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Marriage isn't picking one car and driving the same car foe 60yrs Life cha ges, we change, it's choosing to love who they change into. Maybe church ain't your thing, but your 'wife' is supposed to be your thing. Support her in it what she wants. Both of you need to find the middle ground I would wager some of her resentment is she's going down a new path and making changes in her life and youre not going with her and that's on her. And if that's part of it, a good angle to try to diffuse is "you…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/26 05:21 PM
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Your parents have a house. You have jack shit. The house isn't in play
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 05:58 AM
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Wow 45 yrs and cut things off. Now you can focus on yourself and kids going forwar
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 10:55 PM
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The reality is buddy, and most ppl find out the hard way about open marriages/relations is that they really aren't ok with these things, they aren't ok eith the disconnected family. Despite the world saying it's 'ok & healthy" You don't have a marriage or a family except on paper, why are you worried about "losing" either? You're emotional disconnect and hers, would suggest you both have problems and need serious counseling and self work
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/26 10:18 PM
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5x's? Buddy, I'm all for sticking things out and taking it on the chin and working to save a marriage but, your wife is batshit and controlling and clearly has no respect for you. And you have nonrespect for yourself either
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 04:57 AM
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12 yrs and only 1 married. Yeah women get bored after 10yrs, they think they need to be wildly in love like.when you first meet. If you really want tk stay with her and continue it, quietly keep trying snd work on yourself and try to dig a bit to get down to what the real problem is to work on it. Don't move out until things end, but just focus on being a better person, man father. Youll almost need to carry on with the idea that youll get things turned around, but At the same time, you have to …
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/26 07:43 PM
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Make the decision to not let this event win. You are good person and at the very least You love yourself. And if yoire religious I'm sure yoir diety does too. And Jesus always will too lol On a serious note, Having a future crushed is very hard. But your life isn't over and you're still 6 feet above ground. Don't become selfish, but do focus on yourself and invest in yourself. Pick a hobby and make friends within that hobby. Do something active, gym, walking, hiking. Actually I'd say go hiking f…
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 12:49 AM
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Single mom's are poison. Some of the most selfish ppl around and they'll gladly think of themselves before their kids
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 08:58 AM
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Kudos to you for being pretty squared away. Don't be afraid of getting in a relationship again. Just be more mature and selective about it. Ask more questions, pay attention to behavior during certain interactions
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/25 05:47 PM
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Stop suffering and start living. Start a new hobby, buy a motorcycle take a road trip something. And go workout, enough studies are out to prove it's a huge help with depression and mental healing
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/25 04:32 PM
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This is solid option, driving truck makes good money and it'll get you out of area kind of a nomad life for a minute
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 06:19 PM
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I had a buddy who was married with a kid and he thought the same way, and then he hung hinself a few months ago. He was a good man with a lot of value and his loss had an impact on so many ppl that he didn't know he had. And now he can offer nothing else to anyone nor be there for his young daughter who will suffer the most. The reality, you CAN handle this and more. Yes your life as it was is over so let that part die and get through the next day. You have a value to yourself, your boys and to …
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 06:18 PM
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Op Me and my.spouse went through similar issues recently I will preface im.not totally out of the woods yet (the court case is still open but we have talked about having it dismissed) mine had said she wanted a div a number of times over a couple of years and she finally filed last year. Floored me and it was all I could do to go to work and not break. I was the source of all her problems, I was terrible etc all the things they say to reinforce why they chose to leave Fast forward, the tune is d…
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/25 05:51 AM
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Honestly, you need to start thinking about meeting someone new. Even if for no other reason thsn to purge your ex from your mind. Start talking and start day dreaming about what life could be like is enough to help ease things and get your thoughts away.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/25 10:11 AM
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Exactly, they forget how much control of their emotions and happiness is ultimately in their hands. And they decided everything was your fault They hated themselves for cheating, but it was your fault for forcing them to do it They hated xyz, but it's your fault
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 08:20 AM
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Good point. Once cash disappears out of digital records how would you track it or find it? Don't use establishments to hold any cash you pull
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 05:04 PM
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The optimistic answer: protect it against it by working on your marriage constantly Probably unethical answer: pull out money as cash regularly is amounts that wouldn't be noticed. Hide it "under the mattress" or Find a way to transfer to off shore accounts
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 05:01 PM
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Your son is more important that a few more bucks and he needs you more than you'll ever know.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 04:41 AM
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I'd advocate for taking a real look and reassessing yoir marriage. You're at a phase where life is drastically changing and sounds like neither of you are adapting. something drastic does need to happen to wake things up and breathe, obviously that something could be divorce, but it could also mean having a real serious talk. You've been military for along time. How did commands assess and fix problems within the unit? They looked into what the symptoms were, identified the source of problems th…
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 03:41 AM
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Something i came across recently Men sacrifice happiness for family Women sacrifice family for happiness There's a reason why something like 80% divorce is started by women.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:09 AM
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To true. I sacrificed so many days away from my family to provide a decent enough life to where she didn't need tk work. But she became bitter from it, felt she had goals she never reached and jt was my fault and kids overwhelmed her. She grew resentful and unhappy and checked out a few years before. Tried to get her to change things, to help her get health back and see the good we had. Now she's moving on at a point where we had started working on things, she started getting out more and seemed…
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 09:01 AM
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Thought about but I'm bot ready and I've never been about getting around, it's never interested me
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 08:47 AM
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I'm working on going grey. the most satisfying thought would be to see her spiral with any relationship only to try crawling back and being able to confidently say 'that sucks, anyways..'
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/24 08:46 AM
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You didnt specify but it sounds like your christian so ill address things as such. As a Christian I fought with the guilt and shame of slipping up especially over "personal time". You're a man, and you're going to make mistake, acknowledge that and make your peace with God, while continuing to resist. But don't fall into the trap of hating yourself over it, that's the opposite of how to handle it, love yourself enough to forgive yourself Scripture talks about putting your faith in God, not in th…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 06:25 PM
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Block her number or get yourself a new number
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 02:05 AM
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How to convince her? Not by words You have to run the gamble on letting her go, and making yourself better with the idea that she won't change her mind You're pushing her to change her mind, which, like a scared animal only runs further. Let her do her thing, stop doing things that were pushing her towards divorce
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 08:58 PM
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Pack everything when she is out. Not sure what the ownership ststus of cars are but ill assume there are 2 you are particularly fond of. take one to a "shop" for some made up repair. Then pack the 2nd while she is out and have a friend help to expedite. At minimum take your fav car, pack your essentials/most important items and dip
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 05:30 AM
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Get over the 'honeymoon" ie let the hormones cool off and date her for a bit. You should have a decent idea in 6-12 months. Nothing wrong with marrying again jist make sure you're bettering yourself and who she is, not with you
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 01:39 AM
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It's a gamble especially in this day and age. You roll the dice and lose or win big. A good marriage is, I would argue, one the most valuable things and relationships anyone could ever want. But if you miss, it's nit heart breaking, it's soul wrenching. Be mindful of you want to be married to and prepare yourself to be the best you can.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 11:29 PM
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Don't mess with another woman until the relationship is ended completely
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 04:48 AM
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Honeslty if you don't have any kids tk tie to her block her number and delete her off your socials
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 02:30 AM
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It's not all your fault
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:02 PM
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Wife just filed last week. All the same rhetoric. I think it'd just a modern western woman issue. They're all taught 'what's abusive' crossing lines, issues etc and it's always the mens fault.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:00 PM
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Wife just filed. Looking back i would say it's been limping since 2016 (currently 14 yrs married) we tried marriage counselor at the time and she was convinced the only way she would be happy was divorce. Since then it's been a massive ebb and flow. Things would be OK for a few months, things would flare, things would calm back down. After a few events in the last couple years that caused her mental trauma it only got worse and the bedroom is been near death the past couple years aside from a fe…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 07:37 PM
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3 things in a good wife -Will follow you but be honest with yout (not naive and doesn't fight your battles) -Is OK living modestly.(is OK with you not making a lot) - fights fair and honest. Problems in a relationship are fed by both parties and if one person always looks at other being the problem things will never work Good marriage - patience snd forgiving with each other, they'll do things that upset you or drive you up a wall. But that's part of living with someone especially opposite sex f…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 05:40 PM
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