teachtao Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
113	Watching bro get fucked by crazy ex-wife, idk how to deal.	Culture	teachtao	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/24 06:20 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	I think I found my person… It's seems he could be taking you as a serious option. Deleting hinge and then inviting you to church sounds like a clear indicator of his interest. I highly doubt his motives are not genuine. I don't think I would risk the opportunity with him by datimg other people. I don't see how that would turn out well. Appears he wants to level the financials of dating, many here might see that as an issue and I generally do as well but the devils in the details. I don't know many people who wouldn't eval…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/09/24 03:11 PM
2	Dating as a fat girl I think that accepting the attitude of you can't lose weight is a cop-out. The most effective way to drop body fat is a slow carb or low carb diet, with a weekly cheat day. I know the world of weight loss is full of bs nonsense, but I can promise you that those routines will drop the weight. The big lie that is fed to people is that calories are all the same, they are not. Slow-carb with a cheat day, will drop the weight. That said, why settle for someone who doesn't want you? Not all men want a…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/24 09:50 PM
1	Thoughts on telling a man about other men approaching you? These things are difficult to write an ironclad guideline for, everyone and their situations are different. My inclusion of "Do you want to know" was more about addressing future scenarios before they came up, not necessarily about the current one. OP didn't know what to do about these situations, so having a conversation about them with her man would open the dialogue to figure that out. Sorting it out once while building communication in the relationship seems like a better idea than wondering…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/24 09:26 PM
2	Career vs Wife I think a few other comments hinted at this but I thought I lay it out as I have understood it over the years I have tried to balance it and watch others attempting to do the same. Career, Family, Relationship. Pick two. You can have all three, but not at the same time without some amount of sacrificing one for the others. Sooner or later something will require more time and attention than the other two will allow, and you will have to prioritize over the others. When the time for building a fam…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/09/24 09:09 PM
10	Finding the RPW Woman: What My Harley Rides Taught Me About Relationships There is a saying "You don't ride the bike, you ride the rider" As an Iron butt rider, I completely understand what you are getting at. It's a team activity that requires a lot of nonverbal communication. Quickly sorts out whether or not you and that person have the connection required to manage it. Once read a blog about testing your relationship with canoeing... it's kinda the same thing. Either you work together on a common goal or you fight over stupid shit. Motorcycling is the same type of …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/24 12:46 AM
1	women who want to fuck will find a way to fuck I agree with your premise, do not waste your time with women who are not interested. You'll only frustrate yourself and irritate the women. But It's important to not miss the underlying point, become someone women want to have sex with. As men we are lucky to have that mostly within our control. There's not much utility indulging in emotions, the rules of the game are being shown to you here and it's up to you if you want to play.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/24 11:25 PM
10	Thoughts on telling a man about other men approaching you? Everyone is different which makes every relationship different squared. There's one person who can give you a very detailed and exact answer to your question. I'd suggest sitting down with that person and asking him something like: "Hey, this thing happened and I'm not sure what's the best way to address it in our relationship? Do you care? Do want to know? Tell me what's best way to handle this between us?" I think most people would respect approaching it in this way.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/24 10:52 PM
8	Ladies, please help a gal out… I have an ex that suffered with BV for years. She was getting rounds of metrogel 3 to 4 times a year. Had cultures done, tons of other antibiotics and nothing worked, it always ended up coming back. We basically started a research project and read every published study and trial we could find. What finally ended up working was this protocol. Borax suppositories once per week and ACV twice per week until cleared. Followed by Rephresh probiotics as suppositories for a week, then taken orally for m…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/09/24 12:54 PM
14	Need help with sex... Honestly working on something like this with a partner takes a lot of patience. From the way you are describing his attitudes towards sex, it doesn't sound like he has the patience to work through this as a couple. Are you getting any reciprocation for your needs in this relationship? It sounds like your entire sex life is giving him bjs and masterbation alone.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/24 12:25 PM
10	Need help with sex... Just to reiterate.. This is a couple problem. Everything in the bedroom is an "us" problem. I'm assuming you are are talking about vaginismus which the standard treatment is dilators and sexual coaching. I would suggest that you try some toys to warm up or even to work past it. Consistency working at it it will get better but you both need to manage your expectations as well will take awhile. I don't recommend cheap toys, they just aren't going to be enough. Wands or saddles would be something t…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/03/24 11:21 AM
12	How not to become a plate & still avoid "the talk"? Not to speak out of turn here... Just because a guy has the SVM to be spinning plates or even has spun plates in the past doesn't mean he is currently interested in doing so. Spinning plates can be fun for awhile but it gets exhausting, pointless and expensive. Very few people want to do that long term especially as they get older. From what you have said, it doesn't sound like that's his intent.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/03/24 01:24 PM
2	Looking for an important article. Please help. God damn that guy is accurate. Thanks for sharing this.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/02/24 02:20 AM
3	How Women Keep Score Reading this reminded of the revolutionary couple therapy that came about in the mid 90s, foam bats. While I do see the idea and potential benefit for some people in some situations, this is so far from RP philosophy I'm not sure why it was shared here. A good leader won't need a scorecard, I get that this could be fun or helpful for some in some circumstances but it is a fundamental power shift in a relationship that will not benefit a relationship long term. How is it not an overt tool to mani…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/24 05:46 PM
-1	Watching bro get fucked by crazy ex-wife, idk how to deal. Granted this isn't my story, but I did try to keep it "civil" with my ex, she tried to kidnap the kids and move across the country. The only thing that stopped her was her fear of what I would do in return. Without teeth, these types of people will walk all over you. Edit: typos	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/24 06:47 AM
3	Stop Asking Women for Dating Advice This is so unbelievably true. I don't even mind it's stolen from understanding women by adding "right now I feel like" before everything they say.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/24 06:32 AM
2	Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE help He doesn't have a car or job, so I was surprised by the dominant behavior.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/02/24 12:47 AM
2	Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE help Wut?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/24 10:55 AM
5	Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE help Start with the situation you described and what the hell he thinks you should do differently. Branching off from that into how much of insecurities you are willing to deal with, for example taking an ass chewing about not validating him over smiling in public seems a bit extreme from my perspective. Good relationships are a continual negotiation, so do that. From a RP perspective, I do wonder how much this man is a good leader worthy of submitting to, but that is a you thing to sort out. Interne…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/24 10:23 AM
10	Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE help Came here to say what has already been said but I'll add that I don't think submission means what you think it does. Even in a BDSM role-play context what you are describing isn't Dom/sub dynamics it sounds more like Master/Slave dynamics. I am getting the feeling that much of this relationship is more BDSM than traditional. What do you do now? Sort out what you want, put the big girl panties on and have a conversation with you "Dominate" about what expectations are in your relationship. I suspe…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/24 09:51 AM
1	I Asked My Husband to Pay Me a $1 an Hour to Clean 👏👏👏 Perfection.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/24 08:12 AM
2	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent You're still ignoring the huge differences between the dsm 4 and dsm 5 which correlates with the "raise" of autism. The diagnosis criteria between the levels is subjective, whether some is diagnosed with Adhd, asd 2 or 3, or even bpd is completely up to which one is a practioners favorite. Asd is becoming the favorite because with the new criteria it's trendy to use asd to cover a entire range of other criteria into one. I don't trust news articles, and no one should. Edit: for example, that one…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 04:33 PM
11	"I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurity Psst... they're not quiet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 02:03 AM
14	"I don't want to do these things with you" and insecurity The exceptions are having tried something and not liked it or having trauma between then and now, not, as another poater aptly put it, "cuz reasons". I feel like I'm the only one who read this part. You're spot on in my experience. The women who are head over heels and you have a good relationship will let their desire lead to pretty much everything you both want to do and more. If she's shutting you down on basic stuff, she's just not that into you. It's weird that's not obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 01:59 AM
3	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent Here's some sauce, but you only get one sauce for this copypasta. https://www.science.org/content/article/antisocial-bees-share-genetic-profile-people-autism	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 01:43 AM
3	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent Correlation, not causation. When do you think a socially awkward engineering major catches his stride with women? When's he is rich and quirky or broke and awkward? Either way, had mine young, everyone with ASD I know had them young. ASD isn't a pregnancy-related genetic disorder. It's hereditary. It sure seems like some bad feminism got into the science there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 01:37 AM
30	Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrent You're ignoring the changes to diagnostic criteria and the understanding of autism in that time frame. You're also labeling 1 in 36 as useless to society, pretty bold statement. My counterpoint for contributing to society is Elon Musk. Love or hate him, he's contributed quite a bit. BTW, there are autistic bees so your theory is kinda debunked before it was formed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 01:26 AM
2	What’s the social fertility window? I'm going to have to comment on this having looked very hard at the data and attempting to have a child with a 38-year-old woman. The increased rate of genetic disorders after 35 is huge and increases every year of maternal age. Even carrying to term in this age range is not easy. Marriages with special needs kids have the highest divorce rate of any group. It's a bad dice roll when the stakes are too high. Sources are widely available on the internet but from memory, You are running 20 to 40% c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 01:14 AM
4	Red Pill Origins It began with the 1990s counter culture to feminist movements, specifically the pick up artist communities of the that time. Many hopeless male feminists would eventually gather on the internet after searching "how I get girl". Eventually these communities started to figure out that feminism and Disney had lied to them, what they had been force fed about relationships and the nature of men and women did not match with what they were seeing for successful dating and relationships nor did it match…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/23 03:27 PM
2	The Boulgogi Coup has been cancelled because my SIL just rolled MILs truck. Was lurking but have to say thank you to OP, reading your adventure was immensely enjoyable.	/r/RedPillWives	29/12/23 07:02 PM
1	should i save myself for marriage? Pair bonding is just an emotional attatchment. Why would anyone be able to lose that ability. I'm including men. It's just the strongest emotional attachment possible for men. That's not nothing. Consider this, no one forgets their first love. Why is that? It's not because of oxytocin. I feel that every bonding experience I have is less than previous. The more there are, the less intense it is. It's still great but man comparing the intensity of my first few loves with the ones 20 years later. Y…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 06:07 PM
3	should i save myself for marriage? Agree and disagree. I think the best possible outcomes for a relationship vary based on age. At 19, being a virgin and finding a good man to marry is the best possible outcome. Looking back I regret not following that path because it has led to many issues I never could have seen beforehand. Exploring sexuality together with a life partner at this stage of life is appealing, intimate and creates bonds that last forever. Since I hit 35, I would not date a virgin or even someone with low body coun…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/23 06:01 PM
1	Having sex too impulsively/quickly and using RPW to justify it Not sure what you're trying to say. Using rp dating strategy as lense for vetting as a dating RPW is not going work out for you. The RP men who have watched a podcast don't even understand the terms they toss around. Don't sleep with men to prove something. Sleep with them because you're in a relationship and it's an enjoyable part of it.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/23 09:19 PM
1	Worried about potential red flag body count I won't repeat anything already mentioned except yeah this sounds like a movie. From what you describe him as, I am not surprised his body count is high but why assume it's the max of his guess? Assuming he became sexual at the US average of 17, that's 12 years of being single and enjoying life on his own. That's less than 5 partners a year minimum and at most 8 per year. Did he lead them on? Was it a conquest for him to rank up as many bodies as possible? I'd say probably not, he would have kep…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/23 12:23 AM
1	Something strange and inexplicable I have observed about TRP, MGTOW, Manosphere, etc. None engage with but they all agree with it. How many women's sports subs do you follow? Same difference. I know plenty who agree with and support the red pill perspective, but next to none of them do it publically. Every relationship I have been in was with a self-described feminist, and I immediately red pill them. Non disagree or have any argument, it's just he way it is and they all know it.	/r/TheRedPill	04/12/23 02:31 AM
4	Divorced dad LTR types Plate theory was the most efficient use of my time and money. I went from pulling 5's to juggling multiple 8s and 9s. Can't catch a trophy fish if you don't know how to fish. I mostly learned I don't want a woman under 30, from my 40 year old perspective they are intolerable and I lost all my patience for teaching people how to orgasm.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/11/23 09:15 PM
11	Divorced dad LTR types Welcome to the shit show. I've been at this dating post divorce game for 8 years, been on dates with 129 different women, some what cohabited with 3 single mother's in that time and I have been dating to marry. Not sure of your age range but it seems your not aware of the amount of women who do not want to get married or cohabit. After 35 it's nearly all of them. When it comes right down to it, these women are after sex and entertainment and nothing more. Don't believe otherwise. After 40 they t…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/11/23 07:10 PM
18	Drugs and frame “I just hope you know I don’t put the drugs down for anyone” This is not remotely holding frame in any way. You chose drugs over a hookup that cleaned your place. A hookup that cleaned your place. The gold standard of plates. Clean up your shit dude.	/r/TheRedPill	26/11/23 09:59 AM
2	What I learned about respect at work While reading your post, I imagined a wife unpacking decorations for the bedroom and a husband telling her to stop and he'll just hire someone to do it. Maybe even going as far as reminding her that she's bad at decorating and wasting their money. Then he allows another woman into their home to do the things he tells her she is incapable of. It's the same thing. As far as I have seen it's the same level of damage to the relationship and to him. There a very few scenarios where a man with some ba…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/11/23 12:17 AM
1	Cute farm girl who’s been giving IOIs finally broke up with bf. I got her #, but she's too busy to hangout. Did I move too fast, and is my analysis correct? So... what's the question? Be around and be the best thing she can fuck when's horny. Not sure what you want from this post.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/23 11:54 PM
5	should I tell my father about the redpill What megahertz did your 8086 run at? Just to shock and awe the kiddos. My first computer was a Commodore 64, if I remember correctly the 64 was for 64 Kilobytes of ram. I think I have electronic cigarettes with more ram than that. It's mind-blowing how much has changed so fast.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/23 11:01 PM
2	Initiating Promise Rings too Masculine? How he will take it, you would know better than anyone on the internet. I will say that if you don't already know the answer to that it's probably best to refrain. I;ve known plenty who made this type of play with their men and is almost always goes badly. It's just a man's job so to speak. Let him lead, doing it for him almost never ends well.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/23 04:03 AM
2	My first night going out. You already missed the offer, she wrote you off.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/23 03:55 AM
4	My first night going out. I think the most important lesson you can learn is reading between the lines. Sounds like you shot yourself in the foot. "Oh I can't tonight, I have the kids" "well there ain't no kids in that bathroom over there" or "I don't think there are kids at my place, let's go check and make sure"	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/23 03:52 AM
4	My first night going out. There is a very short list of absolute rules that apply to everyone in every situation. Playing to your strengths and the situation with confidence is the most important. All that said, it sounds like this one wanted to bang and was trying her best to get you to.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/23 03:17 AM
24	should I tell my father about the redpill Neil Strauss is 5'6" and wrote a besting selling book based on his experience getting laid. Your insecurities only get in the way if you are insecure about them. Confidence is catnip. I promise you.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/23 10:52 PM
39	should I tell my father about the redpill The thing to keep in mind is these ideas about relationships aren't new. They're older than written language. The idea of equality between the sexes, independent women and female hoeing are the new ideas over the last 30 years. Over the previous 4000 years or so living in reality was far more common place and that reality is what redpill idealogy speaks to. Men and women are not the same, we are not equal on the same metrics. The feminist movements have been twisting reality for the last 50 year…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/23 10:45 PM
197	should I tell my father about the redpill This might blow your minds but the redpill is pretty much exactly what relationships were before the 90s. He'll probably just think this is all common sense. I'm 40 and every elder man I know considers these view points as common sense.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/23 08:20 PM
5	My boyfriend asked for a 50-50 split on the trip You've said he has planned and paid for dates for about a year. I'm surprised no one raised the question of whether he's testing you. Seems odd to suddenly bring up a small cost like that after a year of not being concerned with it. Have you ever covered or offered to any part of dates or relationship expenses? Does he have the impression that you are unlikely to contribute to a relationship in some type of way? It's sounds like a reverse shit test to me.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/10/23 01:49 PM
1	She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?” Reading this thread and wondering why this is still a debate after 30 years. There is no benefit to answering this question. Agree and amplify, set a boundary on the question or simply say I don't know. Don't lie, women can smell those. You're helping her figure you out, once she's figured you out you will become boring and she will start banging someone else. You are sacrificing your frame. The only exception to this is in an LTR and your confidant your number is around double hers.	/r/TheRedPill	28/09/23 10:49 PM
-2	My close friend wedding I could be mistaken but isn't the whole point for the bride to make the bridesmaids look worse than her? I've always seen these traditions as a loyalty test, which could be wrong but worth considering whether you choose to participate or not, which is completely your right to choose either way.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/08/23 11:19 PM
2	How to stop being a plate You will never get more from this man.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/23 06:56 PM
5	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive there is a significant generational divide between the young RP and old RP right now. It got twisted at some point and has spun out of control, but it might be needed to correct how far Western culture has gone. They need some men to sent them straight and they will be good men.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 11:15 PM
3	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive Broke my brain, what are you saying? That liberal men command respect and usher in personal success?	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 11:06 PM
2	Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusive protip: stop using "gender roles" in a sentence and start asking "what you would like to contribute" and saying "This is what I like to contribute". I think you might be surprised by what happens. You're not consecutive and desiring a traditional relationship? I think you might want to check the definitions of these words and have a hard look in the mirror. It'll be ok, don't mean to come off aggressive but... if the shoe fits, might as well try it on right? Rule 9. You might be in trouble, man.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 11:03 PM
5	Any thoughts on the RP canon "you CANNOT negotiate attraction"? New to sub and using Reddit, but lurking for loooong time might have some useful insights on this. Maybe, we'll see I guess. "I believe I meet kind, reliable, confident, established men who are good looking. But often, after dating them for a while, I find myself still not very attracted to them." I wonder if these men are confident in their careers, and social groups and but maybe do not have enough confidence to spark your.. uurrr.. fire? Would you describe them as eventually becoming boring? …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/23 10:38 PM
1	am i ungrateful and unappreciative in my (24/F) marriage w/ my husband (37/M)? I suspect from your post and comments that there is not a demanding reason for him to push for a higher income, so why would he? If there is an immediate need and he is a man of the values you say he is he will find a way when it's necessary. Definately express your concerns and have the discussion but be careful to not make it a "you" problem, make it "our" problem. As mentioned, 6 figures is pretty high income. Living in the Midwest and reading some of your numbers blows my mind. I've randomly…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/23 12:29 AM