| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Yeah, and we’re the weaker sex, apparently. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Surprise Visit to Her Boyfriend in College - Thousands of TikTok Users Found it Suspicious and Found Both the BF's Reaction as well as the Reactions of Female Friends "Off" - What Do Y'all Think?Thank you 🙏 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 26 | Surprise Visit to Her Boyfriend in College - Thousands of TikTok Users Found it Suspicious and Found Both the BF's Reaction as well as the Reactions of Female Friends "Off" - What Do Y'all Think?My boyfriend didn’t see me for 10 days and when he came back he picked me up off the ground, kissed me about 80 times and didn’t put me back down before saying “ohmygodimissedyousomuch.” Once we start understanding that we deserve to be celebrated and loved, we no longer tolerate the bullshit of NVM and it only makes room for the good ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:18 AM |
| 52 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I stopped dead in my tracks, turned off my music, put both feet on the floor, sat up straight, and read this again. Holy shit. Thank you. You put into words the anger and indignation I feel toward men. So many worthless scrotes have gotten violent and ugly to me for having the AUDACITY to let them continue thinking I was a stupid, helpless little victim…. Until I bailed and got mine, that is. They hate us when we let them make their assumptions, they hate us when we DON’T let them make their ass… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:18 AM |
| 3 | 15 Signs You Are in a Relationship With a Man BabyOof. This one hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:06 PM |
| 7 | “Soft” sex-work…?+1 💰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:39 AM |
| 26 | “Soft” sex-work…?Oh bear in mind there’s a tidal wave of NVM who are arguing against the whole engagement ring business because they find it “frivolous” or “shallow.” The battle-cry of scrotes who don’t even want to do the bare ass societal minimum to demonstrate investment in a lifelong partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 27 | “Soft” sex-work…?It’s a combination of circumstances and ALL of them have to do with how vulnerable society makes women. Many girls and young women simply don’t have the experience to enter fine-dining. They start at breastaurants broke and unskilled in the service industry. When I was hired, I had already interned in hospital settings (no pay), and had worked for 4 years as a systems administrator at a small company (not much pay). I was a hard worker and pre-professional, but certainly with no experience in fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 11 | “Soft” sex-work…?If a man believes he can buy a woman with a transaction, he can go ahead and pay the scrote tax and I won’t lose a wink of sleep on his dime. Leave the money at my feet and get the fuck out, I never committed to anything. It’s the same with men paying for dates with me. They can throw a mantrum all they want but at the end of the day, Simon didn’t say! I never made any promises to him. He paid, pulled the “will I win attention?” slot machine lever, and lost out. Boohoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 56 | “Soft” sex-work…?I COMPLETELY agree. There’s no honor in “paying your way” as a woman. I’ve always counter-argued when my girlfriends tried to purport themselves as classy and dignified for trying to split things or decline gifts. Hell no I’m not going to say no to some scrote offering his meager tribute in hopes that I’ll pay attention to him. Like, oooooh girl you really “showed” him by entertaining his clownery and wasting your time/energy/resources at a discount price. If a man believes he can buy a woman wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 6 | “Soft” sex-work…?Thank you Sis. It’s one of those things I just tunnel-visioned but thankfully I never have to look back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 24 | “Soft” sex-work…?Got me through biostatistics 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 21 | “Soft” sex-work…?I’m a Texan. You were spot-on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 10:21 PM |
| 47 | “Soft” sex-work…?OMG “MANTRUM….” I’m so going to use that term | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 48 | “Soft” sex-work…?I am so, so sorry and I 100% can speak to these experiences. Any ladies reading this, this is the NORM for sexually-based workplaces. I saw all of this. It’s so disgusting and just really damaged my view of humanity. I reached “safe zone” by becoming a bartender and then managing the bar (I was consistent, trustworthy, and putting myself through school). But many, many, many girls walked through the doors and got eaten alive. I’d hear so many of them getting sugar daddies (mainly Splenda daddies… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 07:00 PM |
| 92 | “Soft” sex-work…?I am so sorry for your friend and I agree 100% and empathize with those experiences. Even as a bartender there it didn’t stop and also men tried pitting me against the other girls because I was managing a bar. Each girl has their own “persona” and mine was the “smart med school girl” and would be very obviously tipped/paid more. These scrotes TRIED to stir up drama just for entertainment. I hated all of it. I ended up accepting gifts (like my graphing calculator, textbooks, new shoes) under the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:57 PM |
| 110 | “Soft” sex-work…?I do wanna say as well that my male bartender coworker had WAY different circumstances at his strip club work than I did bartending at a similar venue. My coworker was JACKED. Enormous guy with huge muscles, never had to worry about some creep touching him (we have a strict no-touch rule in my state at strip clubs), stalking him or following him out to his car, harassing him, etc.. He got ogled at but VERY rarely was he actually demeaned/harassed because I’m sure the other men could anticipate a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 32 | “Soft” sex-work…?You did succeed in confirming who was a worthless LVM that day. But no point trying to change them. Ick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 20 | “Soft” sex-work…?I can’t say I disagree with this view either. I became a bartender after waitressing because the GM saw that I was “smart” and could sell drinks like crazy. I jumped behind there as quick as I could. Good way to get more distance between myself and customers. I’m still at odds with how I feel about it being true sex-work or not. I hated being sexualized, though. I had full-face makeup and worked out every day. Felt like a Barbie swimming in a fish bowl that everyone could just look at. It was gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 20 | “Soft” sex-work…?Thank you for talking things over with your daughter. I’m horrified at the state of the world that she’d even have considered that… but engaging her in a genuine conversation rather than shame her into making impulse decisions in secret is definitely the way to handle things IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:42 PM |
| 31 | “Soft” sex-work…?🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 241 | “Soft” sex-work…?I had a co-bartender (straight man) who actually worked as an exotic dancer prior and also a bartender in a “Twin Balls” type place. His clientele weren’t ladies…they were other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 67 | “Soft” sex-work…?I agree. I understand there’s “levels” but to me sex work and sexualizing women isn’t about the explicitness of the act, but the intention. Just like ANY level of abuse is still abuse, and ANY level of commodifying women is commodification, which are both completely unacceptable. I don’t know why venues like that are okay with it in a restaurant but suddenly it’s condemned when women sell literal sex and work for themselves (I am NOT pro-sex work). It reeks to me of the former laws which allowed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:26 PM |
| 4 | Rejection is a ScamHoly shit. The way you put this just HIT me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 2 | if he wanted to he wouldIHWTHW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:49 AM |
| 8 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?You mean Female Genital Mutilation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:59 AM |
| 16 | At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why.I am a feminist and I am against the sexual exploitation of all women (and children). The sex “industry” is another name for the subjugation and essential enslavement of those forced into it. I say “force” because coercion IS a form of force. Given the option of a safe fulfilling career with benefits and assured security for the future along with upward mobility, I cannot help but believe every woman would want that option for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersI was the “evil bitch who made him get rid of his dog.” No, I put my foot down and told him to find another home for his poor dog because he literally never took care of her and then called me selfish for not wanting to take care of her while I worked two jobs and went to school (I didn’t sign up for dog ownership). It was a power play to make me accommodate his disgusting laziness and neglect, or else I’d be responsible for the suffering of a poor animal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:49 AM |
| 2 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersI absolutely love cane corsos and am hoping one day (when more stable) to have one as a forever companion. Beautiful creatures. They seem amazing for protection and it would make me feel so much safer to have a best friend who can also maul any man who tries to hurt me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Walked out on my Toxic FamilyGodspeed. 6 years no contact with my family. You can do this. I’m squeezing your hand. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Why an abusive man won't stop bullying/ The benefits an abuser won't give up - Lundy BancroftLike favors like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 9 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:53 AM |
| 6 | I love you ladies.Bossing up together 👑❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 04:04 AM |
| 16 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common argumentsSomeone should sticky this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 33 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉I’m howling but he prolly couldn’t hear that either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Auntie Pinkie VIDEOIt just got better as the video went on. Also.... stage presence much?! Love itttt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:28 PM |
| 21 | Reproductive control is the cornerstone of male violence. From one generation to the next.“Crime of passion” they call it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:36 AM |
| 23 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️Thank you Sis 🌸💖 It’s hard going through life with no family support network I’m sure you know. And even harder feeling like it isolates you from relating to people. It isn’t fair feeling stigmatized for something we can’t help that has already hurt so much. For as rough as it is, I had to shift my mindset a bit and start thinking of 1. How powerful it makes me (I’m an asset, not a liability, for being able to stand on my own and know what’s right for me. It also gives me enormous compassion). a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 323 | Found on Instagram... I am really liking the algorithm 💁♀️I swear once you level yourself up and value yourself it’s like they drop out of the sky and in front of you. Have a man now (20s) who insists on teaching me (20s) about financial literacy, cooks for me, takes care of me/my autoimmune disease and makes appointments for me + came with me to chemo treatments, who is constantly reading and bettering himself, is college-educated, volunteers teaching prison inmates, just ran a 50k, and built a goddamned cabin by himself with his two hands. For fun. O… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Chinese women's "Womb Morality"... Standards are apparently eugen_csI love this. Cue the incoming social media brigade of racist, sexist tirades against Chinese women for daring to have standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Nobody actually *needs* men 😎 🤷🏻♀️I really do agree except for the horrid scenarios where a woman must depend on a man for survival. Which only happens BECAUSE of the system they invented. It’s abhorrent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:32 AM |
| 9 | Saw this on the popular page... Some smart people in the commentsPickmesha-ble 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Patterns Of Thinking And Behavior Often Displayed By AbusersSeconded! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:34 AM |
| 9 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)You’re amazing, OP. Thank you for this breakdown and for potentially saving so many women from further abuse. Mobility is the greatest asset and it is the one most savagely withheld from women. A woman who can move is a dangerous woman. Let’s all be dangerous women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 82 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Don’t be silly. There are probably a few women in the world with alopecia. That said, there are probably 0 women in the world who’d want to marry these insipid fucksticks. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 226 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.Gaslighting 101. Disgusting fucks. It’s second nature to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Men Intentionally Act As If They Don’t Understand How Porn Negatively Impacts Women. It’s a Power Play. They Fucking Know.Someone pin this, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 21 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋You look amazing. That crown fits you perfectly! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:58 PM |
| 15 | The ImplicationSaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardMmmmm this is it, OP. I couldn’t put my finger on it but I think you nailed it. Every LVW Pickme friend I’ve ever had treated me the worst when they were actively shit all over by horrid boyfriends/leech friends and I was always there for her picking up the pieces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Scrote hasn't washed his penis in years, has still slept with unwitting women. Disgusting.Never again will my life know peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 5 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180That’s ~$36,000 a year. Which, is perhaps ok for someone right out of high school. I wonder if she understands that is the LIMIT. How would she feel if she knew that she would only see less and less every year for the rest of her life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:03 PM |
| 6 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡Holy god. End the thread. This is it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | They literally enjoy hurting us. [TW: s*xual violence]I want to rally a rescue mission but I have no idea how to even approach this level of denial. It’s probably the only thing protecting this woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | They literally get off on hurting us.I fixed it and I’ll be taking this post down ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 3 | They literally enjoy hurting us. [TW: s*xual violence]Removed identifying info. I can’t even process this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:49 AM |
| 3 | They literally get off on hurting us.Oh my goodness. You’re completely right and I apologize. I’m going to fix it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?I mean.... LibFems do make me ashamed.... haha. But in all seriousness. The first step to dismantling male dominance is tackling the discord and self-hate they’ve promoted among us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:31 PM |
| 186 | Strong women giving each other advice makes a differenceI am really proud of you. FWIW I was a 22 year old and pursued by a 35 year old. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING good comes from a man who cannot court women in his age/maturity bracket. Not that you aren’t intelligent and level-headed, but 22-35 is a huge difference in life experience and milestones. He would’ve victimized you, and if not you, some other poor young woman. I am 27 now and if my or any other woman’s experiences can help someone like you out, I will gladly lay out every bit of wisdom … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 38 | My female neighbor gave me this ring! She’s moving to another country and gifted several women on our block beautiful pieces of vintage jewelry. Female friends will always care and appreciate one another!Good god, that is gorgeous. What a beautiful and thoughtful thing for your friend to do, and a reminder to treasure yourself! I love opals, and the vintage style is elegant. I’m jealous! Lovely friend, lovely ring, OP! ❤️👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 118 | Best post in the history of reddit. Not for the audacity of this POS, but the backlash he got from the replies. He really thought he could use this baby to control her and it backfired HORRIBLY. Love to men getting a taste of their own medicine. I hope this woman is great and doing well 🎉🙏🏼The most traumatic moment in my life came when I had an ab*rtion with my narcissist partner in undergrad. He destroyed my reputation, forced me to take sedatives because I was “unhinged” (with grief and pain), abused me, controlled me with that medical history that I was so terrified about in the first place. I was only 20 and he pressured and pressured to make me not get one, even getting his family in on it and telling their NEIGHBORS whose son also went to our college. I got one anyways and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 16 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.Holy Mary, mother of God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 7 | The famous "slug post" from the FDS podcast episode 5. Man makes girlfriend sick by grinding up slugs in her shakes. "aM i OvErReAcTiNg?”Holy mary, mother of god. In the uneditreddit of the original post, OP comments with an Imgur link to the bucket of slugs she found under her kitchen sink, her partner having collected them. I actually have no words. This is horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Hello twinfriend!!! Happy to see another one of us! It just goes to show that women across all faiths can exhibit solidarity and fight for empowerment 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.I’m a (non-theistic) Satanist, which is ALL about hedonism — but also protecting/respecting human rights, including abortion and women’s empowerment. I’m anti-pornography on the grounds that no one’s pleasure takes precedence over anyone else’s safety. Porn is inherently exploitative and overwhelmingly to the vulnerable... you guessed it, women and children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.You’re right and I’m just now opening my eyes to this in my 20s.... it’s just so nauseating how I never looked at porn usage in-depth until now in my life, and how awful I think it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 16 | Never date men who use their shyness/ reserved personality as an excuse to be low effortHugs. Why is it that when women experience trauma, we often channel it into having MORE empathy for others, yet any trauma in men (real or perceived) is used as justification for them behaving cruelly/inhumanly? It’s an abhorrent double standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:39 AM |
| 34 | Never date men who use their shyness/ reserved personality as an excuse to be low efforttraumatized and thus sympathetic about the struggle of opening up I’m in this comment and I don’t like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Back off, he was mine first! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Scrotes' advice on how to get away with avoiding household choresHoly fucking shit. He’s literally happy with himself for abusing their baby.... diaper rash is no joke. It’s terribly painful for little children and to have a parent willingly do this is positively sadistic. Evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Chronic illness, CPTSDSystemic lupus with Sjögren’s syndrome, and systemic scleroderma. I will die early because of my early abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Gov. Andrew Cuomo sexual harassment case. Another lesson in not speaking about your trauma no matter how HV they may seem..Holy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 3 | If you keep explaining and nothing changes, it's not going to get better. He's dedicated to not putting effort in.Holy. Shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?Austin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 2 | New anthem I’m so here for this! Now only referring to men as wallets lolWhat a work of art. Saving forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:50 AM |
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