want a kiss, or stop me from moving the encounter forwards. But I know it does not take much to have things go sideways. If you assume it will happen you just get set up for disappointment. I hope that clears it up some.
/r/seduction10/07/15 03:37 AM
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I never assume a girl will end up in bed with me till I close the deal. I always assume it will happen, but girls be crazy. I do remember I had this happen on a first date once, was a very easy fix. I just monopolized his time, and engaged him with questions. The trick was to use terms that made you sound like a couple, basically treating the situation like you already won the girl. The idea is he will get the idea and move on and you make it hard for him to make a direct connection with her. If…
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:55 AM
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Start crazy simple, just talk to everyone. Use observation to start conversations, or ask questions. Start with staff paid to talk to you, work up to people on the street. You will quickly learn how to read social settings. A game can be won or lost, just talking is a net benefit as you learn each time.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:43 AM
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I don't drink much anymore, I just get a water and put a lime in it. My good friend also does not drink and he just has a bit of weed before we go out. If you are ever presented with having to order something get get a vodka water tall glass, if anyone calls you out on it just say you have a work out the next day.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:15 AM
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As long as you know what you did wrong and have a plan to fix it you are winning. It gets easier, to work up to being able to doing better cold approach just try saying funny one liners to random people. Once you master that you can use the on liners to open conversation with a girl.
/r/seduction27/05/15 12:55 AM
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I do not agree with all of this , to be honest it is only about 50% true. You don't need to do all this stuff, you just need to remember to be your own man (not taking shit from anyone), own the relationship and take a shot early on. (I always assume she wants me to kiss her) I work to add girls to my friend zone first, this expands my social circle and let's me use her as a unsuspecting wingman. I also keep control of the zone, setting dates and proposing stuff to do. If you want to keep the op…
/r/seduction24/05/15 09:00 PM
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Who cares what a different person thinks? I am about me, I only answer to me, and I rock. This is how you should be looking at life, never tie your self-worth to someone else.
/r/seduction28/03/15 10:58 PM
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I have found my a version of this that works for me is "I am to sexual attracted to you for a friendship to work. Best of luck. ". This has worked every time I have wanted to keep a girl around.
/r/seduction26/01/15 04:24 PM
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I have been doing this on all my first dates, if I want to kiss her I just kiss her. I am batting 1000, and feel good about it.
/r/seduction22/06/12 10:42 PM
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Stop playing hard to get, it can come off as being passive if done wrong. Besides it does not seem to working for you, give up or try a new approach.
/r/seduction14/10/11 04:58 AM
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For me it is not about being a asshole its about being clear with what I want and taking charge and going after it. You do this you will stay out of the zone.
/r/seduction03/10/11 08:17 PM
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Escalate and use more sexual innuendo, if she slept with you she has the attraction to want to do it again if you did your job correctly in bed. She should also be thinking about doing it again and you need her to keep thinking about that with your txt. My favourite thing to do is pick something on her body that is covered, like a mole. I tell her at some point in bed I like her mole and it is my favourite mole over, I can then reference the mole in a txt or conversation. This makes her think ab…
/r/seduction03/10/11 06:10 PM
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Try changing you txt game after you have sealed the deal. You are likely coming of as out of frame if you do not keep escalating. You must have been a good date to be able to get the close, if you fall back to pre date form it is a big turn off for most girls. My txt game changes after I get a kiss, after a F-close and after she spends the night.
/r/seduction03/10/11 04:33 PM
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You have to learn from the interaction and move on.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:50 AM
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What are you texting them? It could be when and how you go after the second date and not just bad sex.
/r/seduction03/10/11 01:44 AM
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I never call it a date, but you have to start dropping hints this is not just a friends kind of outing. Do this in texting and talking, once you get her on the outing Kino all you can.
/r/seduction26/09/11 08:40 PM
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Why hold off a few days? Ask tomorrow, If you are in a race do not start it later, start now, also by doing it sooner you keep escalating attraction, just do not ask in a friend way. Make it clear you want the date, and not to play video games or you could end up in the friend zone.
/r/seduction25/09/11 08:08 PM
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I agree, 100%.. Yes you can build attraction via txt, but calling builds comfort. The more comfortable she is the quicker she will move forward, so call talk a few min and then you can move to txting.
/r/seduction25/09/11 07:54 PM
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I agree with Cody_au, I have never been asked this question. If your prepared for safe sex this question never comes up. It tends to happen when you want to do it with out protection, and I am sure you want to be safe. If you have to talk about sex before you are having sex you are not doing it correctly. Read up on closing and last minute resistance, and you should do fine.
/r/seduction25/09/11 07:49 PM
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I had the perfect date a few weeks ago, the next day I got the FZ txt. I used the line back of "I do not think our friendship would work as I find you to attractive physically and mentaly to be friends". By the end of the week she had txted me back asking me out on the 2nd date. Cirmi has it correct do not sweat the small stuff, turning rejection around can work also. Just FYI, I am still seeing her and she gives me a shit test every time we hook up.
/r/seduction23/09/11 08:56 PM
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I think it is a great idea, setting a date and getting the number to set up the rest of the details for the dates.
/r/seduction23/08/11 05:54 PM
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First off great work! But how many do you get to show up for dates and then are able to escalate with?
/r/seduction23/08/11 04:51 PM
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I would like to add just try to have fun, it is very important. Have fun and be in the moment.
/r/seduction25/06/11 04:56 PM
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You have to stop the game at some point and just kiss the girl. You don't even need to isolate some girls, I kissed a girl in line at the coat check last week. Next time go for the kiss, you will get it 80% of the time.
/r/seduction03/04/11 12:16 AM
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It's not about doing it correctly, it's about trying to talk to people and being confident. The best advice is fake it till ya make it!
/r/seduction27/03/11 06:39 PM
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I never let it go on for more then a few days, I find it's cool to see how a girl will react if you normally txt her every day, then you stop. Most of the time it builds attraction, I have also found that it's good to weed out crazy needy girls.
/r/seduction21/03/11 02:54 PM
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You are correct, I use the same rules and find it works wonders. I also add a rule about not always being the one to make contact first after a few dates, never be the one to txt first 100% of the time. Also make eye contact dont just look at her look into her eyes, this has helped me close much faster.
/r/seduction21/03/11 02:38 PM
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Do not give up! You learned from the encounter and will do better next time. Girls are not always going to give a number, life happens so just keep working and learning. Reasons for not getting a number can include, STD, stalker ex, and thinking you are to good for them. Some you can fix some you don't want to, just do not take it personally.
/r/seduction20/03/11 02:47 PM
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I am going to start with some good advice get her name, then chat with her and get her number.
/r/seduction14/03/11 04:47 PM
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Do what you do with your other wing men. Make make sure you point out good stuff about him from time to time, and give him time to tell cool stories.
/r/seduction04/03/11 05:40 PM
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Remember you never screw up, you had a learning experiences. Remember you game does not have be perfect, not all girls respond the same to game so remember to adjust.
/r/seduction08/02/11 02:49 PM
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I did not even think of getting different cards. I will have to hit the store tomorrow.
/r/seduction19/01/11 06:49 AM
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I simply play a wild rummy game. Its nice because you sit beside her and teach her how to play, lots of kino and you then get to show value by showing her something new. We never make it past a few hands on the sofa before things move forward.
/r/seduction19/01/11 06:46 AM
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I do not watch movies with girls I have not slept with. If i have a girl over we do things that require touching or talking and eye contact. Cards with music and wine has yet to fail me, you can do lots of Kino and eye contact.
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:12 PM
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Are you going to tell us who?
/r/seduction04/01/11 04:08 PM
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It depends on your location, I can do it because I am downtown and have free parking with 5 great places to take a date. I tell them I have free parking and we will go from my place once she parks. I then play it by ear if I want her to come up, I normally say I did not give my cat dinner and that gets them up. I feed the cat, give tour then off on the date. I love my cat, girls love people with animals.
/r/seduction05/11/10 02:45 PM
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I do this all the time, I use txt to flirt and to do recon about a girl. It also let's you know if she is free to call so you don't get her v-mail. Simple start txting, start flirting, then find out what she is doing, if she is not doing anything just say I am calling my my fingers are cramping. My version: 1) confirm # 2) flirt and get some recon for your call 3) make sure she is free then call her, set up meeting. 4) step up the flirting after the call.
/r/seduction03/11/10 02:47 AM
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Don't get me wrong txt is great, and important. But I use txt for flirting and the phone to form a connection before I tell her we are going out on a date. How? Once you start txting her just tell her you want to talk like a real person, and tell her you are calling her. I normally use this after a few flirty txt, give it around 20 min. Make sure you do this in the evening or a time that she is free, like non work or class hours. For me it is easier to talk to people and to get that first connec…
/r/seduction26/10/10 01:09 PM
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What are you doing on your first dates with the girls? Also try picking up the phone a calling, I never ask a girl out on a date via txt till at least the fourth date.
/r/seduction26/10/10 02:33 AM
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Use this time to practice, You have lots of girls to flirt with so practice. You should be able to talk to any girl and not feel discomfort. If you practice hard you get a ton of cute girls you are friends with this = social proof, and your a better person.
/r/seduction24/10/10 04:44 PM
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Why do people always forget this?
/r/seduction21/09/10 03:04 PM
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I like to work smarter not harder, I am not going to put time into a set or a girl that is not going to go down the path I want. I normally shift focus from the girl or eject and go open a new set, I have come to learn I enjoy myself more if I do not have to push hard. I like the case only if the girl is into being hunted, its no fun if she does not play. Girls just like men have a set idea of what they are looking for in a mate, some want fat, some want short and some want tall. I find I have a…
/r/seduction16/08/10 02:13 PM
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I think David D had it correct, attraction is not a choice. With hard work you have a shoot to create it but is it worth the time?
/r/seduction14/08/10 05:02 AM
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It is not cold, It is just true. Your advice is very good but he probably not going to be able to handle it. Your asking a man who is in love with a girl to try to be her friend, it is not as easy as it sounds. If you have ever seen a friend pine for a girl that has LJBF him you know how week it makes them seem. He is better off working on his inner game, giving her time to sort her stuff out then try again. I am not saying go bang lots of girls, just hit the gym and try to make himself better s…
/r/seduction10/08/10 02:24 AM
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This I not the place to find this advice. You are correct you don't have onitis you have a case of stupid. The best advice I can give is cut and run till the meds start to work, if she gets stable then look her up again, in a few month.
/r/seduction09/08/10 03:02 PM
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This should be added to every post that is asking for advice. I think it is valid to point it out to new users, most of the post that fall into the I need advice category seem to be from people that are not looking to be a PUA or are not looking to improve themselves. The posters that are not normal seddit readers and they think we have a magic power to help them. The only power we have is that most of us try to get out and improve our game by practice and are working on our inner game. I respec…
/r/seduction05/08/10 05:43 PM
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Stop txting and call if you have not done already done so, Txt is fun to flirt but you need to make a connection with a girl. If you have only txt you are showing poor social skills, and that is lover value. I have found some girls just suck at txting.
/r/seduction05/08/10 06:18 AM
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But what you are asking is different. Your not asking about the girl you are asking questions about opening a set. I am seeing it all to often, people that have a date with a girl or going to prom and want to know what to do. To me seduction is a study of people and of myself, it hard to give advice to people online as I can not see how they act of what they do. I help my wings all the time in person but I can see what he did and what works best with his personality.
/r/seduction03/08/10 04:19 PM
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Good job, Dont worry about trying to do it all on the first day. Start small and master that part then move on. You are progressing and that is the most important part. Try to use kino more in everyday life not just when going out. Use it at the office and if you go to the book store, just try to touch everyone you talk to. As for the number close try to keep it easy to start, use a line like this "It was nice to chat and you are very interesting we should get a coffee and chat again soon, whats…
/r/seduction03/08/10 03:39 PM
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I have one rule in times like this: Be bold but do not be needy, if you want something go for it. Tell he lets go get a drink and talk about your vacation. If she says no, you are no worse off then you are today.
/r/seduction02/08/10 06:45 PM
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I hate to say it but talk about stuff you have seen on Reddit. Have you seen the front page it has lots of crazy shit! Silvermckenzie is correct just start talking about travel, cooking, photography. Move the conversation to things she can picture doing with you, or brings up good memories. My favorite is travel, as you can start talking about how great it would be to be in the sun with her, and tell her she would have to get you drinks. I like to turn stuff it into role playing, or find a nag. …
/r/seduction23/07/10 05:04 AM
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Its ok my Dog will still be happy to see you when we get back to my place.
/r/seduction23/07/10 04:51 AM
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Concerts rock but not a first date. Go get a bit of food before, and start Kino early. At the concert hold her hand as you walk around and and make sure you Kino her as much as posible, I like talk into her ear so its like I am going to nibble her ear during the opening band. Be confident and make sure you have fun, also have a plan for after if all goes good. Meet at your place and drive to the train or bus to go down to the concert so you have a reason to show her something in your place. I su…
/r/seduction23/07/10 04:29 AM
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I welcome a female opinion, hell 50% of you could be female. Advice is a opinion and to me the more I know the more power I have to make a better decision. Personally I dont ask for advice, I have my own game, and it works darn good. I do like to use this site for new ideas, for things to look look out for, and to think about what I would do if I was in the place of the person asking for help. Today I developed a response for if a girl says she want to be a nun, I no longer have to think hard on…
/r/seduction23/07/10 03:32 AM
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Very True, I also think some of the members are not ready for that yet. I would say that applies to anyone that post in seddit looking for us to pull of some magic and help them get the girl.
/r/seduction23/07/10 02:04 AM
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Your assuming I fail! I am good at telling a shit test or if a girl is playing the ASD. I have a feeling the person asking the question is not as good as I am. You have to admit hard to type about something you need to experience. Thats is why we all say get the hell out in the field. I think that is the hard part about giving advice on the net comes down to every choice I make I have nine other things to look at to verify if it is true. If I was given the Nun line I would ask questions about ch…
/r/seduction23/07/10 01:53 AM
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I did not say religious people will not have sex, but NUN is the god dam best ASD I have ever come across. Its 50% one way 50% the other, personally I would lean towards the not going to happen side. I would cut my losses friend her and move on.
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:13 PM
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I think you did ok you have the sex. You know what you could do better next time, so do it. Your smart at playing up the bad girl part, once you get that line you did the correct thing by running with it. Having a girl tell you she is a bad girl is a massive IOI.
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:34 PM
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You sound like the rant on Hollywood from the Blueprint. Some of my best openers and reasons I stay in sets 80% of the time is because I have been able to talk with girls about what they think and what turns them on. I am not talking Hollywood stuff or Mom why does she not like me shit. I am talking deep what makes girls tick and gets them wet stuff. You ask five girls what makes them hot about a man your going to get five different responses, if you can find out what a girl is most turned on in…
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:12 PM
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I am going to ask a question then give a rant! Question: What is the first thing you notice when you have a man open a set on your group? Rant: I think we see lots of crapy advice on \seddit, I dont think one more keyboard jockey is going to hurt. Personally I dont think seduction as it is practiced today or preached on reddit is very effective. It asumes every girl that is a HB is wired the same and the same tricks are going to work. If that is the case why do some people have to open so many s…
/r/seduction22/07/10 08:56 PM
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Your missing the point! She is not telling you how to do it, she is a sounding board giving advice from a angle that most men can never hope to imagine. When I talk to girls I am trying to find out what she is thinking so I can beat her too it. Picking up girls is like a chess match, you need to be 8 moves in front. If you understand they type of girl you are hitting on you can change the approach and increase your chances. I think it is great she would give a opinion. Most of what makes me good…
/r/seduction22/07/10 08:36 PM
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SHE'S CONSIDERING BECOMING A NUN! Is the key. Your not going to hit that before you stand in a church. That is if she does not go with god first. Your Call!
/r/seduction22/07/10 06:51 PM
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I am reworking my idea on this because I am not good at following my own advice. Girl with boyfriend is ok, as long as you dont expect to date her. If you want to date her do yourself a favor and just flirt with her and use Kino. You could use a push pull too I would use "It too bad you have a boyfriend because if you ended up being single you would be in trouble." This will also get what she wants out in the open. She has three option to this. 1) She will ignore it, but she knows you have inten…
/r/seduction22/07/10 04:46 PM
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IOI's do not count for teacher, bar staff, or people that are paid to be nice to you. ThrowawayPUA is correct, the best thing you can do is start laying ground work for when you are out of the class. Use lots of Kino and ask questions about them, this also makes it so you know if you have a shot. Why spend time on a TA that has a long term boyfriend. Or you could always just find a HB8 and role play!
/r/seduction21/07/10 03:08 PM
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Do not use the wall just message her and do it sooner then later, the two day rule is shit. Avoid asking cheep questions, that can not be added too, and add no value. A good question would be: Wow, you like biking what got you starting in the sport and do you race? You could then ask her later if she has a favorite rider in the Tour. You want to ask questions that are going to make her type at least a 6 lines of txt. You need to add value and show you know how to hold a conversation, because you…
/r/seduction21/07/10 02:53 PM
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If she adds you to Facebook get her number and move things off Facebook. Why did you not get her number was it just bad timing? This is what I do, get her to add her to your phone ask for her phone and add yourself. Make sure you let her now your going to test the number, this way you always get a real number. Txt her the next day let her now you enjoyed meeting her, txt a few times them call her. Do not do dinner, get a coffee and go for a walk, and Kino the hell out of her. She has already kis…
/r/seduction20/07/10 10:18 PM
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If she says no, make it it into a game. Verbal sparring is always fun if the girl is into it, you can look at it as your first shit test. I am going to try this one it sounds like fun.
/r/seduction20/07/10 10:09 PM
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You want her or you do not, just tell her what you want the worst thing is she says no and you move on. If you really do not want a relationship with her then you should not care what your standing is. Best thing for one-itis is make a move or move on.
/r/seduction20/07/10 09:56 PM
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Do not hang with you problem friends if your going out to Sarge. Go out with them for fun but never expect to get any real hardcore sets opened. Also try to look for DHV in all you embarrassing stories, most of the time you can find something.
/r/seduction20/07/10 09:50 PM
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Some girls are just more crazy then others. I have had the same thing happen to me when I first go into the game, and I run into this from time to time. It sounds like you are doing a good job so far, but to make sure your not wasting your time check a few things out. Do the hand squeeze to her, when you hold squeeze if she squeeze back you going to be ok. To get the kiss you need to build some tension, nothing does this like looking into her eyes and smiling. I agree with ClevelandPUA try to ge…
/r/seduction20/07/10 05:16 PM
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Stand out is rule #1. Make sure you limit the talk about yourself but when you do make sure you show you are fun, have sense of drive, and can show some compassion. Its showing DHV but in a softer way. Stay away from work, money, and car questions and focus on her dreams and also cool things she has done. I have been working on the compassion part and chicks love it, the trick is to not come off as a pussy, you need to do it in the I am a dark artist way.
/r/seduction20/07/10 04:50 PM
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Lot of PUA stuff to pick from and personally I tell people to look around at different PUA stuff. To many people try to pull of the wrong style and just look like dicks. I have had a few wings change style mid game as they felt that one method did not work for them.
/r/seduction14/07/10 08:16 PM
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I give the very limited info as I too have a job that just makes girls look at me funny. I dont like to talk about what I do when first meeting girls at bars, also every AFC in the bar uses that type of stuff. I have a short response that stresses I love my job, then change subjects. The app thing is very cool. You should make a app that helps a person run game. I spend $ on that.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:41 PM
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Get one of the free papers, the one that lists all the shows and art stuff around town. Make a list of stuff going on you like and bring it up. I have used this a few times, it has worked to move the person to a new place. I also Have been able to see a few cool local bands too.
/r/seduction13/07/10 12:04 AM
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You are so correct! For the love of god people just call! If you have problems with keeping it going make a list of stuff to chat about, you can not build or show value with a txt. Topics: food, travel, art, movies, music and remember no SciFi or gaming talk.
/r/seduction12/07/10 11:59 PM
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I would friend her and see if she has any hot friends, the worst case is she departs the company then you no longer have to worry about drama. I find too many people dont think about how useful a network of people can be, all they want to do is get instant gratification. It works great for me as I normally have the pick of a few options on the weekend as my social circle is getting very big. The way I look at it is a girl is like a seed, if you plant it you can get more fruit.
/r/seduction12/07/10 03:34 PM
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If you are looking for a relationship go for it, if you are just looking for a role in the sack do not do it. If I am attraction for someone for my core group i.e. work, sports, and friends I tend to play it safe. That means I only make a move if I want to date them, then I have a two date rule. The two date rule is no sex till date three, first two are to find out if it works between us, this keeps drama to the lowest level because I can always friend zone her if I want. I have made lots of goo…
/r/seduction11/07/10 09:31 PM
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To me this comes off as passive aggressive, and most girls dont fond it to attractive as it is a sign of lesser value. Solution is simple just change the subject, it is that easy. My favorite way is by using this simple approach, complement then change subject. "Wow that is cool! So anyways, that reminds me of such and such" Just shift it to something different.
/r/seduction11/06/10 04:34 AM
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She could not respond well to txt's. I have a friend that does not txt she is all about the phone call, she finds in a lower form of communication. Or as I said she coud just not have time to get back to you at the moment. Or you got pity sex and she does not want to talk to you again, or she liked aspects about you but you are not the man she is looking for so she is moving on. It best not to over think it as she possibly does not even know. Give it a week then just call her, and see if she wan…
/r/seduction10/06/10 04:06 AM
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Slow down take a deep breath! Some people have stuff to do, like work hard and travel. Stop txting her and thinking about her, get back out and meet other people. If she gets back to you great if not no sleep lost.
/r/seduction09/06/10 01:50 PM
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WTF "However it's funny when the drug dealers cheer me on when I talk to girls" It sounds like you do pickup in a war zone. I will give you props on that! Have you tried working a place that is not so crazy?
/r/seduction02/06/10 07:36 PM
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Make sure you play to the personality type of the younger girls you are working on. If she is fun and out going make sure you show her that side of yourself.
/r/seduction02/06/10 04:52 PM
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Happy birthday!
/r/seduction02/06/10 03:00 PM
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First be yourself, and dont think you have to lift to be attractive but you need to be in shape. Most girls just want a man that looks fit, not fat or sloppy. You also have to learn that you have to show value to people or why should they invest time in you. To do this you dont have to come up with a crazy story just make sure you show your worth. Why? because this is what girls look for in partners: Can I show him off to my friends (looks). Can he hold a conversation and is he interesting (DHV)…
/r/seduction01/06/10 07:57 PM
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Always assume she is into you if she does not blow you out at the start! You sound like you are not moving forward because you are missing almost every IOI, if she is still talking to you and is interested that is the keep going signal. The other girl was telling you to ask her friend for her number, as she was done with your wing. If your wing looks like he is having trouble, I always get the digits before he gets fully blown out.
/r/seduction01/06/10 05:53 PM
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You can do so much with this, girls love hair. Work on a few stories that can also be used as a DHV, have fun with it. I miss my wing with great hair that boy had most of his game built around his hair, hell I even used hair to open sets. He used it as a reason to Kino, if you can touch a girls hair and smell her it's golden!
/r/seduction01/06/10 05:17 AM
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Cruel and harsh things? Can you go into more detail, this does not sound normal. Are you getting more then just blown out?
/r/seduction01/06/10 05:05 AM
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Act like yourself, be confident and outgoing be upfront and state what you want. She knows that you know that she has a boyfriend, it was on her Facebook and you did this all on Facebook. I agree with Skylon its not great to try to steal a girl, if its just having fun with her is ok for some people but if you get into a relationship your not ever going to trust her. If it was me I would just show intrest in her, see how the movie goes if you still get the vibe from her just ask what the deal is.…
/r/seduction31/05/10 02:30 AM
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I also think people have to take into account the age and personality of the girl, txt with a younger person is going to be different then a older person. I have also found some girls that hate when people txt them.
/r/seduction29/05/10 10:31 PM
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Sorry It was from a different part of this post.
/r/seduction29/05/10 10:29 PM
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Oh Shit! Asians have smilies? And a sending to many can friend zone you? I have a feeling you are putting to much onto txt.
/r/seduction29/05/10 06:40 PM
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It is one thing to know how to play the game, but you have to go out and play the game to score. The game is always changing and it will keep doing so as people change, a true PUA understands this and can make the changes needed.
/r/seduction26/05/10 05:16 AM
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If done in the correct way to the correct girl this could work, I am so trying this next time I go out.
/r/seduction19/05/10 04:48 AM
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Your getting downvoted because you are talking crazy, its like going into the /r/icecream and saying how much you do not like to make to make Ice Cream.
/r/seduction19/05/10 04:24 AM
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Religious morals, some girls no matter how hard you try are just not going to give it up. Personally I find girls with this problem they will tend not to lead you on if she has a idea she is being hit on. I am not saying all religious girls are all like this but some are. If a girl does not have religious morals standing in the way you have just not given her a good reason, to go home with you. You have to prove you are not creepy or a stalker. lastly you have to give her a reason to break her d…
/r/seduction19/05/10 03:08 AM
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Your fucked, If you want a easy girl get a hooker. Girls like to hook up but they need to have things fall into place first. If you don't like small talk try getting into a deeper light conversation first. I never ask about a girls job, what part of town she lives, or any of that BS. I go for the gold, what do you do for fun? Do you travel what places have you been, and what do you think of the next trip I have planed? I just skip the small talk, if you have a life it is easy to just talk about …
/r/seduction18/05/10 09:31 PM
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I make friends with people when I am out, but I find the best way to find a wing is to go to a club or place you like and see if people are running game. It is very easy yo spot if you have done any reading, chat with them and ask them if they are looking to add a new wing. I am lucky as my city has about 46 active people so it is very easy to find a wing depending on what I am looking for.
/r/seduction17/05/10 03:28 PM
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I do not agree with this, but you do stand a good chance of moving forward. Your new so keep it simple! 1) Be yourself! 2) Be confident 3) Use Kino 4) If things are going good, dont be afraid to escalate. If she responds to Kino go for the kiss, if that goes ok keep moving forward. You sound like you are looking for help with this one girl, so keep it simple. If you want to get better with girls start looking into sedate info in more detail and get out and practice. Since you are new be aware pe…
/r/seduction17/05/10 03:11 PM
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Do not forget about the Bro Code.
/r/seduction17/05/10 12:27 AM
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She has the correct idea. To get around this you need to frame it so the girls do not feel like they are being sluts! Ask her question about stuff she could have around her place during the night, remember this stuff and play into it later. Try to change venue to get food or something similar, this will help her think you did not just take her home from the club. Say to her and her friends, lets get some food. Once you have her out of the club and you had food try this. "It so cool you have (Ins…
/r/seduction14/05/10 01:49 PM
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Just start doing more Kino, if she likes you it will help speed things up. If you think the queue think it was a IOI but your not sure then try a different IOI test. If you get a positive back start even more kino, build trust and then close. If a girl has already developed a attraction to you then you have to screw things up real bad to fail.
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:29 PM
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Don't expect an honest answer most of the time, most girls will tell you stuff just so they don't hurt your feelings, and so they don’t feel like a shallow ass. If you fail most of the time it is because you did not fit the type of person she expected from you or you did not match what she wanted. My view is all girls have a type of person they see themselves ending up with. Think of it as if you like blonds with big buts you tend to gravitate to that type of girl, but you will still try a burne…
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:21 PM
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Was a good read, It basically affirmed what I have believed for a long time. 1) Get yourself together. Gym, Style, and confidence. 2) Find a community outside the net! Can be seduction or activity based, the more you add the better. 3) Practice metting girls, learn from what you see. 4) Use kino, be direct, and dont be afraid to close.
/r/seduction07/05/10 04:14 PM
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NO!!!! You had something on your face or you did not shave.
/r/seduction30/04/10 06:40 PM
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You want to show value but if you show too much you look like a dick! Calibrate to the girl, problem solved.
/r/seduction29/04/10 06:04 AM
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The core PUA stuff is all the same, confidence, improve yourself, and practice. I would suggest looking at stuff like David Deangelo and Tyler Durden, you should be looking at a more natural method. In my opinion PUA stuff is more about meeting people and knowing how to talk to them in a way that gets you what you want. I use the foundation of the natural method for work and with friends all the time, its not just for picking up girls its for making friends and improving yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/10 08:50 PM
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It seems people forget about the non-sexual asset, I find that if your friend zone a hot girl you can double your action, I have two girls that are doing this today. It would have been drama if i hooked up with them, but I have zero drama if I take out the hot friends. I purposely friend zone girls at work and different clubs I am part off, also as a side note I have found it drives girls nuts if you friend zone them first.
/r/seduction23/04/10 02:46 AM
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What time was it?
/r/seduction22/04/10 09:36 PM
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