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5	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting.	Fundamentals	tatatutur	/r/seduction	08/06/26 11:31 PM

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5	Same Day Hook-Ups From Cold Approaches I'm really bad at the texting stuff so I got decent at insta-dates. Getting someone just to meet you is the hardest part of dating, she's already there so why not continue. Setting up the date later is much harder. I even think the chance for them to agree to an insta-date is higher then actually planning a date with you. Don't aim for the hookup. Just use your knowledge of the neighbourhood and naturally continue. Don't ask them to go far, they don't know you. Lots of very small steps basically…	/r/seduction	20/07/26 04:33 PM
2	How to handle finishing fast I accidentally bought "performance" condoms recently and couldn't cum for an hour. Apparently they got some kind of numbing cream inside. Might be helpful for you.	/r/seduction	12/06/26 12:30 PM
1	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting. Thanks! Seems I'm waiting too long for one. Usually text them mid week. I'll try some voice notes in the future.	/r/seduction	10/06/26 07:35 PM
1	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting. Yeah that's true, optics go both ways. I was also at the same bar / club therefore also automatically a drunk looking for a hookup (even if I was just tipsy I like to keep some control). I'd like to know what is better though, continuing the same vibe of the evening? A full reset? Sending a small video or voice note sounds good so they can hear my voice and see I'm relaxed about this.	/r/seduction	10/06/26 04:49 PM
2	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting. Yeah this is a good point, I was indeed talking about people I had a genuine good moment with though. I stopped hunting numbers I only ask if we are having a good time. You're absolutely right that nothing is a given or that continuation has to happen. I'm totally fine with rejection or never seeing the person again. I'm simply trying to figure out what the best way is to keep some continuation going in these situations, or at least make it clear that I'm up for it without putting any pressure. …	/r/seduction	10/06/26 04:46 PM
2	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting. Yeah you're right actually, thanks I needed to hear that haha. Why do they even ask for my number then. I did meet some of my exes like this though because then at least the relationship is built on attraction not on comparing lists of demands like the dating apps now. So I'd still like to continue fishing for fuck buddies and continued meetings there occasionally. But I'll adjust my expectations and work on the same night logistics more. And try to continue texting super light I guess for the f…	/r/seduction	10/06/26 03:22 PM
3	I'm getting better at seducing at the club or bar, but bad at followup / texting. Sure there are some one night stand near-misses I'd like to continue for example. Also a few seemed cool enough to actually date casually and one or two this year even seriously. Just trying to improve the followup here.	/r/seduction	10/06/26 03:17 PM
3	Does fucking 4s or below help you in any way with getting 5s and up? Interested in advice for 9s and 10s!	/r/seduction	30/03/26 12:54 AM