taylorroland Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If you have children, do you wish your Ex a “Happy Mother’s Day “ ? No. I would have, but I got radio silence on Father’s Days and my birthdays. I did remind the kids to remember Mother’s Day the first two times rolled around, but it’s not my job anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/26 06:59 PM
3	How do you forget her? And betrays your children	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 12:03 AM
3	How do you forget her? This is powerful and so true. I just saved it so I’ll be reminded when I start getting sentimental	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/26 12:01 AM
1	How much life savings have you lost post divorce? $750k, excluding 1000 a month in child support, being responsible for 2/3 of all kids expenses, and currently paying > $90,000 a year for college because my ex never bothered to save for it — with 7 more years to go! Not to mention missing out on her generous pension and the $2m inheritance she got just before she left me.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 09:48 PM
6	How do you deal with the pain? 20 years for me too. I’m slowly accepting that she had checked out 6+ years ago; that her low energy & depression were signs she was processing her emotional withdrawal (and maybe a little guilt?), not menopause or work or other things she attributed it to; that she was not in fact my best friend, or even someone who had my interest at heart; that i’ve lost respect for her for treating me so shabbily, and especially for harming our kids by blowing up their family. Unforgivably selfish.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/03/26 09:41 PM
1	Divorcing a nice woman Marital love is a choice, a verb, not a feeling.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/26 10:14 PM
2	I put inheritance in joint bank account. Am I fucked? In most states, if you comingle inheritance with marital funds, an adversarial spouse can go after it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 08:52 PM
3	I did what you should not Yep - my stbxw is 55 and starting to show her age - more wrinkles than 60 yr old me - but i can still see her as the 35 year old I fell in love with, so it doesn't bother me. (Plus, she's more attractive than most of her peers) Similar to how one can love an old threadbare dog you had as a puppy more than if someone else's old threadbare dog ended up on your doorstep.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/23 02:38 PM