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Losing your virginty is really not a big deal. You could do the escort and get it out of the way, I guess. Might be hard banging a stranger as a virgin, but it's different from person to person.
/r/seduction01/08/17 03:09 AM
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See, this isn't a 'debate', this is me correcting you I had a little respect for you until you blurted this one out haha! So thankful there's someone out there that knows better than me about what they're talking about. Maybe I am wrong. If so, I would like to see you prove it because that would be quite interesting and I would shut up and move on.
/r/seduction15/07/17 05:22 PM
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Apologies for not replying sooner. I would love to debate you on this subject. please stop offering your opinion on a subject your admitting to know nothing about. I don't claim to know anything except my own thoughts, feelings, and experiences. The way I see some of the men here who want to know how other men have one night stands can seem a bit desperate. They are very focused on how to pick up women that it could sometimes backfire. It's like saying: if you're trying to become rich and famous…
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:17 PM
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Is there a way of responding to this that might help inspire some chit chat or at least give her a chuckle? Do you have hobbies or goals that you're trying to pursue? If you make your own life interesting for you, then you'd have more to talk about.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:39 PM
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I do not. Sorry.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:36 PM
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I see. Well, there isn't a formula or an equation that tells you how this happens. Otherwise, I'd try to use it. If you want to know how it happens, then listen to someone that has done it before. Their story will tell you how it happened.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:32 PM
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The reason I ask is, I think it works when you have something in common with the people that go to nightclubs. If you genuinely enjoy going to nightclubs, you'd have a better chance and finding women to connect with. Let's say you're really not interested in skydiving. You're afraid of heights and you believe it's insane people still do this. If you decide to go to a bi-weekly skydivers meetup group, you're not going to connect with these people because it's not something you're interested in. I…
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:28 PM
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I can guarantee you these sexual encounters are rare. There's something called the Dunning-Kruger effect which basically means: If you are good at something, then you have the exact skills to know you are good at that thing. Consequently... If you are bad at something, then you lack the skills to know you are bad at that thing.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:16 PM
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Is this the example?
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:07 PM
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Without talking about picking up chicks ... Do you enjoy going to nightclubs or would you rather go somewhere else?
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:05 PM
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All cases of sex begin with desire You're not wrong, but it's not always both sides. If the man has the desire but the woman doesn't, then the man has a lower chance of sleeping with her. What happens in between: Point A: stares across the room Point B: fucking in the work restroom Depends on the context. If it helps, you can give me an example and I'll give you my personal opinion on how it happens.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:01 PM
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I think a good way to smile is to learn how to do it genuinely. The kind of smile you have when you see a cute dog or laugh at a simple joke. When to smile? I wouldn't worry about when. I think if you're genuinely interested in what someone is talking about, you can choose to find joy in listening and go with that energy, and the smile will happen naturally.
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:54 PM
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I think this comes from people that have had years of experience. but how do I progress it from stares across the room to just plain fucking in the work restroom. To my knowledge, this type of scenario is very rare. They're more like fantasies. It probably happens, but there's also no context. We don't know if this particular situation is similar to a Mrs. Robinson scenario, boyfriend and girlfriend, etc. It's like any profession in the world. Practice makes perfect. If you know nothing about ra…
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:49 PM
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Just my personal opinion here. If you're trying to learn how to get a one night stand, you're probably not going to get a one night stand. What I think will happen is you'll start learning all these techniques and phrases that have worked for other people and you'll try to use them and then you'll be disappointed when they don't work. Why? Because it's not genuine. It will look unnatural and probably come off differently than you would expect. The best way to get a one night stand is to either b…
/r/seduction13/07/17 06:34 PM
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It is really satisfying to go home knowing you struck up a conversation with a girl you thought was cute. Good on ya, mate. Keep it up!
/r/seduction16/05/17 03:47 PM
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I want to chime in and say listen to /u/Blue_Falcon_Killer. From what I've been reading, he's got some great knowledge and advice on how to better yourself, and that's the whole point. How are you going to truly love anyone else if you don't love yourself? You're going to be with yourself for the rest of your life, so why not choose to love yourself? That might be hard to understand at first, and that's okay. I can't expect you to transform today or tomorrow. It takes time. My advice though is t…
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:52 PM
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I like the idea, but the pictures didn't tell me anything. I think I get what you're trying to do, but we don't even know the context of the pictures and who/what those women are attracted to in a guy. I think the pictures can be left out because it didn't really bring much to what you were saying here. Other than that, good post.
/r/seduction08/12/16 12:34 AM
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I don't know what to tell you there. You could look into Ministry of Attraction. He's got some pretty good stuff.
/r/seduction07/12/16 06:08 PM
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I guess it's all personal preference. I like listening to him, but his methods really helped me a lot and I thought it was relatable to your situation and what you'd like to be doing. So I would suggest reading it and if you still don't like it, then so be it.
/r/seduction07/12/16 05:52 PM
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Do you like self-improvement books? If so, I'd recommend checking out Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction07/12/16 03:46 PM
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Well, it's really up to you what choice you make. It's up to you to figure out what you want and why you want it. If you want to hook up with this girl, then ask yourself why? Use your Id, Ego, and Superego. make this difficult for the both of us? Depends on how you look at it. It's really up to her whether or not she wants to hook up, and it's on you as well. It is a mutual agreement, but you also have the freedom to say yes or no. You make the decision. Or I'm getting played by being used for …
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:41 PM
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I see. If I were you, I'd stay away from her.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:07 PM
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I understand. I know how confusing it can be. A good rule of thumb is to just let go. Trying to figure out why she's acting this way is time consuming. So you can ask yourself, "Is it worth my time and effort to figure out why she's flaking?" if so, why is it that important? You can take that as a rhetorical question or literally, but make sure you know what's worth fighting for. A girl that flakes and makes excuses? Or a girl that WANTS to be with you?
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:06 PM
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I think you should start practicing conversations in a non-seductive way. You seem to overthink what you should or shouldn't say next which is hindering your ability to express yourself. When you're trying to fake it till you make it, you're putting more stress on yourself trying to work on every right or wrong thing to say at that moment, after that sentence, etc. Opening yourself up is crucial when talking to women because when you're comfortable talking to anyone about anything, you'll never …
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:57 PM
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Are you trying to spend time with a girl that may or may not have a boyfriend? Do you think you can start going out with her?
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:51 PM
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A wise man once said, "If you have to ask, then that's your answer." I think you could ask her out one last time and see what happens. But think of it this way: If she starts flaking on you now, how do you think she's going to act in the future? There's a good possibility that if she's flaking you now that it's going to happen on a consistent basis. So ask yourself, "Do I really want to spend time with someone who flakes on me?" There's so much you can say or do to try and get her to come out, a…
/r/seduction08/11/16 03:48 PM
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or what I should do to make her like me more. I can give you one tip right now. Forget this mindset. This is a form of neediness. A better mindset that is going to sound a little selfish is, "What can she do that I will like about her?" This is a much better mindset to have when you're talking to women and people in general.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:40 PM
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You need to plan it way ahead of time. I'm assuming you mean everybody when you say you. That's just you. Everybody's different. If you like to plan 2-3 days ahead, then great. But they never go for that They meaning all women? I think you are generalizing women entirely. Again, everybody's different. What matters most is what OP wants to do. If this girl isn't into same or next day dates, then that's her, not every woman.
/r/seduction07/10/16 11:24 PM
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You might think this is unnecessary for me to say, but I think this is going to help you drastically. Every time you think, "Is this too soon? What if she says no? Am I being too pushy?" This isn't a healthy mindset to have. You may already know this. What I'm going to tell you is, there is absolutely no need to worry about this. I think you should first tell yourself that this isn't that important. What you say and do with this girl is not life and death. You'll have to be okay with the fact th…
/r/seduction07/10/16 10:10 PM
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I would start with a book called Mark Manson. A good form of seduction that I've noticed works well is vulnerability which Mark Manson explains thoroughly in the book. That means expressing how you feel in a confident manner, setting boundaries, and making yourself available for rejection. Example: You're on a third date with this girl you've been seeing and you're walking her back to her house. It's late, and you're standing around making boring conversation about how the Dollar General across …
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:42 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction05/10/16 01:29 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure you're not trying too hard. Women can sense stuff.
/r/seduction02/10/16 04:17 AM
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How are you feeling?
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:30 AM
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You make some good points here. I realize what you're saying and by no means do I find this unhelpful, but you don't need to explain to me what I did wrong. I know what I did wrong and right now I'm in the process of making my own life changes that I want to make. But your info is good for everyone else reading. All I'm saying here is, just because you know how to attract women doesn't mean you know how to have a relationship with another human being. Especially if it's a first guys go-around. R…
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:30 AM
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It sounds like you want a coach. And I just want to say this ... if you're going out for the sake of pickup, don't separate that from going out for fun, you know? Don't try and make pickup your main priority is all I'm saying.
/r/seduction01/10/16 01:23 AM
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sarge What does that mean?
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:33 PM
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I understand what you mean. I was talking about the seducing girls you've first met. Once you've seduced them, then the game changes. Now, it's about romance. If you want to call it seducing, that's fine too.
/r/seduction30/09/16 07:10 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction30/09/16 06:33 PM
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If you need someone to talk to, you can message me. Communication is very important. Always communicate. Always listen.
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:52 PM
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How are you feeling?
/r/seduction30/09/16 05:21 PM
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It helped me understand that women have completely different thought processes than men. When a woman says, "I'm pretty upset right now, so I don't feel like talking." What do you say to that? I can assume that you would leave her alone right? She said "I don't feel like talk". What this really means is, "I'm going through a lot right now, and I don't know if I wanna talk about, but I still want you to ask me." It's frustrating, but it's how women think. Check it out and see if you like it!
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:29 PM
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I'm not saying that seduction has no part here. Of course you need seduction to get women, but once you've already seduced her, then things start to change.
/r/seduction30/09/16 04:26 PM
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That's good! Don't let her get in the way of your priorities.
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:54 PM
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And if she doesn't, what do you plan on doing?
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:24 PM
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Are you nervous doing it alone?
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:01 PM
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Sorry to hear that she hasn't texted you back. It sucks, but ultimately, it's up to you how you want to handle it. If you wanna try one or two more times, I think that should tell you whether or not she's worth hanging out with again.
/r/seduction30/09/16 01:59 PM
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You should be honest in expressing yourself. If you want to talk about something with someone, do it. If you want to talk about cold approaches and game then that's your choice.
/r/seduction26/09/16 03:42 PM
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Can you be a little more specific?
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:08 PM
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I feel like i invest 100% to much into what people thing about me and if its negative i take that really hard The point is to be okay with that. No one likes to be judged so what you're feeling is normal. It's okay to feel like that. But girls like a guy who doesn't care what people think about him as long as he's being himself. Not everyone is going to like who you are, and that's fine too. If you want to find people you enjoy being with, then expressing who you are truthfully with the chance o…
/r/seduction26/09/16 01:06 PM
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I am struggling because sometimes I feel like its rude or not appropriate to approach someone, but I'm not sure if that's just my conscious telling me that. This is something you're telling yourself to believe. Whether it's right or wrong, you're choosing to believe that it's unusual to approach someone and that's fine. It's okay because it's totally normal to feel that way. You believe it's weird because that's what you've probably been raised to believe. So you have two choices: Continue to be…
/r/seduction23/09/16 06:48 PM
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This is good that you're taking responsibility for your own thoughts and acknowledging them appropriately. You know what you have to do, and that's good. Keep it man. You'll feel better in no time!
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:08 AM
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no guy will be against an FWB situation That's kind of a broad statement. Not everyone wants the same thing.
/r/seduction26/07/16 06:38 PM
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You're not alone. Everyone here has had that feeling before, and you know what? It's normal. Everyone makes mistakes. When I broke up with my first girlfriend, I had the same feelings. I wanted to try and be friends, but it didn't work. I recently broke up with a girl and I thought I could try and be friends with her, but I made the right decision and cut it off. If she really wanted to be with me, we would still be together. That is very important to understand. You're better off being without …
/r/seduction26/07/16 05:32 PM
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When I find a girl to be attractive, it's because she can make me feel attracted to her without having sex. She's cool to talk to, she makes me laugh, but more importantly, she has her boundaries. If I'm with a girl and she likes to have sex on the first date, that tells me a lot about her right there. She's not looking for a relationship. She's looking for sex. What makes me want to ask a girl out on a second date is if I find her interesting. She doesn't give me a lot of information on the fir…
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:57 PM
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I'm in a similar situation as yourself, so here's what I have to say. I totally understand what you're going through. It's not easy to get over someone you love. You feel the need to get back with her because you think it's the right decision, but you should ask yourself, "Have I ever felt like this with another person before?" Chances are you probably have. You've probably been rejected before and you've probably had your expectations shut down by the girl you wanted the most. It happens though…
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:38 PM
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Good on you man! Keep it up!
/r/seduction04/03/16 04:13 AM
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This might be bias since I'm OP, but this a great post. I appreciate the work you put into this response. Great advice here!
/r/seduction03/03/16 06:08 PM
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Is that what you want, bro? To be annihilated and destroyed by manipulative charlatans who want to drag you around as their emotional plaything? I think you should solve some of your own issues before you start giving me advice about women.
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:14 PM
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Not quite. She works at the bakery in Stracks, and I've bought a few things from there before and she's helped me out a few times, so we know each others faces. I waited until she asked if I needed any help, and I said,"No, not today. What's your name?" gives me her name "Well Amanda, I think you're really cute and I was wondering if I could have your number." She started to blush, told me that made her day cause she was having a bad day. Told me she had a boyfriend. She gave me a hug, and we pa…
/r/seduction03/03/16 04:59 AM
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I personally wouldn't encourage an ex to sleep with you. I agree that this tactic may work, but I believe the point of this subreddit is not to get back with your ex-girlfriend and enjoy new people.
/r/seduction25/11/15 05:59 PM
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I wouldn't agree 100% on your "Kill the social networking engagement. I wouldn't say you should make status posts if you don't want to because IMO, I hate reading self posts on Facebook. But, I do agree in posting interesting things about your life. Photos, videos, etc. I used to post a lot of videos of myself dancing to Dubstep music which got a lot of attention, leading to my ex-girlfriend (dated for 6 months but didn't work out). It is important to put yourself out and show that you can be ok…
/r/seduction25/11/15 04:19 AM
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This reminded me of Robin William's role in Good Will Hunting. It's very true.
/r/seduction19/11/15 01:35 AM
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Sounds like you're thinking about what you want to do 10 miles down the road. You don't know what is going to happen in future so why bother thinking about? You're only building up more anxiety by thinking about than actually doing it. The best time to live is now. Right now. Anyways to answer your question, you have to find out what type of girl she is. She might want one or the other. The only way to figure it out though is by doing it now. You can't lay it off until the next time you see her,…
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:54 PM
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I did the same thing awhile back my exGF. I can promise you that this is going to be a mistake. Don't get me wrong, though. It's nice when you can have sex easily because you've already broken that boundary, but you need to stay away from her. You're setting yourself up for regret. You might do this one night or maybe a couple nights. It all depends on the situation. This is either going to turn back into a relationship or you'll both break it off again. You're going to start having strong feeli…
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:46 PM
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Hey were all flesh and bone on the inside. Personality is what makes a person a person.
/r/seduction04/11/15 01:59 AM
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"You're god damn right I am."
/r/seduction04/11/15 01:17 AM
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This is good advice for anyone that is tired of being single. If you are single, you may be in the best position of your life to focus on what makes you happy. It is difficult for someone to love you if you don't love yourself.
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:08 AM
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I guess it's up to you. If this girl wants you to stop smoking, then she's just telling you what to do because she doesn't people that smoke which is judgmental. If you want to quit, quit for you and not for anyone else. Don't let this girl be the judge of what you do.
/r/seduction23/03/15 05:42 PM
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It's your girlfriend, who gives a shit when you touch it? Stop asking questions and just grab that shit before I do
/r/seduction19/03/15 03:15 AM
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Sex is sex. You either like it or you don't, plain and simple.
/r/seduction12/03/15 05:23 PM
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I'd say approach the group as you make eye contact with the girl you want. BUT, when you approach the group, start talking to any other girl. It will bring more attention from the other girls making it easier to talk to them later.
/r/seduction11/03/15 06:11 PM
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What you are asking is, you want to watch a video where a guy goes up to girls and watch him pick up women effectively, right?
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:03 PM
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You wouldn't learn anything if you watched a video of a PUA pick up girls in midday or whenever. It's the tips you learn from them that help you. If you watched videos of guys picking up chicks, it would be totally different if you did it yourself.
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:56 PM
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I've heard this one before. Good tip
/r/seduction27/02/15 04:37 PM
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This was fucking rad! Thank you!
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:49 PM
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I too find humor when I get rejected. Whenever I'm on Tinder and some girl Unmatches me, I can't help but laugh. It is that feeling that I tried and it didn't work because of her personal preference. I find it funny when girls reject me, it's just my personality.
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:47 PM
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Indiana
/r/seduction24/02/15 06:18 PM
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Thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:32 PM
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In that case, I do feel a little nervous because I have never had a one night stand so I don't know what to do.
/r/seduction10/02/15 06:33 PM
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A chick offering you to have sex with her friends? She is a goddess
/r/seduction30/01/15 09:13 PM
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