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Wow such a good summary! I appreciate all the quotes you use, it helps me to remember what I've read and what part we're discussing haha. I don't find Darya a very interesting character although I do feel bad for her for the life she's living. She's married to someone who she knows doesn't love her. That has to be my worst nightmare!! And as a consequence she's very lonely and made to take care of her SIX children by herself. Stepan can't even get it together long enough to tidy up the country h…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/22 01:04 PM
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I hated that he did that too... That whole scene was intense and disturbing! What does that say about Vronsky's character that he literally kicked a horse that was in extreme pain who he claimed to love? Almost sounds like what he's doing to Anna. He knows she is hurting and he claims to love her yet he's adding to her hurt
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 01:20 AM
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You bring up a good point about Vronsky's values... It makes me wonder if he actually loves Anna? Sure, he lusts after her. But he is someone who can clearly see he is destroying her life and he even tells her their relationship will have no peace... If he believes that then why continue in the relationship? If you really loved someone wouldn't you want them to have peace? Wouldn't you want them to not be miserable because of the position you've put them in? I dont know, he's very passionate and…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 01:17 AM
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Yes the horse race scene was really interesting. Probably one of the most exciting scenes so far! And I can't find the exact quote, but if I remember correctly didn't Vronsky think of Anna right before he messed up the jump that broke his horse's back? I remember clearly that it was Vronsky's fault that his horse got injured because his form was slightly off on the jump. What led to that was him being distracted by thoughts of Anna... I agree that this could be foreshadowing to what's to come of…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 01:09 AM
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I'm late to the party, I know! Work has been busy and I had a hard time finding time to read this post and make my writeup :) but here it goes anyway! I agree with all of your analysis here OP. Very well thought out and I appreciate all the quotes you use as it helps me remember what scenes you are referring to. I like the discussion of Anna's husband. I feel so bad for him honestly. I believe he truly loves Anna. It's just not a fiery passion kind of love that Anna thinks she has with Vronsky. …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 01:02 AM
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You're definitely right about Levin and Kitty! I think I've been pretty harsh on all the characters actually... Haha it's a lot easier to judge them as someone looking in from the outside! I get what you mean by Levin, I can see his red pill potential! And you would know better since you've read the whole book :) And yes I do feel pretty bad about how harshly I judged Kitty at first haha. After reading some other comments Ive seen her in a different light. She is definitely in all of us, myself …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 03:11 PM
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I definitely agree and while I also agree with another commenter who wrote about the cycle of destruction, I think this issue is exacerbated in our culture today because of one invention: birth control. Now that there's an almost 100% guarantee you can have sex all the time and face nearly no consequences (ie pregnancy), there's not much of a deterrent to have meaningless sex.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 10:49 PM
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Yes I think we're on the same page now, I agree with everything you said! I definitely like how you mentioned he doesn't seem concerned with pleasing anyone- I just read a chapter on him today that made me think just that haha. Here's to hoping this rejection from Kitty wakes him up and inspires him to transform to a true red pilled alpha!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 09:13 PM
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Hmm blue pilled alpha... Sounds like an oxymoron! Haha but I guess its possible! I guess I just call people "beta" who don't show "alpha" qualities such as confidence, assertiveness, etc. And maybe thats an incorrect way of thinking... But isn't a large part of being alpha having strong frame? And by your explanation Levin didn't have strong frame when it involved Kitty because he wanted to be invited into her frame... Does that disqualify him as alpha? Is there a middle ground between alpha and…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 08:29 PM
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I like your points about marriage during this time period! I bet it was super confusing because they're in the awkward middle phase: the kids generation are trying to change it so they can decide who they marry, but the parents generation are also trying to still have a say so then no one knows what to do like what Kitty's mom said! But it's kind of ironic because Kitty's mom was pushing Kitty toward Vronsky who had no intention of marrying... So if Kitty's mom had more of a say would it have re…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 07:46 PM
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I agree that Levin puts Kitty on a pedestal and that kind of behavior is very unattractive! And I also agree that Vronsky tempted her away, but maybe if Levin hadn't been so beta in regards to Kitty she would've chosen him...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 06:24 PM
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I'm glad to hear you ended up loving Levin and Kitty. I'm at the point where I hate both of them haha. Delusional and childish are good descriptions...
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 06:20 PM
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I've been enjoying the book so far! While reading the book I've tried to relate each character to the red pill sphere- do you agree with the labels? Levin: I'm actually quite surprised at OP's analysis of Levin! I think he seemed super blue pill at first because he drew all of his potential joy from marriage with Kitty and he pretty much worshipped her. Also here's a quote of Levin thinking of Kitty that made me want to barf: "The place where she stood seemed to him a holy shrine, unapproachable…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 06:19 PM
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I am also in! Haven't read it yet, but it sounds interesting!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 05:55 PM
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Oh I wanted to add too- don't lose sight of God's sovereignty!! Don't lose faith! If marriage is in God's plan for you, He will bring someone in your life way better than this guy. And from your post it seems you're only 25 so don't worry! Remember Matthew 6:27. Praying for you sister.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/21 01:49 PM
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The other commenter is definitely right! But in case you need more motivation to drop this guy I wanted to add my two cents :) This seemed important to you in your post so I wanted to stress it's never a good idea to become seriously involved with someone of a different religion. My mom always stressed this to me growing up and I'm glad she did. She'd say things like "How will you decide how to raise your children?" "Will you be okay taking the kids to church by yourself?" "Will you be okay know…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/21 01:38 PM
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I think you already know the answer to your question. My opinion is at the very least you should first take time for yourself. Break up with the current boyfriend (because as you said, what you're doing is not fair to him), have minimal contact with the ex, and just focus on yourself for awhile. Maybe after some time you will have a clearer picture of what you want and you can consider revisiting your relationship with your ex. Although you said the relationship seemed hopeless so definitely mak…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 08:09 PM
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But don't you feel like you would feel that way with any guy? What if I stayed or what if I left? Or do you think he's not providing you something that makes you sure you want to stay? If you think it's just specific to him then that could be a problem, but in general everyone has these thoughts. There's always the "what if" question. But if you love him and you're happy with him then you should take the risk. It's always a risk to fully commit yourself to someone because you can't control the o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 05:49 PM
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It sounds like you have to choose between two risks: stay with a man you don't fully mesh with in the hopes you can make it work or find a new relationship even though you're at the wall. That's a tough one and even though it sounds cheesy I would encourage you to follow your heart. I think it's good to be aware of the wall, but it's not the end all be all. If you're not happy in this relationship and feel like you're settling I don't see how that will make for a good future for you. You mention…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 05:53 PM
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Well thank you for the response. I would've appreciated it more without the sass. Sorry my young reddit account makes you doubt my legitimate worries. Also if you're suggesting I was "concern trolling" I was not... "for the record."
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 12:32 AM
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OP literally asked for men's opinion so I'm not sure why you are saying men are not allowed to post on here. I realize it's red pill women, but I think many of us, including myself, value a man's opinion on some of the topics. Especially someone who literally asked for it. Saying men can't post seems very BP to me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 11:53 PM
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Thank you for this explanation. I haven't really heard about this before. It leaves me asking: So where does this leave women who don't want to have children? I am a woman in a committed relationship, close to marriage, where we have said we most likely will never have kids. Does this mean I'll be missing out on some kind of special love? If I do miss this love, will I be any less of a person because of it? This is in no way trying to critique what you said, I'm honestly curious because I never …
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 03:18 PM
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From the way your post is worded, it sounds like you've just been on one date and had one meal. Not to give false hope, but this doesn't mean he won't pay in the future. I know a lot of guys who don't pay for the first few dates because they don't want to be played and then short a few bucks because they decided to be gentlemanly and you just wanted a free meal. Not saying all you wanted is a free meal, but guys always don't know that.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 12:20 PM
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I seem to agree with the previous comment about women usually picking up false negatives from men and and men false positives from women. That being said, if a guy seems like he's into you then he probably is. I think women pick up on false negatives because many of us are timid when it comes to relationships with men and how to proceed so we just write it off like "oh of course he's not into me, he's just being nice." Let me tell you in my experience guys aren't just nice to you to be nice! My …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 09:36 PM
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