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tberg/r/seduction09/04/15 11:03 PM
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You still enjoy the person. You still care about them. You sleep with them. It is a relationship. It still means something even if its not exclusive.
/r/seduction11/04/15 05:30 PM
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Nothing to do with me being a good dude. But with me meeting all her needs better then she can find with anyone else. She's had many experiences. Knows what kind of man she wants. Chooses me for the same reason I choose her. Compatibility and attraction on multiple levels. Not neediness or trying to fill missing hole we have with the love of the other person. I'm not saying she'll never cheat on me. But if she does its because I've been fucking up at home, not being a man, not meeting her needs.…
/r/seduction11/04/15 05:25 PM
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You are being exposed to a strange range of girls that reflect YOUR attitude. Yes girls like sex, and will elicit it freely, especially when that's what you are doing. But What was your goal in learning pickup? Meet a bunch of high quality girls and experience the contrast that lets you know what you want in a female. Then find that girl whose worth giving up all the others for. Reflecting your high level of value back to you. Then being that man for her that satisfies her needs better than any …
/r/seduction11/04/15 03:05 PM
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You are describing symptoms of a way of being. A way of being that leads to conveying both characteristics at the same time. If you are attempting to act out these behaviors you will fail every time. It comes from being apologetically yourself. From loving yourself so much that you want to share that awesome self with others. And if they don't like it or don't think your as awesome as you think, that's their problem. Because you understand that your personality is polarizing. 30% will like you, …
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:38 PM
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She will pick up on this by the frames you set. Based on what you are saying you are already setting girlfriend frames in your mind, which will be conveyed by your actions which she will translate into your intentions. ie. 'dating this girl tomorrow' try and see it like meeting up with, hanging out with, having fun with. Being attached to the outcome is more of a 'girlfriend' frame than a FWB. Wondering what could happen, not being sure how shes going to respond after sex. You're setting yoursel…
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:20 PM
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Boring her about emotional shit about yourself is still focusing on the actual words being said and not the vibe behind the conversation. It's still looking for her approval. I'm saying that's not the best way to get it. The best way to bring out THEIR emotions is to feel them yourself first. Look at a Tony Robbins speech. The dude pumps you up because he is so pumped up himself. You are right about having standards for what you talk about and what you allow in conversations. Standing up for you…
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:01 PM
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As a simplification yes, the self is always coming through. The girl will feel into your vibe. Much more so than the specifics of what you say. If you overflow those good feelings, she will respond with good feelings about you.
/r/seduction11/04/15 01:37 PM
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Oh well if you have the fundamentals completely mastered, please disregard.
/r/seduction10/04/15 09:08 PM
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Good advice. Health comes first. Everything else pours from that. You'll think better, feel better and look better. But big muscles cant cover up a shitty mindset. Love yourself.
/r/seduction10/04/15 02:19 PM
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People screw themselves up because of the frames they have around the interaction. They come in trying to get something from the girl. They want her to like them, give them attention and in the back of their mind to sleep with them. It's like chicks can read your mind, literally. Do the best you can to be SUPER enjoying the day. Loving everything. And that enthusiasm will spill into the conversation. You could be thinking 'Damn I love that the sun is out right now, WOW that's a sweet looking bui…
/r/seduction10/04/15 01:56 PM
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Show them how desirable he is by having fun with him. You two are having such a hoot that the girls will want to know more about you. Don't talk him up, vibe with him. Vibe with them. Tell cool stories about each other. They already know what you are doing. Stop trying to hide it. They are playing the game too. Make it easy for all parties involved to succeed. The tactics can come into play after that. Help them spend time alone with the girl by talking with her friends. ect.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:36 PM
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Wow. You're still teaching tactics. Must be what people are buying. Still making it about the girl and how to coax her into your life and coax her into staying. Rather than living your highest self and relating to girls on the same level as you. Find a person you vibe with and she will stick around. Using small tricks to get her to be attracted to you sill guarantee she jumps out of the boat right after you catch her.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:26 PM
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It took me about 3 years to get scary good at attracting girlfriends. It took me about 30 girlfriends to find the right one. And it took lots of nights out forcing myself into social interactions, making friends, meeting people to find those girlfriends. Who are still friends. Time to do the hard work of getting rejected and not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:20 PM
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This is largely bullshit. Subcomminicatoin happens to a large extent both online and offline. I used to play online poker 'professionally' and people and the question you always get 'how do you read people if its online.' But it's almost easier. There is still communication. Betsize, timing. Just like in virtual interactions. What you say, how you say it, response timing. Hell you can send pictures today. Most likely you are being too logical online. In person people can see you are fun. Joke ar…
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:15 PM
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Let it play out. Be in the moment and figure out a solution together. It'll be fun. You're making it too serious by trying to map it out ahead of time. Just my two cents. I understand it feels serious but its not. She wants to figure out logistics as bad as you do. If she drives to your house and you guys share a cab. That's solid. She understands what that means. If she doesn't want to cab, let her drive. vibe. Figure the rest out later.
/r/seduction09/04/15 11:09 PM
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Raise your standards with women so you don't get seen as sleeping with the easy girls and don't talk about how many people you hook up with. Its a secret between you and the girls. You will not get a bad reputation if you are not being a douche bag. You should acquire a good reputation, as someone who is able to attract high value women. More women will become attracted to you. Pick-up is just working on yourself. The people who judge you need it more then you do.
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:59 PM
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Women are emotional not logical. They could do this becasuse they liek how their hair looks today and their outfit is on point. Maybe they had a conversation with their best friend and they feel sexy rather then the pissed off mood they were in the last time you saw them. Do you best to make their behavior irrelevant. You are you, walking your walk, casting your spells, and how they react to it is their problem. This creates attraction. Unless you are faking it at which point you look like a dou…
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:54 PM
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Have patience with yourself most importantly. You used to be shy! Now you can talk to a wide range of people :) The next step is getting comfortable talking to the 'popular kids.' You must see them on the same level as you. Sure right now they have friends, get all the girls, do all the cool shit on the weekends. But you are the one working on yourself. They still have issues in their lives. Shit you wouldn't believe until you became friends with them. Which you cant do if you don't see your sel…
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:51 PM
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You are coming at this from a very logical perspective when conversations (especially with women) are emotional. They want you to feel into them and vibe. It doesn't matter what you talk about, the conversation is irrelevant. What matters is how the two people feel. If your are simply people pleasing with 'the customer is always right' you are giving your value away. Especially when generating attraction. They dont want to be right, they want to see what kind of a man you are. Are you one that s…
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:45 PM
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If only effects your attraction if you are self conscious about it. If you want to eliminate it try cutting sugar and grains from your diet and heal your stomach lining. What happens in your gut happens on your skin. Your acne is neutral. Your self consciousness is a turn off.
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:28 PM
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