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Truth, she doesn't respect you so she went to another man, and to add to it, she believes you made into a cheater which she hates and associates with you
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 12:21 AM
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I don't know if ther is a solid trigger that says it's time. More often it's a slow build that never gets better for various reasons. Ppl stop trying, never adjust or correct things, actively refuse, or they'll try but they sabotage any efforts do they can dodge blame. But a sign that it's coming is thinking it is the answer
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 12:17 AM
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Don't think of her as your angel anymore, of she was she wouldn't be the source of your pain
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 12:03 AM
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With a 10ft pole. Honestly it's gonna suck, make your line in the sand, dig your heels and weather the storm.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 04:58 AM
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I wouldn't say he gave his best, but he's guarded. He initiated because he felt hurt enough to leave and he's nervous to open back up
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 08:28 PM
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That's one thing that terrifies me is trying to date again only for the ex attempt to interfere because she's still out for blood
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 10:55 PM
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Nope. Keep on your current path
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/24 08:11 PM
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I got into rc car racing. It might sound silly but it's fairly involved mechanically and much of the crowd are middle aged men. Myself and others used to race dirt bikes and this is something to enjoy with out the danger. Its a lot of tinkering/testing as these are bot walmart toys but performance cars
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 11:02 PM
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Fantasy: you go to gym to.get shredded to have chick's throw themselves at you Reality: every guy at the gym compliments you for sculpting your body Don't dp it to pick up chick's. Do it to be better than you were
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 08:02 AM
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Don't feel guilty for being found attractive. But don't act on it yet still the divorce is final. If you are interested in either, be open and honest, let them know your working through things but you'd like to get to know them better when it's final.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 06:26 AM
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I'd you two are ending, you have to look out for yourself now and your kids. You aren't doing it to hurt her but she like most women, will try to emotionally blackmail you here on out to get more and more at your expense. You're an individual with worth, act like it Fight for primary custody, not to be sexist or say all kids from single mothers turn out bad, BUT statistically, kids turn out just as good from a home with both parents as a home with just dad.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 05:21 PM
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I'll second this. Your tired from fighting your ex. Not the kids. Listen to your body/spirit. Stop fighting, stop 'trying so hard' but be available for the kids when they need you
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 09:35 PM
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First i want to say: t's going to be ok. It's a major life change and this time you're on your own. I dont mean to sound cliche or put you down bur, it's time to be a man, and face this head on. Focus on yourself, workout, hobbies; find things to better yourself and provide some distraction. (Not tv) Working out is proven to help with depression and anger Hobbies focus your mind on something and provide opportunities to meet new friends. When I went through separation it reminded me of when I jo…
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/23 08:28 PM
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Absolutely no. I've heard of petty people just sneaking back in to toss shit. She's not going in as your friend, she is an enemy looking to try underhanded tricks and playing on your emotions
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/23 06:23 AM
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No this is not a dick move. She is continuing to trash you if you've been the only breadwinner and she stayed home and supported you for decades and could not suddenlygo out and find sufficientwork, sure this could be 'argued' to be possibly fair I'd say you should be aiming for 50%
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 06:59 PM
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You're gonna be labeled a cheater no matter how you slice it. Prioritizing sex and emotion over the actual marriage is always an issue wether a man or woman. While these are important, as long as someone is not deliberately withholding either, the one feeling neglected needs to accept certain boundaries and limits. Most ppl seem to choose to not to accept
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 06:56 PM
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I'd say as a guideline I'd stay within 10 years (younger.) My opinion is to stay close to your stage of life and find someone with similar experiences. Ymmv But someone is their 20s is just starting to experience adulthood, has grown up on much different way of life, and many will come off immature in contrast to where you are at in life
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 08:34 PM
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Really it depends, I've seen success at all ages, it really comes down to if both are ready and determined to see it through and actuslly care for each other. If the situation is right 18yrs old. But statistically late 20s prove to be more successful, main factors being there is reduced stress from having an established job/career/finished college. And with today's culture of career women and promiscuity its not getting easier
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 05:46 AM
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I don't know if their is a set time period that is ok or not. The longer you date one person and it's working out for 2-3 users it's a safe assumption it working out. But I've also known ppl who date for really short too From what I've read the shorter the dating/engagement period that more likely divorce is to happen
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 06:00 PM
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It's worth trying for. Just be tedious and thorough in who you commit to. Date for a decent amount of time, get past the initial puppy love stage, to where you start getting to know them. Also Don't be afraid to bail on something a few months in if isn't working. And don't be in a rush to move in. I would argue if your confident in committing to them to where you would move in then that's when you should be thinking marriage Avoid getting into sex early, not saying abstain till wedding night but…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 01:44 AM
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pay attention to a few things that at first glance you may brush off. How do they react to things like traffic. this shows how they manage their temperment, can they handle stress how do they treat servers. do they act entitled or have empathy towards them how do they behave with pets. are the kind or harsh towards innocent animals, are they patient with them? how do they correct bad behavior Do they speak negatviely about their past or about others. this may be from holding onto bitter feelings…
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 08:04 AM
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Most relationships that start as affairs end in a few months to a year. It's typically done as a way to 'kill' off the marriage, it makes justifying leaving easier because it adds 'reasons' to why it should end and it would push you to take action to end because she doesnt want to 'pull the trigger' It's all hard no matter what, and each person and situation it different. Best of luck
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 08:54 PM
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She wants the security of an established relationship but she doesn't want you. She would have probably left if her affair worked out in her favor. If you truly want the divorce stick to your guns, commit and tune out the complaints
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 03:31 PM
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Get to a lawyer asap for advice. You could even settle thing without lawyers, court. But it needs to be mutual agreement
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 10:17 PM
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