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16	Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapy Oof. Oof. Oof. Oof. Those narc supply traits all sound like me before therapy (and a bit now, it's an ongoing process) and the narc talking sounds so much like the guy I was emotionally manipulated by. I'm about to be put back in a situation where I'll see him regularly (we're classmates) and I'm dreading it. We even met at a party (in 2019) where I was trying to both be social and hide at the same time. And he'd comment on how he'd never seen so many people be as casually macabre as in our coho…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/21 03:48 AM
0	FDS is anti polyamory My two best friends are in an open relationship (that's how I met them) and the way they handled things when we were sleeping together is one of the top reasons I don't think open relationships are good for the extra person. I didn't even know their relationship was open when I first slept with them (they had told me they were just a couple looking for a threesome) and I'm still hurt about that three years later. At that point in my life I had already realized being caught up in an open relation…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 04:04 PM
22	FDS is anti polyamory As someone who has been involved in open relationships in the past as the 'extra' person: 100% this. I would never want someone I cared about getting involved in an open relationship. They're selfish, they don't give a shit about you, and you're just going to get hurt. In my experience, the 'oh so great' communication open/poly couples LOVE to say they have and that it's what makes things work is only between the primary partners. Even if you're their friend, they're still going to put sex and t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 02:38 AM

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