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Q4m who don’t struggle: Without mentioning looks, how do you stand out from the modern average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:28 PM
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I only disagree to the extent of dating someone with kids. I don’t have any ill will towards single moms but I live a really good single life and I’m not willing to give that up for a relationship that includes kids. Other than that, everything else is on point to me. I agree that real men are not bitter. High school was years ago, let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:50 PM
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Cmv: Men constantly lying about height, dick size and how much sex they have has greatly contributed to general insecurities among men. It’s a persuasive part of culture that’s been present in our social lives for a majority of our lives. From middle school well into adulthood, dudes have dealt with consistent lies and delusions that other men have used as masks to project a life that they don’t really live, unbeknownst to the listener who in turn grows insecure. Men, especially young men in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:59 PM
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I don’t care about gender balancing. I go out to meet women, not make other dudes feel included. I don’t care about pedestaling, the women I meet should know I think highly of them. Ladies nights should not be abolished. They should get discounts. Women showing up to the functions matter a whole lot more than other men’s feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:07 AM
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I think women have a valid fear of men which many men struggle with that for an array of reasons (they contribute to such fear, they might have and are unsure, they’re might be at risk of doing so,etc.) which in turn results in their fear of women. I don’t think this is a real issue for men who don’t struggle with women’s valid fears. False allegations aren’t really an issue or something to fear when you’re not a rapist. We’ve been conditioned to believe that we’re constantly at risk of being fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:17 PM
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I don’t think red pill gets to claim having options. Men having options existed before they promoted it and just because they preach it doesn’t mean they practice it imo. Many of them can’t which is why they turn to that stuff for advice on how.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:57 PM
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cmv: There is an insurmountable gap among men who love the hoes and reap every benefit as a result and men who disdain women’s existence. It makes complete logical sense why women choose attractive, happy go lucky men who show them good times, encourage their fun, and just an overall pleasure to date no matter how many other women he’s dating or have dated in the past. It beats the alternative of settling for red pill logics, strict rules, and countless insecurities, even if said man is attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:33 PM
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It’s evident to me why a lot of men get passed over by women. Why would they subject themselves to these type of ideals when their are countless men who don’t have this level of disdain for their existence? You despise the idea of loving a woman so bad that you do mental gymnastics to make this conclusion. This isn’t Fast and the Furious, your interpretation of what it means to be family is derived specifically so that you can say that your wife isn’t a member of your family. Objectively speakin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:00 PM
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There’s a woman who replied that taking breaks during sex is normal. This conversation isn’t worth having anymore lol, it’s your word against hers and she’s right. I’m gone from this “bb” or whatever you said in that last thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:15 PM
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Lol I have no reason to backpedal. I’m simply just atoning for my size and ensuring that my partners are ok. You called that bad sex and accused me of being a rapist. I think you’re just inexperienced and struggle with biology more than you present.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:06 PM
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I don’t mean anything, that’s not the word I used. Biology pilled used that to misconstrue my point. I originally said pushing back, and what I mean by that is situations during sex where she simply needs a quick break to recompose before continuing. For instance, even if I’m being rode or coming from behind, when feeling overwhelmed or hurt, partners will push themselves up and off of me or forward and simply to communicate that they just need some time. In those cases, I ask whether they’re ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:03 PM
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Why’d you delete your replies to me? Anyway, you seemingly have a hard time comprehending and relaying what you’ve read. “not liking it” or being overwhelmed by cumming” Anyone can go to my comment history and see that’s this is clearly not what I said. If you’re so biology prone, you should be able to understand this without confusion. I’m not raping anyone, however, having to account for size, I periodically check in during sessions whether she’s ok because the shit can sometimes hurt or be ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:32 PM
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The enthusiastic consent thread makes it clear why there is such a huge gap between men who don’t get laid and men who do. The naivety and cluelessness among inexperienced men is sad to witness. Their views are so convoluted that it makes perfect sense why they get played, never get ass, and drown themselves in insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:17 PM
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I mean, you just can’t fathom my experiences and that’s ok. Notice, I said push back, not off. If a woman is overwhelmed, it starts to hurt, it’s quite natural for her to push you back. I’m not a rapist lol, size matters to the extent that you simply have to take care of your partners. Is what it is “bb”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:48 PM
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Not necessarily, I gotta believe you’re either really inexperienced or our experiences are just vastly different if that’s your take. It’s like believe you based on how you perceive sex or believe the women who’ve fucked me. I can phone it in and still catch rave reviews. That’s not necessarily dispelled by your assumption that pushing back equates bad sex, I simply just have to account for my dick and there’s nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:41 PM
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No because that’s never how it goes. It’s more like she’s overwhelmed, pushes you back, you two take a short break while she composes, you ask whether she’s still good to go which is always a yes unless it’s not which is ok, the shit can hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:31 PM
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That’s not necessarily true, you have to be conscious of your size and how it’s hitting. It’s undoubtedly reasonable to check whether she’s ok throughout sessions. That doesn’t make the sex bad, I’d argue it makes it better evident by how much they appreciate you caring whether you hurt them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:03 PM
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I’m a SJW, in some of the most extreme ways honestly. I don’t think enthusiastic consent calls for awkward reaffirmations every 20 strokes. That’s never been my experience. I’ll check in periodically to ensure she’s ok because I have to but awkward reaffirmations aren’t apart of my sex life nor do any women I know want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:45 PM
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I don’t think it’s worth it, I’d rather just end the relationship and leave, especially if it’s to the point of being unattractive. Looks matter to me. I’ve heard variations of “I’m about to get in the gym” so many times from friends who are men to know that people don’t necessarily mean it unless they do. I have friends who make getting fit a New Year’s resolution every year and they never commit to it. I’ve also been in relationships where she said she was gonna join me at the gym out of her o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:32 PM
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There’s 0 logic behind praying to god she doesn’t regret it every time you have sex. If that’s the case, why are you even fucking or trying to fuck in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:48 PM
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I mean, you replied to me so I replied lol. General or not I’m using my personal experience to answer a reply directed at my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:41 PM
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Do we see it? That doesn’t necessarily sound like my options. I don’t know women who feel tainted by having sex. These aren’t the people I’m fucking, don’t see a reason to live in such fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:38 PM
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I’m not necessarily susceptible to that hypothetical so I can’t argue what if’s on this. Women don’t have sex with me on the condition of a relationship. They know it’s not happening before we have sex because I’ve either communicated that or they’ve correctly concluded based on the type of individual that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:36 PM
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Nah, I would’ve been rightly confronted by now if it were an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:31 PM
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Pray to god she doesn’t have any regrets after sex. No? I don’t see a reason to live in such fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:17 PM
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We talking about sex though. If I want to fuck and it’s not an enthusiastic yes, then I’m not fucking because I don’t feel she’s consented. Again, you can argue schematics and tea hypotheticals but at the end of the day this logic isn’t worth applying to the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:39 AM
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Enthusiastic consent is the norm. If she actually wants to have sex with you, it should be there every time. It doesn’t even take mind reading, enthusiastic consent can’t be relayed several ways non-verbally, even when all parties are drunk. Consent is not as difficult as we make it. I mean, you can argue schematics all day, I’m never going in without enthusiasm or where someone feels pressured and consent has been a non-issue for me in my personal life, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:10 AM
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Q4M: have you personally been called kind by several women? Do you believe nice carries a negative connotation? If so, how do you think kind and nice differ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:57 AM
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Q4M: have you personally been called nice by several women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:58 AM
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Most men don’t necessarily know why they’re chasing casual sex. Online horniness is performative, it’s trendy to be like “gyatt” 24/7 on social media but deep down they don’t need sex to be healthy emotionally and validate, those are excuses for what they can’t explain. If they had a clue why they were chasing casual sex outside of the appearance that it makes a man, they’d be less hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 11:39 PM
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cmv: Men would better benefit working to be boyfriend material rather than relying on red pill techniques to attract and maintain sexual attraction from multiple women. Casual sex will simply never be obtainable for a majority of men, they’re too scared of the hoes. No amount of red pill ideology will ever fix that. These are men who want one night stands yet think women are confusing and can’t tell when one either likes or doesn’t like them. They want to get laid with putting in the least amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:20 AM
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I don’t believe that’s true, dates have always been the norm. Unless it’s your personal experience, I believe you’re romanticizing the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:31 PM
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People have always gone on dates, even in the 90s. No one would get punched in the face for being set up by their friends. Regardless, society is still very social, I think it just depends on lifestyle. For instance, hanging out together for no reason and not waiting for a specific event is very much the norm among people who live in big cities where social circles run insanely wide. It’s common for groups of friends to mingle among other groups and meet organically in the way 90’s sitcom cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 04:27 PM
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Definitely not unique to women, it’s happened to me and it’s so common among my friends that I would have assumed that it’s almost normal for men to experienced this. I’ve pursued women under my own violation enough to know that it doesn’t even take being later in life to realized that it’s happened to you. A lot of us have been there, some of us have multiple experiences, women are just as capable of sexually taking advantage of men, even if he pursued her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:48 AM
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I think we can also acknowledge what women (all people really) say online really doesn’t matter, it holds no weight. Are you fit? What do women in real life say or how do they react? The online space isn’t a real measure of evidence imo, it’s not credible compared to actual experiences. If women in an online space claim one thing while women in real life claim another, the real life evidence is stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:43 PM
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I’ve never known women to lie about this, I think it’s common knowledge and widely accepted that looks matter and that women especially find physical fitness extremely attractive. Specific instances where personality does beat big muscles boils down to personal preference rather than general attraction shared by a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:31 PM
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Society is unjust, I believe it’s pointless to emphasize its importance to such a macro-level because condemnation for doing the same shit as women doesn’t mean anything. There’s no real consequence if a woman openly rejects a man for not meeting her financial standards and I reject a woman for not meeting my standards. Being judged as predatory doesn’t mean anything when I know that I’m not and the people in my life who matter, family, friends, coworkers, etc. know that I’m not. If women are em…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:05 PM
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Cmv: It logically makes perfect sense for women to choose 10’s. The alternative is often men who internalize every rejection, 10’s typically don’t carry rejection baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:10 PM
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Pro tip: In America, all you have to do is stand out in comparison to the average man. Especially now, having options and causal sex (among women who want that) will be easily accessible, more so than ever, for any attractive dude with a hint of normality and good style. Things were already over for the little guy but they’re really over now. With competition being at an all time low, average men will be even more invisible. Now is truly the time to stand out if you’ve ever wanted to be that guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 05:05 PM
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Cmv: If modern women like you, there’s no benefit in siding with men’s issues. Variety, proximity, and sex is more important than associating with issues that don’t affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:32 AM
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