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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	BF forgets my birthday, tries to make me believe expecting a gift is childish The dismissive way he ended his txt, yuck. It’s so reminiscent of when I dated guys in my early 20s who had no idea about how to communicate. He’s like, if I end this convo now, it will all be over tomorrow... idiot lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/20 05:11 AM
21	Telling men that I don’t have a Snapchat saved my life Totally. For me it was 50/50 fuckboys or time-wasters who wanted to make banal small talk for weeks. I remember asking a “snap” guy (nearly 5 years ago) when we were going on a date and he said something like “oh yeah sorry.. I’m really bad at making plans and stuff..” then continued to message me every day for weeks afterward even though I wasn’t responding. Fuckboys I can understand but what benefits are there from just messaging a bunch of girls with no endgame? Lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/20 12:37 AM
5	“Can we be fwb after quarantine?” No Wehhhh my lost time with my buddies puke Makes my skin crawl how co-dependent he is on his “buddies”.. the way he kept repeating it is so infantile, like it helps legitimise his point. What a dumbass	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/20 09:13 AM
3	Be honest, your HVM isn't perfect. No one is. Let's list things they do that aren't deal breakers, but would be nice if it were different. That is so lovely that your boyfriend is kind and patient. I have a lot of empathy but I need to work on the patience part - it’s still a work in progress but it’s helped a lot since I did a lot of reading on social anxiety disorder. I used to try to frame things logically but our brains don’t work like that when they’re in fight or flight scenarios. For him it is socialising, for me it’s dealing with certain family members. I am happy for you that you have such an understanding partner and I’m …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 09:21 AM
6	Be honest, your HVM isn't perfect. No one is. Let's list things they do that aren't deal breakers, but would be nice if it were different. He has social anxiety. He's not socially awkward or embarrassing, but he always asks waaay too many questions about any event we're going to, how long it will last, who will be there etc. You would never think that these thoughts were churning in his head if you saw him out and about with other people.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 03:14 AM

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