| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 205 | Pick-me friends | RANT | tea-pickles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Imagine sexualising your own 2- year old. It’s a bathing suit. | RED FLAG 🚨 | tea-pickles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 07:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 43 | "Women aren't funny"Yes! Or when they double down and throw a hissy fit over the fact that you “don’t have any sense of humour” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 74 | "Women aren't funny"You’re right, it really never is anything original or a joke that goes deeper than surface level. It’s as if they never moved on from elementary school level humor. It’s funny seeing them squirm when you ask them to explain the joke multiple times; the more they need to explain the more they realise that what they said isn’t actually that funny. Such easily bruised egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:16 PM |
| 223 | "Women aren't funny"Apparently racist, sexist and blatant discrimination is their sense of humour. Funny how that works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 07:56 PM |
| 9 | I'm tired of men thinking that being ' strong ' means suppressing ur emotions !Well, well, well. If it isn’t the consequences of their own societal rules :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:47 PM |
| 91 | mEn ArE mOmS tOo...They want praise for doing the bare minimum, literally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 103 | Age-gap relationships make me cringe.Even age gaps, the one I used to be in, 17 and 20 creep me out. I was nowhere near mature enough, even now, at 19, I cringe at the thought that if I hadn’t broken up with him. The age gap would’ve been 19 and 22. All he knew was work, drink, play video games and not reply to me for days in a row while he was at “a friends house”. Not to mention this was a long distance relationship. Why can’t adult men get girlfriends their age, in the same country as them. I will never fucking walk into that tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 98 | No faithThe line “it’s wrong but not illegal” pisses me off so much. Even if it’s wrong it doesn’t stop you scrotes from invading our privacy or harassing us in public spaces. Fuck off, learn about empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 27 | [TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie?It’s honestly really jarring; and let’s add that fact that most men don’t understand the concept of foreplay it most likely went in dry or with some lube slapped on quickly. I can’t imagine the pain they’re in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 144 | [TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie?This is so well written, it really clearly shows us how their thought process works. Let’s also no forget that alongside pain, anal brings us absolutely no benefits. Anal makes you more prone to infections by causing small tears near the anus. Makes you more likely to be incontinent later on in life, possibly earlier than senior age. It can cause hemorrhoids, external AND internal. And lastly it can also cause fistulas, which allow faeces to possibly travel inside the abdomen and cause sepsis. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:37 AM |
| 85 | Bless women for the universal bullshit we live withI’m in nursing school myself, I live with my parents and it’s HARD. I can’t imagine what it must be like. Let’s also not forget the bs we deal with at clinical and at work; gossip from fellow nurses, patients expecting you to baby them while they’re capable of doing things on their own and the sexual harassment from male patients. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 53 | God, I hate when women play into the "women don't like nice guys" rhetoric.Oh we like nice men, just not when they expect things from us just for showing basic decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Girl...It looks real shit to add insult to injury... lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 11 | You can be an elderly woman with dementia and men will still celebrate enacting their violent fantasies on you.Holy shit wow, I can’t even begin to say how wrong this shit is. I currently work as a CNA in a nursing home from time to time, we would NEVER treat our patients with dementia like that. How is it, that we can properly handle situations with people with dementia without violence but they can’t possibly fathom doing that. They still deserve respect and they still deserve being treated with dignity. This is horrible to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 238 | Would this be considered a pick me mindset? I used to think this way when I was a pick me. When I stopped caring about or catering to the male gaze, I stopped wanting male attention all together. Especially while minding my business.I’m guessing this is just pushed by media, that stereotypical scene where a girl is mysteriously staring out the window and some knight in shining armour notices and falls in love with them. It’s all part of that fairytale they’re trying to push when in reality situations like these don’t exist. I’ve fallen in the trap of thinking like this myself, because it’s fun to fantasise and imagine a nicer reality where romance does abundantly exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:29 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inI’m super close to finishing up my second year of nursing school, i’m almost past the half to becoming an RN! And i’ve also been working part-time at a nursing home for almost 2 years and i’m loving the useful use of my time! I’ve been getting praise from my superiors at work and it just feels really nice to finally find something I excel at where I also feel comfortable. I always wondered back when I was in middle school whether i’d actually find true happiness in my future, I was always so anx… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:25 AM |
| 54 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tIsn’t he on TLC with yet another woman? I keep wondering where he gets them from. But I agree, big ed creeps me out big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:13 PM |
| 120 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMI think helping to lift the stigma and prejudice around periods would help, honestly. So many of us, boys and girls, are taught at a young age that a period is something gross. Something to be ashamed of, something to hide. If we were taught properly about what a period really is, how it works and what it’s purpose is, then maybe there would be less situations like this. They like all sorts of gross kinks but god forbid they see a bit of blood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 322 | That explains all the "Nice Guys™" out thereBasically, if you need to state “you’re a nice guy”, you’re definitely not. Nice people don’t need to brag about being nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Oh, here's a good idea for vetting pornsick scrotes. Check his email for that OnlyFans account.I have nothing against checking, don’t get me wrong here; vetting is absolutely necessary. But when you’re in a new relationship with someone and you constantly want to check their history, following lists and other online activities that’s when I think there’s already something subconsciously in your mind that he is in fact doing this and the relationship is more than likely already going downhill. Checking every now and then is fine, but I draw the line at when it constant occupies my mind. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 88 | I’m feeling so jaded after getting out of my last relationship and finding this sub. Can I hear about the HVM in your lives? I need to know they’re still out there.I’d say my dad! He’s the only HVM in my life right now. And I mean this with my whole heart, he can be very stoic at times but I attribute that to his upbringing. Regardless, he’s an amazing father and has always done everything to raise me as best as he could. He’s encouraged and supported my dreams, he regularly tells me he’s proud of me and that he loves me. He’s the one who will stick up for me when my mom is unreasonable or when I got my first heartbreak. He does it all, like any father sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:12 PM |
| 30 | Oh, here's a good idea for vetting pornsick scrotes. Check his email for that OnlyFans account.If you feel the need to check I think the relationship is already over. I knew mine was over when I was checking for lewd cosplayers in his following list. I kept upsetting myself by looking at it over and over again. If you suspect it or he has given you reason to suspect any of this behaviour, it’s already a lost relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 128 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.Right! I’m not going to lower my standards so I can “pop out” a kid before my timer runs out according to men (who age like milk, by the way.) I’ll adopt a kid if I can’t find a spouse that meets my standards, no child of mine is going to be raised by a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 295 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenI blame modern media idolising gorgeous women dating unfortunate looking men for situations like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 81 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡All of that mental gymnastics and he’s still wrong, lol, the audacity is out of this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:21 AM |
| 417 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upBoring. This is every scrote’s idea of HVW. Someone who’s willing to give up everything to satisfy their desires, who also looks like a 10 but isn’t picky about how their man looks. It’s so boring to see the same idea regurgitated over and over. As if women are only high value when they’re society’s idea of beautiful, athletic, and sexually adventurous (aka she wants to indulge his porn inspired desires). Fyi, women are individuals just like you men, if you didn’t know. There’s value in our opin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:54 AM |
| 349 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡It’s astonishing how men will sacrifice everything good in their relationships for porn. I can’t wrap my head around the fact that he actively chooses porn above his long relationship. Who in their right mind does that? And he’s surprised his wife is losing all hope for the relationship? Every time men get close to discovering what the problem was they make a U-turn and blame it on their wife. I hope she leaves him and finds something worthwhile to spend the rest of her life on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 8 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!Lol! They lurk so frequently here, I remember my account being 3-4 days old and I already got some scrote messaging me about how i was “very welcome to live as a f-word” or “die without having a dick inserted in me”. All of this just shows how bothered and out of touch with reality they are. I told him to go find a new hobby, touch some grass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 82 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?I remember being exposed to every aspect of a woman’s being sexualized and in the end it made me revolted by myself. In my early teens I had developed this internalized shame towards my own body. It’s blatantly harmful to each and every person exposed to it because it carries the notion that women will only be as valuable as how they’re sexually perceived. It disgusts me that something as simple as a hijab is even sexualized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 182 | Don't do "quickies".Do this for him, do that to make him happy. Why are we always the ones having to compromise and do things to make boyfriends happy when most can’t even lift a finger to help you out or make you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 72 | Why BDSM is the worst idea, personal experienceIt’s sad to see women being shamed for not wanting anything to do with BDSM content and sex-related actions. It’s even worse we have to pretend to like it so that these porn-sick men can get off, all while we’re suffering at the hands of it. I’m going to say it once again, there is nothing wrong with wanting gentle, loving sex. There’s nothing wrong with you, and you’re certainly not “vanilla” for not wanting to be hit, choked or have your hair pulled during sex. They dislike it when we “kink-sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:53 AM |
| 65 | Unexpected pregnancy?Personally; a HVM would support your decision. You want to have an abortion? He should support you, because in the end you are the one carrying the child and you are the one who’s body will go through immense amounts of change. If I wanted to keep it, then I would expect a HVM to also support me in that decision. Ofcourse in a healthy and functioning relationship there should be room to discuss the topic and see if a child is within reason for the phase of your life that you’re currently in. But… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 10:38 AM |
| 178 | Ladies, don't suppress your anger!When we get angry we’re deemed “too emotional and hysteric”. But when men are angry, it’s seen as them acting within their rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 106 | Ladies, always remember: when a NVM sees a HVW, he can’t stand the sight of her. He will always try to come for you and take you down a peg (or two).Reading this it instantly reminded me of an ex boyfriend. And one thing he’s said to me has always stuck around in the back of my head. “Well, I don’t think you’d ever be able to do a masters’ degree, I don’t think it’s something you could do” He was pornsick and mysoginistic amongst many things, but this particular incident has always been there because it stuck out to me. I’m now close to finishing up my degree, while he got held back in high school and has failed 5 out of 6 of his exams in hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 477 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"We don’t necessarily want to date men, if all men we meet are low value, have no respect for us and basically leech off of our backs. We have this place to recognize the patterns of men like this so we can avoid them so we dont bring unnecessary bullshit into our life. We are allowed to have spaces that are women-only, you don’t get to dictate that we should let men into this space. You have invaded every other female space and made it about you. Piss off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 118 | Men just can't be single for a minuteWell, who will take care of them otherwise? Surely not themselves right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | I work in a small space with mostly male coworkersYou should interrupt them with a, “i’m not finished speaking yet”. These men need to learn to be polite, it’s really not that hard and the fact they can’t even listen to you fully indicates that they have shit morals. Please don’t feel like you need to blend in with the background now, be loud. You’re allowed to take up space and you are allowed to speak up, don’t let these men drag you down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 39 | they both acknowledge that women make the decision to create life yet take it for granted that we do and in doing so keep society alive and growing.Maternity leave should be a right; it works in Europe, perfectly. I don’t see why people treat mothers like less worthy citizens when what they go through, can arguably be one of the worst experiences of your life if you’re unlucky. And if you need to shuffle around your staff to get all of the work done when one of your employees gets pregnant, then you’ve clearly not hired enough people. They don’t even understand that maternity and paternity leave would be beneficial in the long run, but hey,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 06:59 AM |
| 11 | Why are men like this on social media? Why do they think it’s okay?This just reminds me of that kid in high school that never learnt how to behave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 198 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.That smug smirk on her face is actually pissing me off, what is she getting out of posting this? The male validation from scrotes online that she isn’t getting from her husband? How sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 290 | Found this on Facebook...All of that for what? A man who’s going to be liking some insta models pictures and cheating behind your back while you work your ass off? No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 63 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.Lol exactly! If a woman did this she’s be instantly labelled as stupid, airhead or a bimbo. But if men do this it’s supposed to be cute? Hmmm, you know what, I don’t think 32y/o Steve with a full-time job suits the infantile mindset and I refuse to see it as cute. It makes you come across like an actual dumbass. I’m tired of women having to be mothers to someone that’s supposed to be their equal AKA their life partner. Good grief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:08 AM |
| 98 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.No please, why did she post that, that’s so embarrassing for him lol, imagine actually thinking it magically fills up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Pick-me friendsIt doesn’t come up too often so I can tolerate it, I feel secure in my own decision to not date right now and I have more friends that support that decision than those who say I should be a bit more lenient. In the end it’s her choice to do so, the only thing I can tell her is that it’s a bad idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 19 | Pick-me friendsExactly! It’s such a major turn off but somehow they think it’s a real game-changer lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 362 | REMINDER: “The wall” is a patriarchal myth 🙌🏼I often find women to age way better than men do, I don’t understand where this idea came from. Men’s hairlines recede, they usually gain a lot of weight when they settle and you can see their general hygiene melting like snow in front of the sun.. Moisturizer... what’s that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Male entitlementThat’s true, at least that’s one positive thing amongst the cesspool, if they use this type of language it’s an easy block and boot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:52 PM |
| 63 | Pick-me friendsWell it’s what it is called in general terms right now isn’t it? Girls having unfulfilling sex because the guy they were talking to wanted a relationship but wants to “get to know each other” first... all of this under the guise of being liberated while actually dancing to the tune of emotionally unavailable men. I told her to not bother, but she did, and the inevitable happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Male entitlementExactly! I love treating my friends to some nice food or a drink, because I value them as my friends and it’s just a nice thing to do. It’s sad that they absolutely refuse to do something like this because “what is she going to give me”. It’s sad that things have come to this and gestures like this are often rarely done unless they get something in return | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 74 | Male entitlementIt really boils my blood to see it being dumbed down to “transactional”. Just because you bought me dinner, does not mean I need to give you sex. You are not entitled to my body or sex from me and you do not get to force it upon me either. It’s sad that they expect to be rewarded for things that are the bare minimum, congrats... you were nice to me. Never lower your standards ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:58 AM |
| 63 | Awakening to the Problems of Liberal FeminismI’ve never understood some ideas that they support; biologically you can’t deny the physical limitations and differences there are and there’s no shame in saying it out loud either. The whole lib-fem view on sw and the culture around it is also so strange to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:21 PM |
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