tarnok Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	She wanted a trip to Dubai for her birthday.... Damn, I didn't realize that. Sorry misunderstood your text. Look, I'm sure you feel like you still love her and all that. That's valid. But you need to disengage and remove yourself from the situation so that you can properly assess what to do next. So leave. Pack up and leave and go somewhere safe for a couple days if you live together. If not, block the phonecalls, block her texts, block on FB and just take a fucking breather. Have a buddy, a brother, a sister or any friend come over and chill…	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/07/20 05:28 PM
0	She wanted a trip to Dubai for her birthday.... You're looking in the wrong subreddit for a coherent discussion about love, responsibility, what's best for the child who is the innocent one, etc. I like most of your points, you're just in the wrong subreddit for discussion, friend.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/07/20 05:11 PM
1	She wanted a trip to Dubai for her birthday.... Dude, you keep going back. Clearly you like being disrespected. Why she gonna respect you if you have no respect for yourself? FUCKING LEAVE.	/r/PussyPassDenied	29/07/20 05:03 PM
2	Model says she gets approached 70+ times a week Succinct.	/r/seduction	20/09/13 08:31 PM
17	You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them? From a pure health standpoint I would agree with that assessment.	/r/seduction	24/05/13 08:07 PM
40	You're sitting on your college cafeteria alone and you notice a small group of girls sitting on a table. You don't know them and they don't know you. How you would make an approach to one of them? Don't be ugly. For a large majority of guys IMO that simply means: Shower (Smell nice). Groom your hair in some way. Trim your beard / make it neat if you have one. Wear clean clothes that look good on you. Basically don't look like you just crawled out of bed.	/r/seduction	24/05/13 07:15 PM
2	[FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachother Wrong place, wrong time. Fucking weird. Main thing is you survived, you know you can handle that so it ultimately made you stronger. Good job on the no reaction. Like a boss.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 01:17 AM
2	I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMA I cant wait to master my fear.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 10:41 PM
2	I am Cajun: woodsman, alcoholic, beard connoisseur, and lead instructor at Love Systems. AMA I wish we could have a scotch and chat up here in Canada. Thank you for doing this.	/r/seduction	30/07/12 04:59 AM
2	[FR] I really wish you could all feel how I do right now Excellent my brother! To you I nod my head!	/r/seduction	23/06/12 09:09 PM
4	[FR] First night out; Pool party - Truth or Dare - Threesome (long) The best things happen outside of your comfort zone.	/r/seduction	03/06/12 07:07 PM
2	Oneitis: What it is and isn't, and why it matters. Thank you! Perfect post. The amount of times I've had to explain that pursuing one girl at a time isn't bad. Pursuing one girl you've put on a pedestal and NEVER talked too or hung out with or wont return your feelings is oneitis and obsessive...	/r/seduction	15/05/12 08:11 PM
2	[FR] Solo, first time out... Holy shit. Excellent. All I would have done differently is tried to bring the girl home that night, with something along the lines of "let's do an afterparty back at my place I have some wine" or "Lets watch <insert scifi movie here>" or even just asking her to grab post-drink food down the street. From my experience even if she says no she'll still remember that and your attractiveness goes up. Either way excellent and bravo buddy.	/r/seduction	22/03/12 06:38 PM
18	People WILL flake on you. Don't take it personally; just stop waiting for others and take initiative. Flakes are my #1 issue at the moment. Hoping its just the luck of the draw, but if there is something I can do to decrease it I'm all ears. Other then pushing forward of course.	/r/seduction	17/03/12 05:51 AM
1	[FR] TofuTofu & TheEngDude pick up two 20 year olds in Pizzeria -> f-closed 'em both like bosses Can we be friends? Awesome FR sir.	/r/seduction	16/03/12 06:25 AM
2	Don't Be ANY Of These 5 Guys On Valentine's Day [Funny & True] Great list. What about sending one or two texts out? Should I not be texting at all and wishing any of the ladies I'm interested in a happy vday? What about old flings to see if the water is still warm?	/r/seduction	14/02/12 06:37 AM
1	[FR] Baby steps guys, this shit works Awesome job buddy! I RES tagged you to follow your progress! Cheers, and always be having fun. Always be out just trying to find the truth!	/r/seduction	30/01/12 09:55 AM
1	What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl? Buddy think what you want, all the power to you, just trying to help you out from my perspective. Your post seems unnecessarily negative. I did however actively chose them as my friends. I synced very well with them and their looks were an afterthought. They happen to be beautiful, but beauty is common. My point above was to indicate that their beauty wasn't the deciding factor. My apologies for the confusion. And I'll be friends with anyone who isn't either a total bitch or a douchebag. Why sho…	/r/seduction	25/01/12 04:28 AM
3	What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl? Dude seriously? Rethink about the kind of person you are if its that black and white to you. What you stated isn't the case whatsoever. I have two girls who I love and are beautiful and are my best friends. I would not be where I am without them (and it is a good place). We do everything for each other, have dinner dates,they cook I clean or we switch. Have random drunk excursions or help each other out with work and classes. Talk all night or just chill out. They are my bros with the bodies of …	/r/seduction	24/01/12 06:43 AM
20	How to defuse a situation by being above it Funny that you mentioned "chest bumping" because sometimes when I am in a group and the guys around start the proverbial dick wagging contest they do like "I banged this girl" "That girl is a slut" "I kicked that guys ass", "What a fag" etc I actually start acting like a gorilla. I thump my chest with my knuckles and make gorilla sounds, the girls start laughing and the guys have no idea how to react.	/r/seduction	01/08/11 04:10 PM
1	Is there a place online to meet fellow wings? Not really anything good imo. Ive been looking for a wing here in the tri area of kitchener/waterloo/guelph. No luck. GL to you bro	/r/seduction	01/08/11 01:35 AM
5	Approach anxiety, it never goes away: deal with it. I wish I had a wingman. That is my excuse 90% of the time.	/r/seduction	16/07/11 07:10 AM
4	(FR)15 rejections in a row You said it best: "Girls don't bite". Once you get extremely comfortable with this fact you will already be above 90% of the men out there who wait for love to hit them in the face.	/r/seduction	12/06/11 07:00 PM
3	Highseddit asks you: What do you wish you'd known in terms of seduction/social dynamics in high school/before college? What can we get away with in high school and what can we do to prepare before college? Unorthodox advice is encouraged, as we know/have read the books (MM, ConqYC) Have the mentality that you will never EVER see these people again after HS. In College / University everyone will be busy with their own crap that most of the social dynamics you were used to in HS hold no basis. You get to reinvent yourself. It is amazing. Go WAAAAAY out of your comfort zone, go anywhere. That girl you think is hot in your calculus class? Sit down with her in the cafe. Be cocky, if someone tries to mess with you, disarm them and become their friends. You have 30 days to do eve…	/r/seduction	16/05/11 05:26 AM
3	I've been thinking this for a long time but I haven't gotten around to posting it. Must we have an open discussion of the same cliched tired crap over and over again? At what point does "open discussion" mean to constantly be battered by someone who has shown ZERO understanding, ZERO experience and ZERO knowledge of even reading 2% of anything written here on a daily basis? You are like George Bush going into a NASA conference and saying "My daddy says them stars are big balls of gas. The rest of you are shallow trying to learn more." Pure ignorance. You have made zero observa…	/r/seduction	06/05/11 05:55 AM
3	I've been thinking this for a long time but I haven't gotten around to posting it. You do not get it. There is no "us" and "them". There is no one giving "US" a bad name. People give THEMSELVES a bad name. All we are doing is sharing information. We are not a groupie, we are not an alliance. There are no factions. The difference between someone in the seduction community and someone who is good at getting mates naturally is that we break the situation down and give it names. We analyze our interactions, and hone our skills. We ask for each others advice or input. We are "mostl…	/r/seduction	06/05/11 03:08 AM
3	I've been thinking this for a long time but I haven't gotten around to posting it. Troll.	/r/seduction	05/05/11 11:56 PM
1	The main problem with seduction advice Not really seeing it as "tricking" anyone because tricking implies deceit. True seduction is about being forward and honest with your intentions towards someone and turning them on at the same time. In fact seduction is more about honesty then anything else. Who gets the girl, the man who shows he wants her from the get-go or the beta friend who has had a crush on her for 3 years and she doesn't know?	/r/seduction	20/04/11 06:49 PM
1	[FR] Last call threesome pull Oh wow I want one. Wish they shipped to Canada or there was a place in Toronto that sold them, or similar!	/r/seduction	11/04/11 09:43 AM
6	Seddit, I'm thinking of soloing at a bar tonight. Advice? You should still go out, the less prepared you feel, the better IMO. You don't need magic, that was just an example. All you need to do is be interesting and confident. You already ARE an interesting person, you have interesting ideas. That's all the material you need. Play games, be silly, be yourself.	/r/seduction	24/03/11 12:48 AM
2	You are only limiting yourself! A Self-Confidence article. Both annunak1 and JayTS, your posts describe me perfectly. I do feel my issues stem from both a family that expects greatness from me, and moderate hearing loss that I was born with. I miss out on about 40% - 60% of what everyone says to me on first go-round. I can or could wear a hearing aid but I've never grown accustomed to it and wearing one only brings up my hearing a few notches. I will wake up somedays and go "I'm fucking awesome, wait for a legendary day with myself". By the end of the n…	/r/seduction	24/03/11 12:27 AM
2	This week in AskSeddit – Facebook, texting 101, and what's made the biggest difference in your game? Awesome! A million upvotes!	/r/seduction	19/03/11 04:37 AM
3	Being pressured into relationship? You said it yourself. You aren't interested in this girl romantically, so don't look for that. Look for other women to be in your life, if she still wants you in a particularly intimate way just let her know your expectations and what you wont be doing (commitment) and learn hers.	/r/seduction	02/03/11 11:55 AM
17	Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one." You are awesome, never forget that. And you deserve to be with someone who treats you as a human being, not a ATM with a dick as the keypad. We all deserve to be loved, not used and abused.	/r/seduction	02/03/11 03:51 AM
6	Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one." Italian accent "Lets just say... I Help our uncle give people offers they cannot refuse"	/r/seduction	02/03/11 03:42 AM
0	Dear Nice Guy Friend Ignore the troll. Your posts are VERY helpful, even if I disagree on points, hence the point of discussions. You aren't anything but another human being.	/r/seduction	28/02/11 06:46 AM
3	David Wygant is Here in this thread to ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS! Q&A TIME! You are well within reach of attracting ANY woman you want? LoL No one here but you claims that. You are all text and you don't make sense. Everyone has their own taste in physical attractiveness and other qualities, I do not think ANYONE has said otherwise. I may find those same women who you describe as "high value" as ugly and unattractive and want NOTHING to do with them. Plus, you are stereotyping and lumping all women you find attractive as behaving the same way, and that is just impossibl…	/r/seduction	23/02/11 10:40 AM
2	The infamous 'Loverboy Tribute to Sarging' video (uncensored version - NSFW) - if you haven't seen this you need to, especially if getting your heart broken by a girl inspired you to start doing this Thank you for posting this, never seen it. I just started lurking in the community recently, I broke up 6 months ago with my GF of 8 years at the time, (lots of discussions of marriage, family and long happy lives together down the drain) I truly believe we loved each other, but people sometimes grow up together, apart. I've only started to dig myself out of the grave I'm lying in. Any little bit of inspiration helps.	/r/seduction	12/01/11 09:03 AM