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| 13 | Do Not Work Harder Than She Is To Solve Her Own ProblemsHighly dependent on local customs. In Eastern Europe you're expected to pay. You're a man, you invite, you pay. That's it. In Central Europe the custom is that the person who invites - pays. And it doesn't matter if you're inviting a friend for a beer, a family for dinner or a girl for a coffee. You pay at least the first round. As for "better if you don't pay" and "she offers to pay" it really depends on girl and - again - local customs. In Eastern Europe it can be seen as "I don't want you to … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/19 10:45 PM |
| 4 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoSo if you made the choice of LTR and being faithful that's great ; but it should not ever be an absolute rule, you should not be always available emotionally if she's not always there for your needs. Hell no, I don't recommend that to guys. I'm just saying IF you decided, be a man of your word. And if you plan on changing that, either tell her or break up with her. Don't lie and cheat. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 08:45 PM |
| 3 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoI don't view that romanticism as a choice. Some guys are simply into building something else than spinning plates. And speaking from experience, some go through phases. I've been spinning plates and I've been in LTRs that lasted a long time. I also, shock/horror, was monogamous after the spinning period. Do what you want to do (but read the warning labels). Sorry, I don't know what I was thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoSome are insecure, some just enjoy coming back home to a loving and pleasant girl. Most are a mix. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 08:39 PM |
| 4 | The Romantic Red Pill Manifesto"The 30/30 rule: Don't get married until you're at least 30 years old, and have banged at least 30 girls." https://twitter.com/alpharivelino/status/798810618341928960 | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 20 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoIt doesn't mean u should cheat, but just don't be afraid of it or of the repercussions on your relationship it just makes you weak. Cultivating attaction is great. Cheat or don't regarding how your sex life is going (but if its not going well, you probably don't keep the right frame) I was always in the "you shouldn't cheat" camp. If you want to sleep with other girls, don't agree to monogamy in the first place. You should make it obvious from the very beginning that she's not the only one. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoYou're right about the affection. I should've written "affection & comfort" or something like that but we all know we shouldn't chase 'comfort' ... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | The Romantic Red Pill ManifestoWell it's almost the same that what I wrote in "know a) what to do to minimize that chance b) choose the girls carefully c) be prepared in case everything falls apart." Kudos on pointing out the abundance part. I subscribe to Rivelino's 30/30 rule ("The 30/30 rule: Don't get married until you're at least 30 years old, and have banged at least 30 girls.") | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How To Avoid A Serious Relationship?If you're feeling guilty then end it. Why would you subject yourself to negative emotions? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 02:18 PM |
| 3 | How To Avoid A Serious Relationship?That's a really bad scenario. It is possible to go from "just sex" to a relationship. The other way around? Good luck with that. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Use Humor In Your GameSelf-deprecating humor makes her think deep inside "maybe it's true what he is saying" or "maybe he's insecure and is covering that with jokes". Not always, not for everyone, not all the time. I've approached thousands of women and I can joke that "I'm really shy around women". She laughs because she knows it's not true - she's seen me acting boldly and confidently prior to that joke. It is very hard to pull off, most guys can't do it and when giving general advice I avoid recommending things th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Game - The Art Of Avoiding 'No'the way to "not fuck up" is by being confident and having solid frame control. escalate kino appropriately (don't start groping ass or tits too soon). isolate away from people who know her to avoid ASD. You're listing various ways of avoiding "no". And that was exactly my point. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Can You Use Porn (Or Is It Using You)?That's not the way to go. Learn to control your breathing and to recognize the point of no return. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Make Her Ask You About This (And That)Haha! I meant that sentence as an exclusive choice. You don't need everything - great first impression and something attractive about you (not limited to that list) usually is enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Make Her Ask You About This (And That)I do daygame, I'm the best thing that comes up that day but I get your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/17 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?Do I really have to explain that raping is against someone's will? Extramarital sex has only willing participants. Get your analogies straight. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?Yeah, get the lowest estimate of adultery rates and higher rates for assault where cheating wife was the main motive. There's really nothing to be afraid of. BTW I'm not suggesting anyone should do it. I'm just saying "if you want to - here's how". | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?And exactly how many such things happen yearly? And how many cases of adultery happen per year? Don't you think you're overexaggerating? Besides - I ride a motorbike, my chances of dying in a traffic accident are much higher that the following scenario: a) a husband finds out that his wife cheated on him b) he decides to find out with whom c) he finds out about me d) after all this time he is still angry enough to do something stupid e) finds me f) he is actually stupid enough to try do somethin… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?So in your world "game" is the ability to not fuck up the interaction. In my world the interactions are usually longer and the girls are rarely "yes girls". The "game" is the ability to change "maybe, I don't know" to "ok, let's do this". I think we just have different experiences. Both can be true. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?I hope anyone that tries this gets shot up by raging husbands Great way to hold up frame and not get angry, bro! Also: "no moralizing" is the rule number two here in case you've missed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?I can't stand moralizing because you're telling me how to live based on your personal morals and ethics. They are not universal, they are not ingrained in the definition of masculinity - they are yours. Grow up and accept that not everyone has to live like you personally want them to. Because there is no difference between wishing "men should marry and have kids" and "women should like nice guys". It’s just projection of your own beliefs. I have no problem with you living that way. And you shoul… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?My daygame experiences both in person and watching/listening to others suggest that charm/wit/personality/lifestyle are as important as physical looks if not more. YMMV | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?Ok, so you subscribe to "only looks matter" theory. I wouldn't say that was the case with the married girls I've slept with. I'd use much broader "charm". It's not enough to say "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" be it a married chick or a single. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?There is a link in the sidebar called Rules. You can read there as follows: No moralizing Posts & Comments Reported as: No moralizing Nothing in TRP prohibits you from having and following a code of ethics. You're welcome to discuss why certain morals or values might exist, or their benefit in the context of strategy, however arguments that stem from morality (i.e. this is evil, therefore) are strictly prohibited. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?Well you're making a straw man right now by saying all married girls willing to cheat are used up, thousand-cock-stare leftovers. Even those who married young and got bored. I'm sure an average hottie you meet at a club is less used up than a married girl... Oh wait, no, she isn't. So while I totally understand that you personally might not want to sleep with a girl who's married (or in a monogamous relationship) I'd say that it actually might suggest her n-count isn't that big. Especially judgi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?I'm a daygamer. I meet them during the day in random situations, usually when they walk to/from work or meeting. So no, they don't "dress like sluts" or "are drinking". "Easier to close" but "harder to find one willing to cheat" so it evens out. Do 100 cold approaches on girls in relationships and 100 on single girls you'll get equal number of notches from each group. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?What risk? Do you REALLY think someone would confront me? Grow up. Plus I live in a country when no one has access to firearms. And I'm quite sure I'll usually be the stronger one anyway. Not that anyone would ever actually confront me and/or find out. So... what risk? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Are Married Chicks Easier Or Special?You contradict yourself. The game is required to pass as the candidate. It's not like "any guy will do". | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | "If She Likes You, She'll Find A Way", Right? Not Necessarily...That's exactly what I'm saying. In some cases you don't need to improve your game. You need to approach different type of girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 06:00 PM |
| 0 | "If She Likes You, She'll Find A Way", Right? Not Necessarily...I'm all in for confidence and being the catch. I'm just saying "to think you're Brad Pitt to her is delusional; you've talked with her on the street for 5-10 minutes; don't expect her to drop everything to see you". Granted, there is a difference between a 21 yo student who does fuck all day and a girl working hard to help her sick sister. There are different reasons for them to flake. Consider those reasons to "game" better. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 05:58 PM |
| -5 | "If She Likes You, She'll Find A Way", Right? Not Necessarily...That reasoning is flawed. You're not (and never will be) Brad Pitt. Be realistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/17 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Don't Make A Fuss About It (Whatever It Is)Thanks! I just think a lot both when interacting with women... and talking to guys about their interactions. The latter makes me think much more. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why Would You Want Her To Like You?!My male friends are good people and guys who do fun, interesting stuff. Girls' interests rarely are in line with men's. Be honest with yourself. If she's attractive - you want her. If she's not attractive - you would rather be with someone who is. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/17 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Why Would You Want Her To Like You?!just be yourself "Be yourself" works when you're already the guy you want to be and you have no problem getting chicks, money, work, hobbies you always wanted, etc. If you don't have those things then do not continue to be yourself! Change so you'll get what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Why Would You Want Her To Like You?!Why would you want to do that? If she's not hot - then wouldn't you want to spend around time with someone who is? If she is hot - don't lie to yourself that you don't want anything sexual. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Your Superpower - The Ability To Eject From SetGirls in general don't come to guys, at least in Central Europe where I live. "Improve until they come" is a bad advice to give to men. Most of men, regardless of how high their SMV is, are going to get IOIs at most. They still have to approach. In reality - I don't care about putting myself into a position where I have to passively wait until a girl I want notices me. I just go and talk to her, even while I'm doing my shopping or running some errands. It gives me the ability to choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | "You Can Stay For The Night" - Easiest Way To Go Over LMRNot an issue if you're not a boyfriend material from the very beginning. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | "You Can Stay For The Night" - Easiest Way To Go Over LMRI enjoy morning sex and I have never had any problems whatsoever with that approach. I'm my own sanctuary, my apartment is just a place where I live - no spiritual bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingTwo per week? Out of how many approaches? BTW I'm sure if you had ~30 girls this year you won't have any problem with providing some screenshots of text conversations with those girls to support your unbelievable claims. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingIn that context by being unavailable - cutting the date short, suggesting you have other things to do this evening. Don't blatantly say "I have to go, I have another date" but merely imply this. She'll get the idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingWhat percentage of the girls will agree to come over to your place for a first date vs. those who will end up there after the first date (bounceback) or agree to meet you there for a second? Leave your fantasy world, you're scaring off interested girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 07:25 AM |
| 4 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingWho said dinner? Who said a beer is expensive? Once again: the number of girls that will agree to come over to your place after 5-10 minute chat on the street is negligible. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Clothes And Style Do Matter (A Lot)I wear overpants over those jeans when I ride. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/17 07:20 AM |
| 8 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingOffended much? Who said chasing skirt is everything I do in my life? Don't project your single-mindedness on others. As for "come and try" - I'm already here as I'm from Poland. Born and raised. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingI'm riding very short distances through the city with them. No high-speed craziness. S-sized helmet fits all of the girls. I guess not wearing full gear adds to the thrills. But seriously, I'm very considerate. Especially if it's her first ride. It's almost like she's a passenger on a scooter. You don't expect people on mopeds to wear full gear, do you? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 04:15 PM |
| 17 | Make Your First Date Short And ExcitingWhere did you get Tinder from? There is "daygame" in my nick. I meet the girls during the day. Good luck inviting a girl that you've met on the street directly to your house. Hint: you won't be able to. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Clothes And Style Do Matter (A Lot)These are SMX-1 R and are perfectly fine for walking around. On the other hand (or rather - foot) SMX Plus are the kind of riding shoes that are made only for riding. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Clothes And Style Do Matter (A Lot)That's true but also - and that was my point - they tell different stories. In the first one I could avoid talking about motorbikes. In the second one - I don't think so. Plus soon it's going to be too hot for either jacket anyway. That's when the fitment will really start to matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/17 11:47 AM |
| 3 | First Impression Is Immutable (And More Important Than You Realize)How would you introduce completely new positive qualities to your appearance post-first impression? The thing is: you can't. Read the example once again: "Ben: envious — stubborn — critical — impulsive — industrious — intelligent". You've started to add completely new positive qualities and what good did it do? Have you changed your personal opinion on Ben? Now this is of course statistically true and for an individual particularly fond of you (i.e. "yes girl") she might overlook your negative q… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/17 08:10 PM |
| 3 | There Are No Hot Girls! (Or Maybe You're Looking But Not Seeing?)I guess "TRP Endorsed" people are now writing one-liners without even trying to be helpful. I'm all in for ciricism, just make in constructive. How the hell should I know what you didn't like about this post? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/17 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching Two Girls (It's Not That Hard!)You don't know whether the girls like you or not. You approach her and find out. As to "how should I go about approaching", "what should I say", etc. - there are hundreds of websites with answers to your questions. Google London Daygame Model or daygame and pick one. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching Two Girls (It's Not That Hard!)I'm still of the mindset that if a girl likes me enough, she will ask me for my number, or ask me to go out with her. Not going to happen. I really need a girl to make it obvious she likes me, before I approach her. Not going to happen. Seriously whoever the next girl that I think likes me and makes it obvious, I will just ask for her number. Hopefully she gives me what I want. Hopefully the girl is at least somewhat decent. Not going to happen and that mindset will make your life so hard. I mea… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Cold Approaching Two Girls (It's Not That Hard!)It depends on the situation. When you stop girls on the street and ignore all but one then inevitably one of the ignored will just say "let's go, we're going to be late" or something to that effect. And that's the end of your set. With bar/club/social events it might go the way you're describing. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Dating At Work - Short GuideI get it. That would never happen here. I work in a big and old company and all kind of ambiguous jokes are thrown down, up and sideways in the hierarchy. If someone is bothered by it then she can say so and she's usually omitted since that. The legal actions a girl can take on a guy that she's slept with and later had second thoughts about it are virtually nonexistent. If it's not literally rape or molestation at work she has no options whatsoever. Of course she still can try to get you fired u… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Dating At Work - Short GuideThe more I read and listen about the West the more I'm glad that I live in Poland. For anyone here the risk is miniscule. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating At Work - Short GuideNot always. Not everyone and sometimes it's not going to happen at all. I don't like absolute quantifiers. Agree. The most safe would be being her lover (casual relationship). Agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Dating At Work - Short GuideI've been asked about that few times - hence the post. I managed to pull off an office romance/fuck friend type of relationship few times at my current job so I’m speaking from experience. YMMV. Why do it? I don't know, maybe the thrill of excitement? I like comparing it to riding a motorbike. It's fun, it's dangerous, there are better and safer ways to commute. Yet, under certain conditions it's exciting and safe. I believe for sleeping with someone who you work with condition number one should… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 09:19 AM |
| 1 | What's Your City About? (Going Back To Budapest)There are cities where you can game in pubs and daygame as well (Prague comes to mind), there are where you go just for the daygame (Kiev) and there are those where it's just impossible to either. My point is - do your research and find out beforehand. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Never Delete A Number (Knowing That New Lead Is Always Better Than Old)Explainations will come with the very next post. Spoiler alert: when we've dated the first time she was still a virgin. As for the anal part... One third of all the girls I've slept with have done anal. Trying not to be too graphic - the shit isn't there unless she really has to go to take a dump. So all "preparations" you need is a lot of lube (and a lot of patience). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Never Delete A Number (Knowing That New Lead Is Always Better Than Old)The very next day I've learned she hasn't eaten for almost full 24 hours. She was skinny. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Stupid Quest For Openers And Canned LinesPotayto, potahto. It seems like you're saying "game" is making you less unatractive (you're not self-sabotaging anymore nor you're scaring girls off because of basics and social awkwardness). The end result is still that "game helps". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/17 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Stupid Quest For Openers And Canned LinesFrom what I've seen with guys tracking their ratios (approach to lay) they do go down with time. So it isn't a matter of just approaching more women. I truly believe game is a skill set that can be learned. Of course if you raise your SMV at the same then you're going to get even better. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Stupid Quest For Openers And Canned LinesInteresting point. You're suggesting the progress seen when someone learns game is only the matter of becoming more confident and socially intelligent? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Stupid Quest For Openers And Canned LinesHundreds of reasons why numbers don't turn into dates. The girl has to be into you. You have to aim for the balance between attraction, comfort, rapport and seduction. With all the bad ideas too much comfort + not enough attraction results in dates to nowhere. On the other hand lack of attraction or lack of comfort or lack of rapport makes the girls less willing to meet with you. When you play the lover role you can scare some girls off (but those who stay will be easier to lay). Aim for 5-10 mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Stupid Quest For Openers And Canned LinesI get a number every 3-4 approaches. Last year I've managed to get every 6th number on a date (well, the girl behind the number). I've slept with almost 30% girls I've been on a date (that includes instant dates). That's from last year. It changes every year (in 2015 my number-to-date was much higher but date-to-lay much lower). I don't like indirect as it leads to many dates to nowhere where there is no sexual tension and no attraction whatsoever. I'd rather lose a weakly interested girl than w… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Do Not Self-Sabotage - Don't Be Scared Of SuccessIf you're not making a big deal out of it they usually won't either. I've hit on the girls I'm working with and if you're cool after the rejection then they're cool too. If you suddenly stop talking to her and joking around her and you start to act nervous - it's you who causes the awkwardness. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/17 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Science Confirms - Always Leave Her Wanting MoreThe author did a lot of research himself. He got a Nobel Prize in Economic Sciences if that means something. But like I said - the book focuses on decision making and cognitive biases. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Science Confirms - Always Leave Her Wanting MoreI would only think so. There are countless guides out there how to control when you cum. Focus on your breathing and get a lot of experience. Plus know when you're near and then change position / do something else for a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Science Confirms - Always Leave Her Wanting MoreThank you for your insightful comment but I don't see contradictions in the things you're quoting. Putting a spike anywhere is essentially equal to providing a "peak level of stimulus". There are the same thing. Length of the date shouldn't matter for her memories as long as you don't let the excitement fizzle out. But for most people it is hard to keep up the great vibe for prolonged period. I do not mean "longer date = worse memories" but "longer date = make sure you are able to keep the date … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 06:11 PM |
| 13 | Science Confirms - Always Leave Her Wanting MoreThanks! I don't know why but my Polish readers lately have been saying the exact opposite. Well, you cannot make everyone happy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 02:25 PM |
| 6 | Validational vs. Transactional Relationships (and sex)But for the veterans and intermediates you could have gone in greater depth about scenarios. I might do just that. Thank you for your comment. I always see the things I write about as a spectrum, not binary thing. Extreme examples are great tools to present a point but you're right - when it comes to humans nothing is binary (besides sex, there are only two genders). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Girls Who Talk Too MuchI've never said I'm doing cooking at my place on the first date. "First" doesn't even appear on that page save for your comment (and now - this one). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls Who Talk Too MuchYou've reminded me of a friend that used to say "no girl ever blabbed with a dick in her mouth". | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/17 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Girls Who Talk Too MuchDates should have action, she shouldn't have time to keep on blabbering. If you're taking your girls to dinner, you're getting what you deserve. I agree and I never take girls to dinner unless I'm cooking at my place (and breakfast is implied). Whatever you do - from visiting arts museum to fancy drink bar there will be talking. And they are girls that can derail and desexualize any topic and situation. This post is about such girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Amorality - Poor Sexual StrategyCLEARLY this kind of behavior hurts your reputation and diminishes your ability to maximize the aforementioned categories. heavy downside (social exclusion, missed opportunities, maybe even revenge) I've slept with many girls that's been married and in relationships. No social exclusion, no missed opportunities, no revenge. I pick up girls mostly during the day on the streets so we share absolutely zero social circle and everything you wrote is false for that scenario. Upisde: sleeping with a wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 09:34 AM |
| 5 | Field Report - A Same Day Lay That Should’ve HappenedWould you like me to record her the next time she's at my place? That's how you get off? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/17 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverNah, you just need to be good at teaching which is a big part of my current day job. Besides, I've helped a lot of guys below my level and I'm transparent about my own results. You either accept it or not. Guys who want to be lied to by an unintelligible Indian guy who claims 45 lays in 90 days out of daygame (true story) aren’t very prospective customers. I prefer to be open about what can be done by and for your average Joe. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverIn my experience after girl has been naked on your bed she either cuts off all the contact with you or she decides to have sex with you the very next time. As you can see there is a third option. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverOn average I'm juggling three plates and working on other leads like the one described above. Well, not exactly like this one but you get the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverAgree. Transactional sex - the worst kind. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverThe old saying is "two strokes for a notch" but let's not get technical. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverMaybe. But not as moronic as assuming I need to "lift more" based on that report. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverIt's a dumb assumption. And before you say "everyone needs to hit the gym harder" - it wouldn't change a thing with this or any other girl. I'm already jacked enough, thank you. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverMost of my lays happen on second or third date. I've had my share of first date lays and I call it bullshit whenever I hear that you can sleep with every girl on a first date. Time? Resources? Making a dinner took me 20 minutes and the leftovers were my lunch the following day. Dinner is as good as an excuse for her to come my place as is "Netflix and chill" but dinner is cheaper as I don't subscribe Netflix. "Hit the gym even harder"? Stop assuming stuff about other people. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverNot looking for an advice, just sharing. Take from it whatever you want. Since she was initiating half of the texting I wouldn't even consider being "too available". The bottom line was that she wasn't that much into me and at the same time I was the best there was for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverVery much agreed. I usually start at one of two other places and then end in the one described above and it almost never fails. I guess this time even I wasn't convinced that I want to change the place. I can't recall the reason for that plan, I have to go through my notes. I suspect I was just trying something different at that time. There's no point in doing the same thing over and over. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 01:48 PM |
| 18 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverThree dates is a very common limit in Europe. First date was short. Second one was kind of fun. But the third confirmed that she doesn't have much to offer. Of course I've nexted her. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - Worst Daygame Lay EverIt was my logistic failure. We were already at the top venue around and I couldn't justify going elsewhere for better drinks. I just said "let's go somewhere else, we're not going to sit in one place whole evening" or something to that effect. She said it's too cold outside and that she liked both the venue and drinks there. There was no point in changing venue just for the sake of changing venue so I ordered another drink there and cut the date short. If you're thinking she lacked compliance th… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 12:34 PM |
| 9 | "Women are a Lagging Indicator" or "If You Build It, They Will Come"Don't worry about women. Be the Best Version of You that You Can Be. If You Build It, They Will Come. And they will keep coming. Not unless you try to get them. You still need to approach, you still need to go out and meet them. Being most accomplished businessman jacked as Arnold himself in his prime won't get you girls if you're sitting on a private island all by yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 11:10 AM |
| 9 | Relationship Mantras To Live By"NEXT" is my number one advice but guys on Polish pickup forums are hell-bent on trying first. Granted, many of them "because kids" or "because marriage" and the laws here aren't as bad as in the US but still those guys will get fucked up. And I've personally seen few cases when the approach described worked. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Attraction Is Always FirstStop it with that cheap ass psychology. I've been posting long posts, people complained. I've started to post shortened version, complains stopped. You're the first one. Believe me, I'd rather not have to edit posts for TRP and just copy & paste them instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Is Always FirstThen you might want to read the full version on my blog. I've found out that people here don't read really long posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 09:06 AM |
| 4 | 3 tips to quickly fix your texting gameAnd do you have any arguments? The girls I date are usually studying and/or working and when I try to call them they end up texting me back. So it really doesn't change anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Backward plan your datesThat's an interesting comment. What country are you speaking about? In my experience few weeks without any contact is the end of any pickup. She'll move on. But that's Central and Eastern Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Backward plan your datesGot a laptop? Some pictures from the places you've been? Some videos to show? Instrument to play? Best craft beer in the area in you mini-fridge? A small projector that can display movies on a wall? Some drawings of yours - or you can say you'll sketch her? Or maybe... Come on, there are hundreds of reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 07:53 PM |
| 13 | Backward plan your datesEvery day I'm more and more thankful I live in Poland, not in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Make your lays stay around for moreSadly, yes. I've met few guys just using girls as a women-shaped bags for their sperm... and then they complain that girls don't hang around them for long. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Be picky - filter the girls"No emotion at all" doesn't sound like a good thing. Don't fall in love, don't be overly excited but there should be some emotions present. Seems like you're masturbating using someone else's body, not having sex. However, if you’re okay with that then I’m the last one to judge. Live and let live. TRP is about sexual strategy, not any particular way of life. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Texting - you need to shut up and waitYou're on the highway to the end of this relationship. She is hyperactive and likes to text - you don't. This is the root of the problem. It would've been manageable in the beginning but you caved in instead of not texting her back at all few times. Now it's going to be very hard to change that behavior. You also see her far too often for this to be a FwB type of relationship. "Couple times a week" is almost every day! Don't you have other things to do, hobbies, other girls to sleep with or even… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/16 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Text Game and the Power of WaitingThere is no difference between 10 minutes chat on the street and 30-60 minutes coffee instant date. Unless you're going for the same day lay instant dates are a waste of time. Fun but they don't make the number more solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/16 11:14 AM |
| 1 | It's a game - play to your strengthsFor whom? Context matters. There are guys that "slay" every night's out but are scared of approaching girl during the day. There are guys that are terrible in the club but get laid from daygame regularly. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 09:39 AM |
| 1 | It's a game - play to your strengthsDaygame is just a tool. Add to that bitter-sweet taste of red pill and you'll be able to go much further than you think. Start with Rollo Tomassi's works if you haven't read them already. Also: Gorilla Mindset to get rid of negative self-talk and start dreaming big and taking a lot of action. If there are more than a handful of people doing something then you can do it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 09:35 AM |
| 1 | It's a game - play to your strengthsI don't know you so I can't tell what would be best for you. I'm just saying I find a lot of people like you in the daygame community. Mainly because you have the time and skill to analyze every interaction and compare it to the clearly defined model. Then you can find out what's working for you and adapt. Nightgame? Too much reliance on vibe and not enough time to reflect between sets. Social circle? Unless you already have a lot of friends and you are outgoing it will be hard to find quantitie… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/16 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Habits maketh man (gym, picking up girls, etc.)What's with that negative self-talk? Don't be bothered by your capabilities, you can always learn a lot if you only try. You can form/change habits anytime - read The Power of Habit. BTW I'm 30 yo. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Habits maketh man (gym, picking up girls, etc.)Could be that you're exercising your will beyond its capabilities. Start small. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/16 01:26 PM |
| 6 | SMV vs. the game (or high vs. wide SMV)I'll just leave here the description of this subreddit. "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Women want to be ledThose who aren't are a minority. Why bother focusing on them? Focus on what works generally and then calibrate for a particular girl (e.g. tone it down). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Nomadic vs. stationary daygameI rent whole apartments via airbnb or Booking. If you're travelling with a friend you can get big apartments quite cheap. Or single rooms in hostels as suggested above. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/16 09:14 AM |
| 0 | 5 ways to trigger buyer’s remorseFortunately I'm living in a country where cases like that are unheard of. Call me lucky. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 07:21 PM |
| 4 | 5 ways to trigger buyer’s remorseIf you're open and clear on your intent that's fine, you won't get that. Unfortunately a lot of guys are scared to be the player and they pretend to be their boyfriend. They only want sex but behave like there's something more serious going on. They've prepared the shit themselves and the fan is rotating faster every day... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be ledInstead of asking if she wants to come for a date (yuck) or just stating "let's meet at the town's square at 9" you give her false choice - "Let's go for some mulled wine. Is Wednesday or Thursday better for you?" - you're not asking her out, you already assumed she will say yes. Her first thought isn't "do I want to go out with him" but rather "when it's more convenient for me to meet with him". Of course if she's not interested she will still say she can't meet with you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Women want to be ledAnd you deal with girls every single day... That being said - the girls I'm seeing are proposing something every now and then. Just that it's every now and then. I don't expect them to. If I want to see them/do something with them - I initiate. I lead. But yes, of course they have things they want to do and they communicate this and even they plan somethings sometimes. Especially when you're taking some time between meetings - they start to propose something. But in general - it's your job. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be led"Do I have to watch my diet and exercise my entire fucking life?" Come on, this is the way things are. Unless you're fine with a leading "empowered" girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Women want to be ledThen you have one masculine, attractive quality less. Make up for this if it doesn't bother you or change it if it does. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be ledIt was over text. I never replied. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be ledHow to Fail at Almost Everything and Still Win Big: Kind of the Story of My Life by Scott Adams, maybe. It's a collection of stories of a man who many times leaped into the failures. You're going to fail many times. You can a) learn to avoid failures (impossible) b) learn to live with them (just do many things - you inevitably will fall). Don't be stupid like riding a motorbike without proper training. But take every opportunity there is (public speaking, businesses, parties, trips, adventures) … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 09:13 PM |
| 36 | Women want to be ledNah, it was a real feminist "how dare you impose your masculine privilege on me" outrage. When it's just an excuse she wouldn't be lecturing me on "how you should treat women". That one was cuckoo. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Field report - not so fastShe's one of the girls on rotation now, of course I know it's temporary. However, I don't mind giving her comfort as long as she's not acting crazy and still sleeps with me. But you might be right in what's she looking for. I wouldn't say that sleeping with me on a second date is "slowing things down". Minority of girls here (according to mine and my friends' stats) sleep with a guy on the first date. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Field report - not so fastWhen girl slows or stops my escalation I try to fractionate - do something else, let her cool off. I resume after shorter or longer while. In time she'll explain to herself why she should sleep with me. I've got friends who are more reactive and/or dominant, they will call out her games or continue using different path (if girl have issues with taking pants off they'll start undress her from the top just to get one step closer). They don't want to give the girl time to think. Maybe it's only the… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Field report - not so fastI'm curious, where do you see her controlling me? She knows I'm a player, we've had the usual "how often do you approach girls like that" talk. In no way she thinks I'll be her boyfriend. Few days later I've invited her over, she came, we fucked, she left. If that's not FF scenario then I don't know what is. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Field report - not so fastIt was a daygame approach. I noticed her on the street and went after her. I'm 30, she's 26. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/16 07:04 AM |
| 1 | The pickup burnout (daygame edition)I don't think it's related to AA. I have 2-4 regulars at any given time and yet there are times that I do 30-40 approaches and go out on a single lousy date. Fast forward two weeks and my schedule is full after just few days of collecting numbers. You can't be on top 100% of time and trying to can be exhausting. Inspect & adapt. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 08:21 AM |
| 3 | Don't believe everything you hear about daygame (or pickup)True. But if you approach constantly it also appears that you're doing it more "naturally". Just because you've done it hundreds of times it really became natural to you. So I don't need to approach an old lady or a clerk. And the girl won't see you "talking to a range of people in an easygoing manner" nor she will know that you have "a network of people". When you start to talk to her at the bus stop she knows nothing about you and unless you brag about being friendly she won't learn any of it.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Don't believe everything you hear about daygame (or pickup)Your mistake ties nicely to "don't believe everything you read, investigate" theme. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 11:05 AM |
| 3 | Don't believe everything you hear about daygame (or pickup)If you only approach sexual targets, you're doomed. You have to approach everyone, all the time. That's interesting. Why do you say so? I cannot see a direct causation, could you elaborate? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Don't believe everything you hear about daygame (or pickup)Whether you're calling it game or marketing or "displaying high value" - you can improve your results. And if you can improve your results that means you can negotiate attraction. Being attractive and appearing attractive are two things. You should work on your SMV but you also should work on delivering it (the game). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Don't believe everything you hear about daygame (or pickup)You're probably talking about nightgame. You mixed two things. Other than that - good points. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 10:31 AM |
| -1 | Attraction Basics: grooming and other obvious stuffIt's not about what they say but what they do. Who they hang out with. Who they choose when they see a long haired dude and a guy with a more or less regular haircut. Also: most guys that have cut their hair saw better results with girls. Could be just coincidence or confidence issue but it also could show that women are biased against long hair. For unknown reasons I sometimes develop a red skin near my nose, especially after not getting enough sleep for a very long time. I don't see why I shou… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 08:44 AM |
| 5 | Attraction Basics: grooming and other obvious stuffI knew that concealer would raise some eyebrows. I'm not saying "use it every day". I'm saying "use it to cover up a temporary defect". | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 08:38 AM |
| 11 | Attraction Basics: grooming and other obvious stuffCongrats, although it's not a big achievement since I'm bald. I recommend “make up” if it bothers you to appear with a bruised face or you’ve got a red patch out of nowhere. I don't use it every day but when I want something on my face to disappear. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: style, part two - accessoriesThere is only one paragraph about logos in this post. And a graphic on a shirt is featured in one out of six pictures. Some people will use their brains and apply those few things from this post that can work for them. Others will whine that "that one advice it's not applicable in countryside Turkmenistan". | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 10:42 AM |
| 0 | Attraction Basics: style, part two - accessoriesAmerican South is not the whole world. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 08:05 AM |
| -1 | Attraction Basics: style, part two - accessoriesI've had that exact discussion with my coworkers few weeks ago. Someone said I dress like a fag and a girl countered that with "when a man dress good it doesn't mean he's homo". I'd rather listen to what women have to say in that matter and how they react. And they dig that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Attraction Basics: style, part two - accessoriesYou can go back to my previous post on that topic where I proposed wearing plain clothes and even provided some really basic starting points. As this reddit is dedicated to sexual strategy I decided to test my friend's theory where you supposedly can deliver a message with your clothes and accessories. For me it works. We can of course discuss what "a man should and shouldn't wear" in isolation but I think it's pointless. I'm just saying what generates more interest and attraction from females i… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Conversation topic is important (a.k.a. what are you babbling about?!)Which part of "You can't be talking about yourself." you didn't understand? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 07:06 AM |
| 1 | That one event that changes your whole life...Well I guess those kids don't visit sites dedicated to sexual strategies, do they? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 08:03 AM |
| 1 | That one event that changes your whole life...On the contrary. I've spent my youth studying, working, being responsible, gathering resources, being in a really long term relationship and... not growing as a person. Now I'm starting to cash the checks. I've got a stable job, substantial savings and I realized all that is worth shit. Experiences are what's important. So yeah, I ride motorcycle, travel a lot, seek business opportunities, sleep around, learn new skills, help other people, etc. So I guess your psychoanalysis is a little bit off. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 09:50 PM |
| 1 | That one event that changes your whole life...Obviously I wasn't really grieving - I should've put that phrase in quotes. But I won't say that wasn't a thing for me at the time. I was too excited! It was like someone gave me a candy and took it back! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/16 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: vibe and walkWhen I'm daygaming I usually walk slower, this is just a compilation of videos I already had. Just before posting this I figured it's better to show something than nothing at all. BTW it's not that hard to have a good gait by yourself. I've never meditated but good music in your ears surely helps with your walk. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/16 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Daygame field report - good luck isn't enoughI usually adapt to girls - she writes more so I use them more often too. Besides, I'm joyful guy, it would be incongruent if I wasn't using them at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/16 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: working outBest estimation tool for muscle gains is calories? Good luck having ANY muscle gains while eating only carbs. https://www.t-nation.com/img/photos/2013/13-802-03/03.jpg (Bray GA, Smith SR, de Jonge L, Xie H, Rood J, Martin CK, Most M, Brock C, Mancuso S, Redman LM: Effect of dietary protein content on weight gain, energy expenditure, and body composition during overeating: a randomized controlled trial. JAMA 2012, 307:47-55.) https://www.t-nation.com/diet-fat-loss/protein-will-not-make-you-fat | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Attraction Basics: working outI'll just leave it here: https://www.t-nation.com/diet-fat-loss/a-calorie-is-sometimes-not-a-calorie | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/16 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: working outThat sucks. Majority of people I know never had that problem. Brazil nuts too? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Attraction Basics: working outIt's easier to eat less calories when you avoid carbs. That's why I simplify that to "carbs make you fat". It's more of an "most carbs make you spike insulin and back to feeling hungry in a really short time; eat more carbs and the cycle repeats". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: working outWhen you want to eat a snack and you eat 300 kcal chocolate bar then in an hour you'll be hungry again. Read another one and you already ate 600 kcal and still be hungry after two hours. Another bar? You're now close at 900 kcal... But when you eat 500 kcal of nuts you'll be satiated for hours. That's why I say "carbs make you fat". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Attraction Basics: working outIs that your way of asking me to post more shirtless pics? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: working outCan't tell. I don't use Tinder as quality of girls met during daygame is higher. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/16 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Daygame endgame - what is the goal for pickup?My blogs is available at tddaygame.com if anyone is interested in my posts or writing me an e-mail. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Daygame endgame - what is the goal for pickup?Now I get it - it might be vague in the context of this reddit, the message is more clear when read on my blog. Besides working 9 to 5 I'm also a daygame coach and I'm definitely done with any idea of having girlfriend. I like girls, I like having few of them on rotation but I don't have a goal about girls that I want to achieve. Or as Scott Adams would say - I have a system instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/16 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Daygame endgame - what is the goal for pickup?Am I really asking that question in my post? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Daygame endgame - what is the goal for pickup?Thanks. I'm still discovering the patterns of behavior on TRP reddit. Apparently lesson learned today is that people tend to vote after reading just the first paragraph. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 09:52 AM |
| 7 | Daygame endgame - what is the goal for pickup?"I didn't read it but I will comment assuming I know what author had in mind." | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: clothes and styleContact lenses or laser surgery. There are some very good frames out there with brand names (think Ray Ban for example) but in the end still think most guys would be better without glasses. Ps. I'm Polish. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: clothes and styleCall me lucky but I don't need anything more than a wallet, keys and my smartphone. I used to carry a lot of shit with me but I've realized that I don't need it day to day. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 10:04 AM |
| 7 | Attraction Basics: clothes and styleI'm overcompensating for wearing a lot of blacks in childhood. But jokes aside - just wear jeans. Jeans are universal. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: clothes and styleAs long as it doesn't look like you're wearing the same things over and over again you'll be fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Pickup As A System or the Daygame Assembly LineI'm in daygame for multiple and concurrent short term relationships. They usually last from few weeks to few months though one women I'm seeing for a year and a half now. You gave me an idea for another text - about managing many relationships. It should be more humane too, thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/16 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: eyes and smileWhat you just proposed sounds scripted to me. You just have to say what is in line with your personality. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Attraction Basics: eyes and smileAlmost all approaches that I've done were after a girl passed me by. Not only I can check out her legs and ass but also it is much more effective if done properly (see the (in)famous Yad stop). And it's not forced, it's me. Pickup is just fun activity, why would I be so damn serious about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 05:31 PM |
| -1 | Attraction Basics: eyes and smileRun after her (this time with a cheeky smile!) and say something in line of "Hey we've just been staring at each other and there's a law that you should talk after that happens. So to save us from being fined - my name is Tom" or run the usual "Hey I've just noticed you back there and I wouldn't forgive myself if I didn't do something. You look nice by the way, I think it's the [some feature]". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/16 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Attraction Basics: fix your postureGood point, I totally forgot about that. It works both ways: if you're feeling down then you slouch but if you're standing tall and "badass" you inevitably feel much better. Up to a point of course, it's not magic. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Attraction Basics: fix your postureThanks, my English failed me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Field report - multicultural first date layI've never said it can't be done. But it's never the majority of daygame lays. For anyone, anywhere in Europe. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Field report - multicultural first date layAll the stats I got from European daygamers I care to believe (and mine) shows that laying girl on a first date happens in about 20-35% of cases. It's not a limiting belief, these are real numbers. To put it into perspective: out of 20 girls you lay somewhere between 13 and 16 won't be having sex with you on a first date. I'm talking about Europe, girls younger and/or hotter and pure daygame. I can only assume the numbers are different for the nightclubs and/or for the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Summary of How To Win Friends and Influence People. Great guide for a beginner who wants to improve their charm!Remember one thing: this book is great for making friends and influencing other people... not for getting laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 08:18 AM |
| 4 | Is it confidence or just experience?I said that newbies can practice their opener/script in front of the mirror or on friends if they like. When I was starting I just went infield and practiced on actual girls. Some guys are even unable to start conversation - they are unable to experience anything that could give them confidence in dealing with girls. I guess they watched few pickup videos and just spam approach "hoping for the best". If only they have prepared themselves a little bit... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Is it confidence or just experience?It depends on the culture/country. I imagine North America beign much different in that regard than Europe, especially center/eastern. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Comfort zone trapThat's why I subscribe to the "be the best version of yourself" cliché. If that's your best then you should enjoy your success. I am - and many of my friends are - driven by goals. So achieving something rather than bringing fulfillment provokes questions: is this it? can it be done better/faster? is there anything else to achieve? What "unwanted legal attention" do you mean? Well, besides losing my driving license for three months for speeding, let's keep it about women. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Comfort zone trapI keep stats of my daygame adventures. Age of girls, perceived quality, quantity, number of approaches per lay, number of dates to sex - each of these is countable and can be improved. Then there are uncountable qualities. For most guys there are certain types of girls that are far from their staple lays (posh, model, foreign, teenage). Not to mention threesomes, foursomes, getting a girl straight off the street into your bed, etc. There is always a way to improve or a feat to achieve. And if I'… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Flake vs. reschedule (a.k.a. don't ditch that number, stupid!)I'm usually feeling too good and it became automatic. That's the thing I'm working on - so far I'm down to one per text. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Flake vs. reschedule (a.k.a. don't ditch that number, stupid!)I tried to make the point that Brad Pitt example is bullshit. You see a girl leaving a bus, you approach, talk with her for 10 minutes, get along nicely, eyes sparkling. But unless you are exactly her type (what are the odds of that?) then you are no Brad Pitt in her mind. You can be "that hot guy" but nowhere near celebrity status. To think otherwise is delusional. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Flake vs. reschedule (a.k.a. don't ditch that number, stupid!)I'm daygaming a lot so I have few slots each week set aside for dates. If that slot is free I won't make a big deal out of it. We've only talked for few minutes and I always have other things to do when she flakes. There is a difference between flaking "just because" and something actually happening so she can't make it or it would be too inconvenient (thus arriving in a bad mood). | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Flake vs. reschedule (a.k.a. don't ditch that number, stupid!)Because she can't get sick, stay longer at work or have some family issues. That's the attitude I'm talking about - if she knows you just from the street stop and even if she's interested, you're not her top priority yet. Assuming you're trying to pick up girls with SMV higher than yours. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Flake vs. reschedule (a.k.a. don't ditch that number, stupid!)Sometimes she's only sooo sorry and apologetic without providing an alternative but she's still counting on you to propose a different day. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Revenge fantasy and wanting to get hot younger girls: Lets face the fact that we want validation and work on what we can do about that.I can see that you want validation but this mindset is bad for you. We all like to brag every now and then about hot chick we've banged. If she's exceptional - fine. If you're doing this all the time - bad vibe. Getting external validation is like eating sweets or drinking alcohol to feel better. Sure it does help but think of what it ultimately does to you. True validation comes from within. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 10:12 AM |
| 93 | Why "choreplay" won't result in sexJust do the traditionally masculine chores such as moving furniture, plumbing, wiring, home repairs, appliance installation and maintenance, fixing the car, finances, decision-making, managing contractors, security, mowing the lawn, cleaning the gutters, moving heavy shit around in the garage, and anything else that involves power tools. And most important "chore" of all: fuck her good. Also: she'll be a submissive feminine woman only for a dominant masculine man. The more confident, successful … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 02:43 PM |
| 15 | Listen to her actions, not her wordsI love when the girls tell they hate me. I know I'm on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/16 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Don't mistake IDGAF attitude for inactionI think that's the neatest way to describe that mindset. Kudos. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Attraction isn't negotiable but it's measurableI wouldn't say attraction is binary but you're right in one way - the more attracted the girl the less "game" you need. In the end "game is played with 'maybe' girls". You don't need it for "yes" girls and you won't have any chance to shine with a "no" girl. You cannot say a girl is either instantaneously attracted or not because that invalidates whole theory of game. It's not like only first second of interaction matters - things you do or reveal about yourself can make her feel attracted. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Attraction isn't negotiable but it's measurableThis is fresh from my blog. But in the end we're rediscovering the same things over and over. I'll look Mr. Mason up. It's always faster to learn from others vs. come to the same conclusion on your own. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Attraction isn't negotiable but it's measurableGood one! "Listen to her actions, not her words." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Sunday's advice: more action!that's what i mean by needing more data points to properly "train" your model. That's true and it ties nicely to the title: more action! i'm already assuming you're going for the easiest ones first. Surprisingly going for the easies ones is not usually the case. Given a very high work to reward ratio most guys don't want to waste that work on a "nice" girls. The go for the "hot" ones. Of course there's another barrier of "extremely hot chicks" which - again - aren't approached as much. That leav… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Sunday's advice: more action!When you try to - I don't know - ride a motorbike for a first time you can either play it safe and never drop the damn bike (learning from successes) or push yourself to the limits doing all sort of exercises and fall few times. When you fall/drop the bike - you know (and hopefully - remember) where is the limit of the balance in that speed. Without falling you can only guess where it is and by playing safe you're not even close to the optimum parameters. That's why learners bike have all those … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Sunday's advice: more action!All valid points but not my experience. Well, except that human interactions are more complicated than golf swings - that's all true (though I've never played golf in my life so who knows?). I assume all approaches are equally likely to be receptive and I've seen it happen many times. It's just a matter of conquering excuses - not of going for higher quality targets. If anything - going for those slightly lower. Then you just find it's easier and - having positive reference - go for those hotter… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Ample research confirms redpill truthsAnd your thought was to contribute anyway? Brilliant. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | The Next-level of **Abundance**Single advantage would be less time spent on texting/calling. Disadvantage will be that majority of those girls (I'd say almost all of them) won't make any effort to contact you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 09:47 AM |
| 3 | The Next-level of **Abundance**Women are passive, they don't actively seek new sexual partners. Well, most of them, but you get the point. When cold approaching girls on the streets she knows you for 5-10 minutes, whatever tingles you've generated more often than not won't be enough for her to pursue a relationship. Or even a date. Remember male-female polarity: she wants to be seduced (by a guy with high enough SMV), she does not want to seduce a guy herself nor make anything easier for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 09:45 AM |
| 5 | TRP: neckbeard-psychopath’s version of pickupYour idea of date is 1950, not the dating itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:26 PM |
| 3 | TRP: neckbeard-psychopath’s version of pickupNice generalization there but false. Unless you know hundreds and hundreds of PUAs and they're all the same way. It hasn't been my experience though. There are other shades than black and white and many guys that are into pickup also read TRP and improve themselves. Of course there are some beta guys using tricks to bed women but to call “PUA is beta” on a reddit “dedicated to discussion of sexual strategy” is bizarre. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:25 PM |
| -1 | If you want to get laid a lot and do well with women, know your market!Coming from, thankfully, homogenous country I haven’t a lot to add on topic of race. But I have some observations from the guys I’ve taught daygame recently: age does matter. Young guys (18-24) can easily go for young girls but they won’t as easily get MILFs nor women approaching wall. When you approach 30 you’ll get a metric ton of attention from women 30+ and some of them are really hot (and the sex is always awesome). However – at that age you won’t be that attractive to young girls. You’re n… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 09:45 AM |
| 6 | Assume FormlessnessAnd it's not so strange that girls who say "I can't figure you out" are really nice long lasting companions. Because they can't pinpoint you it drives them nuts. And as we all know for girls tingles are tingles - even if she's mad at you for not being a 2d character she's still attracted. And she stays for more. Really nice and concise post. Kudos. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 09:11 PM |
| 8 | [Newbies] Why You Must Read And Learn Before You ApplyI've never been in a Monk Mode and I really cannot see it's benefits. But many guys are going through that stage so I guess there is something there for them. The reason I've never went Monk might be because I've found PUA before TRP. One of the best thing I've read was "20% theory, 80% action" mantra from Tom Torero. Even if you aren't feeling confident about something there is so much to learn just from trying. And frankly - no amount of theory will top taking action. That is not to say if I d… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Putting too much focus on the girl (a.k.a. DHV, fool!)I discourage lying. If you really have to - omit some things and highlight others. Lying won't get you far especially when you're dealing with many girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.I'm not the one who's angry. My results abroad and in Poland are roughly the same. That's why I pursue this topic as I still don't have any idea why you aren't as successful in your own country. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.You can be from another city or district. Same rules apply. You obviously haven't seen ultimate betas travelling just to dine with a hot chick. You get tested as much as any other guys. If you fail a shittest you're in a worst position than local guy. Same rules apply to guys who cold approached her. No way to be a part of her social circle. Novelty can work in your favor or against. And then again - same rules for local people. If she always dated small blonde guys then jacked guy with dark hai… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.And what would stop them from doing those exact things with a local guy who from the start isn't presenting himself as husband material? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.I've been yelled at twice in 2000 approaches. Remember it to this day, had a good laugh. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.Nah. If you can do it abroad (that is - sleep with the girl, not just get the number) then you can do it locally. I've had the same ratios for numbers/dates both in Poland and abroad. That's what I'm trying to say - I opened hundreds of girls with a smile on my face in my country. Reaction is almost always good too. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.So where do you live? Because you're describing a completely different world. Girls love being approached, they blush and giggle and even if they're not interested - walk away with huge smile on their faces. And you'll be amazed how many admit that guys are not approaching them at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.I've daygamed with Krauser here in Warsaw and we were both picking up local girls with similar results. Well, he fucks way more than me but for street stops/numbers/dates I call bullshit on "daygaming foreign girls is easier". | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Why cold approaching and online dating are actually some of the most ineffective ways to go about successfully meeting women.That's totally different from what I experience on the streets every day. Even if she has a husband - she smiles, thanks me for making her day (and probably fucks the brains out of her husband that very evening). Your head is full of false beliefs. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/16 08:03 AM |
| 8 | Tinder Versus MatchWith an examples like this you can clearly see why the thread format requirement was enforced. The point you're (hopefully) trying to make is lost in your rambling. Not to mention lack of details like sample size or description of girls other than "string of crazy bitches" (Tinder) vs not even a sketch (Match). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 12:18 PM |
| 6 | The Most Important NegotiationThat reminds me how I conquered my own issue. Now while it might not be the case for everyone I've never had problem in achieving my main goal. What always bothered me that all other goals suffered. I am dedicated, even ruthless but very single-minded. What helped me is a different kind of "negotiation". I've made a list of goals (no more than 3, you cannot focus on more) and prioritized them. Now everything I do I judge according to hard written list. If I have to decide between something that … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Scary story told by a woman I met in TinderEnglish isn't my first language. I don't get fine nuances between jerk and douche. Still - if a girl doesn't look anything like her photo I just call her on that and wish her good day. Also one of the reasons why I don't use Tinder anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 07:51 PM |
| -2 | Scary story told by a woman I met in TinderI agree that there's no point in being jerk just to be a jerk. That said - you really had nothing else to do that evening? She's the one who lied in the photos, that's her problem... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 03:14 PM |
| 3 | CorporateLand: Restaurant Lockdown for Sales GuysThis is so much different from what I do and even though it's a knowledge I'll never use (besides maybe some wine tips) it's written so nice I really enjoyed reading it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Day game books worth reading?The Girlfriend Game (basics) - Tom Torero Daygame - Tom Torero Daygame Nitro (beginners) - Nick Krauser Daygame Mastery (intermediate/advanced) - Nick Krauser Fearless Relentless Escalation - 60 Years of Challenge I especially enjoyed Daygame Nitro so I suggest you start with that. Mastery is really a heavy textbook and while Nick's writing is detailed and comprehensive it does not make an easy read. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Crash and burn daygame tacticJust... don't. Don't offer her your number. It's so ineffective (at least in daygame environment where girl knows you for 5-10 minutes). Girls usually don't take actions, you're shooting yourself in the foot. I can imagine it working somehow in social circle but not with complete strangers... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Crash and burn daygame tacticGood point! You have to make a future projection for sure. "I have to go now but I'd like to know you more, preferably over mulled wine." or whatever. Just sketch a date (“mulled wine” is better than “wine” as it’s specific; “best drinks in the city” are better than just “drinks”). Take the number suggesting that it's for you to arrange a meeting. Going into details like time and place never worked for me. I don’t know which girl I'll be able to set up when and which will be more solid. But mayb… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Why a Manopshere Revolt is a Joke.I've just visualized it - but with shouting instead of thinking to yourself. That'd certainly be a new way of pickup! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 08:30 PM |
| 14 | Use less words.Mystery is your friend. Do things they don't understand and they'll be so curious to figure out what the hell is going on that they'll chase you anywhere. Stay mysterious and let her come to you. As usual - don't overdo it. Last year I've fallen into the trap of not giving the girls any usable info about myself. As you can guess even though they were attracted, they were not interested. Girl should know 2-3 things about you so she can think of you as "cool guy from [a town] who plays drums and r… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Youtube views and beta commentsIn the second video... well, you'll see. No, we won't. Go clickbait somewhere else if you're too lazy to provide an analysis, tl;dr and lessons learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Use less words.Good advice. Don't fall into a trap of not speaking at all or not revealing anything interesting about yourself. If the girl knows nothing about you - you're equally doomed. The solution seems to be generally mysterious and low invested but occasionally break that using elaborate story that indirectly DHV you. Girls love good stories and if you're the hero in your tale - it's a double win. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 10:58 AM |
| 7 | Smiling too much may hurt your chances with womenMost guys I teach fall into one of two categories: The don't smile at all - hence appearing as scared, angry, dangerous or weird. The smile too much - being too excited they not serious nor attractive enough (clown-like). Now I'm talking about approaching the girls during the day. You need a smile to put the other person at ease during the opener and vibing. Tune that down into a self-amused smirk as soon as you reach hook point (girl starts to ask you questions or settles down). For guys that d… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 11:25 AM |
| 2 | RSD banned from AustraliaYeah, great material conforming to the thread requirements, providing source, analysis and lessons learned. Not. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 10:30 AM |
| 2 | IDGAF attitute and lack of patienceIt's either she wants you or she doesn't. And when a chick wants you she will manipulate the fabric of the universe itself so that your dick just coincidently end up in her pussy. Let me just ask a question - are you seriously expecting a girl that talked to you for a 5 minutes during the day on her way to work would "manipulate the fabric of the universe" for you? That'd mean you have huge advantage of SMV over her (i.e. girl is way below your capabilities) or... delusions. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 09:45 PM |
| 3 | IDGAF attitute and lack of patienceBecause I have the likelihood. If the logistics currently aren't in favor, if she has exams upcoming in few days, if she's in a different city or country I won't text her "let's meet in two weeks, one day and 7 hours in the city center plaza" and be idle for the remaining time. That won't work - I'd fall off her radar. It's expected, she'd known me for 10 minutes. It costs me nothing to send her self-amusing shit during that time and strike when I have a chance. I'd stupid to pass this opportuni… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 04:39 PM |
| 2 | IDGAF attitute and lack of patience"Detachment from the situation" some might take as "not being in the moment" - that's why I prefer "outcome independence". And it's not like having few numbers you text every now and then puts you in the risk of overinvestment. Some of those will come, some will phase out. I've just far too many times seen guys back off way too soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 03:47 PM |
| 2 | 2 years unplugged.. I'm so damn tired.Sounds like you're missing seduction skills. My advice would be to... learn those! Find yourself a suitable coach (however that sounds) and follow his posts/YouTube/read his books or even pay for some sessions. Learn from a guy who's similar to you - there are tons of actionable advice out there. Beware of mental masturbation - look for those guys who advocate actions over theory. Remember that seducing girls is a skill and just like any other skill you need a) a lot of practice b) proper guidan… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 09:44 AM |
| 5 | I went full red pill and havent even csme on reddit (not even the red pill) for a long time nowI have to change the hours of reading TRP. When I read in the morning I really feel sorry for the mods... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/16 10:09 AM |
| 7 | Women's Pay Gap - FreakonomicsBecause fuck the thread format requirements and telling us any detail whatsoever. Oh, wait, you didn't even listen to the whole thing you're recommending to the community... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 02:02 PM |
| 0 | European Train Rides, TRP StyleAre you after collecting numbers or sleeping with hotties? If you've got "hundreds of numbers" then do share how often you actually get to fuck the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 08:53 PM |
| -1 | European Train Rides, TRP StyleNumbers mean nothing. How often are you sleeping with said girls? I also do not like the "indirect" approach at all. I'd rather tell a girl weak compliment establishing that I'm interested in her and then build rapport/escalate. It makes numbers much more solid. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 3 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessYet every single on of them says that their baldness holds them back in regards to pulling girls. Because they're making an issue out of it. I know I did first 10-15 dates. It was winter, it was new thing for me, I was always looking for how the girls react when I take my cap off. And they do reacted, asked questions, were surprised. After that I assumed it's not a big deal. I could still get leads and dates and now the topic is rarely brought up unless I "confess" that I had long hair in the pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 04:40 PM |
| 2 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessgoing bald at 23 is also a big risk for your sexual activities. That statement is as valid as "I need money to get hot chicks". It's a false assumptions that lives inside your head. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 12:43 PM |
| 2 | New year - new haircut; guide to baldnessHair is part of your identity I've had long hair before I shaved it to zero. Nothing changed other than it was suddenly cold (it was winter when I did that). Identity is in your head, not your hair. if you are younger than 25 and you are experiencing a receding hairline or hair loss in your crown it will wreck most guys confidence That's what I experienced and that's what I'm talking about. It wrecked mine. I shaved it clean and regained that confidence. And I'm not the only one. If you're fine … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 11:57 AM |
| 0 | How to suppress my feelings and follow abundance theory?I love the "I'm so 100% alpha now but there is this huuuuge issue in my mindset I want to ask about". Oh, and asking belongs to asktrp subreddit. I wrote lengthy reply assuming that you're sleeping with many girls and not just one after another like a chain of one night stands or short term relationships... but is it really true? You're banging few girls and you develop feelings for every one of them? Also - feelings aren't a problem. I suspect it's "revealing them" part that's an issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Gents, i know we talk about lifting a lot however let discuss another sideThe not-so-old daygame mantra is "10% theory 90% action" (or whatever the numbers). You learn skills only by practicing them. You can read all the books in the world and watch every video about – for example – motorcycle riding but this won’t make you a rider. Only after you put some time (and thought!) into riding in different conditions you can actually learn the skill. And this applies to any skill - be it playing poker, investing money or seducing women. Learning basic theory helps - you'd b… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 11:50 AM |
| 3 | The 20 Principles of Rogue HealthI was recently reminded by kind sirs here that running isn't bad for your joints. Unless you have some hidden problems you should be fine. Starting slow and building your mileage gradually is the way to avoid injuries like Plantar Fasciitis, Achilles Tendonitis, Shinsplints, Iliotibial Band Syndrome and even Stress Fractures (but these aren’t exactly “joint problems”). As for other issues with running... Cardio kills is the article that recently caught my eye at T-Nation but there are many studi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 11:19 AM |
| 1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...I've never stated that I run less than 30 miles per week. I just wrote that you can run 40-50 km without much hassle. As for me hurting myself - I think I've learned enough about my body and performance that I can achieve my goal without hurting myself (more exercises, intervals, uphills, etc.). Last time I just started too hard too fast after the big race. I know of Daniels' (never read the Formula myself) but like I said - I'm doing what fellow runners were doing with lots of successes. It's n… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Running three times a week is enough to run marathon in 3 hours and some minutes. I've seen this in my fellow runners and I plan to go below 3 hours myself this year. Yes, running three times a week. My half marathon time is 1:30, my 10K time is less than 40 minutes. On the other hand you're ranting without giving any advice whatsoever. And why would anyone assume that anyone here is offering advice without field testing it? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 09:10 AM |
| 1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Never experienced that. Even after my long weekend run I'm horny enough to approach during the day/fuck a plate. I'm thinking the key might be all the other work I'm doing or maybe I have naturally high testosterone level. I have to check that out next time I'm doing blood tests. That said I'll definitely won't be running long distance forever. I want to qualify to and run the Boston Marathon and then I'll probably try the heavy lifting way of life. But that's not up for another two or three yea… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 10:38 PM |
| 2 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Great comment! It all comes down to burning calories. The more muscles you have the more energy (& work) you need to maintain them. In the long run getting bigger muscles by heavy lifting is the way to go... unless you have some reasons as not to become big. For me those reasons are my long distance PBs. But there are other ways too and as you nicely put it should be "workout thing", not "lifting thing". Maybe that message should be stressed in my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 03:57 PM |
| 12 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...If you want to be jacked and big - you win. If you want to look fit and run marathons - I win (every kg of muscle is a burden when running long distance). I posted some alternatives to have a nice body. If your goal is to be in 95-99% of best looking bodies - yeah, my way sucks. If you're fine with being better than most men - you can give it a shot. All in all - there are replies, downvotes and people are calling each other names so it's a success. Maybe few guys will research more on their own… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Knees are fine. If you're not heavy and you're not doing fast long runs too soon you should be fine. That said - there are people with knee problems and running will only aggravate those. When in doubt - consult a doctor. If anything - start slow and short distance (5-10 km). Paranoia is sound though - the more you run the worse you lift and vice versa. There is small zone of synergy where doing one will help you with the other but you need to decide what's more important to you. I'm currently 7… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 03:19 PM |
| 6 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...Any thoughts on "you don't have to lift heavy to have a nice body"? Cause you can put anything as X in "If X was easy it'd be called your Mum and everyone would be doing it." - heavy lifting, marathons, ironman triathlon, climbing an eight-thousander... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 03:14 PM |
| 29 | You don't have to lift to be fit, but...I'm a daygame coach currently working on my YouTube infield videos. I'm doomed anyway but thanks for your concern. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/15 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Texting mistakes to avoidOh stop already with all those generalizations based on TWO GIRLS. Texting is a means to an end. A tool. Nothing more, nothing less. Imagine those situations: You've met a girl on a street, talked for 10 minutes, then you went for 2-week long holidays. One (good) way to keep in touch is to text every now and then. Girl you're gaming is living in a different city/country. Until logistics will be in your favor you sure as hell going to text her. Your schedule is busy - you have many dates and just… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 02:16 PM |
| 22 | Turn on Read Receipt on your Smartphone.I'd advise against it. At least on Android when a girl sends me a message with 'Read Receipt' (or whatever is the equivalent) I've got a nasty popup asking whether I want to send the confirmation or not. It will look needy as hell if those popups would show on her phone with after every message from you. Oh and also there is no option to send those receipts without the other party requesting them so the whole issue is irrelevant after all. It might be just Samsung phones but hey, it’s the most p… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 11:17 AM |
| 1 | 3 Months of Tinder FRNearly two dates a day, not five. Every day. For three months. Ouch. From first meet to Bed is a success. From first message to bed is a success. You're showing us different ways of messaging the girls and then completely take out the messaging out of equation when calculating success ratio (counting only those girls that actually showed up without those you lost while texting). I don't get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Why You Don't Need a Woman.I'm almost 30 and I did what you've said when I was in my 20's. My confidence in my workplace had nothing to do with my shyness around women. I have to say I'm never afraid about money or job and I did pursue my passions. However it had zero impact on getting laid. Learning and practicing game changed everything. So yeah - solid foundations are nice for a solid life. Solid game is nice for solid sex life. Do both if you want both. YMMV but certainly do try it at home. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 09:10 PM |
| 0 | 3 Months of Tinder FRSo what are the real measures? You wrote that you had 1547 matches and then estimate success rate as 5%/25%/2% (taking the lowest). Imagining you equally distributed your approaches that's around 10% success ratio altogether. It'd mean around 150 "successes". In three months? So what do you consider a success? Now you say that you've engaged 400 of them in conversations and met 150ish. In 3 months? That's 5 dates a day! Really? It would also mean that you've been able to date 40% of the girls th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Why You Don't Need a Woman.Be Exceptional At Something. Or two somethings. And the pussy will flow. Not unless you put yourself into a position where you a) can meet women b) actually approach them and pick them up. It's still your job to seduce them, not the other way around. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Unusual field report - long game yes girlTo clarify things: yes, we're still sleeping together once a week/10 days or so. After the "what have I done?" regret she did try to suck me into a sexless relationship. I told her that's no point in pretending we don't want to fuck because we already did. That worked and turned her into a plate. And I don't "hate" one night stands but being a daygamer I have to put more work into banging a single girl than pulling a bird from a club. So I'd rather fuck girls repeatedly (as plates) rather than s… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/15 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Unusual field report - long game yes girlGraphic pings are usually something you'd send a friend without even expecting response. You've seen crashed Lamborghini? Send it captioned "Phew! I'm glad it isn't mine! ;)". Your colleagues wrapped your desk in toilet paper? "I'm glad I'm working in a serious and respectable company. ;)". You're in London? Send a picture of Big Ben + "Cheers from surprisingly hot London! Where's the fog and rain?!". You lose no value if she doesn't reply but you can start a conversation if she does. Of course … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Unusual field report - long game yes girl"This is so fucking beta. going to clubs, spam approaching and getting them drunk in hopes..." "This is so fucking beta. Approaching girls on a street and chasing them in hopes..." "This is so fucking beta. Using some app, texting hundreds of Tinder matches and chasing them in hopes..." I thought this reddit is about sexual strategies, was I mistaken? I knew what I was doing and it didn't took me that much time. I consider that a strategy because it's replicable. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 07:44 AM |
| 6 | Unusual field report - long game yes girlI think that's the difference between most TRP-ers and most daygamers. The latter bunch is used to long gaming girls sometimes from different countries and maintaining many concurrent leads. If I ping five girls like that and four of them reply and stay on the radar - that's the abundance. You're right that in the end she took the initiative and I jumped the hoop. I see this as losing the battle to win the war. Many people here see it as beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 07:40 AM |
| 5 | Unusual field report - long game yes girlYou're always waiting for her to tell you when it's okay to fuck. Either overtly (like in this case) or covertly. We all know how it is called when she's telling you it's not okay and you still do it... I'm not interested in being somebody's back up. Oh but you are. She's not yours, it's only your turn. Don't you remember? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Unusual field report - long game yes girlIt might look like that. Though I wouldn't consider writing her a one sentence long ping or sending her a picture a "hassle". There is a balance somewhere between staying on her radar and falling into oblivion. That being said I'll experiment with longer pauses for long game. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 09:53 PM |
| 1 | [A Different Field Report] A week in daygamer's dating lifeI take my hygiene, grooming and fitness really seriously. I think I do hold my frame, some girls are saying I'm too confident. On dates I tend to speak slow and low and I do now what to do in bed. Like I said - I too don't know why I'm not closing most of the girls. After reading all the replies and thinking about my game I suspect the problem is far before the bed. On the approach (maybe) and in the first venue of the date (probably). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 07:19 AM |
| 2 | [A Different Field Report] A week in daygamer's dating lifeLast point might be it. Yes, I did follow a model both on the streets and in dating. I've freed myself from one during the approaches and I need to do the same for dates. I think I had enough of them to just go with the flow (that is - calibrate). | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 2 | [A Different Field Report] A week in daygamer's dating lifeThank you for your feedback. I'm still trying to figure out exactly what those "basic game issues" are. Why are they value my attention more instead of sex. I thought I already eradicated the nice guy in me. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:49 AM |
| 3 | [A Different Field Report] A week in daygamer's dating lifeThat was special week - hence the field report. I'm working 9 to 5 but I always work out in the morning (and sometimes in the evening). So in total it's 4 workout sessions at my home, 2 lifting sessions at the gym, 3 running sessions (evenings/weekends). Of course meeting that many girls meant that I have to squeeze a lifting session just before the date and do my run in the morning. That resulted in not daygaming that much as I usually go out (aka sarge) 5-6 days a week - almost every day after… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:44 AM |
| 2 | [A Different Field Report] A week in daygamer's dating lifeHaving an average number of approaches helps cause I know if I'm doing worse or better when trying new things out. I'm really dedicated to becoming a proper PUA so I have to know what's working and what's not. Having said that after nearly two thousand approaches the thing I struggle with most is closing the deal. I'm great when it comes to daygame, my text game is solid, dating is ok, it's just that last step... You all may be right it's the outcome dependence but I don't yet see one simple cur… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 08:38 AM |
| 23 | [FR] Closing with a hot conservative Catholic girl on Tinder.No to nitpick but: you've pedestalized the girl which is clearly seen in the way you describe her, what's worse - you created an image of her as a prize starting with the very first sentence "I like me a challenge", you have nothing to actually report; you haven't even met with the girl! No summary, no lessons learned. This calls for deletion. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Flake and date managementInstant date (or a coffee close as you call it) don't do me anything good. I found out that good 10-15 minutes street close is as solid as 1 hour long coffee. That said there is time and place for instant dates. If you're travelling and your time is limited then by all means do idates. That's the fastest way to same day lay. Bounce from coffee to a beer, to a drink, to your place and work your magic there. I live in a big city so I don't need to rush things (you loose some girls playing that fas… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Flake and date managementThat's good, I forgot about that. Other than that the only good responses to a flake are: Ok. No response at all. Resume texting after two-three days. I usually set up another date if she apologized. Second flake and she's out. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:12 PM |
| 9 | Lets talk about text game.Texting is the part of game I was overthinking for a while. Always wondering "what I could do better", "why she isn't writing back" and too many times I've realized what I've just done seconds after clicking "Send". Now I know what I'm doing, I know the goal and the road that takes me there. Of course there are always flakes and dead numbers and girls that go completely off radar. But I'm not second-guessing myself... as often. And I have written this little post while ago but discarded is as no… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 02:10 PM |
| 1 | You're gonna like the way you approach and open; I guarantee it.The other thing missing in this post is the environment where the approach is done. It's different in a bar or a club versus on the street during a day. Don't hit on her or give her a generic compliment. Instead, start a conversation with an entertaining anecdote or question, such as asking the group to suggest names for a three-legged cat or a store that sells 70s memorabilia. It may sound corny, but everyone loves to give their opinion. For example I'd never do indirect during daygame. It tran… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 11:06 AM |
| 1 | We need to talk - letting girls goYou never know for sure. That said - 20 dates over 3 months and daily texting is way too much for a plate. I usually text my plates twice a week and see them once in a week or 10 days. That'd mean about 10-12 dates in 3 months. But of course it could be anything else - something you did or didn't do. She could find someone else, sex could be not that great, you could be boring, she could be weird or thousand other little things. Amount of texting and number of dates is simply not enough informat… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 09:48 AM |
| 2 | We need to talk - letting girls goI've never thought about the topic like that. but still I'm more convinced by the viewpoint of trp_hamlet: Don't do it because it's the right thing to do, do it because sooner or later she (because you suck at red flags) is gonna go batshit crazy and you'll end up dead, in jail, or on the news. There's nothing that causes a shitstorm more than "wasting her time/youth." Having abundance means that you don't need to keep playing and deceiving girls. You have others that aren't so much into relatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:55 PM |
| 3 | We need to talk - letting girls goLike I said - I'm not leading them into relationship. If anything I lead them into thinking that I'm a player and that she's one of many. However this strategy will always fail as girls tend to develop feelings. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:48 PM |
| 4 | We need to talk - letting girls goI'm not saying it explicitly. I relay on subcommunication in that matter. You're never discussing those things on a first or a second date. And usually that's when the sex happen for the first time. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:46 PM |
| 4 | We need to talk - letting girls goThat's a really good point - unless I'm exclusive with a girl she shouldn't be bothered by who I'm seeing. However the "we need to talk message" is sometimes asking to be exclusive. That's when it becomes her business and that's why I think you should be honest. For example, her friends will ask her every once in a while, "How are things going with insickness?" If you've been r-selected from the very beginning no such question will ever pop up because she will never tell about you to anyone. Wel… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How to fix sticking points in game without experience?Let's say you want to play an instrument. You're not going to buy one and practice on your own without any knowledge. At very least you'd read about it first, see some free lessons online. Maybe you'd get a teacher. Daygame is a social skill but it's skill nonetheless. Search for "beginner daygame" on YouTube. Use other YouTube infields as a guide but beware - there are many fakes. However, it doesn't matter as you're looking for a direction, not a path to follow. If you're still struggling - ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 06:07 AM |
| 3 | TRP and PUA - Two sides of the same coinPUA nowadays don't advocate using canned lines nor they teaching a closed structure. Most of what I've seen stresses the need to develop your own style, your own lines and understanding of underlying process. Most PUAs give you a blueprint not an complete system to follow step by step. TRP is broader in whole different context. Most PUA advices are limited to pickup, dating, fashion, and spinning plates. Only few talks about lifestyle. Here people deal with much broader issues in a modern men li… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP and PUA - Two sides of the same coinIf game isn't real then it means it can't be learned. As many men already experienced through sheer practice and learning your results will go up. Call it social skills, pickup skills, game – whatever. Keeping looks, money and status on the same level and getting better results means that the game indeed is real. You can argue about how big part of a men’s SMV it is but it’s part of it for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 01:59 PM |
| 2 | TRP and PUA - Two sides of the same coinIt depends on what PUAs you’re following. Some of them don’t have a clue what they’re doing and why. Others know what to do to succeed with women but they don’t really understand underlying principles. There are few that are good and at the same time their theories are well thought and tested. Some of them even can explain this stuff in a comprehensible manner. If you’ve done your share of PUA-like stuff you can quickly judge if someone is just talking from experience or has given more thought t… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Bettering your self includes better your financesI was thinking of writing something about money but there - you've started it. Well done. What I noticed is that you propose something that won't make any difference in the long run. You've touched a very important subject of "money makes money" which is crucial. I've let my savings sit on a savings account for too long. And even that now I've lost some money on the stock market my investment funds are making up for it. Invest in diverse assets and you'll be better than hiding your money under a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 07:51 PM |
| 2 | FR: Need More of The Pill...Failure in a Small TownAs the other guys said - don't be that hard on yourself. You've done something new that old ("beta") you could only dream of. That's progress and that's good. One thing that strikes me after reading your PR is the attention to detail. What you've done is new to you hence you overanalyze everything. My advice would be - do more. More going out, more picking up, more approaching. Imagine that you're doing what you just described every other day. How deeply you'd analyze girls behavior? Not as much… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Guide to attraction Part 2Now I'm glad you wrote that because rate of 50% is not believable. Unless you mean that you've slept with half of the girls that were into you from the very beginning. But that's the problem - you're only attracting girls that would be attracted to you anyways. You're not picking up the girl you only let her pick you. And success ratio that high means you're choosing girls below your SMV... or you're not counting all the girls that didn't even notice you (despite your somewhat passive efforts). … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 07:55 PM |
| 11 | Guide to attraction Part 2(...) even the certainty of meeting a new woman once a month or so is sufficient. Assuming your success ratio can be somewhere between 5-15% then... Meeting new women at a steady rate is absolutely fundamental to developing abundance. ...you propose something that's not going to work at all. Rule 1 Do not approach a woman (for romantic interaction) until she has noticed you. Nope. Wrong. Practice cold approaching and you'll notice that your value skyrockets if the approach is done properly. Rule… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 01:09 PM |
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