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| 2 | Having a difficult time even justifying the effort of romance or dating.Dating sucks. For a lot of people who are doing things with their lives, finding the time to date is a chore and often not worthwhile. You do you. You don't need a relationship to be happy. Enjoy your life doing what you love and focusing on what you want. When you feel like dating, then go for it. Until then, don't worry about it. | /r/seduction | 15/03/21 10:56 AM |
| 1 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'The thing about beards and glasses (if you need them anyways) is that you can use them to change the shape of your face. But yeah, beyond that you're stuck with what you've got, especially if you don't have hair. And I'm not talking specifically about acne. I'm referring more to wrinkles, acne scars and other things that can make skin look a little rough. I have a friend in his late 20s who has really bad skin and I honestly think it's about 40% of the reason he's perpetually single. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'Regular skin care early on does help. And you are right. There are things that can't be changed. That said, growing a beard and styling it nicely can help a lot. Also, you can wear glasses and style your hair in ways that hide some of the blemishes you might have. If you're balding (like me) you can use products to maintain what you have, shave it all off, wear a wig, and/or use a special powder that makes your hair look thicker. (It's basically magic). Worst case scenario you can actually start… | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 07:18 PM |
| 8 | How far into the conversation do you stop talking when she's not reciprocating?This is the way | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:26 PM |
| 3 | What are some mistakes you made in your younger years?Not making an effort to date. I was very school driven. Also, not working more on my music. Trying to compose music now in my band is a challenge even though I know I have the creativity for it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'You would be amazed what some fashion, time at the gym, and skincare products can do for a guy. And it's true, height can be a limiting factor for some guys. You just need to compensate somehow. I usually would suggest dance classes or learning an instrument. I know people who are short who have done that and they've done pretty well. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'Honestly it all boils down to just a few things. Be confident and charismatic. Interact with lots of people. Actually ask out the ones you have some interest in It's really not that difficult. The problem is that modern society teaches us how to handle these experiences and desires very poorly and it's hard to break from that way of thinking once you've been doing it for 20, 30 or even 40 years. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating advice for balding manlets?Don't stress. I've been balding since I was 19. Very noticeable as early as 23. I've been having consistent relationships and sex all through my mid to late 20s. I'm 29 now and banging a 22 year old with another 22 year old having just offered to have a threesome with us. To put this in perspective, I'm overweight, pasty white, and very obviously balding (NW4). Confidence is the key. Once you have that, you're golden. Style it as best you can and you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 09:32 AM |
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| 1 | What if you get further than kissing? I found out that most guys on this subreddit don't know how to finger a girl/ give oral. This helpfull video explains it perfectly, and gives you an idea how the female stimulation works.Yep | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Results, Performance and masturbation. What are your experiences?Quitting masturbating will go a long way towards improving your sex life. Masturbating screws with your hormone levels and sex drive. If you've been doing it regularly your body may have adapted to it and it could take more than a month to rebuild your natural sex drive. I suggest you check out the nofap subreddit. There is a lot of good material there that describes both the effects of masturbation on your mind and also exactly what you should expect to happen when you quit. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 07:59 AM |
| 1 | The awkwardness of undressing womenKissing and touching. You do it slowly. Take one layer off at a time. Make her anticipate it. Make sure you rub your half naked bodies together.... Damn I feel like I'm directing a porno here. The point is, you make it part of the foreplay. Use it as an opportunity to get her even more turned on and for the love of God, take your time. Make her anticipate and crave it. Watch a soap opera sometime or (if you don't want to wish you could blow your brains out) just skip to the sex scene. This is wh… | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Should Guy Let Girl Pay for Dinner?My rule is to always split the bill unless it feels really weird to do it. Paying for her does not make you any more attractive but it can make you look like a sucker for potential gold diggers. You also just don't want to establish an expected trend where you pay for everything either as that actually makes you less attractive and easier to exploit. Once you've been on a few dates, you can take turns paying. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:56 AM |
| 2 | 34 years old and can't approach women....what's wrong with me?Just do it. (Obvious nike reference). Seriously. I was in the same position a couple of years ago and I had to fight pretty hard to get past AA. The thing is, it's all about practice. I just decided one day to go or and approach every girl I saw. At first I ended up approaching only one girl and it took about two hours of missed opportunities, and general AA problems to do it. The next day I approached 3. Each day I approached more girls and each time it got easier. The secret really is practice… | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:44 AM |
| 1 | what does it mean when a girl blows into your earr from behind ?Flirting, usually, but here's the thing. It's all about context. As the man, it's up to you to control the context of your interaction with her. If she does that and you respond in a friendly way, you'll probably lose attraction and its context will be reinterpreted in a more friendly way. That's how you get friendzoned. Always build attraction and flirt. Not just with her. Do it with everyone. If she likes you she will mirror your energy and things like that will be more flirty. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Moral questionSome guys will say that if she is willing and you want it then you should go for it. That being said, fucking a girl who already has a boyfriend is a pretty low thing to do. Any real decent man would just say no, I can get other hot girls, why should I act like an asshole and fuck her. You did the right thing. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:22 AM |
| 1 | What if you get further than kissing? I found out that most guys on this subreddit don't know how to finger a girl/ give oral. This helpfull video explains it perfectly, and gives you an idea how the female stimulation works.When I first started meeting women, I noticed the same thing. Generally speaking, just from taking to girls, I've found that most average guys don't know the first thing about good sex. If anyone wants to learn how to really get a girl going in bed, I suggest you read the sex subreddit. It has a bunch of links to some really good tutorials and the like. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I proceed with texting to try and meet up with her?It sounds like the problem is more with the build up to asking her out. Generally I find that in order to successfully get a girl on a date using online game, I have to get a really fun lighthearted conversation going. After that, I mention that I'm having a good time talking with her and then mention some awesome place I know and tell her I'm free at some specific times before suggesting she meet me there. Most of the time this works but I have found that some girls seem to be perpetually busy.… | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Changing to make a woman happy - a cautionary taleLol. Poor guy. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Sup! | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 10:50 AM |
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