tcreo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	How to meet girls on a cruise? What are they gonna do, say no?	/r/seduction	28/07/22 02:00 PM
17	Guys who are highly successful with women, was it always that way for you? I spend 30 mins 4-5 times/ week right now working on self esteem books What do you mean by that? You're writing books or just reading/re-reading them? Self-esteem is my biggest problem. I fixed most of my "surface level" issues that plagued me during my teenage years and I'm pretty good in social settings now, hooked up with girls, but deep inside low self-esteem still bothers me and have prevented me from getting into a relationship because I don't feel good enough for the type of women I'm att…	/r/seduction	04/02/20 12:34 PM
2	How the hell do I get laid without destroying my reputation What kind of reputation are you trying to protect exactly? There is nothing wrong in expressing interest in a girl. Small town is tough not because of reputation but because of limited options. If you think you've really exhausted all available options I'd advise you to consider relocating. It's easier said by done but that's what I did and I lost my v-card shortly after. I was older than you back then (24) so you don't have to stress too much about it.	/r/seduction	03/02/20 11:44 AM
1	Advice on texting/DM Did you establish any kind of rapport in the gym? If you've barely talked with her and straight ask her out she might be hesitant. It's hard to say what your next move should be when I don't know how you conversation went but given she's away for a whole week I'll try to initiate some light convo to keep the connection warm during this time and try again to schedule a date when she returns. Maybe try something like: "Oh well, any cool place you're visiting?" - or "Oh no, now you'll start teasing…	/r/seduction	13/08/19 07:56 AM
1	Good conversation topics for a date? Start off with the usual stuff - what do you work, where are you from, what do you study/have studied and etc.. just so you can build comfort and get to know each other a bit. Don't overdo it though cause you can easily turn it into an interview and kill the vibe (been there done that). Pick a right moment when the energy is high and shift the conversation towards more intimate topics. This usually happens after like 20-30 minutes though I have had girls we have great chemistry with so we just c…	/r/seduction	13/08/19 07:35 AM
1	Change my mind Depends on the girl, outspoken and flashy girls might appreciate the balls to approach her right there but most girls would find it awkward and uncomfortable and that would sabotage the operation. Read the girl and reevaluate.	/r/seduction	12/03/19 07:20 PM
13	I had thought boxing would make me more confident when approaching girls and talking to them. Now I just don't need that. Just make sure you're not bulshitting yourself out of approaching, man. I've actually also picked up boxing 3 years ago with the same intention and felt similarly to you as a result. Then I traveled, moved to a new place, started a new job, started working on a side project, picked couple of more productive hobbies. And while these things are great and I'm improving as a person, part of me was doing them just to avoid approaching as this is by far my greatest fear in life. And the thing, at leas…	/r/seduction	13/02/18 07:51 AM
1	Virgin and depressed about my lack of attractiveness to girls... I'm losing hair at a lot worse rate than you and my Tinder pics where my hair is visible are from 2 years ago, on top of that I'm having a beard now and I don't on my pics, so I look different from my profile but none of my dates actually cared. As long as I kept the cool vibe from the chat and I'm still in good shape, they're fine with it. P.S. get some interesting pics, not just mirror selfies	/r/seduction	30/10/17 12:37 PM
2	Advice on meeting people on tinder I've been doing Tinder for couple of months now and I've only had 2 girls that messaged me first. You might raise your chances if you have something interesting in your bio (mine is blank) and have some cool photos (mine are just average photos , mostly from my travels) but your chances are still pretty slim. What I usually do is wait a day after the match and then open them. If they made the match I often use a line similar to "Hey according to Tinder rules since you made the match you should b…	/r/seduction	23/10/17 12:07 PM
1	What is the #1 issue holding you back? Can you expand on the NLP part? I've been doing meditation and nofap for nearly 3 years now, also cold showers since fairly recent and I've got a lot of shit in my life under control thanks to them, but AA is still a huge problem for me, might as well give NLP a shot.	/r/seduction	06/10/17 08:48 AM
2	Starting to try more daygame. Tips or FR experiences welcomed. Mini FR included It's not so much "Hey, I think you're pretty." the problem, in fact it's good you're confident enough to make a compliment, but asking for coffee straight ahead is too forward. You should've tried to get in a short convo with her and then ask to meet up for coffee. Something in the lines of "Hey, I thought you're pretty so wanted to come and say hi. My name is deathofasheep.", she'll most certainly say hi back and tell you her name (unless she's in a hurry or something), you do some small talk a…	/r/seduction	25/04/17 01:40 PM
145	First time approaching a girl in 5 years - Nerdy Introvert Infield - First recording ever That was really, really good for first time in 5 years. Obviously we couldn't see your body language from that camera, but your voice seemed chilled, you got the girl in a positive vibe, didn't make her feel weird and kept your cool after the boyfriend drop. It would be interesting seeing more content from you.	/r/seduction	08/04/17 05:14 AM
130	What to do when a girl stares at you? the James Bond Smirk Example	/r/seduction	04/04/17 05:46 PM
9	I'm a fucking wreck but I won't stay that way Good luck on your journey, but don't describe yourself as a 'fucking wreck' when you're 23, in good shape, doing well in college and having had multiple girlfriends - there are numerous people on this board in worse situations, imagine how would this make them feel. And yeah, distance yourself from the stoner peeps and look into meditation. I was in your situation not long ago, couldn't stop smoking for more than 2-3 days as my flatmates were stoners but since I moved away I no longer need it. N…	/r/seduction	19/03/17 03:13 PM
20	FIELD REPORT: Hottie From Tinder seddit should introduce a new rule that OP must post his height and looks rating in the thread title so posts like this can be filtered out /s	/r/seduction	27/02/17 09:01 AM
3	Fact: Women like Muscles I really don't get why people bother to do stuff like that, I mean is there some place on the internet I haven't heard of that you exchange karma for bitcoins or something?	/r/seduction	24/02/17 06:32 AM
1	Can deleting your Facebook have a significant impact on how women view you? Instead of deleting it, just hide the news feed so you don't have to clutter your mind with people bullshit. I use a Chrome extension called 'Kill News Feed' - that way I can still use it to stay in touch with friends, check for local events, participate in groups and so on .. but I only see people posts if I go to their profile. Before I found that extension I also cancelled my facebook for about 7-8 months, but this way it's a lot better IMO.	/r/seduction	23/02/17 08:23 AM
1	[Cold approaches] - What does the conversation ladder look like? Indicators of interest	/r/seduction	02/02/17 05:29 AM
5	22 years old, senior in college, never kissed a girl, any tips on getting over regret and motivating myself to keep pushing? Is this story actually true tho? Cause if it is we'd appreciate it if you can bore us with some details from his 8-year journey.	/r/seduction	03/06/16 06:35 PM
2	So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27... what would you suggest as a conversation starter? You can share a machine with a girl or just comment on form/technique. I've had couple of cases like that and girls actually react well, as long as you're not creepy and you smile, one time it actually led to a date. Bear in mind, I'm in a similar situation like yourself and haven't had the balls to do a direct approach yet in my life so I'm not a guru or anything.	/r/seduction	05/02/16 03:00 PM
1	Socially awkward and anxious guy needs help. I want to tell her everything, but as usual, I'm worried that I'll lose her as a friend as she's quite valuable in that sense. Dude, be honest with yourself - you don't want her just as a friend. Imagine seeing her everyday as you do now but her being in a relationship with someone else - it would suck, right? I'm 24 as well, similar to you when it comes to women, was at the same place last year, didn't play my cards right and now the girl is with someone else, whereas I spent months trying to g…	/r/seduction	15/11/15 08:55 PM
1	How to make a guy ask you out during his work? From what I read in your further comments, he's definitely into you so as the almighty Shia says - JUST DO IT. Furthermore , we guys are not as emotional and sensitive so there's no risk you'll catch him in a bad moment or you'll send the wrong vibe - if he doesn't have a girlfriend, he'll surely be up for a casual date. Just be careful not to come off as needy - that's universal advice for both sexes. On a side note, may I ask what makes you so attracted to him? I mean, it is a general consensu…	/r/seduction	03/11/15 03:50 PM
1	If you don't want to do cold approach or online dating, how else can you meet hot girls? I'm in a similar boat dude and since my social circle is mostly consisted of dudes and I don't have much time to participate in clubs/communities, I'm psyching myself to start approaching. I know it can be really tough, especially if you're coming from some negative background as myself, but look at it as some task you just need to go through, no matter the result. Imagine after years when your son asks you advice on that and you tell him "I don't know, I never really had the balls to do it"..	/r/seduction	28/10/15 07:44 AM
1	What are your top 5 most influencial media sources to learn about romance? Exactly. He's big time when it comes to flirting and steering towards a sexual vibe. Even if some of the stuff are scripted there are still plenty of things to learn from him.	/r/seduction	27/10/15 09:20 PM
3	What are your top 5 most influencial media sources to learn about romance? that would steer any conversation towards a sexual vibe? Pretty much every Craig Ferguson interview, see them on Youtube	/r/seduction	27/10/15 09:50 AM
1	Onetitis I wasn't very clear, I meant cut the fwb part, as you've suggested in your post. IMO it will just mess up with your emotions and keep you hooked to her but you know yourself best, if you think you can control them go ahead	/r/seduction	16/10/15 07:51 PM
2	How to deal with casual relationships? It's normal to feel like that after a break up but you need to ask yourself objectively - did you have any other chemistry with her apart from sexual? Is she someone you'd be happy with in a relationship/family? If you're not 100% sure, then you've probably made the right decision. Otherwise you might have ended with each other for , say, couple more years just for the comfort of it and when that comfort starts fading out, you'd be in the same place as you're now - just older.	/r/seduction	16/10/15 02:00 PM
-1	Onetitis Cut her off. Tell her one last time you'd like more from your relationship and if she still disagrees, leave her. Maybe in a while she'll come back to you ready for the next step, if not - you'll probably forget her. But as long as she keeps you on a leash nothing will change.	/r/seduction	16/10/15 01:49 PM
3	Saw Mystery, the PUA from the Game at a Toronto Lair meetup. Here is his 15 second advise. Shut the fuck up, Donnie	/r/seduction	16/10/15 07:26 AM
1	The importance of having female friends Great post, agree with everything except: Girls are totally funnier than guys (we’re so predictable) Not to be sexist, but I've rarely seen girls who are genuinely funny and that's exactly because of predictability. I used to study in a high school with ~ 4:1 female to male ratio so I've had to opportunity to interact with variety of them. Of course, if you establish rapport with a girl and things are going well, you're probably gonna find her funny because of the overall good vibe going on, but…	/r/seduction	14/10/15 09:42 AM
4	Girl I like is interested in a dude she doesn't know at all, yet finds me entertaining and interesting. but I don't want to make a bonehead move that kills our budding friendship First off, decide for yourself if you wanna be friends with her or you wanna date her because if you try to do both, chances are it's not going to end well (speaking from experience). Second, but she has some other dude she's interested in (but knows almost nothing about him - they met somewhere else briefly This sounds like she was telling you about that other dude, is that the case? If so that sounds pretty deep friendz…	/r/seduction	09/10/15 09:25 AM
2	Girls of reddit. Whats your idea of a perfect 1st date ever? Uhm, you ask for female advice on seddit? Maybe try /r/AskWomen	/r/seduction	29/09/15 08:12 PM
2	Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20? I imagined this..	/r/seduction	28/09/15 09:45 AM
1	How to approach a girl who's always on her phone with ear buds in? You might as well use this Rock line for full alpha	/r/seduction	18/09/15 08:37 AM
1	Movies/tv shows/celebrities to learn body language and speech patterns from? Early Brando tops everyone, perfect example is "A Streetcar Named Desire". Also George Clooney - pretty much every film he's been in.	/r/seduction	11/08/15 07:27 AM
2	[FR] Met Girl on Subway, Went for Drinks, Bromance Ensues All Hail Bob!	/r/seduction	04/08/15 07:20 AM
1	Anyone tried using Linkedin to score a date? Arrange to meet about some job opportunity or something but say you're busy during work hours so ask if it would be possible to do it after that in a bar or cafe. It would be more relaxed and casual than in an office or something. btw I don't know why but i've seen numerous girls who have hotter pictures on LinkedIn than on Facebook lol Especially some of those recruiters ...	/r/seduction	29/07/15 11:47 AM
5	Where to night game for high schoolers? Cause getting invited to parties is every person's ultimate goal in life. Fail. OP, definitely try to get to some parties cause it'll help you out, but if you don't don't get stressed about it. Maybe try to throw a party yourself, even if it is a small one, or help with the organization of another one - maybe some school event, a friend's bday or something. Don't know what is your situation exactly.	/r/seduction	28/07/15 12:03 PM
3	[FR] Met a girl through Couchsurfing in Italy Couchsurfing is a website to meet/host people in your city or a city you visit. OP, you did very well, just unfortunate chain of events. Try to meet with her ASAP before it fades away.	/r/seduction	09/07/15 07:51 AM