tearsofgaia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Living with OLTR, logistics and dodging questions for FBs		tearsofgaia	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 10:57 AM
1	Scheduled date too much in advance		tearsofgaia	/r/askTRP	04/08/19 07:38 PM

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2	Dating app experience for other short guys? (5’5 here) I'm 5'8", northern Europe so average height here is 5'10", don't put my height in my profile, ignore questions about height. Asking how much they weigh in return seems childish and insecure to me, so I mostly just don't answer - through text that's not a big deal. When I meet up with girls that might be taller than me or put their height in their bio I have raiser insoles that make me gain an inch - just makes me more comfortable.	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 09:27 PM
7	How do you respond to a "Hey" on tinder? I've gotten each and every number and bang off Tinder by replying right away - even if it's just "Hey, how's it going". If I opened with some witty opener in relation to the their pictures or profile, it was always still them opening a conversation with "hey what's up" or whatever making the conversation playful, sexual and related to a date as quickly as possible moving off the app in a couple of messages There really is no point in trying to apply too much "text game" on Tinder. Either you hit…	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 05:49 PM
1	Coming to terms with being attractive Interesting to see how others are in the same boat as me. For me it was a not only coming to terms with being attractive, but also with changes in my personality and that people suddenly seemed to like me instantly. How we perceive ourselves is largely based on experiences in the past. To make matters worse, we are biased towards negative feedback from our environment. Suddenly receiving positive feedback primarily results in a cognitive dissonance where we struggle to incorporate this new infor…	/r/askTRP	13/08/19 09:28 AM
1	Guys who are in LTR's, do you follow your GF's menstrual cycle and act accordingly to each phase Maybe it's harder for you and I'd bet that's the source of her lack of desire, but calling it hard mode is not justified. Like I said, been living with an OLTR for years and she's more attracted than ever while I'm not even trying. Referring to it as hard mode reveals a mindset issue you need to work on - don't focus on obstacles, don't give circumstances so much power over you, don't try and control everything. Read up on Stoicism and practice it daily.	/r/askTRP	05/08/19 12:48 PM
1	Guys who are in LTR's, do you follow your GF's menstrual cycle and act accordingly to each phase I've seen you referring to living with your LTR as "life on hard mode" before. What is making you say that? Have you considered it shouldn't be like this? I've been living with an OLTR for the past six years and I wouldn't consider it particularly hard. It shouldn't be. When you end up having to "work on your relationship", guess who's doing all the work? From your threads I gather you might have promoted a girl to LTR status that doesn't fit and you're trying to make it work. As for your questi…	/r/askTRP	05/08/19 06:01 AM
1	Have you ever suffered from Ed? I kept having issues with it whenever I was with a new girl. ONS's became pretty much impossible or unattractive because I had to deal with the legitimate fear of my dick not working properly when it should. Knew it wasn't organic because with women I trusted, it was getting rock hard and staying like that for ages. Then out of curiosity and to support a friend, I signed up for a men's seminar. Didn't think too much about it back then. When the time came around I just went there not expecting an…	/r/askTRP	04/08/19 10:06 PM
1	Has TRP made you more conservative? More cynical more like	/r/askTRP	29/10/18 02:32 PM
1	Living with OLTR, logistics and dodging questions for FBs No.	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 08:58 PM
1	Living with OLTR, logistics and dodging questions for FBs I like it. That's what I was looking for. And you're right about the second part. No need to worry about such things.	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 11:36 AM
1	Living with OLTR, logistics and dodging questions for FBs That's one but only with younger ones. They make for easy lays though. Another one is I don't want to make my OLTR a topic of discussion but the living situation is a fairly common question even if you're just casually chatting. And I was looking for a smart way of dodging the question without flat out lying so I can come clean if I want further down the line.	/r/askTRP	09/08/18 11:13 AM
1	The true meaning behind "Beta" and "Alpha" polarity. I bet you put in a lot of hard work to make this post but I feel like it perpetuates a lot of false information, some have already been pointed out but what I'm specifically talking about is how you are selling your opinion as a fact when you're writing gender is not a spectrum. A gender duality or polarity may be helpful for the heteronormative stance behind TRP and your post but there is a reason science differentiates between gender (typically used with reference to social and cultural differ…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/18 11:25 AM
-2	The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon Saved me right when I realised I was going down the beta spiral. Could've had at least three women this weekend, but I was longing for one and spent last night all alone. Next time I'll have something to read to remind me how to keep my frame and why. Magnificent work.	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/18 02:08 PM