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| 2 | What Self-Love *ACTUALLY* is.Yeah my bad, I was going off memory. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 10:22 PM |
| 0 | What Self-Love *ACTUALLY* is.If this is what OP means, it could be written more clearly and indicated as such. When one says explicitly "WITHOUT EFFORT", my first interpretation of that phrase isn't "with effort of a certain kind meant to be assumed". I like clear language in posts like this, hence my criticisms. Its very hard to communicate a concept like self love to people. Communication relies on a shared understanding of concepts. Op says without effort, I take that to mean without trying, like you become better at som… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | What Self-Love *ACTUALLY* is.Realize your perception is colored with pessimist tinted glasses. Op said self love is an important part of seduction, and explained what it mean to him. You got triggered as if his post was telling you specifically to just "let it go and accept your thoughts and they will pass" which is true for 99% of the population. Did you see this article on a potential explanation for intrusive thoughts? A small % of the population will lack this chemical, and it will be very difficult for them to overcome… | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | What Self-Love *ACTUALLY* is.try less | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Man sues restaurant for charging "man tax".Who would sue? The government doesn't just issue you fines in cases like this. The government would represent the people being discriminated against on their behalf, and sue/charge them with violating a statute. Then if they proved that in court they would be fined a judgement. For an agency to directly fine someone they have to have authority to do so. Like congress has delegated to fcc violations, and your health inspector can use city laws to fine people. This is a precedent against discrimin… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Man sues restaurant for charging "man tax".Look at me I have the power now | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 07:14 PM |
| 9 | Man sues restaurant for charging "man tax".Part of me thinks he did it all just to prove a point and get a nice settlement. You don't register for a ladies and non binary night unless you plan on shit stirring. And good on him, its illegal to do ladies night in california. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Man who caught and filmed his wife cheating on him faces prison time.Burglary is unlawful entry of someone else's home. And with his intent to record them its textbook burglary. There is an expectation of privacy, you can't just barge into someone home to bust them. Imagine if neighbors could just barge in recording illegal activity and then call the cops to arrest them. You can't just record people in their home that you broke into either. Thats the unlawful survailence. It's fucked up they are throwing the book at him. Its fucked up he went into another persons… | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Man who caught and filmed his wife cheating on him faces prison time.He could be out on parole in 5... | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/17 05:17 PM |
| 4 | Judge Judy Gets ItIt's a judges duty to sniff out bullshit and analyze people. If you were mad enough at the end to call her a bitch. Then there was obvious changes in your tone and demeanor during the trial. A family court judge literally has to judge you and predict how you will be raising that kid. If you are getting pissed off in court, you likely will get pissed off at home. A judge will not favor an angry and potentially abusive parent over one who paints them self as calm, collected, and caring. A bias onl… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Judge Judy Gets ItGot it. Your likely borderline personality disorder with a giant victim complex. Must be an interesting world to live in. How is it having people despise you because you piss them off and then blame your problems on them. How often do you get into heated interaction. Spoiler, normal people might get into a few heated situations over years. I'm betting your at the once a month level. You probably brake check people who cut you off and then try and get out of your car to fight them. "I called you … | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:49 PM |
| 6 | Judge Judy Gets ItNo. You don't get to be the victim in this. Holy fuck dude, you've got a giant victim complex. You come onto reddit and bitch about judge judy with no context. Then you provide context. Yet all of it is along the lines of, "SHES A MAN HATING BITCH" "I CALLED HER A MAN HATING BITCH AND SHE DIDNT CAVE IN TO MY WANTS" Like fuck dude. Think about how you acted in court. Yes there was a bias against you. But you literally got so pissed in court you called the judge and lawyers out. Do you think thats… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Judge Judy Gets ItI know right. I'm going to get progessivly more angry as court goes on. I know it's literally the judges job to observe, and learn about who these people are then make a best judgement decision in the childs best interest. But fuck her man hating ass, I bet if I call her a man hating bitch she will realize her bias against me And he's surprised she awarded custody to the calm, collected mom who presented a great image in court just like her lawyer said. Instead of the bitter woman hating man tha… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Judge Judy Gets ItI know right. I'm going to get progessivly more angry as court goes on. I know it's literally the judges job to observe, and learn about who these people are then make a best judgement decision in the childs best interest. But fuck her man hating ass, I bet if I call her a man hating bitch she will realize her bias against me And he's surprised she awarded custody to the calm, collected mom who presented a great image in court just like her lawyer said. Instead of the bitter woman hating man tha… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:34 PM |
| 11 | Judge Judy Gets ItLol. And the teapot calls the kettle black. I tried to be nice to her, and state my and my daughter's case. She got more excessively nasty than before. I finally snapped, after an hour, and told her, and every other lawyer in the room what I thought of them. I individually called them man hating bitch, one by one. That's not how court works. You don't get to become emotionally unstable infront of the judge and call everyone names, AND get custody of your daughter. She doesn't hate all men, she h… | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:23 PM |
| 10 | Judge Judy Gets ItThe butt of those jokes were often litigants who Sheindlin felt wasted her time or made excuses So you read this and still think the only reason is she's a man hater. It didn't possible dawn on you that you bullshited and made excuses and wasted her time. And that pissed her off? Weed is a drug. Even if for medical uses, it is still a drug that produces smoke and judges despise the idea of second hand marijuana smoke. Your excuses will only make it worse. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Judge Judy Gets ItYou seem like the kinda guy to call your babies momma a "dumb whore" in court and go into some rant about how she fucked around on you. Only to realize the judge doesn't give a fuck, and see's you as emotionally unstable/abusive and awarded custody to the mother. | /r/MensRights | 24/05/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys who go to the gym are pussiesI think you were looking for "just addicted to food." You don't get to obese without an unhealthy relationship with carbs. Obese kids are a major indicator of potential parental failures. In a perfect world a kid will know how to handle boredom and failure and hunger without resorting to thousands of calories of carbs or desserts. If you grew up obese and only got larger it was a large failure on your parents part. But its also their own choices and most parents won't deny their little addicted … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/04/17 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherI agree with you on some points. If you are overweight please research metabolic disease. Your body doesn't work the same way the thin assholes who bash does. You have an insulin problem. You will have to do something like a ketogenic diet to hack the problem. Metabolic Syndrome is caused by being fat, once your fat long enough you develop it and things become harder. Fat people break there bodies natural insulin cycle, often by eating to many carbs too often. As a result they experience intense… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherBecause biology. Men are larger, and have more muscle mass. Mens bodies take more energy to run. A 5'1 male and 5'1 female will have similar BMR. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/17 04:52 PM |
| 6 | Fat fuck gets denied by own brotherCalories are calories. You will lose weight if you eat at a deficit. If you eat shit food, eg pure carbs like mashed potatoes. You can eat 1000+ calories and be hungry 3 hours later. You have to actually move your body, and eat HEALTHY. Nope. Lock someone in a cage with 500 calories a day and the weight will fall off. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/03/17 04:45 PM |
| 179 | A living statue gets revenge for getting pushedHow can she slap!! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/02/17 08:45 PM |
| 3 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityyes | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityNah man. Learn from this, thats what life is about. I'm just giving you a harsh objective view. It wasn't to be. You tried, now move on to the next girl and try again. At most 10% of the girls you meet will be receptive to you. Just critically read your interactions so when shes for sure unrceptive you can move on and find the one who is. You could have spent a bunch of money, changed your plans, taken her out to dinner. And then she just turns her head away when you go in for a kiss and says I … | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and ability"But not like boyfriend, girlfriend yeah?" with her French accent. Haha But when farewell, I asked her to hug me which she did. :) Thats not a joke. Thats her flat out rejecting any possibilty of romantic interest for the third time. "You should go to France and spend some time there", I replied "Or maybe I can find myself a French girl". She laughed and said "But not me, I have a boyfriend in Paris Asserting a friends only level. A hehe, maybe. Is receptive. Saying I have a boyfriend, is not. I… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityYes, I am not confident with my riding skill (of course, I am not confident with something I am obviously not good at). But I was actually pretty confident in approaching her and talking. Women spend a lot of their life breaking down social situations and people. They feel it subconsciously when a guy is in-congruent in his attitude. You can't ignore her tests and go in for a limp handshake and finish it out asking for a hug; and claim confidence. You would have addressed her boyfriend with some… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityThat wasn't my point. My point was theres a list of reasons she may never like you, and they are out of your control. Each girl has her own list, all about finding someones list your compatible with. You can't change if she likes tall dudes, maybe she likes short dudes. Find out and if shes receptive to you, stick around. When shes not showing signs of interest and rejecting sexual advances its time to move on. | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityTo some. I prefer the polarization method. You want to polarize people to become receptive or unreceptive quickly, and work on those receptive and move on from those not. Most people balance on neutral. You start flirting with a girl, she drifts away, you can try some game neggs or w/e to try and reengage her. But if shes still cold, why obsess and put in so much more effort to try and turn this one cold chick around. Move on to the next girl and see how she responds to you. There's no rejection… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:55 PM |
| 2 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityShe believes she is. With enough game someone might be able to sweep her off her feet and bang her. I'm sure it's happened in the past and will again. But I do not get that skill level or confidence from op. You can put on a face, but if your worried about your shirt or how well you can ride a bike, you aren't acting with pure confidence. And any anxiety is going to trigger her anxiety about cheating. She needs to be lost in the moment. I just don't think op should be changing his plans and bank… | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep the energy going?Caffeine, sugar | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Party in a few daysBetter reserve one of those guest rooms so you two can bang! Triangle. Her eyes should be normally darting between your two eyes. When she starts to make a triangle looking at your lips. You can kiss her. Don't wait for a perfect moment, or the end, just go for it | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Last shot of the semesterGo and fuck some chick at a bar so your not so obsessed over the one girl that is constantly hit on by all the ee neckbeards. Aka, you've got very little chance with your attitude and environment. Picking up smart engineer girls is ridiculously difficult. So flaky | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Best non-basic first dates?It is really fucking basic though. It's better than a movie I guess. Drinks, bar show, small concert, comedy club, karaoke, art exhibit, fancy ice cream shop, your boat, the beach, a park. Having dinner for 2 hours then going home is basic. Do something fun | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 02:59 PM |
| 6 | I hug-closed a French girl in Bali but everything was ruined by my lack of experience and abilityShe has a boyfriend. Girls don't cheat unless they want to really. It's not worth the effort trying to change her mind when she's already decided you want to bang and she's faithful. Move on. Find a girl who isn't with someone. Don't cancel your plans for a girl who already explicitly told you not, not sexual, and all you want is sexual | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get girlfriend back, how should I handle this?So she broke up with you to bang your friend and who knows who else? Are you sure she wasn't doing this the whole time? Being clingy wont help. Move on for a bit. When she gets bored, if through your non rose tinted glasses, she seems worth it, get back together. But stop chasing and obsessing. | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 08:14 PM |
| 3 | [22M] Cockblocked by my [21F] friend. What should I have done and is there any way to save this?Im gonna apoologize in advance for being harsh, but heres how I translate your convo. Me: "C let's hang out sometime". C: "yeah! I'll see you at (concert our group planned on going to in 3 weeks" As a friend would at a bar Me: "I had a great time tonight, let's do something before that." C: "well you know, I'll be hanging out with B maybe we'll see eachother". No Me: "I want to see you alone. I'm asking you out". C: "I really don't know.. But I'll definitely see you at (concert)". No, for sure n… | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 07:43 PM |
| 5 | [22M] Cockblocked by my [21F] friend. What should I have done and is there any way to save this?Theres another way this could have gone down. C likes to get drunk. She gets a little crazy when she does. B is her friend, and they have an agreement that B will intervene if anything too crazy starts to happen. Girls do this all the time. B was disspointed you were taking advantage of her drunk friend. C does not really care for you that way, she rejected those advances. B probably reminded C who she was with, or that she was getting a bit crazy. I dont think there is a get back with C, not li… | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If a lady hints at hanging out, but doesn't make the initiative and you don't either then did she expect you to do the legwork? And if you don't do anything, then does it mean that you seem uninterested in someone?You can try and remember for the future. That inaction, defaults in rejection. If you come on strong, and she goes woah, i just wanted a friend. Then you can easily recover and be friends. Maybe you come on strong and she doesn't want to be friends after, chances are she didn't want to very much before and youve got some incompatible viewpoints. Cant lose what you could never win over. But if you come on weak, even as a friend, unless she is really into you, its going to default and fizzle out. … | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 10:15 PM |
| 1 | If a lady hints at hanging out, but doesn't make the initiative and you don't either then did she expect you to do the legwork? And if you don't do anything, then does it mean that you seem uninterested in someone?In my first post I questioned in my head if you were a man, went back and changed he to they :/. Its pretty rare for dudes to expect to be pursued. But even in alt situations there is usually someone taking the lead and someone throwing follow me signs up. People red stopping you is life. Be more direct with your intentions. "Lets hang out" and not specified or returned to, isnt usually a lets hang out, its a meh, im being nice to you. How many times have you said, O yeah yeah, lets totally hang… | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | If a lady hints at hanging out, but doesn't make the initiative and you don't either then did she expect you to do the legwork? And if you don't do anything, then does it mean that you seem uninterested in someone?Im assuming your intentions were to seduce this woman. If someone gives you a green light like that, its her letting you know to escalate and pursue. The difference between, "yeah, you'll definitely have to explain it to me then" and yeah, you'll definitely have to explain it to me over dinner" are huge. She gave you a green light, you responded with a flat yellow. And sounds like you haven't followed up asking her out again. If you suggest dinner, she might red stop you, or she will green you o… | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The more I hear to be confident, the less confident I get...Exposure therapy is an application of CBT. Reframing is also CBT. My summarized beliefs. The brains neural pathways are hardwired as we grow up, how we learn to respond to things in life, is also how are brain is programmed to respond to those situations. If you mess up on one of the developmental stages, your brain gets programmed less optimally. For people with anxiety, it often stems from a fear of rejection. They are invested in how others will respond to them. Where as a confident person do… | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 09:09 PM |
| 2 | If a lady hints at hanging out, but doesn't make the initiative and you don't either then did she expect you to do the legwork? And if you don't do anything, then does it mean that you seem uninterested in someone?So she says, "... when we hang out again" and you just go "yeah" then never ask in the convo or text her latter, "lets go do x"? If you are interested in someone take the intitivate to ask them out to something. Most women will not directly ask for a date. But her saying, when we hang out again, is saying, hey, ask me out again. Yes. Men are expected to put in the legwork. Throughout the whole seduction process. Even into bed. Dont be the guy who makes out for 4 hours because your waiting for he… | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 17 | How do you ask a girl to hookup?eyy gurl, u lyke 2 fuk? | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | The more I hear to be confident, the less confident I get...Cognitive behavioral therapy, and reframing techniques. If you are not seeking approval from anyone in life, you exude confidence. Not caring about how people will respond, and just doing it because you want to, is a basis for confidence. A confident guy hits on girls because he wants them to know he is interested in them, rejection is just a no to his question, and he can move on to someone who will say yes. Learning to do and say things because you want to, rather than modifying your behavior … | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Barhopper's guide to the galaxy of vaginaFind a full size mirror, look at your self, relax and smile. Now find a bar or dance floor, watch your self, and relax your posture and smile. Creepyness is mainly a tense, anxious, non confident posture and facial expression | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 05:35 PM |
| 29 | I am so proud of myselfThats doing the things that make her wanna stay. If you stop caring and putting in effort, people leave. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 07:47 PM |
| 0 | How I picked up a 10Thats more so because the vibe ugly guys often have. Douches like drunk frat bros, are often ugly, a girl might call him an asshole, but hes not a creep. Ive seen lots of ugly dudes with no confidence or energy, lead in by grinding, or sorta lurk around and leer, creepy shit. Ive seen a lot of ugly dancers, approach and dance with women, and its not creepy because of their vibe. Upbeat, happy, dancing by themselves and enjoying it, she gets to be part of the fun. Step 1.1: be attractive by becom… | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 03:33 PM |
| 2 | What does everyone think about pursuing girls at your jobs?never more than a drunk hookup, not really worth the potential fallout | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 11:42 AM |
| 13 | Two women talking on Facebook about divorceHeh, to think those rules were put into place to actually help people. Most domestic abuse situations don't have evidence to back them up, its rare you see a hospital or police report that's black and white. So a benefit of the doubt type system is put into place. Great for when there's actual abuse, completely fucked when someone abuses that system out of spite. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/15 04:50 PM |
| 82 | Two women talking on Facebook about divorceA child molester is innocent until proven guilty. But more often than not, the defendant sitting there, is thought to be there because they are guilty, why else would they be here if not a child molester? Throwing shit at a soon to be divorced man and seeing what sticks is enough to trip up any reasonable person and the judge might believe some of the shit. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/15 04:47 PM |
| 17 | Thought you guys would enjoy thisGod forbid we teach empathy in schools. We should just have fire drills where everyone runs as fast a possible and whoever gets their first with at least 2 people trampled, wins! | /r/MensRights | 12/05/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I seem to have times where I go into a depressive state. How do I fix this?Heres an interesting article you should read about what is meant by enlightenment. Its advanced stuff, but quite useful to think about if you're going down a path of enlightenment. The thought stories we create, in response to some anxious stimuli, are entirely possible to direct. CBT with exposure therapy and mental meditation /mindfulness / presence techniques should be enough tools to let you do so. I would highly recommend you develop a mind clearing technique, theres lots of breathing ones.… | /r/seduction | 15/02/15 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Spacing out and not making the first move - failingAssume the sale, don't wait for x # of ioi's, just do go for it. Do not say your "thick headed" and I need you to be the one in charge of making the first move and being vulnerable. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Example of Confidence Persistence Part 2 , I have made 3 strikes so far, is the fourth worth it?You think a lot. Seems to me you preplan most of your interaction, including the conversation. Truth is i really liked that girl, like she was just the perfect thing. Every time i see her i just melt down lmao. I know it sounds weird but im sure we all have that one fantasy girl, now imagine you created chemistry with that fantasy girl. Thats what i felt like the other day. None of the other girls ive dated have ever been my ideal girl. This one was so yeah From your first fr This interaction wa… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I'm cockblocking myself.Dont think, do. Decide you want to kiss her, and at some point, do it. You can't think, the more your thinking about kissing her the longer your not kissing her. Just do. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Where should a high school aged kid go during valentines day?This is, or if theres an infamous nickel arcade/movie theater/hangout afterschool eating pizza place. You might be able to talk to a third wheel and get in on a date. Other than that good luck approaching girls at the mall. Might just walk around stores asking chicks random things. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it worth going out on Valentine's day?There's always couples at bars or clubs. Tonight will probably be around the same as it is always. If you think its not worth it, it probably won't. If you don't care, its just a regular saturday night. Except you know if theres a girl seemingly out without a man, shes probably looking for one or some fun, why else would she be out on valentines day night? Doesn't apply if you live in a small town, or go to a bar in olive garden. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Girls are really fucking good at holding eye contact. How do you hold it without seeming creepy?If they don't immediately break eye contact, especially after 1-2 seconds, its an invitation to open up. Its weird to scowl at someone for 5 seconds, smile. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Just a tip for the guys new to this sub: Always Assume Attraction.I dont think hes implying you should walk into a bar and assume everyone wants your D, but rather if you've approached someone and she hasn't overtly ran away, assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 06:40 PM |
| 3 | How crazy is it to just kiss her?would be uncharacteristic What do you mean by this? Its a good idea, in the same sense that pickup lines / memorizing scripts is a good idea. It all comes down to how you deliver. I really would not telegraph your intentions. Give her time to respond after you pull her in, but don't have like an awkward minute before you do anything where shes wondering wtf were doing out here in the cold. If you're going to kiss her, say hey step outside with me, take her hand, and kiss her when you get outside… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 05:32 PM |
| 0 | My First Cold ApproachIts 99.99% not you. Some people are bitches, some are douches who like to fight, some are physcopathic murderers. The levels of empathy vary, but if you got murdered by a physco 0 empathy, no one blames you. Now approach a bitch who has 0 respect or empathy towards you, and gets pleasure out of seeing someone suffer, don't blame your self for her fuckedupness. | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Weird problem: When a girl comes on to me it comes across to me like she is really insecure and desperate. Any ideas?This piece of poetry explains the mindset quite well. Girls wanna have fun, are you gonna be fun? She approached you because she wants to see if you can improve her life. Just like you talked back to her because she could improve your life. Of course she could, and many women, do use guys for a self esteem boost; think of how many guys game here just for the ego boost. What your smelling is called an agenda, it sounds to me like you feel obligated to feed into her agenda, because if you don't he… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:36 PM |
| 32 | How crazy is it to just kiss her?Context is everything. If you grab some random girl, stare at her, and shove your tongue in her mouth, thats really rapey. If you are dancing with some girl its different. I should say more so if shes dancing back with you. You can easily kiss her during a slow part and gauge her reaction. Assuming your question is a cold approach. The only time I would consider doing that is when, you know. Like its late and a girl is staring you down, she wants you to approach her. You could either drop the in… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Does overconfident/self depreciating humor work with girls?Its an incredibly fine line, the best case scenario I see is getting people to overlook your flaws. But your still bringing attention to them, your making everyone else think about your flaws, in the hopes that their laughter will provide acceptance about your flaws. I got a girl to drive me back to my car because I was joking about how scared I am to walk in the dark by myself, I might get raped because im so good looking. Theres a bit of self deprecation in there but shes not focusing on it. I… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Does overconfident/self depreciating humor work with girls?You say over confident, but really it shows an underlying insecurity. It might make people laugh, and in situations where your worth isn't of importance, eg hanging with your friends, its fine. But a girl doesn't want to hear all the negative things you are thinking about your self. Imagine your flirting with someone overweight and they start joking about how they are just gonna eat you up, then they tell the same self deprecating joke in a different way, over and over and over. What do you do b… | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Enjoying the game more than the prize?There comes a point where shit just gets monotonous. You can only ride the same trail, board the same run, fuck the same, before it looses a bit of magic. Once you hit that point, and you've done and conquered everything, and you know you can easily do it. You sorta just stop caring as much. You'd rather do what you want, rather caring what people want. A guys night playing cards is a lot more rare than fucking another random chick. Theres also the emotional side of things. Hookups are mostly ph… | /r/seduction | 29/01/15 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I get better at humor and being witty?Do some research on humour and find what makes you laugh. I find a lot of being funny is just relaxing into the mindset where you make absurd/obscene/nostalgic/unexpected connections to things people say or do. If you take an improv class or just do some youtube exercises with someone it trains you to be in a funny mindset. Sort of unrelated but you might pay attention to how you communicate on the pessimist/optimist scale. I find myself gravitating towards pessimist comments and conversational … | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 09:12 PM |
| -5 | [FR] Decided to try something new, can't believe it worked! F-Close. | /r/seduction | 08/07/13 07:11 AM |
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