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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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20	When to take a break from dating I think another one you could add is if you're just bloody tired. If you're exhausted even thinking about the effort to sort through crappy men, watch for red flags, deal with their games and bullshit—don't force yourself just because you're missing some cuddles and companionship. You may be able to pass on L/NVM men, but it will likely be an even more disheartening experience than usual. A couple (seemingly) decent and attractive guys asked me out recently and I just didn't feel... anything. Ho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/21 05:05 PM
68	Pick me culture I was hoping someone would mention that. Hilarious that she's pretending this is some personal act of feminist resistance when that disgusting trash heap was the one who told her she'd "be naked" that night and she absolutely lapped it up. Megan used to be one of the women who actually spoke out against this sort of grooming and oversexualization, now she's basically thanking the patriarchy for taking her back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 06:23 PM
7	Why did Disney and society at large lie to us about the true nature of most men? Totally agree! I think the men themselves don't actually display good qualities, but it's the way the movies frame their actions as romantic and loving when in fact they're doing so little that does the harm.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/21 07:12 PM
20	One of the few times you know for sure a man is being 100% honest with you. Yes! It's alternately serious or "just a joke" if you end up agreeing or calling them on their bullshit. Sometimes it's fishing for compliments too. Men know we're groomed to be super empathetic and supportive, so when a guy says something like that many of us immediately respond with, "Aw you're not bad at all! You have xyz awesome traits, don't be so hard on yourself!" which he'll lap up. Of course he won't hesitate to pull that excuse out later. "Well I told you I was an asshole, so you shoul…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 07:17 AM
38	Queen Mentality I think it was one of the women here who said her response is: "I'm not high maintenance, you're just low effort." Rung true to me. I would always make time for my ex no matter how busy and how much of an "inconvenience" it was because I actually cared for him. Took too long to recognize it wasn't fair that he never did the same for me. And the guy in the article just had a cold of all things. Poor baby.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 12:59 AM
27	I'm done 😪 Lmao I love you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 09:16 PM

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